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SLIDE waxie: why are u even tryoin to debate ds, are u plannin on a cheating spree?

No NO my love, this isn't about me, I just want you men to stop taking your good wives for granted. They love you, and cherish you, and you should do the same towards them. Think about it, of all the women you know, you chose her, WHY?

Tropilo: If u like cheat on ur hubby because u'r in America. We always know how to deal wit ur issues here.

Bring u home on Xmas visit and dump ur asz wit ur parents. Simple!

Sorry sweetheart that will not work because I am not Nigerian, can't you tell?

switdick: [color=#007799] I want to believe this thread was about Marriage and not Just a mere Relationship ,As I saw wives on the heading,one would think the gravity of what a Cheating partner entails is doing that you said??

We all know its different when its just a Relationship,and girls can do as you say and end it.

Now the question is and Should be, why are the women enduring a Cheating partner??

Why don't they call for a divorce on hearing the cheating prowess of their Men or Man" in Marriage??....but Men do without hesitation.

The bias is evolutionary to begin with...

This is the kinda question I think begs religious bases Answer in our traits as Men"

Maybe you Should ask God that didn't in the First place relate a Man's innocence to Chastity" but that of Women(Hymen)....LoL"

Might be wrong though...Pardon me Miss [/color]

God or Man? My title is You Men Cheat On Your Wives All The Time, but it should have been MOST of you men. A lot of married couples forget that even though you are married you are still in a relationship, your wife is your lover and your husband is your lover, therefore my title is correct. If you have read my earlier posts my answer to that question of the wives seeking a divorce, well I said then and I say it now I think it is a matter of culture.

niggi4life: HEHEHEHE, NICE1

Nothing more to say?

pleep: lol, just go to sleep.

Cheat if you want, just stop wasting nairalanders time

Pleep, if you are sleepy you have my permission to go to bed, I'm cool with that. Nobody made you click on my thread, therefore you are wasting your own time.

Baritone: yea, u're right but what are the chances of u meeting with a saint?.. He may not be good enough, He may not be socially active and all of that. marriage doesn't stop a man that's a hardlined cheater from cheating.. self discipline does.

That is why SOMETIMES it is better to move on, why put yourself through hell, when the other person refuses and doesn't want to change.

djeezy: like the saying, he who acquires has the right to dispose of. You are saying how it ought to be and I am saying how it is.

You are saying how you wish it to be I am saying how it is, unless you stood in front of the pastor alone you both married each other.

Baritone: @OP, its a simple thing.. A KEY THAT OPENS MANY LOCKS IS VALUABLE THAN A PADLOCK THAT ANY KEY CAN OPEN .. I don't want to sound as a narccist here, but Really there's nothing prayer cant change... things may not be the same, but I believe you wont want to die in your bed cold...

It can only change if the cheating person wants to change. Sometimes it is better to end the relationship and move on.

pleep: ^ no... they simply don't own the house.


lol


How you gunna cheat on a man while your living in his house?

When you get married you become as one, so what is his, is hers and what is hers is his.

rafhell: It a man's world and there is nothing you can do about it.

Only in your world.

pc guru: Sorry my statement was contradictory, i meant anyone can cheat, given the ability to.

Yes this is true.

outrage: [size=13pt]this is why you have got to love islam.

Some men can have 6 wives and they still will cheat because they are greedy and want what they can't have.

pc guru: hmmmm today must be my lucky day, am not sure who to bash first the OP for Generalizing or the misogynistic AssH**** ? oh well lemme start Everybody cheats, and if one is caught cheating its up to the other to take actions in their hands, I think the Book supports divorce under infidelity. also for the A.H comments seriously ? i wasn't expecting something less dumber than this

You are right, I should have said most of the men. I would like to say SORRY to the few good men on this site ,
and not everybody cheats and I am one who has never cheated, I would rather end the relationship than to cheat.

djeezy: It's because the man married the woman. Not because it's a man's world actually but because the man has a higher bargaining power. When a woman is unfaithful, it creates uproar.

Wrong!!! They married each other.

pleep: ^ no... they simply don't own the house.


lol


How you gunna cheat on a man while your living in his house?

This is a contradiction to your earlier post.

pleep: Not only would i throw her out, but her bastard kids aswell.

....cuz the lord knows those kidz aren't mine

What if the kids are yours, will you still throw them out aswell?

[quote author=tosh_acer]Hmmmm. You mean Americans live with their adulterous women or men without considering divorce?[/quote]Sometimes, just like Nigerian women live with their cheating husbands without considering divorce.

pleep: I think the woman should throw the men out of the house if they catch him cheating. Why arent yall doing that?

I agree with you, and I think alot of these women are brainwashed by their culture.

pc guru: Also the option of taking things into prayer to me is quite equivalent to doing nothing. just saying

I agree with you, but that is what most of the men on this site tells the wife to do.

[quote author=tosh_acer]OK. Ask the Americans the questions then.[/quote]I don't need to, I already know they can't throw her out of the house.

Decryptor: Girl...it's a man's world okay? That's why we do what we do! If ya don't like it, go for a Seeex change

Sorry hun, I'm in America, that shyt don't fly here.

Whenever a man is cheating on his wife and the wife finds out, you men always tell her not to end the marriage and to take it to God in prayer. Well I would like to ask you male hypocrites a question. If you found out your wife was cheating on you would you

1. Throw her out of the house or

2. Take it to God in prayer, be honest

You all know this is a bullshyt marriage to Janet. It's all about the money, with no record sells she needs this fake marriage, afterall if there is a divorce she gets 500 million dollars. She has nothing to loose and 500 million to gain, then she will convert back to christianity. She is known for multiple marriages and divorces. LOL

Talk Hoha: I don't know why you can't stand the ones who pretend to be straight. With all the homophobic hostility and violence in Nigeria (I'll just mention the three gay men stripped naked and paraded in the streets in Imo State), many will pretend to be straight and get married. Your anger should be directed at homophobic prejudice. Gays will contract sham marriages, have children of doubtful paternity, perhaps become wife-beaters or drunkards or drug-addicts in frustration, because of the 14 year jail threat among other factors. Gays have been around in all periods of history, and also abound in the animal world. The wise thing is to accept the varieties of creation, that to be homophobic is on a par with being racist or sexist.

You just gave all the reasons I can't stand the ones on the down low.

1. Sham marriages
2. unwanted children
3. wife beaters
4. Drunks
5. Drug Addicts

The wise thing to do is to come out, if you cannot, stay away from women, just stay single. Why bring a woman and children into your misery.

Klinee: u are a gay!shut up.gay is evil stop it now!

You are s.t.u.p.i.d and ignorant. You think because I am not homophobic like you are, it means I am gay. LOL, you are a dumb mothersucker. You are one of those DOWN LOW GAYS, that I can't stand.

me1234: @khiaa, stop giving this woman bad advice. when she is thrown to the street you wont be there with her. there are so many young beautiful girls who are intact, men are not done with them is it a woman with 4kids that men or boys will be running after.when she is eventually thrown out of her home she will know the difference between husband and sex mate.i guess you don't have a husband hence your advice. i have not said what the husband is doing is right but hers is not justified in anyway. what is wrong is wrong you should be bold to say that.

Tell that to her husband. What bad advice did I give her, the man has already made it plain and simple that he do not want her, not only by cheating, but by telling her to go to hell and to leave the marriage. Do she need a brick wall to fall on her to see this? A sex mate would be better than that loser she is married to because he is a husband on paper only. Nine years of misery, it is time to move on.

gentle12: Why Men to Men of a thing? If it is the Asssss hole their preference,shebi our Women got plenty of it too,in fact with a better succulency compared to their Muscular bearded male counterpart. Honestly Gay-ism is evil and affection for people of same sex is unGodly and beyond sane comprehension.

You are forgetting, gay men like it up their azzes too. lol

xynerise: When your husband cheats on you, you will cry and still remain in his house but when he caught you cheating, he will chase you out of the house. If I say you should be virtuous na some girls here go swallow me

I Think both the husband and wife should have been virtuous, but it's to late now because they both are cheaters. I can understand the woman because she was real lonely and not being satisfied by her husband, while he is out forking every hoe that opened her legs, and then he has the nerve to leave his wife wanting, and needing, and on top of that tell her to go to hell, I'm not saying she's right but yeah I can understand her. Men let that be a lesson to you. Your wives need and want sex too, it is not just a man thing.

[quote author=Godman_n]Why can't this woman divorce the man? I got it, a typical Niaja lady; want to eat her cake and have it.

If the man is not good for you, leave him. I guess you like his money you never contributed for in any way but hate his ways.

Search your self.[/quote]Why can't the man divorce his wife, I got it, a typical Niaja man, he wants to have his cake and eat it too right. How do you know she never contributed money to the household. Stop the double standards. Search yourself.

Hezron Lorraine: I never knew jason collins as a veteran in nba.I'm one of those passerby nba basketball fan.out of the blues a shocker came and its from the nba.It takes all the strength in world to do so.i for one believe coming out takes a different perspective to people,if you are in an environment where ur lifestyle isn't popular is looked down upon,I believe u nid a coming out especiallu if u're a person of worth and relevant to d society.if you come out,face d worst.but if you r outed,dts a scandal.its better to be open of your lifestyle or stay in between.for example,I'm not particular about u finding out I'm gay,u know gud,u don't gud.I'm neither secretive or flambouyant of it.u ask me.I'll never denie.jason's coming out is another stitch in time that saved nine.in d past people felt it was unrealistic for macho men esp men of colour to identify dmselves as gay talkless of men in hyper-male sport like basketball.many have done in d past,now he chooses his path,he can only bask in d glory of those who welcomed and accepted him but needs to face d punchline$his team is officially tagged now,d gay man's team.that alone is enough in court.wait till he plays next.his story shows the pain and misery many gay people go through just to feel the same with everyone.the fake double standard life.miring in self pity and self denial always.its not easy to channel ur passion to drive something to glory and be scared of people's perception of the real u.an out nfl ex player wade,said he sometimes went with teammates to strip clubs just to feel among.no one could have suspected he was hiding his true self.in the legal world,there's a saying that goes,'absence of evidence is not evidence in absence'.society needs to learn that.I hear straights say I don't care just don't shove it in my face,truthfully no straight does some coming out cos u r generally accepted even if u r a murderer,coming out for any gay is a phase to actualize our potence and important,our values,our pride,our dignity,our humanness ib the same vein as the str8ts.to suppress the society from withdrawing from u if u don't make it known initially.coming out helps reduce a lot,esp when it is unexpected.you never want to be d black sheep of d family,no.u nid to re-inforce urself into that sane bond.collins came out at a much needed time.it just further showed america anyone is who.I know some of us are born gay,some out of curiousity,some don't fancy d lifestyle but enjoy it.I can only conclude that almost everyone has a gay tendency in him/her,but the level to which you accept it,find it pleasurable,the contact around u helps shape ur attitude to it.when I was outed as gay by telling the wrong person.I let suicidal thoughts roll into my brains,but I got up and decided,no I won't killing myself only continues the suffering.if I can survivr the pains and hardship,I'll have a story to tell.if I take my life,I just denied someone an inspiration to claim his self worth not what was imposed on him.I may not know y people are gay but I do know u never want to know the burden true gays face in life,u may smile and shine ur teeths everyday,but a puzzle is missing in u.I don't know if there's a cure for being gay as bigots claim it to be.but I know living a life free burdens is worth it.its more conceivable to remain without any blemish.not all gay people are a bunch of lustful animals who are after sexual pleasures,many of us do seek a life we see befiting even if it isn't perfect.I'll forever find it hard to enter a union with a lady I won't fully commit to or satisfy her in all ramifications out of pressure.many marriages end in doom,cause of decisions like ds.d ladies only become baby atm.the essence of marital life dy don't enjoy.y cost a woman happiness when u can choose to live free of it.its always hard coming to terms with being gay,people have survived,I am surviving mine,many more would.all it takes is getting that balanced beam and surviving the long jump.to fellow bros in nigeria,rome wasn't built in a day.some have to struggle for others to survive.if the UK can becoming a frr state inclusive to homosexuals when in d past,dy instituted sodomy laws in dr territories and once allowed chemical castration for gays in Britain.Nigeria's case isn't a rip off.the irrelevent jail the gays bill b4 the national assembly is yet to pass the committee stage.I find d bill odious as Obama said cause I don't think any right thinking gay nigerian would clamour for marriage equality or get married to their partners when u are yet to be respected as a gay person,not to mention that ur society can't comprehend homosexual intimacy.whether it comes to stay or not.the day of reckoning awaits.

I'm glad you got all of that out, glad you didn't commit suicide. I don't agree with the almost everyone has gay tendencies comment, now you know that is not true.