₦airaland Forum

mhisbliss:
It'll be unreasonable for me to argue about his sexuality, he hasn't admitted he's gay nor have i seen him screwing an anus, so I'll just rest my case, but I've come across gay people and i knew immediately that they're gay even before they open up, the way they talk, walk, behave, dress and all.

There's this pretty boy back then in my sec school days, his name is peter, he's close to me and my female friends and we use to hang out alot, he watched guys ask us out and sometimes give valid advice but he never hit on any of us, i knew he was gay even before he had the courage to tell me, he'd play with our make up, jokingly dress like a girl during send forth and other parties that involves clowning, scream like a girl when he gets scared, walk like a girl and all, but nobody noticed it, they'll make fun of him and all but i know why he's like that, then i confronted him one day when we met after school, and he didn't admit outrightly that he's gay, he just told me he doesn't feel anything for girls and he don't know why, his natural side is confused with his worldly consciousness and he's fighting it, he's not in Nigeria anymore and i haven't seen him for like 10yrs now, except you're stupid, you'll know a gay when you see one

You are now deviating out of your point, bear it in mind that the Peter you are talking about may have never in his life indulge in gay or planning to be gay.
I also have this thought that effeminate boys are gays that makes me to hate them until my encounter with one which made change such mind set.
They are mostly afraid to talk to a woman and women most reject them, you would have ask him to have sex with you let me know if you will not get pregnant.
If he can't get erect making love with you then he should seek for medical attention.
Gay can caught across any gender, age,strong or weak, mannish or effeminate.
You can never know a person who is can practice gay until he or she manifest it by indulging in it.
It has nothing to do with nature!

donstan18:
There's nothing like natural Opposite sex attraction , because if we had such, there won't be existence of GAY.

It's called Natural Sex attraction , which means you can naturally be gay or straight.

I'm not disputing the fact that it's not psychological, I just want to let you know that some naturally became that. Both homo and lez.

You are a complete foooool!!!!
How can you comment such idiotic unreasonable comment?
I was thinking that you have sense before, now I realize that you are goaaat!!!

Death penalty is only solution to gayism

AmazonTopaz:
I can't marry your type.
I love my mother and there is no changing that but when it comes to affairs of my family I would listen to my spouse first before my parents.
Never pray to be in such dilemma because your spouse should always come first and never try to compare your love for your mother to that of your wife.
Anyway it is your life and choice.

But are you expecting that if I marry you I should love you more than my mother? oh no no!! impossible!
I will treat you well as my lovely wife but not to the expenses of my mother!
I don't trust you women but my mother remain trusted forever

cc: MarieSucre what do you have to say

AmazonTopaz:
It is you who has no idea of what you are saying.Putting your mother and wife on the same pedestal is completely wrong.
Once a man marries his responsibility changes your wife and childrent comes first not your mother she has her own husband for goodness sake.
There is no limit there.
No wonder some men would listen to their mothers and forget about their wives as if their mothers do not have their own husbands.

Mehn, my mother remain the best woman on this world oo! Though I will still love my wife and treat her well, but compared to my mother, she(my wife) should gerrat!!!

MarieSucre:
As long as you're okay with her doing this to you too sha them I'm happy.

One thing you have to understand is that women sexual attachment is completely different from men sexual attachment.
Women are not sexually active, most times their love and emotional control their sexual desire.
But for a man sex has nothing to do with love and emotion, so a man will still have his love and emotional attachment to his lovely wife but my have sex with another girl.

But for a woman, she have to detached her love and emotion for her husband in order to have sex with the new man.
So if your wife sleep with another man, divorce her immediately! Even God in heaven will not save her, divorce her to save your life, your future generations.

Xander85:
Yorubas' are free to do whatever the fuc/k they want regarding Jimoh Ibrahim! It's their look out! Ndigbo will not set our agenda or react on issues based on the actions, reactions or inactions of the Yoruba! Gerrit?

Given our journey thus far in this evil contraption you call a country, you as a Yoruba man (or wherever it is you're from) can never begin to understand or appreciate our challenges and experiences....not even in a million years!

You may have seen Jimoh Ibrahim of actually being guilty or responsible for whatever befell him and his company, i don't know. But in the case of Senator Oduah, you can't pretend not to notice most of your kinsmen are already branding her a thief! For what? Has she been convicted of any crime?

You can't pretend not to notice how the OP of this thread is already branding her in a negative light and it even looks like he's enjoying her travails. As a Igbo person, given our experiences in this shithole you call a country, just how else do you expect me to react to this?

Showing me links and news reports saying Senator Oduah is being tried for whatever is all well and good, but like i said, until she's convicted by a competent court of law for stealing or corruption, branding her a 'thief' as many of you are doing is something no fair-minded person will take! Especially in light of the huge log currently lodged in your own eyes!

You guys should stop fooling Igbos by defending these thieves in the name of being Igbo.
One, all these her investment non was located in the East, then why are you defending her?
With all the theft and embezzlement she still can't invest a strong tangible project anywhere in the East and you applaud and adore her.
We should be reasonable sometimes, leave all these politicians let them rot in prison whether Igbo, Hausa or Yoruba

Deltatoto:
her house in anambra is bigger than ur entire village

Shut-up your mouth!! which house?

Angy55:
I guess you are from Isoko(Delta state).
Best revenge ever to a cheating husband, pay him back by cheating on him if he refused to change and watch him die.

A woman cheating is very bad you are not only harming your husband but yourself, kids and future generations

donstan18:
You cannot hurt who you love.

Stop these inconsequential and irrelevant excuses.

You actually has no intention of hurting her but due to circumstances it occur, you have no option than to ask apologize.
But most men don't care, some even bring their side chick to their matrimonial bed at the present of the wife, that's very bad.

Most men cheats not because they hate their wife, but most girls did not understand that,
A man will love you so dearly but he will still cheat on with respect and regards to you as a wife.
But if a man cheat on you with no respect and regard as a wife then he didn't love you.
With "respect and regard" I mean not spending much money on the side chick, not bring the the side chick to your matrimonial home, always hide the side chick from you as a wife, always apologize to you as a wife when caught, always side you as a wife when matter arises, spend more money and time with you and kids.
Most ladies love this type of men, just cheat but give them their respect and regards as the woman of the house.

Amarabae:
You are still a small boy to know anything about marriage,
Go and eat ur "mama thank you " food abeg

Why do you took a break? you born?

stupid man!

Archangel15:
You look stupid

How? you fool!!

MarieSucre:
Feeding is part of life too na, I dare you to go and pick food up and down and eat because you don't have self-control oponu.

I have self control now, but when you are in need of something you go for it so long as you don't took it by force.

MarieSucre:
Its it more important than oxygen? Even with oxygen if we pass a toilet or public waste bin we hold our breath, but Mr Olodo here is saying "sex is more important than my need to have discipline and behave like a human and other yen yen yen". mtchewww

What is need if sex is not part of life? Okpo! ewu mkpi!

MarieSucre:
Don't suppress your urge you hear, embrace it. When you go to market don't suppress your urge just go and pick up stuff in someone's shop, when they put tire around your neck maybe then you will learn to discipline yourself. Urge ko urge ni, because sex na food wey if you no chop am you go die. Nigerians Christians sef na wa for una tueh!

Why are you so deviant in all your comments?
Don't you have simple common mental attitude!
Sex is very important in a man's life, so get that at back of your derange unstable head!

pcguru1:
Anal sex makes you technically gay in a way.

Do gays kiss? can you kiss your fellow man? Gay is wayward and barbaric and shouldn't be condole, what about the woman that do anal is she gay too?
Are you gay? how do you know that anal is gay practice?
Foool! I don't know how you people do reason? That you guys keep propagating and promulgate gayism.
Time will come when a man looks at girls bottom they will tag you gay!

MarieSucre:
Says the animal who cannot hold himself for ordinary one week. My friend shift inside gutter.

So am animal for touching a woman who come to my house not raping her, are you trying to suppress my urge ?
How can a man and a woman stay, lie on the same bed without touching each other, it doesn't make sense, it's not good for fertility health of the man.
If they are not ready to consummate, then they should distance themselves, instead of committing sin inside the mind every night.

PUSSYHOE:
women don't see men as sex object but a provider of needs

Then what is the women' sex object?

toragema:
Anality/Carnality .Only d sexually debased do it.Its called sodomy,God abhors it,for this sin he destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah

Shut-up your mouth! Where in Bible that condemn anal sex?
Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed because of homosexualism and lesbianism not anal sex.
God is never against anal sex !!! Because God can't decide the way you as a man will lie sexually with your wife.
Sex is mutual enjoyment between a man and a woman not supposed to be detrimental to anyone.
So if one doesn't enjoy it then adjustment is needed, it may be anal, doggy,kissing, oral, drinking of urine, drinking of sperm, sucking the anus,squeezing of breast, drinking of breast, fingering, missionary and many of it, some are very detrimental to our health while others at least each have side effect.
But if one person decided to sacrifice his or hers in detriment to his or herself in order to satisfied the other then no problem that's love.
But we all must act with our reasonable mentality.

loveformercy:
Some ladies get heartbroken when the man who has showered them with love, time, good sex, petting, care & so on, suddenly request for anal sex... Is your wife a dog?? How can you debase the lady whom you wooed day & night, took to your pastor or imam, knelt down to propose to & took like a queen to the altar; & then you tell her to open her anus for you to penetrate..

Are you not dirty?? Is your wife not your queen?? Is your wife a porn star? is your wife the olosho??. Don't you have some reverence for the body of your wife? Are the sex styles you've enjoyed not good enough? Is anal sex the only pleasurable thing? How do you feel when you pull off your manhood from her anus & it's with faeces? Do you cherish her after such?? Why must you pressure her into anal so as to please you to stay in the marriage?? Are you a dog??

Please treat your wife with respect, she is not a prostitute...

A man who pressure his wife for anal sex, is very stupid! anal sex can lead to many complications.
But if both couple decide to do anal sex fine that shouldn't be a base of argument because even God himself cannot decide how couple have sex with themselves as long as they are male and female.
Anal sex is very bad , it's not worth encouraging.

A woman is and only sex object to the men and A man is also and only sex object to women, any otherwise the person is completely mentally deranged.

MarieSucre:
Nonsense and ingredient, at least my father and brothers never say crap like "how can you stay with a lady for one full week and you did not have sex, to need to check a psychologist".

You need to check yourself instead.

If you are sleeping with your father, brother or son please stop it
Incest is evil!!!

Colourich:
Closet gays will come and refute this claim but deep down within them they know it's true.

mumu! that's how you guys end up making gayism common, do you have a male anus? do you have a male mouth?
stupid!!!!

Amarabae:
100% supported.
Why will a sane straight guy want to Bleep the anus?
BTW homosexuality is a spiritual problem.
They are possessed by a foul spirit

What of the girl that's receiving the anal sex is she a homosexual too?
A man's body is different from woman's body based on attraction and sexy, most men see every part in women's body sexy and attractive, and as potential sex satisfiable image.
Of which compare to men' body parts was equivalently represented(except vagina) in ugly and manly way making it not sexually attractive to the follow men.
That's the reason an average man or woman got provoked when there is incident of gayism, because you fanthom the reason for such a barbaric act when women are far more sexxy with all attributes.

MarieSucre:
You're trying to be realistic, it does not stop any body from calling our the immorality of your realisticness.

If you do not have the discipline to resist sex with a woman who just came to your house to lodge for one week, what is the guarantee that you can resist having sex with any other female who comes to stay with you for a long time whether she be your relative?

Or do you think all these stories we read on nairaland about fathers raping daughters etc come from thin air. It's a mindset bro. Na from clap e dey enter dance.

Mumu! Why can't your father have sex with you every night he thinks of having sex with your mother or are you not a woman like her?
Do you have sex with your brother? Do ever think of having sex with your father or brother? If so then you are evil, maybe you will still have sex with your son.
What makes a man with good number of women around him (mother, sisters ,cousins) but he chooses to go outside struggling to get a single female?
Mumu use your sense to correct your sense and drop your incentious perversive mindset.
A female outside is complete different from the one that have blood relationship with me!!!!!

Confused generation!!!!! God will surely destroy this world so that this Gayism will terminate, evil people!!!!

The day I will believe that anal sex is gayism is the day I will believe that a guy looking at a girls nyash is also a gay since gays observe men's nyash.
So woman anal don turn gay anal?
What of the female receiving anal Penetration is she gay too? Because am 100% sure that two practicing gay whether the penetratee or the receiver are all gay.
Does it mean that if you as a man kiss a woman automatically you are a gay, since gays also kiss?
Does it mean that if a man receive MouthAction from a woman automatically he is gay since gay also do it?
Confused generation!!!
Reading the Bible from Genesis to Revelation no place where the Bible condemn anal sex and also the Bible have never assimilate anal sex with gayism. It's distinctively clearly defined " a man lying sexually with fellow man" irrespective of any kind of sex type.
But confused generation went and classify anal sex between a woman and a man as sodomy in their quest of promoting and propagating gayism,
Sodomy which was derived from Sodom and Gomorrah which the Bible clear state that they practice gay not anal with a woman and a man.

MarieSucre:
It's the same thing we're saying bros. You simply don't have discipline. You do realise that all those people whose stories reach nairaland that they raped their daughter or cousin also follow this same logic.

See, what are you saying? Am trying to be realistic and you are taking it to the extreme.
Are you mad? do you have sense at all? what concern raping of daughter and cousin here? Mumu! Did your father sleep with you? So a man will not have sex a woman base your logistics he will also sleep with his daughter or cousin.
Mehn you are evil!!!!!!

MarieSucre:
You need to see a psychologist. Someone like you can be a kleptomaniac. Something as simple as money can't be kept with you because you still it. Hop they won't through tire around your neck and burn you. Seems you lack self-control.

Girl calm down, thief is an abstract here we talking of attraction here. A girl come to your house eat, bath, change clothes and lie on the same bed with you for complete a week and you fold your hands and be dreaming on how to touch?
No no, I can't believe this shit, he need to see a doctor for proper evaluation.
Even you wey be girl, u no get human sympathy?