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Idowuogbo: Dont mind him oo! Na my son, so i tot d vagabon everything he nos.

HELP!!!! I Have A Cush On This Nairalander.

kunletiwoo: Killz_ you are getting it all wrong! Mind you she own me her integrity as long as she has said "yes"(mind you there is more to the word "yes" when it comes to the issue of relationship) to me at first when I met her.

Had it been she said "NO" then, and i keep running after her, doing what she's doing now wont be a surprise to me cos I know she hasn't give me her heart.

What happened to the choice she made when she said "YES"?. This is a gal we both had plans.

This are two different things pls don't mix things up.

kunletiwoo: @Killz_ I so much understand you... Thanks.
@idowu_ I really appreciate you.

[size=15pt]But I believe if you really have a heart for something, no matter your mistakes or wrong you must surely turn back and realign[b](do you agree to this?)[/b] the step I have taken now is just another step of test to know if she really have a heart for me.[/size]

joe4christ: [size=15pt] Let me share one of my runs secret with you guys, each time i come across such situation all i say to such a lady is ''Seriousely, is this how you treate those you're meeting for the first time? C'mon that's too bad of you, you dont even know my intention you're are already playing hard to get, i thought you were matured enough but i guess i was wrong.
Take this as an advice from an intended friend, you aint no kid, you're matured enough, so please stop acting like one cos it's embarrassing.
Thank you'' - THEN I WALK AWAY, but i bet before i do take 15 steps away she would call me back and appologise, then we kick start from there.
This trick has never failed to work for me, it just always works, it's a magic. Hahahaha! [/size]

This one caught my eye. . .

But then, why would i want to coerce a lady into talking with me?

ogbeche77: Patience... Patience... May be a week, a month or more was what u needed, by then u would av been armed with enough evidence..... U acted too fast, Hope Ur gf ll sit up now

Idowuogbo: Abegggggiiii!!!!

Killz commend Kunle's maturity jare! I repeat d patience and silence is doing more damage dan good. IMO,Kunle's move was sound.The reaction from d friend speaks volume, so d oda bits to d puzzle don't count anymore.

@Kunle

U seem d calm and collected type, keep it up!

D best punishment is letting dier conscience deal wiv dem dats if dey have any sha.

It is well, urs wont pass u by.


*hugs*

olas2u: [size=15pt]Banned teenagers will be allowed back to school only if they “stop such practices” and “unacceptable behavior” in public places.
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Pretty girl: A girl usually gets pregnant during her ovulation period

kunletiwoo: Hi Friends,

Here is the Latest update.

Last night I met with ma friend, and maturely asked him what was going on between him and ma girl(showed him all he has been sending to ma girl on FB from ma BB). And you know what? he was ashamed, felt like a fool and was speechless cos he never expect that from me at all. Well been a friend that is so close, I had to end the issue there with him and left without picking a fight with him.

When I got home I didn't tell me girl anything, simply because i want her conscience to judge her, and because I know my friend will definitely inform her what he en counted.

I know too well that her conscience would not let her rest when she hears this from ma friend, yes! I know her kind of person.

Note: I didn't pick a fight with ma friend, I only made him understand that I know what is going on(with proves) which he admitted.

What do you guys think about this?

onila: oh please,my family business is worth BILLIONS OF NAIRA! not just business but assets =real estate, land around Nigeria. I am a college student trying to make something of myself and not depending on my family's wealth.

i dont care what u think abt me online because everyone that knows me in real life knows am humble

litusista: hi guys.. i have a little problem. Each time i try dating a guy i like, it doesnt work out fine. a few years back i started dating a very close friend of mine, but after like a year he went for nysc and came back telling me he doesnt think he can keep dating me because he's not sure i am the will of God 4 him, and that i was too jealous. i gave a lot into the relationship (calls, texts,) and i was hurt for a year after that and did not date any other guy.

I later fell in love with a classmate of mine which i liked very much. we became best friends. we've been friends for almost 4 years now, and i really like him. we have both talked about dating but, he keeps hesitating saying he's not ready. recently, a friend of his (a female), came to spend a weekend with him in schl it was after that weekend, that i noticed he started behaving somehow towards me. i know he had always liked the girl. i told a roomate that was also a friend, and she said she'll talk to him.
she later told me, that he said he cant date me because i am too possessive and jealous. And that the other girl was not like me. i feel sad and i know i have to move on. but i am scared. i have never really had a relationship that i desire. the guys i like just walk out on me. i am in my final yr and i just wish to be committed to someone.

What do i do? When i like someone, i do all i can to be around the person and show him that i really care.How do i do that without being possesive? When i see another girl with someone i love, i feel threatened. How do i overcome this?

First of all, you have a low self image, a low self esteem, a low view of yourself. You keep comparing yourself to others, that has to change. To you, being possessive is the only way you affirm something is yours, a way you mark your territory as the case may be, and then gradually, you become jealous, trying to know all the moves of your friends and trying to block the moves you know will not be to your favor.
Being possessive is not something anyone was born with, but it can be curbed and eradicated as time progresses. Ask your self what you really want from a friendship. You should be able to differentiate "friendship" from "relationship", you should know if you want the friendship to graduate into a relationship, you should know if that friendship/relationship with that person is a bid to boost your self esteem, thereby becoming popular using the persons influence. Blah blah blah
In adjusting your view about possessiveness, pls realize that you have to do to others the way you want to be done to you. If you want honesty, be honest. The things you want a friend to do for you, be ready to do likewise in return. Everyone needs some privacy, including your friends. You also need your privacy. Know when someone is intruding on your privacy, personal stuff, and quintessentially pissing you off, then, you use that same measure to know when your actions towards another are gravitating towards negativity. If you want privacy, give privacy. Whenever you want to express your opinions on matters involving your friend(s), do so non-judgmentally, always always always put yourself in their shoes(situation) before you express your opinion. Think before you talk. Avoid speaking thoughtlessly or in the spur of the moment. Think out words carefully before you use them on your friends. Give them some breathing space, reduce your visits to them, MAKE THEM MISS YOU!!! Anyone that doesn't miss you as much as you miss him doesn't take you as you do him, therefore, don't try to coerce him into doing what he doesn't want to. And don't be in a hurry to get committed. . . There is a time for everything. Take things at a time, and as they come. Don't try to skip any stage.

You seem a nice person, but you have a high tendency to "over do". Just remain the nice person that you are, and cut back 60% on the "over do". . .

Odunnu: If I post mine, i'm sure someone will kidnap me straight from his screen. I have always been pretty, my baby pixs are even prettier

pDude: I found it fun looking at Goldie, P-square and Mercy J's early pictures so I decided that it will equally be fun if we posted our too.

Here is mine of little pDude.

You go sabi nod ball wella. . .

onila: i am from a wealthy background. .if e dey pain u go hug transformer

ThoniaSlim: I'm from Akwa Ibom and peeps need to quit the silly stereotypes they give efik and ibibio women!

MsDarkSkin:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SCkp8CWboNE

WTF!
This is some funny stuff. . .

shymmex: How can you 'love' a girl you're not in a relationship with?

Ode. You don't love her after proposing to her. You love her prior to starting a relationship. It's that love that propels you to propose a relationship. . .

onila: I was just using me as a case study. .so rich girls cld relate 2 my ideas.. the thread is meant for everyone

I know you meant well, but you need to rephrase your opening posts on threads. . . Use someone else as case study, else, it will keep looking as if you are blowing your trumpet even though you are not. . . Hey, you may be rich or whatever but on a faceless forum where you are not even bold enough to upload your own picture, no one gives a what? No one gives a fcck!

Idowuogbo: O raye shitzzzz mehn!

onila: lol so what do u think about this thread?

onila:

onila:

pretim: honestly guys r real devils, deceivers, i jst used to pray dat God will give my the angels among them

onila: this thread is meant for rich girls

Rich in what? Idiocy?