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What I can't understand is this: she pour you petrol you stand make she carry spark too and light am. I don't understand how she did it without tying him or giving him something to weaken him first. cos no man will see danger and remain rooted. Now she will suffer the consequences

Kobojunkie:
It does not matter what gender initiates or inflicts abuse on the other; abuse is abuse. 🥱🥱🥱

2. I assume I am talking to a sane human being here. Why would a person treat another person right if that individual treats them bad? How is the victim in this case to be considered an abuser? 🥱🥱🥱

3. If you don't want to put a ring or whatever the legit contract may be, what happened to moving on? Why does telling you that abuse is wrong a reason for you to think that women then ought to open their legs to you just because? Again, I am responding here cause I expect I am conversing with a sane individual.

4.. Marriage/relationship is transactional, but that in no way provides justification for that which is instead abuse/manipulation which always takes an emotional/physical/mental/financial toll in the partner that is the victim.

Abuse is abuse. Good.

On point

JackDaAlienz:
I don't understand why after sex I feel uncomfortable and want to discharge the girl.

The more I see her, the more I feel uncomfortable.

I just want the girl to go immediately after we are done. Is something wrong with me?

Nothing wrong with you. She has served her purpose. If she's a girl that has more to her apart from ponmo you would have engaged the other sides and discovered more about her but then a large majority of them are empty birds nests. Nothing else but ponmo. So it's normal not to want her around until konji hits again

Bill him an outrageous amount you know he won't be able to afford and watch him struggle to get it just for fun. I try to pay people in the same currency but with 10000% interest

Lol good man 😅
They will cheat on anyone good or bad.

As a man the best thing you can do for yourself and society is always let a 304 be a 304. I learnt this as a youngster and it has always helped me till date. Never bother advising or try to change her. Just ride along the wave same way you met her and leave her there. Shiii gets crazy when you as a man starts thinking "I can change her" or "she will get better with time". Bro she's not changing anything and she will only get better opweying about. Don't stress about it. Leave her exactly where you met her.

Don't hurt yourself in the long run thinking you found a diamond in the rough.

Kobojunkie:
We are talking facts, not private delusions here.

Men who marry women only to financially, physically, mentally, or emotionally abuse them have no love but detest for such women. Men who cheat on their wives — a form of abuse because the woman is denied the right to consent to an act that could lead to her physical and emotional harm— do not do so out of love but hate. Yes, humans only abuse that which they detest/hate. And men who do these things do not love but hate their wives. (Here, I use the words hate/detest as the opposite of love, or in a milder tone, indifference.)

2. If a woman first needs to treat a man a certain way before the man can be expected to show her love, then that man is abusive since he manipulates her by providing her love only when she does as he wants That is not love but hate(or, in milder language, a form of indifference to the emotions and well-being of that individual) as well. If you don't love a woman, leave her and go find yourself a woman you can love without all the abuse and manipulation tactics.

But women say and use that all the time. Only treat him like a king if and when he treats you right, only do such and such when he puts a ring on it. A woman's love to a man is always transactional. I'm glad even women are starting to agree they're the greatest manipulators and can never truly love. Thank you very much 😊

This is crazy

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I hope it's not onlyfans. But then a girl at 17 shouldn't be living alone. She's going to get hit by lots of shiii she won't be able to fully grasp. The mother was wrong too no matter what, you don't speak negatively into your kids lives. Wish her well no matter what

So if you have the option of dating one of these guys, Nairaland ladies just pick one. And if they're being honest the soulmate no go see even remnants date

It's why I use only sensodyne multi action. Tasteless and smooth. Feels like I visit the dentist every morning, all day freshness. Not all these toothpastes that leave your breath feeling funny after a while and can easily be faked

I thought she's moved on? What is she still concerned about the man?

PROPHETmichael:
Anytime you hear them used the word "narcissist" just know say na dem be that.

And "Toxic"

UkoAnnang:


Like the ex-husband man said, she has gotten all that she wanted. She's now and independent woman. There's always a story to cover up when they decided to leave

Men be careful, don't let a woman use you for her personal gain

There's always about 3 options to that btw

This one too na pastor abi?
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tanigororo:
Even the sex she had with you is to their advantage, she is not doing you any favours by sleeping with you

I swear. She's using you as a tool to pleasure herself. Abeg make I face work leave NL this morning. Woman wahala isn't for me

marlow1962:
Just have enough sex as you like and keep your peace. All this relationship thing is total BS.

Not saying you shouldn't watch out for the one that truly loves you and wants to be with you, but never be the nice guy

Never! Women can forgive anything but that. You will smell pepper 😜

Iceberg3:
What is happening to nairaland nahhhh

I thought it was only me till I saw your comment

Seun and his team have finally destroyed Nairaland. I can't even understand what I'm seeing anymore. It's like the CSS edit has gone sideways

BATified2023:
hope u know Benin people never denied being Yoruba n Yoruba is widely spoken in Benin?

Who be this wan? You want to start your baseless lies again? Bini is bini and Yoruba is Yoruba. We are not the same as it's obvious to even a little child. No talk wetin go turn you to Christmas hen finally

ariesbull:
I was thinking that _ Ronuists said that Benin and Yoruba are one ..why are they rejecting their Iyaloja stuff

Now you know better

Kimo21:
Dear Seun…good evening and kudus on some little changes. But Abeg Ehn this dark mode be like say person Dey shrine. Try make am like Reddit own. T for thanks

Lol

Later some unwashed mouths will be blaming small Yahoo boys for spoiling the country outside while praising/worshipping their looter lords and masters with same unwashed mouths and thick tongues. Something when done bajè since 1986

So Charlie was a believer? After all those things? Lol this game is a lot deeper than it seems 😁

EponObi:
"Slip of tongue" kwa?

Na slip of tongue make you carry your 17 year old kid to a night club? Aside the alcohol, you sure know what goes on in there. You are only a step away from pimping her.

Where's the father in all of this? May our children never lack the presence of strong father figures in their lives.

She's separated from the father and is already been primping that child.

Ourtruth247:
The compass and the square

Many years ago while exploring the subject of freemasons, I noticed how weird their symbol was. The symbol was a compass and a square(the tools in our mathsets back in secondary school) with a G in the middle, signifying the great Architect. Why pick such a symbol and why did a secret society like the freemasons obsess over Architecture to the point of making architectural tools their symbol

Another thing that confused me was the name Freemasons. I wondered what it meant; did it mean that those members of this secret society were masons that became free? Did it signify a chant to free the masons? Only recently did it all click

Bear in mind the free masons who I particularly refer to are the 33rd degree order; these are the guys with tentacles in various political power structures and global enterprises

I also noticed the masonic hand sign. When you look at drawings (because there aren't any photographs) of the founding fathers, you see them do those hand signs signifying that they were free masons as well

So what exactly are the freemasons and why is there name and symbol important?

The term masonry is basically stone work; structures, artifacts, architecture built with stone; could be limestone, marble, granite, concrete, brick etc. When you put the word free in front of it, then it means free stonework; free buildings; free architecture.

All of the buildings left behind by the pre-reset civilization were all stone buildings. So when you put it all together, free masons are basically founders of free architecture, hence why the founding fathers; who found these architecture were freemasons. This is also why their symbol has architectural instruments in them.

Ignorance

NiceLegs:
How much are Teachers being paid today?

I am a Geography Teacher with a Bachelors Degree in Geography and Planning. I am also a Geography WAEC Examiner (I mark Geography WAEC Exams).

This first term that started last month, I decided to go back to my passion which is teaching after a very long haitus, I sent my CV to a School Owner who was recruiting for a Geography Teacher.

Look at what the man was asking me to do.

He wants me to teach Geography along with 2 core science subjects which are Biology and Chemistry.

And he refused to state the pay.

Making it 3 Core Science Subjects. Yet hiding the pay.

No shame.

Any school that will use you, na from chat u go first know.

Some School Owners are Sadists in human form.

How do u want such Teachers to give their best in such over worked conditions?

Some School Owners will use you and use you till ur eyes fall out.

Teachers shine your eyes.

This is the problem with the Nigerian Educational system today.

I wish the government can close down some private schools.

Chai!

Natbrowny:
As for me. I do 2 things with ladies. And been friends or friendzoned aint one of them

▶️ Either we are doing business (money related)
▶️ Or we are f*cking

STRAIGHT UP

Gbamsolutely

Odidigboigbo:
It even baffles me when they called this lady Iyaloja General of Nigeria. Where, when and how did she emerged as Iyaloja of Nigeria ? Where was the election held and who elected her? To best of knowledge, the part of the country I came from, there is nothing like central Market Women Leadership likewise same in the North I grew up from.

A clear example of abuse of power