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Romance / Re: Why Do Ex Or Exes Text You Years Or Months Later To Say They Miss You? by KingofAbuja(m): 6:08pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
solonubinho: Wow! we truly learn everyday and here I am thinking I read a lot. Just Googled it... What is hoovering? Hoovering is an emotional abuse technique used by narcissists and other manipulative personality types to suck their victims back into a relationship with them because they're running low on their narcissistic supply. It's named after the Hoover vacuum cleaner, and it makes a lot of sense because the hooverer is basically treating you like dirt. The "hoover maneuver" usually begins after the narcissist has left you and after a period of silence. Here are 12 signs of narcissistic abuse known as hoovering, plus how to deal with a narcissist's behavior so you can move on and get over your breakup. 1. They send you messages pretending nothing happened. One day with no warning you get a message that says, "Hey stranger, long time no talk" or, "What's up?" Do not engage. 2. They use the pretext of a special occasion to make contact. Just translate "Happy birthday" or "Happy New Year" to mean, "I need some attention." 3. They ask you random questions. "What was the name of the sushi restaurant we went to in Santa Barbara?" Feel free to answer any way you want, but they don't really want to know the answer; they just want to get you to focus on them. 4. They make a fake gesture of caring. "I was thinking about you" means "I was thinking about me" and "how I can use you to distract myself." ETCCCCC.......... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Do Ex Or Exes Text You Years Or Months Later To Say They Miss You? by KingofAbuja(m): 5:28pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
chinchonglee: Lol..... But have you tried or should I use the word tasted a northern girl... like better Malo babe. Yall can fvck from night till daybreak and instead of odour you will be perceiving a nice scent. Walahi! Amina... But on a more serious note, I have observed that this odour of a thing occurs amongst fat girls more than it does with slim girls. Any body noticed that too? please come support this motion honourable. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Ex Or Exes Text You Years Or Months Later To Say They Miss You? by KingofAbuja(m): 5:21pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
CrescentMoon: I remember this from the movie, Okafor Law. Well, it seems to be true to a large extent. Atleast in my own experience. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Ex Or Exes Text You Years Or Months Later To Say They Miss You? by KingofAbuja(m): 5:19pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Pancakeey: E shock me! Swears! I guess he probably wanted to do the whole FTC shii |
Romance / Re: Why Do Ex Or Exes Text You Years Or Months Later To Say They Miss You? by KingofAbuja(m): 5:18pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Calmblaze: Na me dey Cancel bottles here, na you de high. Ogheneme biko! Lol Calmblaze, calmdown read my post again bro. Even you go shock! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 5:14pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Funkyswagzz: Honestly speaking, I love how you address issues. Sorry once again if you felt offended?! South Londoners with their special kinda accent, had some really crazy Crystal Palace football club fans as friends way back. Ehhhn! Come pay for all this bottles I don drink for hia oh! Before, I fly through this lounge toilet window.... I don't have power for bouncers! |
Romance / Why Do Ex Or Exes Text You Years Or Months Later To Say They Miss You? by KingofAbuja(m): 3:03pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Recently, I got a text of this nature on WhatsApp. I was surprised because she is happily married with kids. Discussed this with some friends and some insinuated she is about to ask me for "2k urgently" .... Well, she is not that type of lady thou. Some suggested maybe she was Hot or lonely. Then, today i stumbled upon a similarly story... [b]My ex (31M) and I (26F) are 5 years broken up. It’s a long time. He has a serious girlfriend. He was my first love and I was the love of his life until I wasn’t. He wanted to stay friends and I initially agreed, but after all that he said, I walked away for good even though I was completely in love with him and we were best friends before. Not once did I initiate contact from that day and I focused on healing. He texted me every now and then for no real reason since, and I always gave brief, polite responses. I got a text from him when I least expected it today, an already rough day, on the anniversary of my grandma’s passing. He was with me when she died and helped me grieve, so I’m grateful for that. The last time I saw him was 2 years ago at a mutual friend’s birthday party. I don’t understand this, what’s the purpose of consoling me suddenly, after FIVE of her passing anniversaries and no such messages since our breakup? I obviously won’t deny I still love him but I’m not delusional or acting on it in anyway, I have accepted it yet even a text from him hits me hard. [/b] So, My Nairalanders help me answer this question - Why do exes text you years later? What’s the purpose of sending a “thinking of you today” or I miss you message after so long? |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 2:33pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Funkyswagzz: Lol, Chill bruh! Never refered to you as Audio. That would be myopic of me. Wasnt even refering to you but rather your Lol response to the person you quoted. You 'LOL' is an endorsement of his statement... and i stick to to what i said and you know i am right. Alot of dudes who act all tough online aint shii. Didnt see the Uk, London queston. Pardon me, Yh! Did my masters at Leicester Uni, stayed in London for a bit. Push button ke?! Me wey don start my own thank God is Friday here! As i don make you laff... come give your boy one bottle... even if na Kentro or Agbo jedi jedi.... i dey game.. |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 2:11pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Funkyswagzz: Nah! Been laughing with y'all... or have I not? Said what I said because it is always easy to form Macho or RedPill on a faceless forum like NL. Baba! to talk is one thing, to practice what you preach.... another game entirely. Ask the preacherman bruh! Happy fun filled funky friday to you. (Pun intended) |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 1:59pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Funkyswagzz: Audio Macho men everywhere! |
Health / Re: What Are Some Skinny People Problems? (funny Experience & Replies...) by KingofAbuja(m): 1:56pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
chatinent: Lol, I believe I do. But I am always open to suggestions yh? |
Health / What Are Some Skinny People Problems? (funny Experience & Replies...) by KingofAbuja(m): 1:45pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Even skinny people have their own issues! Imagine my grand mum calling me " the Ambassador of World Hunger." or Friends lifting me up to show how easy it is to do so and when you tell them to put you down and they joke about dropping you. The worst of them all is Having to make extra holes in your belt. Obviously a first world problem, but kind of a pain in the ass nonetheless. To find my waist size ehn!! No be here fa! ... Always seeing 32 upwards.... I have got to give the tailor to resize it and they end up spoiling beta trousers for me Kindly share your funny, weird, and everyday experience being a skinny person. |
Romance / Re: Do You Think Your Girlfriend Is A Gold Digger by KingofAbuja(m): 2:08am On Nov 27, 2020 |
debbydams: Do you by any chance sch at Unibuja? From your dp... That looks like permanent site. |
Romance / Re: 3 Movies That Are Better Than 50 Shades Of Grey Series by KingofAbuja(m): 2:03am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Kiss and tell? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Night Crawler's THREAD!!! by KingofAbuja(m): 1:09am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Night crawlers wey dem dey always sleep 10pm. |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 10:32pm On Nov 26, 2020 |
nurain150: Bro, been laughing over here like crazy. Hahahahaha! See ehn! This your post just off'ed me. A lot of Nigerian girls are wired a certain way... Especially the need to depend on me. The idea behind my post is this... Realize women are a certain way... Realize men are a certain way and use this knowledge to your advantage. |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 10:26pm On Nov 26, 2020 |
nurain150: Your motion is seconded honourable! Truth is the basis of my post was based on my observations on NL. Women naturally are devious and cunning, you don't need a red pill or something to realize that.... Common sense can guide us alot |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 10:22pm On Nov 26, 2020 |
moyosore32: Thanks |
Romance / Re: Please Advice Me, I Am Losing It by KingofAbuja(m): 6:50pm On Nov 26, 2020 |
. When I'm settled, I will respond. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Urhobo Meet Up Zone by KingofAbuja(m): 7:54pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
My people! Urhobo Wado! From Udu LGA. Based in Abuja... And Lagos primarily. Glad to see a thread such as this. Seems we have a high number of urhobo peeps in Abuja. Never knew. 1 Like |
TV/Movies / Re: CITATION: What Do You Think About The Movie?! (SPOILER ALERT) by KingofAbuja(m): 7:25pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
realokopi: H eyb rume (at) gmail.com No space in the mail bro. Just to prevent spammers et al. |
Romance / Re: Men Are Getting So Scarce by KingofAbuja(m): 7:17pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
I am guilty of this! Especially on weekends when i go clubbing, partying or any outdoorsy event. Most times, i only request for number because its the polite thing to do or i just wanna prove to myself i can get the number. But i wouldnt advice you to call him. Rather, whatsapp him and feign a nonchallant attitude towards him. If you show too much interest.. A good guy is normally irked off by that. December don reach shall... Plenty boys dey run away from too much stress and urgent 2ks and I'm not feeling fine people. 4 Likes 1 Share |
TV/Movies / Re: CITATION: What Do You Think About The Movie?! (SPOILER ALERT) by KingofAbuja(m): 4:48pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
realokopi: Hey. I'm interested please. |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 4:59pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
apatheticme: You insult my dad, 2 seconds..... give your location and details. If i dont Bleep you up.... I dont do Audio. Who no wan sleep for better bed this Xmas. Just try your luck... so, una go start to talk say force people are evil. Personally, them calling me a simp doesnt bother me. I just feel its totally wrong what is happening, we are shouting endsar, corruption and several societal ills. But we dont seem to see what is in front of us. |
Romance / Re: From The Playboys To MGTOW And Redpillers. Cease And Desist! by KingofAbuja(m): 1:10pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
ReluctantAdult: Honorable you are doing well Sir. I hereby allocate 30b for your constituency project and personal enjoyment. hehehehe No mind all this boys stressing demselvs on how a lady wants to leave their lives. |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 11:09am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Funkyswagzz: Hey Bro. My sincerest apologies, if i sounded like my life is perfect. It most definitely aint. Yes, I do have spare time after all i aint no work horse... but too much spare time is the devil's tool for creating mischief. Yes! I know alot of guys put their emotions out here and to the female folks in their life. But my grouse is this, if i dont know you from ADAM... why would i see a post of yours no matter how different your opinion is from mine and start insulting you? Calling you names etc.... Aint that deranged?! My life revolve around girls?! I wish, It actually revolves around my laptop, football and my guysses. I know girls are secretive and they have been the down fall of a great many men. But my Dad told me something while growing up, being a man doesnt mean beating a woman, enslaving a woman.... that every action i take against a women i should sit down and ask myself if it was done to me will i like it, if it was done to my sister and mom would i be okay with it?! Truth is, i actually loved the way you replied me without any insult. We can gist, we can debate and we can agree to disagree about our differences.... Not the typical NL way of starting a fight when they have no valid point. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 10:47am On Nov 20, 2020 |
timebomb02: Burst my head! Lol.... Baba i dey suspect you oh! This one u know all their names. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 10:46am On Nov 20, 2020 |
adg98: Discussed this with a psychologist neighbor of mine few weeks back. Social media et Cyber bullying tend to serve as an escape route from all the drudgery, hard ship et al of the physical world. When people act this way all we can do is show them love and not use curse words on them. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 10:37am On Nov 20, 2020 |
SILENTandSMART2: Thanks Bro. |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 10:28am On Nov 20, 2020 |
AdeQuate18: You just summarized my entire thoughts @AdeQuate18 , The Mods have decided not to do anything about it because it generates contents, views, traffic and conversations. That is a key difference between it and Reddit. The threat and hatred against the female folks is so glaring and so much that when a guy like me post my concern i am termed a white knight, a simp... Even saw one.. Pussy licker . Hatred is Hatred! if you as an Igbo man or Muslim or black don't want to be hated by other people of opposing entities. Why should we hate on others? Having emotion, Love empathy doesn't make anyone weak. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 10:06am On Nov 20, 2020 |
Dapcity007: Seen your post on some threads on NL. FYI: I am not a leftist politically speaking and otherwise. I dont do CNN. I am more of a reader, so i do The Guardian (UK) I love and agree with some of the points you raised, honestly speaking when i saw the post i was truly impressed. I remembered yall call Pres. Jonathan a simp?! My believe is this, treat people how you would want to be treated. No matter the color of their skin, religion, tribe, political views and ideologies. The things we are embracing and enjoying in this modern century where once castigated and snarled at as early as even the 19th century. I am sure if you where in the early 19th century you would have be in support of the disenfranchisement of the female folks yh? 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why The Hatred By 80% Of Males On Nairaland Romance Section Against Women? by KingofAbuja(m): 6:40pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
GuyWise: Lol. When a post doesnt cater to the whims and caprices of NL cyber bullies they tend to tag the OP as a simp. Only Pro max? BABA, yall can say shiii..... I dont mind. 5 Likes |
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