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Datboredberry:
Nope... Just an idiot...

Dating someone of a different race = worshipping the race?

And we wonder why Black Americans are amongst the most slowest, dependent group... Too lazy too think...

But you hate whites... So what did I expect...

You can have a black cọck in every hole, doesn't make you any less of the ghetto hoe the black men in your community would leave to be with a decent white girl... Aren't they the ones jumping on the interracial wagon?

Rude, frustrated, imbẹcile who thinks she deserves to be worshipped for being a Black American... Sore loser...

Africans are the least of your problem you self-righteous, despicable cụnt...

You're not dating him. What a dumbass.

Datboredberry:
From the pro-black, you sure are nasty to fellow blacks... I know it makes you feel a high and mighty... But black people who are so judgemental even though they contribute nothing to the lives of others, blacks who use racial slurs on people who look like them, black people who are so obsessed with race- nothing more than degenerate scums...

I'm a coon, great... Alteast, I'm not some bitter lowlife who thinks she better for hopping on black cọcks...

How about you turn your sick attention to your community... It's obvious how must of you are gonna live and die single... Go preach to those niggers... Maybe one might contemplate getting stuck with your aggressive, ghetto self.

I'm Pro-black, I could never be Pro-COON.

femi4:
Community VjJ..you are sighted

LMAO

Datboredberry:
Are you daft? Or you're just Nairaland's popular frustrated African American here with a different moniker...

I mentioned his race for one reason... Since i stated that he's from Colombia, everyone guess correctly the he's white... Because of that, they dp not believe he's real... That's why I made a point that no one should fixate on his race...

Secondly, are you too stupid to understand written English... Did you read what i wrote before commenting like the bitter rẹtard you've proven to be... I said I love him for his personality... Did i once mention that I do for his skin?

Thirdly, if I had said he's black or African, would you be here spewing your hate...

I know you think it's such a big deal to date someone who's white... And you're too dumb, you think it equates to worshipping his race...

But take this racist Ignorance somewhere else... Okay?

He's white... It's a part of him I wouldn't change... As much as my skin is a part of me...

You can either go Bleep yourself or hug a transformer...

He's not your boyfriend, he has his white girlfriend with him you're just a stu.pid COON trick that he's playing with. He'll never visit you and he will never send for your black ass either.

Datboredberry:
Don't be stupid... Didn't I mention that his race isn't important?

If dating someone of a different race, equates with worshipping them... That's your dumbass opinion... And you can shove it a foot up your behind...

If his race wasn't important why did you mention it?

Imagine being obsessed over someone you have never met simply because he's not African/Black.

How about I take a bat and shove it up your AfriCOON ass.

Okiemute101:
This is the one we know... Every Girl child must avoid inappropriate dressing at home & Mothers have a big role to play. When they will allow their children wear rubbish seductive clothes at home.

what a shame to the family.

Shut the hell up and stop putting the blame on others. That filthy, dirty, savage is the blame for all of this, even if she stood in front of him naked there shouldn't be any sexual reaction from him if he was a normal human being.

Your logic is the same as putting the blame on a woman for being raped.

Your logic also tells me what you would do to your own daughter.

Datboredberry:
I'm so excited!!! I just need to create this thread to kinda cool down...

I absolutely love my boyfriend, and I'm obsessed with him...

He's the sweetest person on this entire planet and he's the most caring... And I'm madly in love with him... I wish everyone here would find a perfect partner... As I have found him!

My boyfriend is from Colombia... And damn! They sure do make 'em romantic in Latin America...

He's always sending the cutest messages! He's so good with compliments... And they aren't cheesy... He's so sincere and genuinely concerned about me and my life...

He's sad that he's gonna spend the new year without me... Somebody should sponsor my trip to Colombia!!!

To unite star-crossed lovers!

I'm planning to travel next year... But I can't wait!!!!

I wish there was someone to talk to... Before I explode! I'm so happy... But most of you are joy-less, negative beings who do not understand love...


Modified: the haters have arrived...

Firstly, he's as real as any of you...

Secondly, his race isn't important... But his personality... Of all the white and black men I've dealt with, he's the absolute best!

Thirdly, those who'll try to dampen my happiness can go hug a transformer!


I'm still gleeful though!

The worshipping of non-blacks never ends with AfriCOONS especially NIGGERians. SMH!!!!!

Icouldhave:
Hi all

We the children have sat my dad down and talked to him, to the extent we are tired, how can an old man at this stage in life still fornicating.

Money we sent to him for his upkeeps, he is using it to feed another man's children. several times my mom have seen vega 200 in his pockets during laundry.

The annoying thing is this woman he is frolicking with is a known area miscreant, I don't know if he's jazzed or it's something else.

A man at this age is not supposed to have sexual urge, besides while he was young he didn't do like this.

(no insults on my dad please, we respect him, he did alot for us his children both male and female)

Please how do we the children handle this issue?

Your dad might be emotionally cheating which is much worse than the physical aspect. How do your mom treat him, is she affectionate towards him?

Datboredberry:
I'm sorry... Others might not agree but I believe suicide is an option... I've been there... It's a choice... But I'll tell you the simple truth, we're all gonna die... Why rush it?

But if you choose to quit,do it painlessly... ♡

Stupid ass advice!!!

Not only is this not news worthy but the COON has unknowingly embarrassed herself by using the name Schwarzenegger. Niggerians can be such Foolish People!!!!

abbey621:
You don't fear the man, you fear what he represents. You fear losing the comfort, losing the affection, you fear having a broken home. All these are valid fears when you have done something unthinkable like cheating, violence etc. Same goes for men, when they get caught cheating, they start fearing their wife's reaction, would she file for a divorce, report to parents, etc?

Nigerian men don't fear their Nigerian wives because they know she won't leave him when he cheats. The most she'll do is nag him and fight the side piece.

madjune:
A lot is wrong with we Africans, more especially Nigerians.
It may have to do with upbringing or long running poverty.
Most of the times, our women who were rescued and brought over abroad tend to bite the hand that helped them.
There are lots of stories, unheard, which will shock any listener.
I know of an Uncle who sent his wife and kids abroad, to join them later. From Nigeria, he paid their rent in US for 10 years or more and when he eventually joined them; the woman said she was done.
She kicked him out and now, the man is picking up a new life well in his 60s.

You can't expect a married couple to be apart for 10 years and remain the same.

Curiouscity:
When you paint this type of picture, it gives a false generalization that any man whose wife has driven him away from home is guilty of domestic violence, or cheated or refused to help in house chores. There abound many who are not in above category, but are treated worse.
True, many marriages of Nigerians are doing well in the Western world, but some greedy Nigerian women are taking advantage of the system to show the bad side. Not as a response to bad treatment, but out of greed and sheer wickedness.

A Warri guy got married to a Warri babe. They guy supported the babe to finish her PhD, while he developed a bakery business. The lady joined him in the business after her PhD. As they were expanding, the lady demanded that the guy give her the recipe, so he can share with her family back home. The guy refused. Trouble started. As I type, she has taken the bakery and ejected the guy. Bar the guy from seeing the 2 kids they have together. The guy left empty handed. But she is busy telling people that the guy left her.

I have other sad examples of sheer greed and wickedness. Not in all cases is it always the man's fault.

Are you saying when the wife comes to the west to be with her husband she start treating him like the awful way he treated her in Nigeria?

Yankee101:
You have no single idea of the abuses Asians face abroad. Especially women, but they have a culture of silence, stoicism, and being demure. If you don't want problems the mantra here is go and get an Asian wife.

Latinx are the biggest law breakers of any immigrant population in America. That's what Trump used to campaign to win elections.

So go back and recheck your facts. And Nigerians are one of the most successful group of immigrants here.

Nigerians are also failures here.

abbey621:
In this life everything na 50% planning 50% blessing. I no date my wife for up to 6 months before I decided to marry her. Brought her to the USA and aside from the normal arguments between couples, no wahala whatsoever, it's been over 5 years now. The greatest advice here is to ask yourself, who does the woman fear or respect? Look at her upbringing, her religious inclination, her views on life and family.

It's quite simple, any woman can mess up for any reason, it is a combination of hormones and nature, the key here is what exactly pulls her back to normalcy? Her parents? God? Love for her kids? Love for her husband? If her motivation is money, clout, fame etc, sooner or later the little love that she has for you would poof and disappear, she would find every reason to leave or destroy you from 30 seconds man to woman beater. Abroad no be 9ja where gra gra works, over here you must operate in stealth mode, never ever put all your eggs in one basket. Even tho you love your wife with all your heart, always have savings/assets set aside for the worst case scenario.....May God help us all!

No wife should ever fear her husband, love and respect him, but never be with a man that you fear.

Aaronsrod:
I have read this Bible passages.

Genesis 2:18. It states that woman is a companion, a helper, a 'helpmeet' - that is to say a servant to man. Not an equal!

A helpmate, companion do not equate to servant. Some people read the Bible (if they read it at all) with a lack of comprehension skills.

Aaronsrod:
Read your Bible!

Women must do as their husbands command. This is why wives should not go abroad with us. They will claim 'freedom' and 'equality' under oyinbo satanic system.

We cannot maintain domestic discipline in a land without God's Law.

Yah doesn't tell men to mistreat their wives. Stop using the bible as an excuse for your barbaric behavior. Imagine thinking you have the right or even capable of disciplining a grown woman. She's your wife not your child.

Aaronsrod:
What is this one saying? The Bible tells us a husband must rule over his wife.

Ephesians 5:24. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

What does sharing the house chores have to do with ruling over another?

Biggers82:
Impregnate her frist
And don't tell her since you are taking your drugs because you carry your hand make yourself mad so that you can join Big boys level you don see am now as God take bless you now.

Just do as I tell you then try to avoid misbehaving sha

Dude 397, please do not listen to foolish advice. Op, you can't solve a problem by creating another.

Newboss:
Don't be a mad man and a simp. Don't tell her nothing.

I'm so sick of people like you throwing around the word SIMP out of context, what does simp have to do with this situation?

Babara1994:
At least she is better than most Nigeria ladies. I hope to marry my own

Your own what?

Disgusting pig with no morals.

Lollittaa:
She wasn't average looking. Her features were very attractive. Don't know about her persona. And how did you know she was a size D and not a double D or a C?

I know she was a size D because she advertised it in interviews. There wasn't anything special about her features, but they were obsessed over her facial mole and the "sexy" way she spoke, which was fake.

theTranscriber:
was Marilyn Monroe not beautiful?

Beauty is subjective and to me she was not.

A bunch of useless, greedy lowlife people. SMH at Nigerians commiting crimes all over the planet. The shame of Africa and the diaspora.

BeardedMeat:
Is she more beautiful than Remi Tinubu? But still..

She wasn't beautiful at all, that's why I was confused. She was an average looking white girl who white men propped up because they found her dumbness (which was only an act, she was smart) and her D size breast and blonde hair to be extremely sexy.

Mercychen:
Na so!

Dear Bride, don't be deceived. If you like look like Marilyn Monroe, men will still be men. Cheating flows naturally in their blood.

So don't fall for your father in-laws bull crap.

Marilyn Monroe?

TheMohican:
the one you posted works in the warehouse oga, the former probably works in Management or IT or even analytics.

AMAZON does more than supply-chain, they are big players in Cloud computing services and have alot of subsidiaries in a lot of industries..

the warehouse position is equivalent to a menial job (not exactly, but kinda)..

the other is equivalent to a tech or management job...

the difference plenty no be here

secondly

@kiasa

the job security for an office job would exceed that of a warehouse gig, considering the training and level of education required..

for me ohh, this story is motivating, that a nigerian who graduated from a Nigerian Uni is working in the top leagues, probably without doing "who you sabi" the ususal story we get is that you'll see Nigerian Ph.D holders sweeping streets in New York or doing menial jobs in the U.S.

no do bad belle because say na Igbo person dey make the moves.. no be una wan do one Nigeria..

Being a manager at Amazon isn't a great achievement, and Amazon mistreats it's employees.

dollynnn:
Beauty with brains
Ibos making us proud since the 90's

Where's the beauty?

This is no biggie, Amazon hires and fires people everyday in the warehouse and the office, especially during this pandemic.

osazuwa23:
i have tasted naija food from black americans and it doesnt come close to when a naija or african women make it.. i live in america i am around black americans 24/7 as that it the black majority group here and i have black american realitives.

Just because you live around some Black Americans doesn't mean you know and have tasted most black Americans cooking.

You said BA are stingy, why do you think they should give to you just because you're African, who are you going to?

Some of you Nigerians can be even more ignorant as the whites

endsarrrs:
Exactly. People like Siofra are just being over reative with highvoltage $tupidity in their brain.

The title said American, there are multiple races of Americans other than white.