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Toxic masculinity is the adherence to masculinity to the point that is harmful. Masculinity in itself is not bad. It's that certain traits or concepts that are considered “masculine” are harmful, and therefore toxic.

For example, the idea that men should never express emotion. This is harmful, as holding emotions inside or not dealing with your feelings properly is notably bad for your mental health, and it can also harm how you relate to your friends and spouse (ie, you may not be able to and your relationship could suffer as a result).

Or the idea that men cannot be abused by women. That's a result of toxic masculinity. It's not “masculine” to admit that a little weak woman was able to harm you, the big strong man, so your suffering is ignored as “being a pussy”

FEAR ME

Seriously, I would very much like to stare someone down, to see them quake with fear. I want to whisper with menace and see the fear in someone's eyes

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oakinshield:
I rather remain a religious bigot than to be deceived like you

Religious bigot leave my mention.

killmods:
[s] That's how they always are.. children without parents who grew up on the wrong side of the streets. Always venting their anger and frustrated souls at other people's parents. I pray u know one of ur parents before u die. Meanwhile u can't even use English properly Wtf am I even expecting from a street rat. Go suck dick for $5 that's all u know. Suck many make u still fit come naija this year to show ur slum neighbours that u have arrived.. isn't that ur plan ; [/s] D

Yada yada yada. Stop crying your mother is still an Hoe

FarahAideed:
You are actually the one exhibiting what you accuse him of

Here comes another foolish person.

oakinshield:
[s] You call it fullishness but you will be shocked to the bones when everything plays out. How can they duck the pay of people who refused to be vaccinated, is vaccination by force now ? this should tell you that the forces behind this vaccination are evil and they are beginning to test run their new world laws. when the rapture finally takes place, you will not be able to buy or sell or recieve treatment without that mark and besides the only thing stoping them now is the church of God on the earth, we are the restraining power of evil in the world today. once we are gone, all hell will break loose and many will cry had I known; then then most will pay with their life and blood to enter heaven because they now realize that they have been lied to all along. they will refuse the anti Christ and will pay dearly for it. Concerning the players, how can I take a vaccination against a sickness and still fall sick with that same sickness, it makes no sense. the players who are vaccinated are falling sick and those who refused to be vaccinated ( it's their choice to be vaccinated or not) gets their pay ducked even though they are not sick. think with your head for once. if a child is vaccinated against polio, does that child suffer tit again? can't you see that you are being lied to? those same people who have been crying over population growth and about finding a way to reduce world population are still the same people you trust with your safety, how naive can you be? the world and governments are controlled be this people so do not believe all the things you hear in the news they are all lies. all the journalists are being controlled and those who refused are fired. open your eyes [/s].

Blah blah blah keep shut. Religious bigots are the worst.

Vireani79:
And ur wiseness is stupidity

Just look at this illiterate.

killmods:
Not this dense hoe again

No one asked if your mother is an Hoe. Don't embarrass her in public

Mariangeles:
Welcome to the beginning of a new world order.

We were wondering how it was going to be, now it's unfolding before our very eyes.

Nigerians and stupidity Smh

Righteousness2:
All over the World today, the Mark of Beast System is being put into play right before our Eyes.

Many are Falling for it , others refuse it due to perceived health implications, while those who read and Understand the Word of GOD (The Holy Bible) are firmly against it.

For me, I will rather Lose all than take the evil Beastly Jab .

My Admonishment to all allover the World is this;
These are the Last of the last Moments! Deceptions in different modules are being deployed all in bid to recruit souls and send them to Hell.

Wake up! Stand Boldly and firmly in GOD'S Word. Surrender to JESUS Christ and live Ready.
The Trumpet is about to Sound! JESUS Christ is Coming! And if you Miss it , you are gone! It is gonna be Hell on Earth.

Cut off from anyone or anything trying to distract you. Sort out the Matter of your salvation with JESUS Christ.

They that Have Ears to Hear, Let them Hear.

Your foolishness is amusing.

EkehPraise:
Why calling me names?? Is he your brother?

Mind your business and shut up.

WiszyFraud:



GAY ALERT

He’s your brother....Yeahh! But no ever try follow am crash for the same bed ohh, make he no finish your anus..

Just look at stupidity.

hupernikao:
Exactly the OP points. The misotheist on NL pretending as atheist are already here ruminating in it. The lid of identification is already flayed.

You are believing what you want you believe.

First of all, any person who is a misotheist is a theist and never an atheist.

emmanuelbrown26:
The busstop at sandfill, hv u forgotten or should I bring evidence?

You meet your mother at Sandfill . Yes bring evidence of meeting your mother at Sandfill. This bastard will die today

Kelvinhunta:
I will say these according to ur write up

1. It pays to mind ur barbing salon business just as other people around there has been minding theirs.

2. u r probably not married so u won't understand marital challenges and d fact that all marriage has their own peculiar challenges
3. D man does nothing for a living and a drunkard is none of ur business, if u feel too concerned then u should set up something for the man to be doing
4. The number of children they have is not d cause of their marital challenges otherwise barren couple would be the happiest people on earth.
5. I understand that u r disturbed but if u r seriously Disturbed u would have called them both ,sat them down, try to find out their problem and councelled them on how to go forward.
6. U can't say for sure who is provoking who if u don't sit them down to find out, don't judge from one persons angle or outsiders angle.
7. In marriage there is nothing like a woman's property or a man's property. He is damaging their property and not the woman's property.
8. Yes no body in the street says anything simply because they r minding their business
9. If u really care genuinely about the woman's life about setti her ablaze, then u should sit them down and discuss/counsel them
10. he carries huge sticks to kill the woman like a snake many times yet u don't care to know d reason? Am really smelling cover up at this stage. Am not saying these actions are right but am saying that if these really happened that anyone around them would have at least cared to know the reasons of their regular quarrels than keeping mute and be complaining online.
11. The man was beating his 1yr old like a mad man? And u did nothing? U cared only about a common phone?

You are mad!!!

massinola:
We have toxic people here on nairaland. Just saw one of them. Gush!! How do some humans reason? For your mind, you have made sense. Very pathetic

Nairaland comment sections are cesspools of constant toxic nonsense.

emmanuelbrown26:
I know u, at sandfill

You know your mother at Sandfill . This is how niggas lie up and down Nairaland. So you are a Coward, Bastard and a liar too. What else you are probably a rapist too

emmanuelbrown26:
I know her very well in one of events I coordinated sometime ago

Your know your mother very well . Not only a bastard and a coward but also a shameless liar. God forbid

alizma:
People like you end up making similar mistake because you can't reason properly. Why insulting the woman when you don't know there background, do you think the man was like that and the woman agreed to settle down with him?
Secondly you said the OP had done his best and should retreat. When did nairaland become women affairs commission? Rather than advise him to report the issue to an NGO handling cases of that nature your are indirectly threatening a man that is willing to help.

You are replying to a coward.

emmanuelbrown26:
Eyaaaa, men dun tire toto finish, very soon na retired Ashawo u go cum bi.

Just like your mother right

Curious345:
Men the girl na pure olosho. Lekki type.





Dangerous female..

You mother and sisters lead and we follow

emmanuelbrown26:
One of the signs of an Ashawo is:
Always causing people's mother, since 2018 u registered, u hv being causing everybody's mother, and I know why. Ashawo no dey use eye see her fellow woman either in a marriage or in business

Expert in Ashawo affairs. Your mother did a good job on teaching you are ways. Ask her when you reach home for your real father

emmanuelbrown26:
Aunty leave matter jare, your frustration no do u na me go do u?
Kpele, Ashawo kobo kobo like u, maybe your toto dun tire na en mak u dey para

Coward when you get home ask your mother for your real father. F.uck.ing bastard

theamazonguru:
[s] Have you heard of the terms : "safety first" , "make them no use your head crack nuts" , " mind your own business".

Be more concerned about your own safety first.
And honestly I am more worried for you.

You are trying to meddle in the domestic matter of a drunkard?
You do not think he can do the unthinkable?
Don't you think you might be attacked by that evil, callous, irresponsible man while you are at the business of separating fight like you are a saviour?

Guy man. na person wey dey alive dem dey call hero ooh.
Hero in death na stupidity cause am ooh.
Don't be one.


The best you can do is to make a video evidence of one of the public nuisance sessions.
Send it to the appropriate authority and let them take it up from them.
Police , child protection agency, human rights are all there, avail yourself one of them.

Ire ooh.


I have warned [/s].

All these cowards ehnn. Oga shut up and stop displaying stupidity. When you see something wrong your stand up and do something about it rather than typing here like a useless coward.