₦airaland Forum

SilentListener:
yeah right whatever

Why don't you stay true to your moniker and be a SilentListener.

BornagainThief:
I'm sorry how is it your business?

I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy of Nigerians. Look at your moniker for goodness sake.

quote author=SilentListener post=75643173]The lesson is ,keep your fvvking slave self out of Nigeria business, what we do is not your concern[/quote]I see you are ignorant about a lot of things, the majority of the Atlantic Slave trade consisted of Nigerians, therefore if my ancestors were slaves so were yours, dummy. As long as I decide to be a member of this site I will give my opinion on any topic I choose if you don't like it you can just stfu and keep it moving, or you can leave Nairaland.

SilentListener:
you bltch how about you go advice your brothers not to sell drugs all over the place, or your wh0re sister who keeps acting gettho gaggers porn

Why you so hurt? Nairaland mods, come and ban this punk bytch as you banned me for calling the white bytch out. A little advice to you, stop subscribing to and supporting Ghetto Gaggers and the site will be shut down. It's lowlife scum like you that keep the site going.

SweetBuns:


Don't mind those jobless and hapless apes. There are reasonable men here. Its just that the kids overshadow them
Most of them are "bosses" online yet they beg for p****y off line. Their threads are mostly enquiries about the female folk.
In short, they're fascinated by us.

P.S I've noticed that a specific moniker called "Bloody" has been smearing mud on me and shouting my name up and down. Nl mods please deal with this. This is defamation of character

Nairaland mods are pathetic, they will not do anything unless the person being attacked is non-black. Sad but true.

SilentListener:
You better mind your business and stay out of Nigeria affairs

Make me.

efembaba:
Our societal culture doesn't permit that. We are morally responsible people

Morally responsible people? Explain your evil money rituals and scams all over the planet then. Morally responsible indeed!!

luvyaself95:
lol are you me, and if i cared why would i Barbe the style even after she told me not to instead i went on and did it..
you're talking like guys that their girls control...

At the bolded tells you what the problem is, you got rid of a part of what attracted her to you in the first place.

Martin0:
wait are you asking me this to see if I'm sure or I'm wrong?

I'm asking because I don't know what I lied about.

Martin0:
what no no no have not been up to any lately! but you just lied sha

What did I lie about?

[quote author=Martin0 post=75625548]enjoy your time here, hey are you on whatsapp? [/quote


Hey lover boy. I am not on Whatsapp. So what mischief have you been up to lately?

DanDeeBoss:
Damn!!! Then I need to research more... And here I was thinking Jesus is the English translation of Yahshua.... Then what shall we say about "Yahweh"??....

There is no meaning for the name Jesus, but in Hebrew, Aramaic,( the original language of the Messiah)*Yahshua* means, "Yahweh is salvation" or "I am salvation."

DanDeeBoss:
So, which bible do you use?? Coz bibles I see here all have "Jesus" written in them....

That's the point, the Bible was rewritten by King James who replaced Yahshua with Jesus, during the time the bible was originally written the letter J didn't even exist, it was created centuries later by some monks.

Favor99:
The only difference between Jesus and Yashua is the name. The Europeans called Yashua, Jesus and changed His skin color to white. Every culture has a different name for God. So it’s not out of the norm for the Europeans to have their own name for Yashua. But other than those 2 things there is no difference between Jesus and Yashua

The difference is, when you are praying and worshipping Jesus you are praying and worshipping to an idol, Yahshua is God's/Yahushua son he is not God he is the messenger/Messiah. You are wrong about the names, you can't just change the name of the Messiah, there is power in the true name. There is only one God and he is YAHUSHUA.

DanDeeBoss:
So what Has the black Jesus done for us?? Na wash joor

All those miracles performed in the holy bible was performed by the real Messiah, Yahshua, not that Catholic, pagan God Jesus.

Bloooody:
What happened to Jesus healing and forgiving?
Christian goat

There is no Jesus.

[quote author=Bloooody post=75579178]Only a fool will believe Jesus or God exist
Christians will avoid this post
[/quo

Jesus is a make believe character created by the Catholics/Pagans. The true Messiah is Yashua. Yes there definitely is a Most High God.

Jayhazard:
Jesus Christ is the son of God and has the power to save you. Do your research about it.

Jesus is a character made up by Catholics also known as pagans. Yashua is the son of the Most High God.

Sheflex4real:
Absolutely..

or He felt now is not a good time for what you are asking for.

That's the thing, you or nobody can say what God feels or think, you don't have that kind of power. It's only your feelings and beliefs that brings you to the conclusion of the catch 22.

Oh man!!!

ElsonMorali:
You are a funny babe. I know you just kidding. You aren't so bad as to slap you mother-in-law.

Of course I'm joking, I would leave my own house before I let that happen.

[quote author=ElsonMorali post=75590742][/quote]1. God help her if I am pregnant and she slaps me and causes me to lose my balance and I lose the child, see it can go both ways.

2. It would be better for me to put the Monster in law out of my house than to retaliate according to you.

3. It would be better for her to be in jail than to be in the hospital.

4. If I don't want those uncivilized people in my life you are correct, there is the door they can use it to walk out of my house. Yes there was a time the husband didn't know the wife but that time isn't now, he needs to get off of his mother's breast and suckle his wife's.

5. My Monster Inlaw slaps me = abuse, I slap my Monster Inlaw back=don't start no shyt and there won't be any shyt. If my husband wants to leave the house that is his choice but he can not throw me out of our house.

ElsonMorali:
Lol. So let's say you slap your husband's mother and his brothers pounce on you and beat the living daylight out of you, what will you do? Turn to Jet Li and beat all of them up?

You are funny dear.

How am I going to protect my spouse when I'm not there? By talking to my family and drawing the boundary MYSELF. Not her.

And your last statement shows you aren't for marriage o. You abandon your marriage because your husband frowns at you for slapping his mother?

Read my first post again and see if it's not a better option.

Of course I left out the fact that after my wife must have transfered her anger on me I'd talk to my family and draw the boundaries to avert future slapping.

See, I didn't even mention the offence of the wife cos I don't believe a woman should be molested by her mother-in-law no matter the offence short of murder attempt.

Let me break it down like this.

1. I am not my husband's mother's punching bag, instinct would be to defend myself so reflexes will kick in.

2. Once she processes the thought that she is going to slap a grown woman she could get her ratchet azz out of my house and keep it moving.

3. If her sons lay a hand on me they will go to jail and maybe her as well. I don't have any use for someone who doesn't respect me especially in my own home

4.You having to talk to your family about drawing boundaries of abuse toward your wife is not good enough, I don't want such uncivilized people in my life.

5.You don't have to mention the offense of the wife because according to the original op, the matter was between him and his wife not his *Mrs Bad azz Mother*.

6. So you think a wife not putting up with an abusive monster in law is not being serious about her marriage? Listen, the bible says when a man takes a wife he cleaves to that wife, they become as one. Let that Monster In-law concern herself with her marriage and stay out of mine.

7. From the movie *The Color Purple*. Popo I loves you Popo, I swears I do, but I will kill your mama dead before I lets her beats me. Just kidding.

Holybwoy:
There should be another option.. I have never tried sex enhancers in my life..

I know my weakness is as a result of my masturbation.. I have stopped that now but how do my "Aja 4" gbera?

Just masturbate before you are intimate with her that way you won't be over excited. Patronizing whor.es is much worse than masturbation. It seems you jumped out of the frying pan into the fire.

ElsonMorali:
Did you read my post at all? Maybe you should read it again. Or maybe you wanted to quote someone else.

Which part of her slapping her mother-in-law equates to her husband standing up for her?

If her own mother slaps her, will she retaliate by punching her in the nose?

If she's slapped by her mother-in-law, she should leave it to the husband to handle it and stand up for her.

Or do you think standing up for herself and fighting her entire husband's family will endear her to her man?

When her husband strays, who will she run to after she's alienated the husband's family by slapping their mother?

What gives your family members the right to lay hands on your spouse when the spouse isn't harming them? How are you going to protect your spouse from your family when you are not there. There is only so much a person can take, if this were me and his family thought they could place hands on me they can be ready for a take down. To hell with him if he puts his family above me, I'm out.

ImaIma1:
Not attack physically ooo. Maybe what I should have said is caution or reproach her.

The truth is that it is a troublesome mother that will slap her DIL especially when she was not provoked and for something that is not her business. A peaceful woman won't do that.

So it would be something she had coming.

I agree.

ElsonMorali:
This can never happen in my home anyway.

I would have warned my wife that whatever my folks do to her she must never show displeasure or anger.

She should just wait patiently for me to come back from work and transfer the aggression and anger on me instead. I wouldn't mind one bit.

That way she'll continue to command the respect she deserves with her in-laws. We can settle our own issues amicably in the privacy of our bedroom.

That's all good as long as your folks keep their hands to themselves. Some of you need to love and respect your wives and stop letting people shyt on them even if those people are family members. Stand up for your other half.

ImaIma1:
I will attack my SIL but I will also tell my mum that she didn't try and she brought it upon herself. Both of them re are EQUALLY wrong. Let us not use age to cover the truth.

If you know they were equally wrong then why would you attack your sil causing more violence. What you should do is be the mediator and break it up.

Livecamp09:
The most senseless comment of the month

The mother showed no restraint over her emotions and àctions. When a person puts their hands on another person's body don't be shocked of retaliation. Just because a woman gave birth does not give her the right to violence.

I don't condone violence, it is to be avoided unless a person is protecting themselves. Some mothers have to learn that they are not above others. I bet you that mother will think twice before she puts her hands on someone else(lesson learned). Stop putting your mothers on pedestals. How would you like it if your grandmother(your fathers mother) slapped your mother right in front of you? Matter of fact, keep your relatives out of your marital affairs.

valdes00:
#GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST NOW#
Not when you see me in heaven after death you will be shouting, "ojoro ojoro "...

Who is the Christ?

Livecamp09:
If your mother slapped you, retaliate and beg her later.. oponu

My mother would not have slapped me, what would that accomplish, she was much to wise for that and she was a gentle non-violent woman, RIP Mother.

Sheflex4real:
GOD does hears and answer prayers. The answer might not be what you hope for but that does not means our prayers doesn't get answered......




it why we say GOD knows what's best..!

Its a catch 22. If you get what you want it's because God felt you deserved it, if you don't get what you want you are undeserving but your prayers has been answered.