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Michellla:
ahaaa was just trying my luck
btw its school though
notimetorest#
annoying lots

Keep trying o..

You and this your mysterious school that is always on session. Sometimes I am led to believe you are course mates with Harry Potter at Hogwarts, hence all the secrets.
When are you going to take off this cloak of anonymity and stop being

talk2alabama:
me set is thinknn u are a lesbian...




Cc kinglek.an

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Michellla:
i may have some shortcomings but small bum aint one
dingbang pay him no mind
merry xmas in ARS

Just look at you, I am here trying to put my life together and you just had to tempt me with the thought of you having a big bum bah?

Kolewerk at all! Meanwhile where have you been? And stop trying to meddle things down, you've got plenty shortcomings

TheCOB:
Yes the relationship would have had a better chance of survival of Toyin was able to understand that Nkem simply isn't much of a talker. It could have helped her 'comfort' herself at those times when she yearned for her man to just express himself. It would definitely have allayed her fears and doused our negative assumptions.

But would it really have meant that the relationship would survive? Well, I'd say Yes and No.

How happy would Toyin feel in such a relationship? I'd be willing to bet that she would at some point feel stifled. The reason being that while she would consciously try not to withdraw completely, it is only sane not to be overly excited discussing with someone whose reactions are rather too calm.

Subconsciously, whether she likes it or not, she will mellow down that excitement and because that excitement is part of what gives her the spark, she may find herself wondering many times "Can I REALLY do this forever?"

So now, there's a shift. She's no longer bothered about negative assumptions of whether he loves her or is cheating etc..... She would now be bothered with if she can cope with this alteration of her personality.

And you know, at that point when a woman has to consciously pause many times to think if she can truly cope with "THIS" forever, that relationship is threatened.

It would work only if they have already formed a strong bond and Nkem makes some adjustments. Of the two possibilities, I'd say if Toyin has to be happy in that relationship, Nkem has to step up his game.

Very soon, she would get bored! Who wants a boring relationship?

Against the odds, Toyin can choose to stay because she truly loves him. But is it really fair to her happiness?

Well said! I couldn't agree more with you.

But what if Nkem tries to step up his game but after a while he keeps reverting back to status-quo. For instance, Nkem and Toyin both attend same event, on getting back home, Nkem is done talking about the whole day with a friend in less than two minutes. Toyin on the other hand has a rare gift of storytelling, she goes on for hours telling her bestie all the tiny details that happened that day from different angles.

This trait is what makes Nkem so drawn to Toyin, however he cant reciprocate this even if he tries so hard to be more forthcoming. Being in a relationship with a lady with similar personality is obviously a No-No. Does this mean he isn't ready for a relationship and shouldn't bother getting into one?

TheCOB:
No not one of the regulars, hence why I'm having difficulties identifying those to tag.
I am on Nairaland basically for this purpose. I'd really appreciate all the support I can get. In the entire scheme of things, I might make some planning errors but We shall overcome

TheCOB:
Thanks Boss

Glad to have you here

You're welcome Ma'am & the pleasure is mine.

Are you a regular or you just joined NL recently and for this purpose?

Kobicove:
You are the one who is confused.

The purpose of providing "help" as you guys call it is for the sole aim of getting reciprocal help...this intention alone qualifies it to be categorised as an investment.

In the final analysis it all boils down to semantics therefore MMM is a psuedo investment and thus a Ponzi scheme because it's aim is to pay early investors with the contributions of later investors!

BrooklynTheBully:
If a genie granted you 3 wishes right now, what would you wish for??

Too much money, Power and Wisdom

BrooklynTheBully:




Lol, as you wish, Bruh... So are you finally getting married in 2017??

Temmy Otedola hasn't accepted my proposal yet.

BrooklynTheBully:





Lol, "it" is feminine, _shit happened way back in 2014,... ring a bell??

LOL.. I am so not going down this lane with you. This conversation never happened

Biko die the matter and the bullying already...Na quarter to 2017 we dey.

BrooklynTheBully:



Lol, Bruh this particular Nairaland is well renowned scammer in here... Ring a bell??

Hahahah....No idea bro!

BrooklynTheBully:



Lol, Bruh I always got banned for bullying a particular Nairalander... So make ah kuku become bully now

Lol, even _Seun sef can't view a thread in stealth mode

Hope this particular Nairalander isn't the one always changing font colours like traffic light?

Hahaha..Na mistake I do sef. I go soon enter guest mode back.

BrooklynTheBully:






King..lekan, when will you stop viewing and ask someone a question too??

Brooklyn the Bully?? Seriously??

Tbh Nairaland needs to introduce stealth mode... Sumbori cannur view thread in peace again.

lovelygurl:
I know right. Gosh, I'm embarrassed on her behalf

trendyrammy:
For those who inbox @daddyfreeze about sexual assault in church why not go report to the police, why cover up fake pastors and why run after miracles that deserves silly request. It is your right as a citizen to report, so they will be prosecuted.
Matt7:5 thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brothers eye.

Sandydayziz:
So inspiring!!! M touched

..Go to bed Sandy...

shumuel:
Kikiki Lol NTA Channel 10 and LTV8 kids spotted

I want to make a request to my mummy and Daddy Mr & Mrs sososo, i wyshs thems happy Xmas and Merry New years in adbans

Hahahahah.. Sometimes after we don list all the pipu finish, we go forget wetin we wan wish them

Sandydayziz:
Oh bae! I lost my fone nd I just can't remember my password

Awww.. Good to have you back tho.

Sandydayziz:
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fergieboy:
Shhhhhhhhhh

Just what I thought.

fergieboy:
Haba why you come carry the matter for head like gala ?

As I carry am for head e dey affect your neck?

Mimido2:
yeah
am from Edo state

Okies Cool.. And congrats on your admission.