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Karleb:
Her mother jealous?!

Don't worry ma'am, you're going to get old, have children especially boys and by the time you're in your late 40's or 50's you would have developed up to the 13th sense to detect anything fake at first glance.

The sooner some people realize that our parents are humans created by the same God as we all are the sooner people will stop worshipping their parents as all knowing.
There is only one GOD and our parents do not fall under that category. Our parents married who they chose (hopefully) so our parents should have enough confidence that they raised us with enough knowledge and wisdom to choose a partner for OURSELVES not to please our parents.

Alezy:
Am so sorry dear, told u i lost my phone again, gotten a new one now though. No need to be pissed, am here now.

How have you been?

Ok, I feel better now that you are here. You see, all it takes is a few words from you to calm my spirit. I have been pretty good and you?

[quote author=Alezy post=60077737]hnmmmm[/quote

Where have you been and why haven't you contacted me? I'm very upset with you right now. ]

Karleb:
Thank you for this input!

That was exactly what came to my mind when I saw the thread.

You might be thinking you're in love now, she's invested and you can't let her go but you have to realize that parental consent and advice matters a whole lot in the life of children. Try listening to 'it is not easy' by lucky dube.

Don't disobey mama!

Seriously? Don't disobey mom! When does a boy become a man and make his own decisions? What about leaving mom and dad and cleaving to your wife?

truthsayer009:
I think the story is false. I mean, in this day and age. A girl would date you for 9 years without asking to see your parents.

Habba! 9 years na beans? If na play make dem stop am abeg !

Ok I thought about that too but I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt.

helpee:
And when the marriage is about to break, people like you will gladly advise the woman to quickly pack her loads because marriage is not a do or die affair. By that time it will only remain his mother who will always be there for him. I can never because of this new generation women fight my mum or disrespect her. It has nothing to do with being a man. A man is somebody that can set his priorities right. Until you are married your mother is your first priority. Talk her into accepting your choice....never ever for once disrespect her cos of all these so callled FIN SISTERS

I couldn't continue to read this because the op clearly stated that his mom said that she would have nothing to do with him if he married the woman that he loved so how could you conclude that this woman/mother would be there for him when she was the problem from the beginning?

gratefulheart:
She know what you don't know.
Try and discuss with your dad for way out.

Stop being ridiculous, he's known her for nine years and mommy just laid her eyes on her. Mommy knows nothing about this woman and mommy should be happy that a woman cares so much about her son that she was willing to stick with him through thick and thin for nine years without being his wife

Omogbhollahorn:
I tire ooo. When no be say na she wan help me marry am.

What

ferhyntorlah:
Passy089, let me add to what he has typed.

I heard a story of a lady that wanted to married an OSU man. We all know the stigma those tagged OSU face. Her father flatly disapproved of the man.

After begging the man several times and he maintained his stand, the lady had a heart to heart talk with her father and said she wouldn't want to disobey and dishonour him as stated in the Bible by going ahead to marry her choice. She said she wouldn't marry the guy neither would she accept marriage proposal from any would be suitor.

The man too didn't consider any woman. They both prayed for God to change the father's stand.

When the father saw that she wasn't kidding, he called both of them and gave them the go ahead to marry.

So Passy089, maybe you and your fiancé should tow that line. Have an intimate talk with mummy, tell her if she doesn't allow you marry her, you won't MARRY ANY OTHER WOMAN and make sure you stick to it.

When mummy sees you are dead serious, she will be the one to beg you to go ahead and marry your choice. At least you have someone and she's doing shakara, by the time she sees no one, she will beg you to marry the one you want.

Something similar happened to someone I know, the mom kept rejecting his choice till the guy lost interest in getting married. When this happened, mummy beg him to marry any woman he likes.

If you truly love this lady and want to be with her, you have to fight for her, with serious prayers too.

Sometimes, we need to be STRONG, FOCUSED AND DETERMINED to get what we want.

Hmmmm! I didn't know that grown Nigerian men needed permission to marry the woman that he loves. This is a bad look for you guys it makes you look immature, a grown man is supposed to know what he wants and go after her without permission from mommy and daddy. I couldn't marry such a man.

Passy089:
I just don't want to disappoint or make anyone sad.

Don't worry yourself about disappointing someone or making someone sad, concentrate on making yourself happy with the woman that you love, that should be your number one priority concerning this matter, not mommy or daddy.

Olanrefront3355:
Op If you actually follow this, Ure dull, sorry.

So dude told u ur gals has been thr for 9yrs, so u offend ur mum cos of her, what abt ur mum that has been thr for 20+ yrs? Ao old d fvck are u sef?

I'm not against marrying her, Buh be sure ur parent approves... Keep begging ur Mum.

And if I were you, I'd wear dis Sad look all around d house like I'm dying, no 'Good' mother will ignore that.


Thank you.

God said to have a wife is a good thing but I don't remember God saying that a MAN should BEG his mother to let him have one of her choice.

Passy089:
I've been asking her for days now....she wouldn't say anything

She's not answering you because her spirit didn't see anything, she isn't ready to let her baby go, it wouldn't have matter who the girl was.

If you truly love this woman don't let your mother's jealousy prevent you from marrying her.

Yes people it's a well known fact that some mothers are jealous of their sons girlfriends or wives. Sometimes the mother feels that she is being replaced.

It's hard to believe that you have been with her for 9 years and no introduction (that girl is a saint). You know what, I think that you expected this reaction from your mom and that's the reason it took you nine years to introduce them.

On the flip side of the coin I'm going to put myself in your mom's place and I think that I would be pissed as hell if after nine years of not knowing of her he brings her to me and says *Mom meet your future daughter* but it wouldn't be anything personally against her I would just be surprised.

One last thing, you stated that your mom said that she would no longer have anything to do with you if you marry her, don't you know that is a means of control.

If my mother would say such a cruel thing to me I would realize that she never really loved me and I would move on with my life with my future husband and future kids leaving the door open if she chooses to come in.

Fearlez:
This byproduct of a fuckfest

That's what your father said to your mother after she gave birth to you.

redbeans:
in the voice of tiwa savage: ''i nor do kele kele love - x2

What?

igbeshit:
the only reason you look down on gay people is , you are a ni66er.

your inferior psychology must need some group of people to be lower than you .

and you assume that gay are cheaper than ni66ers.

but since you claim you are living in US, a gay friendly country, you should know that, how hard a gay-hater's life would be. every one is living happily and gayly in the sunshine, and you are a maggot, rotting in your slum.

keep your hatred(to gay people) and your grudge (given to you due to your ni66er identity) to yourself.

finally, you shame your race, by being a byatch. you make me truly believe that all ni66er women are byatches.

I don't look down on gays I only look down on YOU, because YOU are TRASH.

igbeshit:
do American netizens use "rant" ?

Rants as in multiple, you retar.ded homo.

veinless:
Advice needed pls...
i do give him bj before sex, and i look forward to him giving me head too, but he wouldn't.

pls is it not healthy to give a girl head or he is just selfish

Stop giving him head and he will have a change of heart.

ChiChilolo:
I'm confused.

I can't explain it.

Maybe it's because you feel dirty and used afterwards.

Fearlez:
Ah, so you're not only a rattlepated internet idiot, you're also an aspiring fraud? I'm sorry but I'm not about letting you use Nairaland to fraudulently piece up the broken fragments of your hapless life.

We know the lifespan of your self-esteem lasts for as long as you last internet subscription. But pretending your life holds more value than a blade of cow grass is insulting even to stray street dogs.

Your level of internet mal-adaptation and cyber-mania is the sampling blueprint why the Buhari administration wants to stifle freedom of expression over the internet.

No wonder your parents are looking to adopt at 80 because they have mortgaged the remainder part of your bleak destiny to Nairaland with the hopes it can salvage anything out of you.

Your life has more junk than a public sewage pit, girl.

Now run out of my presence before I eviscerate your barren bowels.

Ignore the butt hurt beast.

igbeshit:
how about you ? speaking pidgin African English, while claiming yourself living in US ? you are just a ni66er gay , living in a shack , somewhere in Africa.

Where is the pidgin english fa. ggot?

igbeshit:
but you say I am a white person.

Fa.ggot you are the dumb one lying to these black men telling them that you are a white female as if that's suppose to mean something special to them.

I call you out for who you truly are, a dumb desperate African fa. ggot.

It's time for a professional, Pussyhunter come and hunt this pussy-cat.

Ok, the old see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil concept. Simply because of the concept I'll go with see no evil #1 because women frighten easier.

Wait is that a picture of some kind of animal inside #1 pictures of females and males inside #2 and a sword inside #3 or am I seeing things?

LMAO it's number 1, the animal inside is a pussy-cat.

Fearlez:
Your sense of humour is as skewed as your sexuality. No surprise there.

Ignore the beast.

Fearlez:
That's because I find it shocking that someone with the brainpower of a boutique mannequin managed to grace the Internet with the fakest attempt at intelligence.

Why are you pretending not to see the points I raised. Silly shmuck

Don't post to me again, you aren't intelligent, funny or sexy, you are a miserable soul, take the stick out of your butt. You bore me. We are done. You fit well with ibeshit. Even he knows that he's a piece of shyt hence the name.
Save your bitterness for your man.

Fearlez:
Your deflective approach would have been commendable if it wasn't so shameful; I mean, you didn't even pretend to debate the facts under contention. Which are:

* Race determines sexual patterns and behavior.

* Sexual orientation is affected by social conditioning.

* Genetic disposition are a factor to sexuality and sensuality.

These are the issues you couldn't even pretend to argue through. No wonder you're said to be a ghetto sprout using the internet to overcompensate for your slimming educational background. Tough luck for you.

Instead you resorted to basic adomimen yapping out your sexuality which is as stable as Nigeria's power supply.

And did you say there's nothing like "race"?

Tell me the mobile phone you're typing from isn't a psychotherapeutic tool to text your sanity level.

You can't even debate an argument without getting asinine and belligerent.
How old are you?

olaboy1:
Let me help you to understand the dynamics better. Let's take Nigeria for example, the political cabals who have immensely benefited from looting our national wealth are getting richer and there kids are sent to Ivy League institutions around the world which would make them richer. If we bring this down to the white race your jingoistic mind wants to believe is more supreme, then we can clearly deduce your forefathers are likened to the cabals in Nigeria which is the white privilege you are all enjoying today.

To put things in perspective can we slightly depart from the freebie racial accomplishments of your white race and look at what Nigerians studying abroad are achieving with all odds against them.

So I still stand by my point, whites are not better.

He's not white.

Fearlez:
Or he found out the only time you pussy gets wet is when you pass urine?

Lubricant horse

I love a good laugh but that's not even funny, try harder.

igbeshit:
you indeed need to educate your black bros and sis first, because they call all non-blacks white people .

It's your African brothers and sisters who need to be educated because they are the ones who can't tell the difference between whites and other non-blacks not black Americans

Fearlez:
You're still skipping the crux of the matter. Stop prating about sensuality. You represent 16 century African slave women.

You said a person's sexuality may not be influenced by race or genetics and I have demolished your silly argument clothed with thick fabrics of blnd emotions.

Stop going on about your own sexuality or sexiness. Girls with emotions like you are either dildó abusers or frigid dolls.

I understand why you want to switch topics between porn and sexuality because your brains can't carry the paperweight of a casual discourse.

Your ignorance is unshamedly bold you opined once sexuality/sensuality/ can't even be socially conditioned. What about rape victims who went on to have emotional maladjustment to sex?

What about societies that still practiced female genital mutilation? Does this not affect their sensual responses and behaviours? And religious tenets and practices? Doesn't this affect ones sexual outlook and behavioral patterns.

No wonder they say you're from the slums in USA.

Seems to me you spend more time trying to overcompensate for your sexual insecurities than disputing my assertions.

Your rants are senseless, get back with me when you can control your emotions, it makes you look feminine and crazy.

SAMBHOSS:
lol.....it's/he's whywhyogun

that was his first UN....before one other one...now this.....


you said "homosexual".....

this is obsession,infatuation.....ain't seen no human as obsessed with black men's dick as whywhyogun

Yeah I know who the fa.ggot is, he's still upset that I outed him months ago. Well atleast he has found his man/mate in Fearlez

Fearlez:
(2)Even diseases are race prone as Black people are more prone to having HBP and diabetes more than Caucasians.

Sexual behaviour and patterns also differ by sex, age and race. For example more white people in the US engage in MouthAction than blacks and more white women perform MouthAction than black women even when statistics shows black men have longer MouthAction partners.

Also black population is just 13% in the US but account for more HIV occurrence in the United States.

(1) You were the one who said you are sexy sensual and all, so no porn fantasies here. I asked you to prove what you asserted by the questionnaires not dodging around like I proposed anal sex. You didn't know me before telling me you're sexy so I don't need to know you to ask how.

Stand within the thin line of logic even if you're not usually in the habit of doing so.

(3) needless effort of finger chirp.

And you can familiarise yourself with different racial behavioural patterns here before spreading your humourless baloney.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3901667/

1. You clearly don't understand the meaning of a person's sexuality, sexiness or sensuality, because you equate it to pornography. Speaking of logic, why don't you try and pretend that you have some. How can one prove their sexuality on a written forum? I recommend that you learn the difference between sexuality and porn.ography.

2. I have already explained that in a prior post.

3. Same as number 2.