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winningwinner:
My name is Dahe. I struggled to graduate from the university. I made first class. After that, I got a job that pays 120k per month. But there is this problem with the job. You work like the bull and hardly have time for yourself. I sometimes sleep in the office just to beat time. It's work all through from morning till night.

There is this girl that I fell in love with. She was 21 then while I was 25. She kept complaining that I always keep to myself at work without a bit of care for her. The complain and accusations kept on till I decided to listen to her. I only worked for two months and had just been paid for the second month.

I invited her over to my house in Abuja. She came, and that time she was on her final year. She came with so many books and by the look of things, she was prepared to stay longer.

As usual, workload took over every event. At midnight, my phone rang and it was my girl. I was afraid to explain anything but I told her I was coming home right away. I did. It was hell in my home. We managed to make love and slept.

The next morning, my MD called demanding my presence. My girl insisted that I call him back and ask for a break that day. I did not.

Rather, I begged her and went to work. I truly loved her and wanted to propose to her before she goes back to school. But to make her feel good and belonged, I called her on phone to break the news. I proposed to her.

My MD sent for me to ask that I work through the night again. I said no. He pleaded, but I refused. It was hard saying no, but I had no choice.

At home my girl had turned herself into a ready made wife and I regretted not proposing to her till now.
I did not go to work the next day due to the new development at home. You understand what I mean..
My MD called to vent his anger, but I was calm and my girl swore never return to me if I didn't resign from the work. I took her word and resigned.

I looked for another work to no avail. She kept servicing my bank account with lots of money. Her father is rich.
She called me and asked me to speak with her mom and after some weeks, the dad. They kept saying, "please take good care of our daughter, don't break her heart".

My girl gratuated with a 2.1 honours and I attended her graduation ceremony where I met her parents live. After some weeks, her father called me to ask me about my plans with her daughter, I did not hide anything, and he told me to act fast.

A month later, I called him to inform him of my plans to marry his daughter the coming Christmas, but only that money was the big issue. He told me to go on with my plans that he will take care of everything. I jumped at it and we wedded. He took care of everything starting from invitation card to reception.

He refurnished my house in Abuja and transferred three years rent sum to my landlord's account. He paid in advance. Our first child came, still I and my wife are jobless. My In-law takes care of us.

I wanted to be in charge of my home but the man kept interfering, making the daughter to take a contrary decision on crucial matters.

My wife no longer takes my advice, what do I do? I need your candid advice on this matter. Please help me!

MY QUESTION: Will you as a father leave your home to meddle on your daughter's own home? Why won't you allow her to build her home with her husband?

Get a job, no matter how small the pay. Stop accepting financial hand outs from her father and finally, talk to her father what you just explained here... To take charge of your home you have to take charge of it.... And that's by being a man.

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Frying pan to fire

Lol.... I love this girl and what she just did.



The fool must be a nairalander...

You call that portrait abi?

Kudos to the President...

God bless Nigeria
God bless PMG

All marriages handled by that court has been annulled... Hence.

Jealousy... He is probably babeless

Idiot

the person who wrote this has never had an unprotected sex...





sweetest thing eeever..

same teeth

Idiot

Get well soon Sir.

They will be caught.





I trust the Nigerian Police

W

Gasa84:
Am sorry to bother you guys but I need your advice.
I am from Imo state and I met my man (from Enugu state) in 2013 after my NYSC. He was not quite learned but he is hard working so I suggested he rent a house and buy a land since he can afford it, he did.

But when I started spending weekends in his house I found out that he drinks a lot, beats and insults me, telling me he can never marry someone like me, but he also takes care of me as I was unemployed then, I felt it was ignorant and kept enduring and confide in his elder brother's wife about my dilemma....

To cut long story short, I got a job in 2015 and he got very sick in 2016 so I had to let go of my job to tend to him for 2 months till he traveled for proper treatment.

After 8 months he came back told his brother that he wants to marry me but his brother said no to the extent that the brother pushed me out of his house when I came to visit him as usual...

He got sick again and was diagnosed with brain tumor , I stayed with him in the hospital till he traveled for surgery... While I was with him no one cared to come stay in the hospital as they knew I was there... I stayed in his house more than mine. After a successful surgery, his father died..

I followed him to his village cos I thought it was the right thing to do but his brothers, sisters, mother and uncles told him to send me away, I left there feeling miserable and insulted...

But he kept telling me that he doesn't want to lose me that we will keep on praying that one-day they will accept me so we can then marry.

I know he loves me... Probably because I was there with him when he was sick.... But am no more that young and I don't know what will happen later... Am afraid and frustrated....

I don't know what to do please help me out. I can explain more if u ask I am just confused and depressed. What do I do, how do I cope?

Leave him. He will find someone else and you should find someone else too... There is no way he can choose you ahead of his family.

So young.... He doesn't even know what he is protesting about.

Lagos na wah

Chai!

Today is my happy day... I hope they embarrass the shithead.

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I won't let her paint my house for free sha

justwise:
I really can not see you getting a schengen visa as a tourist with that salary. You will struggle to convince any embassy that you are a genuine tourist on that pay because that is about €130 a month.

They will not believe that you will come back to Nigeria if given a visa.

There is something I want to add but I don't want to make it public... Can we chat on Facebook pls? Arthur Jordan is my Facebook name. White top and black jacket. Pls

justwise:
1.To which country?

2. Purpose of traveling?

3. What is your profile? Do you work or run your own business?

4. Monthly income?

1. GERMANY OR BELGIUM
2. TOURISM
3. WORK
4. 70K

Drum

justwise:
Please ask your question openly here in any thread relating to your question as I don't do private phone conversation regarding visa or travel issues

I need to get a shengen visa. But I have no idea how to start. I needed you to guide me or link me up with someone who could assist me with it.... But I would really love ur guidance. Pls.

justwise:
You start counting from the day you submitted your application.


Where the decision is made doesn't matter because it wouldn't change the outcome of the application or make the waiting time shorter.

Good morning bro. Please I need ur help on some info. Please give a missed call or WhatsApp me