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Danisaint112:
From what you just penned down it seems you are very good at lying. And that is without even considering the embarrassment if being proved wrong.

Firstly, I replied with you with a laugh emoji without any form of anger or the use of harsh word.
Telling someone to change their mentality is not an insult. It simply means think the other way round or think about something from two sides.

While you were busy telling me how me and my parents need to be unbrainwashed by a psychiatrist ( meaning both I and my parents are fools), you went on to say shame on them for teaching me the foolishness that they are Better than me (Now clearly stating they are fools), lastly, you told me not teach my kids the nonsense they taught me.

And after all this, you have the impetus to type; "I am the one who got emotional?" I mean, if you can't analyze and comprehend "your own statement" is it mine that you will be able to?

You know I have heard enough reason to loose it. i.e insult the hell out of you. Because you have insulted my parent not once but multiple times.

But I have decided to keep my cool not because I don't know what to say but because I believe it always better to have a sane discussing than a lousy one engulfed with hate. Which in many cases people don't learn anything from.

At first it was just too hard for you to comprehend I was trying to say my parents was once on the same page with you. It seems you have understanding problem though.

Oh yes! I don't know most Nigerian girls but there is something we call "mentality" which I have always emphasized on. And it goes with a community, tribe/race, a country and sometimes even a continent.

Go and read about the hard and underserved lifestyle of the North-Koreans because of their mentality before you reply me again.

But before I leave you, let me drop one of the numerous mentality of Nigerian women in form a question;

When last did you see a Nigerian woman buy her husband a car?

I'm sure you are cracking your brain right now. Well that because most Nigerian women feel their husband or Nigerian men don't deserve it. This is almost same with all African women.

But with the whites, it's a norm. As long as they love you, you treat them right, and they have the money, they would get you one for you without minding the consequences.

But for Nigerian women even if they love you and have the money to do so they would feel it is waste of money.

Instead! Opt for the normal boxers and singlet or perfume. LMAOBut this time around they would tell you they bought if from Gucci stores.

The reasons you hear about white girls buying cars for their husband sometimes even lover is because they bought an expensive car. But trust me I have friends in abroad who attest to the fact that it is a norm over there.

Now that is one of the numerous reasons why I might not marry a Nigerian woman.
Note: I might not. Not that I won't. If you can remember I said even if I would I will do so from my state or maybe from my tribe and that is if she posses the qualities I want in a woman.

Again read the history of the North-Koreans and their sufferings today because of their p. I think with that you will have a deep understanding of the word mentality and why one o change the#4ir mind about engaging in something if it is not suitable with them.

#1. What lie did I tell and what did you prove me wrong about?

#2 Who are you to tell me to change my mentality about white girls being more troublesome than you can imagine when I know this to be a fact?

#3 I never said your parents were fools those words came from you, I said you and your parents need to be un-brainwashed by the notion that getting a white is a prize, something YOU said was brainwashed into your brain ever since you were kids by your parents, who were probably brainwashed by their parents.

#4 My statement was very clear, I'm sorry you lack comprehension skills. Pointing out the mistake of your parents isn't an insult to them it's just pointing out a mistake, there's no need to lose your mind up in here.

#5. You are now saying you were trying to say that your parents were on the same page as myself but that isn't what you stated, don't take it out on me because you have a problem articulating.

#6. The lifestyle and mentality of the North Koreans aren't my concern so I will pass on that.

#7. What part of the western world are white women buying cars for their husbands, I assure you it isn't the US unless the money belongs to her husband from the jump? Your friend isn't being honest with you.

FYI that car purchased for the husband belongs to both of them if they are in the US, besides, you should be able to buy your own car and not depend on a woman. That's a sorry excuse not to marry your own women.

Cousin9999:
She's wrong for dating a teenager.

Don't 25 year old men date 18 year old teenage girls all of the time?

She has taken good care of herself, she looks, about 40. She has good skin.

Danisaint112:
Wow! Just wow! So much anger and rage. What part of the post got you angry? Because it seems you read to attack and not to understand. I would assume it is the "change your mentality part."

First question; Did you see me write directly or indirectly "my parent taught me to value the white over we Africans?"

Second question; How did I put Nigerian women In a bad light? I don't like the character and mentality of most of them. How is that painting Nigerian women in bad light?

You actually have no point but just felt replying me was necessary. You should read well next time rather than letting your emotions get a hold of you.

1. WOW!!! Why must you people always assume someone is angry because they debunk something you posted?

2. I asked you "why do you guys always seek white girls when you aren't interested in Nigerian girls?" I said "there are other women besides them" I said "Marrying a white girl isn't a prize" and you responded "That's what our parents has brainwashed us with ever since we were kids but I have grown wiser."

3. Regarding Nigerian women, you stated "I don't like the character and mentality of MOST of them" when there's no way you could know MOST of them which makes your statement invalid. I stated that white girls can be more trouble than you can imagine, a statement you didn't like.

You then began to go on a rant and stated "I should change my mentality because people could be troublesome everywhere" which is true including white people.

I found it odd that you could post that in the defense of white girls while complaining about the character and mentality of Nigerian women when other women can have the same faults especially the girls you were defending.

4. It seems you are the one who got emotional because I posted something you didn't agree with. You should read my comments without letting your emotions take over you, next time just take a few deep breaths and ponder what I stated before replying to me. It really is that simple.

Danisaint112:
That is what our parents have been brainwashing us with ever since we where kids. It's like the saying which says;
If you drink coconut water your brain will block.

I am wiser now. There are some Nigerian women you will marry and they won't bring only trouble but hell to you right here on Earth.

I hold nothing againt Nigerian women. But I am not marrying them and one of the numerous reasons is they ain't just my taste. And even if I should marry one. It would only be from my state.

Lastly, you need to change your mentality there are good people, bad people, troublesome people and people that brings trouble everywhere.

You know you have a nerve to tell me to change my mentality about white people while you put Nigerian women in a bad light and put others at such high standards. You and your parents need to be un-brainwashed by a pychiatrist.

To quote you "There are good people, bad people, troublesome people and people that bring trouble everywhere" including white people. Shame on your parents for teaching you the foolishness that they are better than you.
Lastly, when you have children don't teach them the nonsense that your parents taught you because it's a false narrative and a disgrace to you and your children.

wunmi590:
Some people are still in massive debt as we speak due to their wrong move just to impress people who will just eat their rice and spray them only 1k and japa

SanctifiedSista:
So a man should turn 50 before he marries because he is saving up for it or the parents should give d woman to the man for free because he claims he loves her
Abeg, if ur woman is not worth taking a loan to do d right thing, rest..marriage is for men not boys unugo

So are you saying the women are a commodity to be bought and sold to the highest bidder (sounds like a form of slavery?) Having a big wedding doesn't equate to doing it right. A wedding is for one day, a marriage is supposed to last a lifetime and that's where the funds should be invested, by both parties.

Monogamy:
Love your woman? Should people even borrow money for wedding to start with not to talk of loans.

So a guy has means of getting loans all this while and he couldn't take the loans earlier for business that would yield profits to fund the wedding..But waiting until the wedding time to take loams..

Such person can never be responsible in that marriage cos after the wedding, fresh bills would pile up .

And let's look at it this way, someone taking loans for wedding means such person never ready for marriage.. Are there no plans for future?

Must people even do elaborate wedding self if it's something they can't afford comfortably?

Some people are in love with the idea of a flamboyant wedding than the actual person they are marrying or even the marriage itself. These kind of people live to impress others

wunmi590:


Loan for wedding?

Some people do it and are still paying the money until now....

Myself and my wife saved up our money togther in a separate bank account, that's how we were able to fund our wedding....

Infact we even shifted wedding when we discovered that the required money is not upto our targeted budget (though we have not printed/announced date then)...

I no fit dey pay gbese after people don chop free food finish go their house

Imagine still paying a bank loan for a wedding years after a couple has divorced. Don't do it people, just save your money for the wedding.

SportsHD:
Why can't they both take loans? Must it always be the dude?

If a couple has to take a loan to pay for a wedding they aren't ready for marriage. It would be wise to have a nice humble wedding and invest any extra funds into a home or the future.

neyoohhh:
You're correct again sir. Notice I'm not one of those stupid Nigerian's who worship them. I completely understand the nature of the beast but my location limit's me to them.

The Nigerian girl's I'm seeing everywhere online are completely irresponsible and doing all those things we hate about oyinbos probably worse, and ontop they're extremely selfish.

So i don't really know where things are headed but will stick with what brings me peace for now.

Ok, you're not happy with the Nigerian women you have been involved with, cool, but there are other/better women out there other than those over sexed creatures that you find yourself obsessed with.

Danisaint112:
Na white girls dey trend now and go trend forever. The thing is find your soul mate amongst them. If you don't have but love them, pray to God to give you a wife among them.

Forget that mentality of they wouldn't love you or follow you down here if you ain't rich. Na lie. Don't also think your kids will be gone because of divorce.

If they truly love you and you remain faithful, hardworking with a vision they would stick with you till the end. I speaking from the experience of family member I know.

God knows I am not marrying a Nigerian girl. I just don't like their style and Their mentality no be here.

So you don't want to marry a Nigerian woman, there are other women you can marry. Why must the woman always have to be white for you guys? Marrying a white is not a prize, they bring more trouble than you can imagine.

neyoohhh:
I know that and you're totally correct.

Even fckd a complete racist before believe it or not, but when you find the right one damn ur life becomes easy.

I'm not even sure what I'll do with the current one bec i don't want inter racial kids... But she's good good ..

"She's good" do you mean sexually? How will your life become easier by being with one of those creatures? What can that creature offer you that your fellow woman can't offer you? Yes, be mindful of who you procreate with because biracial children of whites mothers usually end up loathing their black side.

BigDawsNet:
Father Lord thank you.. I'm close to tie the knot with my white partner....

God bless all who wanna follow that path

SMH!!

neyoohhh:
I've been with so many of them, sexcapades etc, currently with one, so I know bro.

You having sex with these creatures means nothing.

onyenatruchi:
Congratulations guy, you dodge a bullet if na Yoruba woman you go marry now how your children go look like who your children go resemble your children for resemble what i don't know

What makes you think his children will look any better just because he will procreate with a white? I'm sure his children would be more healthy and better looking if they were black. Your post reeks of self hatred.

neyoohhh:
If she's in love and dating outside of the race, trust me, she would sacrifice more than your average black woman including stupid feminism ideals.

You're wrong, I know them better than you do, you only glorify them from afar but your glorification of them is only in your head, its not reality.

neyoohhh:
Correct!

They will cook, clean, give you everything. Drop feminism, adapt to your culture , disregard any societal implications for marrying out of the race.

Albeit they're still the most racist.. hard pill to swallow.

Black women are the most non compromising females on planet earth.

Lol White girls created feminism and will never give up their feminist ideology.

zinizta:
The girl is fine

Lol

Chloraseptic:
Middle east or not they are Asian s

How are they Asian when the Middle East is actually part of the African continent only changed by the arrogance of white men?

Chloraseptic:
I just don't like Asians or anything that comes from it..

I'd rather live and die here than migrate to that side of the world..

Forgive me Lord if this sounds like a hate speech

Modified why are people quoting me to tell me Syrians are not Asians.. What would you call people from a country in Asia.

Syria/The Middle East is a part of the African Continent, the British called it the Middle East in 1900.