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Learn to use people amd situations to your advantage especially during war. You weren't smart enough. If I were you I would have gathered intel through the mutual "friend". First start with something trivial and watch if he's got a loose mouth or not before gradually using him to pick out information indirectly. I say indirectly because it's safer so he can't say you said such and such. Office politics is not a game you play with emotions rather you play people's emotions intelligently cos it's safer with no permanent friends or permanent enemies. Everyone is using everyone. Friendship no dey work place. Everyone came for something and they're all up to something... good or bad

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While the EFF might not be too far from the truth. African leaders have failed and are failing failures so whatever is happening now is as a result of their incompetence. We are tired of terrorism and all its vices becoming the new normal so wtv can cut the cancer off is welcome at this stage

Please don't make racist and tribalistic comments on this section

Sharpen your mind, follow your instincts as they never lie. Everyone sees those dangerous signals but some chose to ignore and pay heavily for it. I'm not talking about normal disagreements between people. There are some character traits that are pure evil but people think they're little.

Malice
Greed
Envy
Hate (unprovoked)
Unforgiving nature
Laziness
Weak mind
Pettiness
Disloyalty
Liars
Cheats
Vindictive or vengeful individuals..
When you're not careful with such people anything you see you bear am... That's if you survive it.

According to rumours she has given birth to another child for someone else... I hope it's not true sha

Marrying wrong
Wrong association
Fake friends and frienemies
No guts / lily livered and spineless
Being afraid of ops instead of fighting to establish your position....

His father failed to raise a man and whomever raised the boy raised a weakling. This is what you get being a weakling in a tough world. Whatever you do no let them kpai you. If it means going to hell to protect yourself, don't hesitate to do it. No one cares and dead men don't talk shiiiiid. It's a little over two years since he died f00lishly and still no real closure. She should move on naturally but having a baby by another man when your late husbands case is still a cold one is something but then it's their lives...

Besides obo no get metre and is always active ✅ especially for someone like her.

This hit was just an introduction

The kind of topics that make front page on this NL is just something else. Imagine the question. It's basically asking someone how to end a conversation when there are absolutely over a million ways to

Philosopher1979:
It is not stupid. There is sense in every nonsense.
To be honest your teenage love is probably the person you sould marry but it does not work out
due to circumstances. Let me explain.
As a man becomes rich and succesful, the women who like him will only be interested in his money.
Also, they do not have a natural affection for him.
Your teenage love likes you naturally. It is the one the Universe meant for you.
Also, women are the ones who choose by the ose by the laws of the universe. It is as if her heart
just wants him and it is not conditional.
This is why redpill knowledge (which people keep criticizing) is good.
That teenage love you had in your youth is actually true love. The love you get when you are older is just fake, conditional love.
See this is why women end up doing parternity fraud. They do not marry who they really love. They marry who is ready.
The affection she has is pure, natural, unaffected by money or circumstances.
Anyone she marries now will just be as a result of mere convinience and biology (menopause is an issue)

It is actually very stewwpid and your contribution made no sense at all. You're just stringing different situations and theories together that have absolutely no link with the situation on ground. Such a wonderful nonsense!

You wan use ope do retirement plan. You have already lost him. Find someone else fast. Ope is married with four kids. When they want to retire they start trying every possible move to pin the one they once rejected. Ope no gree ooh

IamAtAnger:
Una go juz dey misinterprete everything to suit una sef

The truth is bitter but it will always prevail. And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free... Deep down y'all know there's a lot of things missing but yet chose to remain blind and controlled by your oppressors.

Na time em go take Una eyes go clear

Reported missing 25th November
Body found 25th December

Are you sure someone isn't playing checkers

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First off, there's nothing hedonistic about what you put down. And secondly you expect people to be in a party/ celebration/ carefree mood all the time. Reality is practical and it's not all fun and games.

For everything there's a time and season

Double0h7:
Good morning…

I hope Christmas was awesome for you..

Good morning
Okay... Me reaching out has nothing to do with all or any of that though but I get you sha 😁

Chai... Husband dead, aged mother going through hell. Na the daughter I just dey feel for because wetin those men dey top up on daily no be small wickedness

Double0h7

Double0h7:
Nice! So, you’re waking up in your family home, eating everything edible 😂. That sounds like a fun Christmas.

I would like to experience Christmas with a family so I could just observe the going ons. I think it’s no different to other religious traditions though: prayer, family, food, fun and laughter. We humans are more alike than different.

I’m volunteering at Christmas soup kitchen today. It’s somewhere for people without family to come and enjoy a warm meal, come in from the cold, have a chat and connect with other people

Yeah. Haven't had any holiday with them since 2019 and worse is I never got to do this with my mom cos she's now gone forever.

It's no different from other religious traditions truly maybe a little different in the belief systems but then all religions are similar but I'm more on a spiritual path now. Left religion behind as it no longer serves me as I have outgrown it.

At the bold that's really sweet of you. The earth need more people with your kind of heart 🙂

Double0h7:
Are you spending the day with your family?

Same! I can’t access the email either. However, my boss won’t allow side chats in our office hours 😂. I hope you’re picking up what I’m putting down! 🤣🤣🤣

Yeah I had to travel to my home town, been a while. As for your q, I have been a bit fuzzy until now... I think yes

Double0h7:
I don’t celebrate Christmas because I’m Muslim, but thank you for the best wishes ☺️.

How are you celebrating today?

Welcome, I thought in that direction but... it's all good I'm just home chilling, eating everything and anything that comes my way. I'm only allowed this opportunity to indulge in binge eating once in a while. And I sent an email to you only to find out I cant even access the email attached to this account

Double0h7:
Kiddaz, Merry Christmas 🎄

Thank you and I wish you the best Christmas ever.... celebrate beautifully and responsibly of course

A good drainage system will solve over flooding and not sandy compounds or floors although we need more green areas in our environment but definitely not to control flooding rather to balance the natural order

Double0h7:
You’ve gotta make your way to East Africa then! The weather, food, and the people are amazing! I want to visit Rwanda someday soon and Tanzania too. Beautiful countries! So green, hot sun and cool breeze because it’s so green.

Definitely.

Double0h7:
😊

Interesting. No wonder...

All these cut and join journalism abivwetin I go qualify this to sef... No cause of death or circumstances surrounding it. So what if they died naturally

Double0h7:
In my culture a married woman doesn’t sleep anywhere but her bed. This modern day madness has levels!

I like know more... What culture?

sacajawea:
Depressing stuff.

Says there are more, it's to call them when he wants to.

So what's your business with all of that? Why are you bothered? Pained? Aggravated?

oz4real83:
I blame you for even allowing her to sleep over the weekend outside your home with a friend, no matter the friendship

When I read that part I was shocked. Even ordinary girlfriend no go bold open mouth tell me that bs talk more my lawfully wedded wife. Even if she smoke dragon shiid My presence alone go clear her doubt. The op is very weak. She's been trying it before now and she has seen she can get away with wtv.

Jerchance:
Worse still, the other guy she took all these risks for – to cheat on her husband, won't settle for her once she's divorced.

That's the funny thing in all of it. They risk it all for nothing

Double0h7:
I’ve lived here my whole life. I just let them (hormones) rage it’s only a few days a month. I don’t wake up with a woody 😂. I’ve gone 4 years during my undergraduate studies, that was my longest stint. The fear of diseases is the beginning of wisdom.

Hmm It's alright