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LeeSmart:
Oga stop capping, you and i know if she's your woman you won't even think for a second of settling down with her. The only thing that made u said so is because of the immoral things you guys will be doing together and nothing more sir.
At the end you will leave her for one innocent man to repair the damage you have done.

My apologies if i was rude/harsh🙏

Amykim:
😂😂😭

callmetade:
They call him Asake Omo ologo lameda

But wait o which one be DJ snake again o, I'm not surprised sha if we can have DJ chicken why not snake too

Cum4me:
No matter how you try to conpont it. Small DK is never a game changer. Imagine a man with 2inc tiny erected DK. You can't drive her it's like an empty space

joseph1832:
Correction: a single mother can never raise a son or a daughter properly. The presence of a man can never be overstated in marriage, never.

Lastmankc:
I promise one marriage,the way she's just opening her legs for me.I am even afraid.I wanted marrying her, but she have a bad temper.

Thundafireseun:
I pity the person that wants to date my baby mama… the person will surely see banza Dan buruba Shege

Mcreloaded:
You are very very right it's more easier to raise a son by a single mother compared to raising a daughter, but if there is no strong discipline when a single mother raises a son then ur guess is as good as mine.
Mind you not all single mothers are damaged goods as I have seen some single mothers who went through he'll to be a good single mother. Circumstances can do a lot of damage and you can't necessarily blame the mother.

NotSidestory:
wow thanks seems you are a psychologist.

Alphafarms:
Not true, go to South West and see young (men) graduate leaving school without jobs getting married, they will tell you is God that train children

ajalawole:
she refuse every attempt bro. She always say she wasn't ready. Her dad was the mean reason she leave my place, her dad have 4wives so he hardly stay at home and I don't know him, but I know her mum very well, her mum entrust her to me because I get her job where I was base... When her dad find out she was with me, the dad started to bring up issue and threatened to send the mother packibg that was how she went back the the village. I went to the village to ask for her hand in marriage, her mum told me my ex should be the one to tell her dad that she is ready for marriage because "baba Loni Omo" (father owned the child)... I do everything for her, but I have to let her go when it seems am forcing myself on them

ajalawole:
I was thinking same. Who will even get married at 23yrs... At that 23 er should be in uni.. Which parents will leave their 20yrs old daughter to get married at that age.

LeeSmart:
Lol funny brother. Got admission at 17 and graduated at 21 while wifey was in 200lvl she took in and gave birth to our beautiful daughter and the following year we got married.
My family is too exposed to force someone into getting married sir.

ajalawole:
I will be 40 in 2yrs and am not even in any relationship by now,even tho my ex stay with me early 2020 lockdown and she stay 8month. Her staying make me learn alot, you have to be patient with woman in marriage, you can't control them anyhow, if they say no just listen.. My ex was teaching then, during lockdown she will gather kids in my area into my apartment to teach them, and some woman don't want to spend there own money, the only thing my ex do was filling our gas when my ATM card was having issues. She get Married this year tho. She should be 35yrs by now

LeeSmart:
23 while wifey was 20

Keepamsafe:
When I bumped into this thread and stumbled on her comment and how proud she was displaying she married a weak man. I shook my head in disappointment.



Women naturally are highly sexual beings. A woman in her pure state that loves a man, will Fvck the shit out of him. Only his presence makes her wet.

But here you can see this married woman as she said she is, weaponizing sex to a so called husband. Lol. I don’t pity the man. Shes lucky she married a pushover.

NO WIFE OF MINE WILL TRY SUCH WITH ME.

Imagine your wife coming out to say such trash and boldly for that matter.

Puke

marlow1962:
Let that man go, he doesn't deserve the suffering he's in all in the name of marriage.
You don't want to give it to him, when he's feed up and goes out, you begin to cry.

spiceadole:
And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

Starz825:
Still doesn't give leverage

After you choose to marry her, she will still decide when and how to give the cooochie

WantsandMore:
If a married woman discovers her man distancing, she should treat him to steamy sexual desires and intercourse... Men are like little kids, a little candy and you see big wild smile 😄

Nnakatsan:
I was talking to a friend recently and she opened up about something that shocked me.

She said her husband had changed… less attention, less affection, always on his phone.

At first, she thought it was just stress. But over time, the distance became obvious.

What struck me was this — nothing “big” had happened.
No fight. No major issue.
Just slow emotional and physical disconnection.

It made me realize something…
Most marriages don’t break suddenly — they fade quietly.



I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately, especially how attraction and effort change after marriage.

For those who are married — what do you think causes this?