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Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by lecturerdabo(m): 7:16am On May 24, 2018 |
winningwinner: Yeah my guy, RUN AWAY! That's what cowards will do!! WHO EVER PAYS THE PIPER DICTATES THE TUNE!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by enabledgoddess(f): 8:32am On May 24, 2018 |
If they pay your bill then you should listen and dance to their tune. The piper decides the sound. If you want to be in charge of decision making, be in in charge of your finance. Who those that ? Your in law feeds you and you are comfortable as a man . if I pay your bill, boy you can't bulge my instructions. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by enabledgoddess(f): 8:36am On May 24, 2018 |
winningwinner: In this case, the woman is not complementing you, you have been bought , and your pride trashed. Keep quiet and listen "Mr married man without a job yet demands full respect from wife and Inlaw" 3 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by columbus007(m): 9:42am On May 24, 2018 |
op,this just like the case of who pays the piper, but i am very damn sure about your woman!that girl loves you so much,everything you own is for you. 4 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 9:49am On May 24, 2018 |
[quote author=marvelli post=67820823] talk to her. Make her understand that you feel emasculated because her dad runs the house and has a say in your every decision. Hopefully she stops telling her father personal things that way he cannot advice. That being said, your father in law is still the head of your house as long as he's still footing the bills. Please try and find a job very soon. For pride's sake. I wish you the best. [/quote ) Please don't do this I'm quite busy now but I will explain later . Tho I appreciate the person who said this but don't do it . |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 10:03am On May 24, 2018 |
Bro... I won't condemn you over what's already been done and can't be fixed short term . But you I repeat do not open up to your wife about how you feel as she could see you as weak ( that's if she doesn't already feel so ). Some have said get a job ...that's all good you need to do that . Just find a way to provide for the family . Another thing is you must never repeat never seat at home idle in her presence . If it means you need to dress up in the morning and go anywhere do that . You see the battle to get back your home is secondary to the war to get back your masculinity . You have to be a man and no bringing money doesn't make you a man to your woman . It goes deeper than that . And it all starts with your mindset . The answers you seek are online start from the www.therationalmale .com The truth will shock you but you have to change your programming . Your mind is your biggest enemy here not her father . Once your mind changes and you strive to get back your home things will start to fall in place . However , you are in for the biggest fight of your life. All the best ... Above all seek the companionship of good friends with wisdom ...I don't mean ekene by the bar who buys beer but won't give you a loan . I mean good friends who want to help you out . Just go to that site and start reading and learning . 15 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by winningwinner(m): 10:45am On May 24, 2018 |
tobianthony: Thanks so much. I am glad you're there for me. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by ImaIma1(f): 12:09pm On May 24, 2018 |
Your father inlaw is the head of your family. You invited him in when you decided to allow him assume your responsibility. The only thing he is not doing as the head of your family is sleeping with your wife. Get a job and take responsibility for your family. 9 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by lilmax(m): 12:38pm On May 24, 2018 |
My MD called to vent his anger, but I was calm and my girl swore never return to me if I didn't resign from the work. I took her word and resigned. 10 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Preciouzword: 3:23pm On May 24, 2018 |
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Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Uyi168: 5:46pm On May 24, 2018 |
enabledgoddess:..sense everywhere.. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by chimoskyg(m): 10:17pm On May 24, 2018 |
It Simply.... Manup pay your household rent |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by EmekaBlue(m): 10:18pm On May 24, 2018 |
Just sit outside every night and sing *Uwa bu pawpaw 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 10:19pm On May 24, 2018 |
winningwinner: Sissy talk Weak men everywhere in Nigeria Small.womder why the sisters have taken cheating to a whole.new level 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 10:19pm On May 24, 2018 |
does your wife have a sister, I am asking for a friend? 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by goshen26: 10:22pm On May 24, 2018 |
EliteBiz: Head kor tail no. When you depend on someone the person you depend on become lord over ur life 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by BlackHatNaija: 10:23pm On May 24, 2018 |
Dude, forget it! They bought you over from the beginning of the relationship. That's the problem with dating girls whose parents are rich. If the money was coming from her, it's kinda cool. But from the parents, you're bought for life! They will tell you they're doing it for your comfort and most importantly for the comfort of their daughter. You're in a fix seriously. You can buy your right back though but it must be when you're financial strong. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Sarah20A(f): 10:23pm On May 24, 2018 |
winningwinner:go in search of a job and stop asking silly question what do u even do all day 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by zinaunreal(m): 10:25pm On May 24, 2018 |
Dude you don cast for the marriage abeg. Youre an example of brilliance with no single intelligence. See how you allowed them invade your space with money now you want out. The only way out is divorce and prepare to go into battle about your kids. Use your brain next time 5 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by kidman96(m): 10:26pm On May 24, 2018 |
winningwinner: Get a job, no matter how small the pay. Stop accepting financial hand outs from her father and finally, talk to her father what you just explained here... To take charge of your home you have to take charge of it.... And that's by being a man. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by agbajemm(m): 10:26pm On May 24, 2018 |
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Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by otunbadan(m): 10:26pm On May 24, 2018 |
winningwinner: You lost grip when she told you to resign and you did like ode.. oga humble yourself before hunger kill you and your wife while you enter Hussle overdrive, Na watin dey kill niggers with first class, you you shun Hussle and still believe success in life is $as per it's your birthright" because of first class, you better Hussle and humble yourself and stop carrying your first class brain and certificates around and enter street. 4 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by petenweke: 10:28pm On May 24, 2018 |
Lie- lie story 2 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by luminouz(m): 10:29pm On May 24, 2018 |
This story makes me laugh out loud!!!! N yet some mofos would be looking for rich girls to marry without having a decent job.. No one respects a pussy... 3 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by WomanOfRace(f): 10:31pm On May 24, 2018 |
If l tell you l feel sorry for you eeh , call me a lier! Imagine what you are saying, you resigned, you proposed, your in-laws founded your wedding, day to day expenses. Your woman was wiring money into your account...hmmm where is the man in you ? You wanted it the easy way out and in and you got it. You have no value in her eyes the day you started dancing her music and becoming a liability to her and her family. I will suggest you suspend any ldea of having kids with her yet if you are yet to; get a job, stop collecting from her and her family...live a life you can afford and if she is not comfortable and wouldnt see reasons with you being in charge and living not above your income, then she can walk. You need to put your life together...this kind of girl will still leave you, cheat on you, and have you remain her puppet till she is done with you. A stitch in time saves nine...do not start what you cannot finish. You came to this world alone and will die alone. Love ni, love ko....respect and understanding matters. 5 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Origin(f): 10:32pm On May 24, 2018 |
Long story short...... You live in his house, eat his food, wear his clothes, spend his money.... Bros you are married to your father in law.... And as a wife you have to listen to your husband o. 11 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by sleek82(m): 10:33pm On May 24, 2018 |
Maybe you should consider travelling out of the country together with your family.....maybe a place like canada...when you get there, work your ass off to stabilise your home...work to pay the bills, even if your woman helps with the bills, its okay....you will have an avenue to dictate in the house again....dont just sit there in abuja and allow her dad pay your rent and all. It wont stop if you dont do anything. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by luminouz(m): 10:33pm On May 24, 2018 |
enabledgoddess:Quiet n listen to what U didn't tell him shiit!! 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by luminouz(m): 10:35pm On May 24, 2018 |
marvelli:Damn u nailed it... Next round is on me babe |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Sarah20A(f): 10:35pm On May 24, 2018 |
winningwinner:I have gone through the comments and there's nothing confusing here.you know where your problem is coming from ,you'll have to admit the bitter truth,either you find a job by yourself or through your father in law,talk to him man to man tell him his daughter's attitude towards u,tell him to help u look for a job 2 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 10:36pm On May 24, 2018 |
I feed you, Clothe you, Put a roof over your head and go cow girl on you... you're a clown if you still think you deserve respect after all that. I own You! Respect is something only Alpha males get. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by emmanuelpopson(m): 10:38pm On May 24, 2018 |
Man up..change your mindset and go out there and find a job no matter the pay..also don't be seen sitting at home idle. women hate idle men like shit... you can't go back to the past. but now you can redefine your future... all boils down to making yourself valuable now.. I can't say all here but you can relate to my point... 1 Like |
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