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Nikes:
personally, I abhor the average African American lifestyle, but this thread made me realize that a Nigerian could indeed, be a model figure for 'Uncle Tom'. How are people so blind not to realize that riding on the back of Africans for centuries is what got the so called whites this far? Some even go as far as undermining the contributions of the black man towards societal development, crediting just about everything to the white man. omo see dillusion. Who invented bla bla bla and shit. Over the years, African Americans made their own contributions even in the fields of science and technology for societal advancement, most of which laid the base plate for the advanced inventions as we have them today. But you know what? their names are never known. why? because they're Black. Oh yes...Black. You think a society that tells you not to use same pubs, buses and toilet as white people would put you on even when you deserve it? Nah.. they'll do what they know how to do best; sweep your name right under the carpet and take the credit for whatever it is you did. America's first orbit in space didn't happen by magic. It took contributions from hundred of people, among which more than several were black. Go watch hidden figures so you know what I'm talking about.

Personally, I hate the victim mentally they play today. The real action to take when you realize that you're being derided for being black is to get up off your ass and do something about it. Go to school, and if school ain't for you, start off a business, put your race on. But guess what? f**king hoodrats will call you a sell out, an uncle Tom and etc. Maybe yeah, being black comes with a lot of struggles like Not getting a job, being targeted by the police, etc. but sitting on your ass because these thing don't work out for you isn't a way to live either. It's about time they realized in order to have same rights as the white man, they must associate with the white man's world. Get into his head, see things in his own perspectives, understand the logic behind his actions, etc.

Fredrick Douglas couldn't have done what he did by surrounding himself with just black people.

Harriet Tubman couldn't have freed hundreds of slaves successfully without the help of few white men in high places

Jay Z wouldn't be where he is today if he had played the victim card and decided to deal only with black people.

African Americans may be having it rough, but accepting the reality and fighting back by attacking the oppressor with the oppressor's tactics is there only way out. A policeman may be scared of harassing a black lawyer whose only weapon is the law made by the whiteman, but wouldn't hesitate to gun down a black kid holding a gun who attempts to fight the unjust system by way of violence.

Shokoloko:
To any African American reading this, I apologise for the comments here.

It is easy for a bird with full feathers to fly around and laugh at the one with a broken wing inside a gold cage.

SweetVibe:
You have said it all.
BRAVO

SweetVibe:
The Democrat party is to be blame, they instill those victim mentality on them just to get their vote.

They tried it on the Latinos but it failed because Latinos were more mentally wiser.

Erojepromise:
you are deviating from the subject of discourse, the question I will ask will be is it true African Americans hates Africans ?because your post reeks of the same hatred the op is addressing

MisterRuk:
African Americans were never meant to be part of the American dream from day1, their ancestors came to the Americas on slave ships, which is quite an humiliating way to be introduced. Many battles in this world are psychological, white supremacy against black people have always existed in many forms. Sometimes you can control people by making yourself look superior in all ways to the person you want to control, and at the same time make the person look primitive and inferior.
The visions of the founding father's of America did not have any space for black people. It is nightmare to them if african americans start becoming as successful as the Jews or Asians, to them its not racism, it the natural order of things, that is why there are always systems keeping black people below.
After slavery, came segregation, to make the blacks inferior even though they were free men. MLK and other champions of the civil rights movement fought against it and there was equality between the white and the black folks. I've looked at old archives dating as old as 60's and 70's, about the lives of black folks, it was beautiful. The black people were united, self sufficient, they were literate, they had their own businesses, they even had their own entertainment. Some people felt blacks were going to become as successful as the Jews so they introduced poverty and bad values like drugs, violence, crime, prostitution, the things that make up the "ghetto culture" into the black community. It worked and it created a whole new reason for people to look down on black people. It wasn't until the violence began to escalate and affect innocent white people, and some black people grew rich and famous by transforming that negative vibe of the "ghetto culture" into creating modern rap and hiphop. The new strategy now is the "victim mentality", capitalizing on the memories of sufferings the blacks have endured for the colour of their skin, so that they blame innocent white people for their problems in life and not find a way to be liberate themselves. That's why groups like BLM and antifa are popular nowadays. The recent George Floyd protest and the cancel culture is a manifestation of that.
I hate it when I see black folks in America acting like victims and endangered species, and yet practicing the bad values like the ghetto culture, it only degrades them and makes the "white supremacy" they're fighting against stronger. When I see organizations and celebs putting a black screen on their profile or hashtagging #blacklivesmatter, I get angry sometimes because they're just trying to profit from the victimhood of black. Like the Jews, black people are one of the most ostracized group of people on the earth. Let us learn from the Jews.
I feel that those black folks who have made it over there should come and invest in Africa, it is the home every black people. Every problems the blacks suffer world has it's source in Africa. Rather than disturbing the political climate in the west groups like BLM should come to Africa and protest against our oppressive governments.


I have a feeling that one day all blacks shall return back to Africa.

Cromagnon:
go and ask them o
They say they are facing racism
That Africa is their homeland that we look the same, that there will be no discrimination in Africa (I always laugh when i hear or read this)

Be like say dem melds hear about tribalism or federal character or zoning

MaxInDHouse:
Why don't you go to the disciples that deserted Jesus in the first century {John 6:66} for information about Jesus?
Why stick to what his close confidants have to say?

For your information, Jesus is from Israel and up till today 70 % of Israelites don't believe Jesus ever lived while about 20% are sceptical about him!

So if you believe what exJWs are saying then ask them what better performing group they've found after leaving JW Organization!

DEMZEE:
They are not feminine at all that's why they have the lowest approval ratings wen it comes to dating

Men in western societies wud rather date women that are not black

Lostchild:
I disagree with you if you generalize that we hate our american brothers.

Even those NL members express hate base on their ignorance. People will attack what they don't understand.

EmekaBlue:
Hey, forget about the past slavery thing and move on dear. You weren't even there

Walkee:
if America were left in you black Americans care the entire streets will be littered with filth and dead bodies. Look at clowns that have been voting a single party for over 50 years talking about politics. If a lizard were to contest under the democrat party, won't you clowns still vote the lizard 98%?

Lostchild:
Please note that, we black Africans do not hate our black american brothers out there. Whatever you read here on this forum is just one man opinion.

The only diference between a black Nigerian and a black american, is their culture. Even I, myself cannot relate with African culture.

Only an insane person will hate people of other race.

Only person that lack love will hate his fellow human

LastProphet:
So Caucasians did not suffer slavery in history? So all those slaves that suffered under the heel of the cruel roman empire were blacks? And even us blacks we were not enslaving each other until whites came right? Even today in 2021 that the Fulani are turning others slave you can't see it abi? Where is your sense?

Lostchild:
Mrs.
You are being to hash
Calm down

Cromagnon:
All that thunder and fury yet commot answer a simple question? You are the arrogant and ignorant one

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Living better Yet they all want to run to Africa

Look who's drinking the kool-aid

Laurene:
Bunch of conspiracy theories, no evidence.

Mrscarter:
There are also alot of help for ppl with addictions. Black and white.
Also nobody forces ppl to repeatedly inject themselves with drugs

Mrscarter:
I don't live in america so i dont know if african Americans are targeted to go to prison but what i do know is alot of them are in gangs n carrying guns just the same as white bikie club members do n use or sell drugs. Ofcourse these ppl will be targeted n go to prison. I also know there are alot of middle class hard working african american families. There are rich african americans. Will smith for eg. He worked hard n worked his way to the top in the film industry n is one of the riches actors in hollywood. Barrack obama he was president. Even ppl like rick ross, little wayne, and other african american rappers, singers/artists. N theres many more successful african americans who came from poverty to riches. Yet those who join gangs or become strippers complain the supressed by whites. Some love the image gangsta lifestyle gives them. They think its cool or that thats how they earn respect. They think its cool to act ghetto n talk ghetto. They try copy their favourite rappers. They kill each other yet blame the whites for killing them. African american ppl can be very artistic. Can create awesome rap n beats n dance n singing n artwork but alot waste their talents on the streetlife. Its a shame.
Those ppl have as much opportunity to better their lives as many others have. They just dont want to put in the work or make excuses n blame others for their laziness. Or their inability to break the cycle if they grew up in that hood lifestyle.
Not all white ppl are racists not all are against them. If that was the case then how come there a the ones whove made it out of poverty n even those who are richer than ur average white?

Cromagnon:
what did they fight for?show the receipts. They were just lucky opposition party needed their votes, country needed soldiers and entertainment needed their talent. None of their ''fighting'' achieved anything but jail, bruises and death

360clips:
African Americans are the most useless people I've ever set my eyes on on this planet! Especially those males. Even with all opportunities they have there, they waste it and later blame the whites for their predicaments! They feel so entitled, it's so irritating! Not to talk of their horrible use of vocabulary! Some can't even read well or write! They're so impatient and violent like the typical nïggers in African countries! How can you see a male adult of about 35 years old be sagging their pants so low like a brainless môron! They don't know how terrible they look! They're a bunch of disgraceful animals! The whites see them as shit! To them they're waste product. That's why they kill them like chickens! The black race is just a disgusting useless race!

ChizzyBuna:
How can you be in AMERICA
Land of Opportunities
And still complian about everything..

Oh white people hate us
Oh white people suppress us
Oh white people are rasicts

Shut da Bleep up, you bunch of cry cry babies.

You have electricity 24/7 you have healthcare you have good roads.
You can buy burger for $3
You have dollar store, where u can buy anything in there for just 1 dollar.

And you guys still complian.
Their guys just sit all day lazy asf always high drinking and smoking weed and still complian that no job for them.
Me that spent 4 months there already had $4700 in my PayPal from joining a video crew to do video editing for music videos
AND IM A FORIEGNER ooo

The worst is "THE VICTIM MENTALITY"
Every small thing, they shout racism
While I was in Georgia Atalanta
I noticed black Americans are always late
And they hate when you correct them
If a white person corrects them of their lateness or bad behavior they call the white person a racist.
They refer to themselves as "COLORED PEOPLE" instead of African American.
They don't want to be associated with Africa
Some hate Africans (one of them called me and my cousin "African booty scratchers" and said that African kids always dusty with flies flying around around their eyes and mouth) SMH
So many childish behavior and victim mentality. It's so annoying.

As a Nigerian, I wish they can spend 1 year in Nigeria
They don't know how lucky they are to be in USA. By the time they step foot here, only the hot sun and generator noise and smoke will deal with them. Dem go hear am.
After my experience in U.S
It is very hard for me to take any black American serious when they complain about racism. I see them as very weak emotional baby adults. Always crying like victims while me a foreigner was making cool cash within my short 4 months I spent there.


MODIFIED:
You people that say black people were slaves that is the cause of their victim mentality for 400 years
What about THE JEWS!!!!!
They were slaves to Babylonians
They were slaves to the Romans
The sef Turks and Arabs enslaved the jews and took Jerusalem
They were persecuted by the Soviets
They were tortured killed by Nazi Germans in 1940's

JEWS FACED 2000 YEARS OF SLAVERY AND HATE
DO YOU SEE JEWS CRYING EVERYDAY??
DO YOU SEE JEWS PLAYING VICTIMS??
DO YOU SEE JEWS BEEN LAZY??
HELL NO!!!
So don't come here and tell me black suffered 400 years slavery.
The Jews has suffered slavery and persecution 2000 years even up till now.
They are now one the best innovators in medicine, and technology..
SO STOP GIVING ME EXCUSE THAT BLACK AMERICANS HAVE VICTIM MENTALITY BECAUSE OF SLAVERY.

khia:
LMAO, most of the attractive women in Atlanta are actually men. I would think you would find Houston to have the most beautiful women since it has a large African community. How would you know how old I am?

Danisaint112:
I might not have lived with whites in Abroad, but I work with whites, as a young entrepreneur, my business here is based with whites. So do I have both female and male white mentors.

"Don't judge all white people with the experience you have with one of them unless you know it is something the are all known for (mentality and lifestyle)." This has always been my stand.

But you have always been: "One brings more trouble than the other." Which I disagreed but you decided to twist the narrative recently by saying;

"There are poo/feaces on both side." and that is when you were indirectly admitted you have been proved wrong but refused to admit you were. Kind of funny

As far as I am concerned, the only little point you have managed to make ever since the begining of this arguement is saying, whites divorce more than Africans. Which if we should research thoroughly, we will discover high divorce rate is capped at some of the some countries.

Yes, you are right. But the whites is what I have decided to go for, and for other reasons which I won't mention here to avoid another lengthy baseless and pointless arguement from you.

And Me going for them is not because I believe my fellow blacks or Nigerians bring more trouble like you think on the white side, but some reasons which will be known to me from now on.

Also there are something each sides are known for (mentality and lifestyle) which I mentioned on the Nigerian women side and have boldly stated Continously, I would only marry one if she lacks those bad qualities/differ.

Lastly, anyone can lay claims the stay in abroad and some of us would believe. Besides this a faceless forum. But that aside...

Look I am not a fool as you outrightly think. I'm very calculative and reserve when making a comment in a public space cause I know there are learned people in this online space who might challenge me with my words and end up embarrassing me.

Unlike you who spew trash and all kind of insult you dim fit, twisting lies and claiming you never did. You are beginning to act like APC government.

Seriously speaking, You are the one who needs a lot of unbrainwashing to be done. You are very far from reality due to your lack of interest for knowledge and understanding/comprehension skills.

Wisdom is the best teacher not just experience. Get it and you learn how to speak in public.

Annyeong!

Danisaint112:
Damn! You felt pained right? I didn't want to reply you again but I have say this before I go off. You still proved no point. All what you said is nothing but rubbish...

I mean what is the difference between this and what I have been saying all along?


And how does supremacy relate with what we are saying? I'm talking about relationship, love and marriage and you are bringing, dictatorship and the domination mindset (supremacy) of a country into this. Mehn! You can argue pointlessly ooo.

Ask me again I would still say you got no point. And learn/remember this, just incase you are ignorant of it;

You don't judge all whites with your experience or thought about Americans or one of them. Unless you are sure most of that particular race have the same mindset/mentality.

I mentioned the act of gifting valuable and expensive gifts like a multi-million car cause it's a norm in the white man land. i.e for women.

But something that would be given a thousand thought by African women even if they have the money. If you will tell yourself the truth, you yourself will give you it a thousand thought if you are a Nigerian woman.

If the supremacists in their soceity is the reason you think they are more trouble than Nigerians/African girls then you are far from reality.

I might not leave in abroad now. But that does not mean I can't be informed about them.

Therefore speaking from just TV shows or fairytales. I have said this before, I have many family members. Not one, not two, not even four, who married white women. And are all leaving peacefully with them.

An uncle of mine who went to China for a business, fell in love with a Phillipina there. Brought her back to Nigeria and married her.

Things went sour shortly, even before she gave birth but the young lady stayed with him during thick and thin and that is leaving in a single room, with a public toilet, with 4 kids which she later gave birth to. shocking right!

But today the table has turned. He is so blessed right now that he not only lives in Maitama, Abuja. but owns a house there. I don't need you to believe this. Only God will bear me witness on this.

One thing he told my mum was that our thought about most White girls is not what it is. That his mindset changed when he visited China and philliphine.

Why I'm I telling you this? The soceity has made us to believe that whites girls are more troubles than we think. Just like you clearly stated, which from my recent research and real live experiences, it is false!

And please when you want to engage in this "arguement" not a conversation anymore please stop mentioning Americans, don't even mention U.K as a whole. They are not in my list of dream countries. I am not the "follow the public type." I am the unique type who have preferences.

Does supremacists exist? The answer is yes and I can point out countries that are supremacists in nature. Not all. They ain't even up to 10% of the white p0pulation.

Look, I can do this all day but I believe time should be spent for other things. But if you still think you have a point and not baseless arguemens, then drop them. I will counter them.

Peace be with you.

Danisaint112:
You are kind of funny person. And lie twister too. Very good in twisting an already said lie. The fact I just observed.

What did you mean when you said;
"shame on my parents for teaching me the foolishness that they are Better than me?"

You know I was waiting for you to also defend that part with another lie as usual but you didn't hoping I won't remember. And that's because you clearly stated they are fools.

You know I was also waiting for you to drop a point on why you think they (the whites) come with more troubles than Nigerian/African girls but you didn't. Instead you only try to use the things I said to attack me. Which makes you even more pointless.

My stand has always been that this things are everywhere but you believe it more with the whites. Because you are African and probably a woman.

And for you to say you have no business reading about the Korean Lifestyle, shows you are ignorant. A wise person will read and then counter my points or be educated.

Lastly, I made no mistake saying you have understanding issues. You trully do

Cause if you don't, you will definitely know I was trying to say the whites get you more expensive and valuable gifts than most Africans if they feel you deserve it. Must I say it direct before you understand

You are probably speaking from stories but I'm speaking from real life experience. You never made any point since the beginning of this conversation other than use what I said to to attack me.

why am I even replying you. You know what? Goodluck with your mentality. And I won't reply you again whether or you make a point or say shit. Nature/life will educate you someday.

Adios!

Danisaint112:
I wonder how the wife would feel knowing he had sex with her Aunt. End time.