₦airaland Forum

carefreewannabe: And how is it your business at all? Take care of the problems in your country and stop acting like a preacher.

That is exactly what I said to you, concern yourself with the problems in nigeria and stop bringing up the problems in other countries. Get a backbone and maybe your men will stop treating you like a doormat.

pulsefro: You're basically asking when an American lady will look for a controlling bastard to slap her around and yell at her all the time. That would be never my friend.

Hahahahahahahaha Gotta love this guy.

You just described me, but you left out sexy.

I see you Switdick.

switdick: [color=#007799] LoL" I Wish I believed you,but who knows.? Its still possible you didn't, considering your cerebral frailty,it must be tiring..

Anyway,that's not the issue@hand,I think you just wanna cause a traffic on your own thread,going by how you Lack what to say and keep Quoting those you already answered to......

How Pathetic!!!!

Would think you Should have better things to do with your time..



I knew you'd turn this to the usual girl stuff throwing tantrums and all sorts...

Sorry I can't help you on that,I have done my part....Now you can Fight your self Like fury"

Khiaa is a Lovely name,wish I could say the same about your posts though.

...........Smh"[/color]

Switdick


Yet you can't stay away, go figure, and stop flirting with me.

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pleep: .... slap me?

No, I would never slap you, maybe a good wack on your bottom.

sexsinners: LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL MEN DON'T WISH for polygamy on us. Polygamy is more of an advantage to women than men. because the richest men will get all the girls . While the poorest men get close to no girls at all.you would miss out on all the hot single ladies,because they would be taken by some rich fool.

Hahahahah This is some BS and you know it. Polygamy is more of an advantage to women than men, how did you even form your fingers to type that mess.

pleep: Then why are you asking men

tell that to your fellow women and leave us alone lol

Pleep shutup before !!!

Klinee: is either u are a homosexual or a homophobic ok.u are a devil

Hey Klinee I checked your profile and clicked on your posts. Man you are GAAAY. You are on every topic that has to do with homosexuality, over 100 posts about being GAAAY. That is why you are homophobic because you are GAAAY and you hate that about yourself.
Come on bro, you can come out of the closet here, Nairaland is a safe place.



I should make a topic about you. Hmmmmmm,
I think I will. I will call it KLINEE IS HOMOPHOBIC BECAUSE HE'S ASHAMED OF BEING GAAAAAAAAAY

Oh Klinee why did you click on a topic called BEAUTIFUL MEN, and was dissapointed when the men looked liked women? You saw transgenders but wanted to see BEAUTIFUL SEXY MUSCULAR MEN hahahahaha, you are GAAAAAAAY boy.

Klinee: US is a silly nation.they will like to keep their country in other while they will be causing disorderliness in other people's country.i like it when i hear bomb blast in that foolish country called U.S.A.

Go to HELL. Oh I forgot, your'e already there. hahahahaha

[quote author=Klinee]is either u are a homosexual or a homophobic ok.u are a devil[/quote

is either u--- learn how to speak english.

Klinee: for ur mind this is what make a person?eeh! U are a devilish gay woman.God will punish u.

God should punish you for being a s.t.u.p.i.d r.e.t.a.r.d

pleep: We already explained to you the scientific reasons why men are less tolerant of cheating!

You need to grow up... if you want to kick a cheating partner out of your house that is your right, but if you don't, do not complain because others do.

This is my point. I think the women should throw those sorry a.s.s cheating men out of the house and stop forgiving him time and time again, because the men would not hesitate to throw her out even if he just thought she was cheating with no proof.

pleep: lol... if you take it to God. HE WILL THROW THE STONE

Stop trying to justify adultry and go to sleep.

LOL, I am not trying to justify adultry, I am totally against it, that is why I started this thread to try and understand why some men in Nigeria (like yourself) have a double standard when it comes to cheating.
It is only 6:47pm here so no, I will not go to bed. It's not even dark yet.

pleep: read the bible then

Read your bible. Jesus said you without sin cast the first stone.

pleep: But seriously.. is that so bad? If God had his way he would stone her to death.

God always has his way, and you are wrong for this.

pleep: A cheating partner a faaaaaar greater intimate turn-off for a man, its evolution. This is why many women can tolerate polygamy but almost no male can.

If you want to learn more read this article.

http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage/group/busslab/pdffiles/evolution_of_human_mating_2007.pdf



This has already been proven by science, it has nothing to do with opinions...

.... or a$$holes for that matter

Again, I repeat, would you throw your wife out of the home or take it to God? Oh I forgot you already answered the question, you would throw her out into the streets along with your children.

pleep: Its the answer to your question. Stop asking dumb questions if you are unwilling to accept the scientific answer

LOL, you are so silly. That is not science it is only a matter of opinions.
You know the old saying, opinions are like a.s.sholes, everybody has one. hahahaha, besides my question was would you men throw your wives out of the home or take it to God if your wife was caught cheating.

switdick: [color=#007799] Sadly Study Proves Otherwise by your assertion. It is said that Women tend to be Supportive of a Cheating partner than the other way round....While Men tend to have a Masculine twist orientation of it. Men resort to hate and rage of it and avoid talking about it to their Fellow Men,in the bid to avoid been called a fool.

So they aren't easy on their cheating wife.

http://articles.familylobby.com/543-why-women-stay-with-cheating-husbands.htm

I could post other Links due to My previous assertion on the grand Scale of things or reasons why it is bourne outta an evolutionary view of biological traits in Men world wide...


http://articles.familylobby.com/560-when-she-cheats-a-male-pov.htm

Let's not engage in an argument that would bring your Mental Frailty to Fore...as I don't consider you that Smart to debate me(No Offence)..

And please Why do you join the bandwagon to say Nigeria or its Culture is devoid of Civil right Movement thus its Slavery Mentality by indigenous people...??

That's a big fallacy, actually it has even be proven that women are prone or with a vast tendency to cheat more during the first Five years of Marriage hence the divorce rate in western and Modern society eg, the USA,RUSSIA etc..

http://magazine.foxnews.com/love/cheating-statistics-do-men-cheat-more-women

It is believed that countries with high rate of divorce tend to portray the rights of Women in a Concrete View and as Such Women take the Single hood of Living instead of being Married . Places Like Spain that has about 94% of their individuals as Catholic religiously don't believe in divorce prior to its Legalization in 1981".

If women have feelings ,Men have theirs in Flying Mood by default. [/color]

I didn't even bother to read this bullshyt. Hahahahaha

pleep: lol the OP is a cheater na, why would a faithfull girl ask such questions?

Hahahahahaha, Pleep I don't know what to say about you.

switdick: [color=#007799]Please, you and I know the bone of contention is not about the title being wrongly phrased or not...as you read in my post,it answers the issue which is a question to we guys why we cheat and can't stand a cheating partner..

Speaking of Culture as you say, where on earth is it different from the norms here ??

It still boils down to relativity..

Yeah ratio at which Married Women divorce Cheating Men, not Close to Married Men divorcing Cheating Women... Which begs the big Question,Why'?? [/color]

You just answered your own question. You men divorce your wives more often than the women divorce their husbands. I think the women are brainwashed to stay and put up with the bullshyt because they are taught this through your culture. It is very sad how women are treated, and why does your culture allow the treatment of throwing a woman out of her home, into the streets? This is so backwards.

SLIDE waxie: why are u even tryoin to debate ds, are u plannin on a cheating spree?

Nooooooooooooo, not me, I would rather end the relationship than cheat.

Baritone: .. Okay, could you be strong if not for your marriage, but for your babies,which I know are lovely?..

Hahaha, this is not about me, this is about relationships in general. My man is very good to me, if he wasn't believe me I would have been long gone, and guess what, he is nigerian, gotta love it.

jntyjnty007: I have zero tolerance for all this cheating malarky. Once bitten twice shy. I will just walk away. I don't want the excuses, or explanations, I won't ask any questions. I would rather stay single than put up with all that.

Ladies this is what I am talking about, a woman with a backbone.

carefreewannabe: Honey, it's not about Nigerian society.
Men all around the world cheat. I have been to different countries, lived in different places.
Likewise women all over the world forgive or don't. Women in developing countries are more frequently forced to take it because of financial reasons but hey, even Independent women in highly developed countries forgive cheating. Have you forgotten about your former first lady's case, dear Hillary Clinton?

Also consider that polygamy is part of the African culture, hence cheating is often accepted on the male side. That doesn't mean that men are bigger cheates than anywhere else. This is my observation. And don't Forget that polygamy is illegal in Western countries but still many men have a mistress or two ...

However, there are decent, strong Nigerian man who believe in fidelity and monogamy and go for it. There are Nigerian men who take care of their wives as their "weaker vessels", not only providing for them financially but also emotionally. Don't get it twisted, cheating is not something solely Made in Nigeria

Why is it that when someone brings up the problems of nigeria you always have to bring up the problems of somewhere else?
That is why you women will always be treated the way you are treated. You have no backbone.

niggi4life: IF MY WIFE CHEATS ON ME AND I GET TO KNOW THATS THE END OF THE MARRIAGE, THERE'S NO TWO WAY ABOUT THAT..

I don't blame you. I hope you give the same respect to your wife.

switdick: [color=#007799]Please, you and I know the bone of contention is not about the title being wrongly phrased or not...as you read in my post,it answers the issue which is a question to we guys why we cheat and can't stand a cheating partner..

Speaking of Culture as you say, where on earth is it different from the norms here ??

It still boils down to relativity..

Yeah ratio at which Married Women divorce Cheating Men, not Close to Married Men divorcing Cheating Women... Which begs the big Question,Why'?? [/color]

Ok!! #1 Just as much as men can't stand a cheating woman, we women can't stand a cheating man 10 times fold. In your society( Nigerian )women are expected to take alot of crap. Do you understand that women have feelings, how can a real man do this to his other half?

niggi4life: IF MY WIFE CHEATS ON ME AND I GET TO KNOW THATS THE END OF THE MARRIAGE, THERE'S NO TWO WAY ABOUT THAT..

So it's cool if you cheat on her?

Baritone: Khia, I don't mean to sound too perfect, but in a way, rather than go through hell 'cos of the actions of someone, you could involve yourself in something that's tasking like a job, skill, just something that will take your time and mind off Him. Find happiness in showing love in another way like caring for lost pets, orphans. in that way, your happiness wont be tied to a man that's unwilling to change from the road that leads to death.

My sweatheart, it doesn't matter how much time you spend yourself involving in tasks like a job, skill or whatever, at the end of the day you still have to go home to that person, and if there is no happiness at home you will be miserable.

agitator: he who pays the piper dictates the tune. In Nigeria men purchase wife/wives, so the wife/wives have no say. The man can throw her out of the house because in Africa majority of the men owns the house or pays the rent. There are rare cases where both contribute to building a house.

So you are saying slavery still exist in Nigeria.

agitator: he who pays the piper dictates the tune. In Nigeria men purchase wife/wives, so the wife/wives have no say. The man can throw her out of the house because in Africa majority of the men owns the house or pays the rent. There are rare cases where both contribute to building a house.

That is so sad, my heart breaks for the woman. Slavery still exist in Nigeria.

Baritone: yea, u're right but what are the chances of u meeting with a saint?.. He may not be good enough, He may not be socially active and all of that. marriage doesn't stop a man that's a hardlined cheater from cheating.. self discipline does.

Oh my love, there is no such thing as a saint.