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JoeCutie:
And you believed? How would a guy and his girl be alone in a class having sex at night?

You don't know Uniben? Have you ever seen an empty classroom at night during night class? It's not possible. It didn't happen inside the classroom, it happened outside.

JoeCutie:
Night class!

I stopped going for night class the night I stepped out to ease myself, and then I saw two people lashing under the stairs. E no get wetin I no hear from under the stairs covered in darkness... Ranging from "Harder!" To "Oh, my God", "Don't stop", "Oh, Jesus Christ of Nigeria". Tell me...is Jesus Christ from Nigeria? Or she meant the guy that was giving it to her from the back?

100 level boys?
Na so their eye don tear just now now?
Hehe. Uniben girls are in for a long thing.

Why would someone go as far as raping? What manner of konji could cause that? Do they not know where halls 1&2 are? By the time they try toasting like 12 girls, at least one or two must say Yes. WTF?!

queendee22:
TOPIC-FALSE ACCUSATION MADONNA UNIVERSITY STAFF ON TWO LESBIANS INCHARGE OF FEMALE STUDENTS .After my invitgation I Find out is not true. MY fellow readers lets be sure of any story b4 destoryin our fellow humanbeing.human baing are bad,so people can go this far just to get back at people.Maybe that person was expelled so she is lookin fora way to get back at theae people and the university.I graduated from d school for d fact that i dn't like d rules does nt mean i will not say d truth.susu is not the only one in the office there are many,students dnt go to aunty philo's house.many things are going wrong dere but that story is not true.listen to the OP last 2 yr ago which was 2013,aunty philo has stop coming to joggin and susu took over from her,last yr aunty mau-mau tookover from susu. OK listen to her story her first day in school susu saw her at d gate later susu's girl called her back that aunty want to see her,susu is working under anuty philo with other ladies so who is susu's girl.later in her office she offered her seat n released others. HOw.?in the office were there are about 8 ladies workin.ok let her tell us the special hostel and the room no.she was not payin school fees and u all believed her, all madonna students knows that u can't write exams without payin even if is small amount that is remind we all are scared of aunty philo even her workers.so OP has been in this act for 2yr ,susu is not incharge of students again she has handed over to aunty maureen since.u r sayin she is this or that,R U SURE or u r sayin this based on hear say,have she distrub u or have u seen her in d act.when i was in school everywhere susu,both boys n girls liked her,she is harsh but very nice n good to students.the two aunties are hardworkin .plz lets try and find out the truth before judgin peolpe.SO My dear readers is not true and jst no it you have kill them with ur mouth n ur comments.this is somebody's future n life.u can as well call ur friend's n sisters dere to no what i have comfirmed.thank you n God bless if u can always find out d truth about people before judgin them

Setaje:
That is exactly what it is. The father and some staffs are doing something immoral and cynical.

anthoniaz:
I thought Philo is married and I heard recently she has been sacked.Well, na them sabi.It's been 7yrs I graduated, most times I just sit down and think about the experience.

If Father Edeh gets to know about all this, he will definitely sack them.

Suspect33:
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njays24:
He should monitor his mum,whenever she's not at home,if he can lay his hands on the movies,he should just take them and dispose of them;either throw them into the trash can or burn them. I'm sure she'll be too embarrassed to ask anyone about them.

missclasssy:
Look at who is talking about God,, after insulting your fellow human
Of course I am not a supporter of homosexuality but that doesn't mean that I should insult another person just because of his sexual preference.

Suffice to say, you are the one who his behaviour and general disposition is totally"inhumane". So you would kill someone for something they have no control of ?

By the way which God do you even serve that admonishes his followers to kill gays?

Depressedguy:
Wow, good to hear from you guys, all advises will be duely considered; but the decision is mine. As for those who came to curse and bash, I cant be stronger without you guys, more curse, more determination.

To the matter at hand, I am in this dilemma because of my religious inclination. Don't get me wrong, I would have lived my life to the fullest but there is pile, cancer of the anus, STIs and most especially HIV. And we all know that gays are more prone to them. Above all, it is SIN and that is the most important. I have a very promising future, die now cause of a stupid act, no way.

There are so many questions we cant answer. Who created the imbeciles, the blind, the cripple, the deaf, the dumb etc, none of us will say that it is God, but then how did they come into existence, did the devil create them or are they straight from the pit of hell. We all know that those people aren't normal, when compared to a "normal" human being but are they EVIL, are they possessed of a demon that needs to be cast out or do they need to be sent to prison for 14 years? Of course not, because they are not guilty of who they are because they are born that way. We only see them as abnormal because we live in a world where normal is a being born with two legs, two eyes, 46 chromosomes, can talk and can speak.

Same is for gays, they are normal human being with a different sexual preference. They are not evil, they are not sick, they are not mentally derailed and they are not possessed of any demon. You can say that they are sexually abnormal, because we live in world where normal is male and female and not male to male nor female to female. That is just the difference they simply have a different SEXUAL ORIENTATION.


Scientists can prove the abnormalities in these aforementioned disabilities, they can categorically say what caused them and why they occurred, but science can not say the actual cause of HOMOSEXUALITY, there is no scientific proof of that. The best they came up with was that is it just a habit. A hardcore habit that is very difficult to trace how and when it was acquired. This is not a fact though cause there are so many different stories about when and how gays started having the same sex attraction.

It pains me more where heterosexuals are at liberty to fornicate and go scot free but homosexuals don't. They even discuss it openly and brag about it, it is now an Olympic race, everybody competing for the gold. But talk of a homosexual, the next thing you hear is kill him, shoot him, burn him, maim him; and we all fail to realise that anywhere in the Bible that homosexuality was mentioned, adultery and fornication follows suit and they have the same punishment, death.

So we should stop deceiving ourselves, especially those who claim to be homophobic, one thing is being straight, another is being gay, take It or leave it. I have come to hate myself simply because religion says so, but am going to try, the worst I can become is BISEXUAL, then I will have to live with it.

Depressedguy:
Call an ambulance, someone needs to visit a psychiatry.

slimmy05:
it's quite pathetic why the electoral violence didn't take you useless life rather than the good ones.

slimmy05:
You are an ignorant dunderhead. I asked a simple question and your saying trash. "Did Christ destroy sodom and Gomorrah for homosexuality" you simply just showed how blind and silly you are.

Let me quote some for you and I want you to show where he destroyed Sodom and Gomorah due to homosexualit. Jeremiah 23:14:"...among the prophets of Jerusalem I have seen something horrible: They commit adultery and live a lie. They strengthen the hands of evildoers, so that no one turns from his wickedness. They are all like Sodom to me; the people of Jerusalem are like Gomorrah." Jeremiah compares the actions of the prophets with the adultery, lying and evil of the people of Sodom.
1; The entire first chapter is an utter condemnation of Judah. They are repeatedly compared with Sodom and Gomorrah in their evildoing and depravity. Throughout the chapter, the Prophet lists many sins of the people: rebelling against God, lacking in knowledge, deserting the Lord, idolatry, engaging in meaningless religious ritual, being unjust and oppressive to others, being insensitive to the needs of widows and orphans, committing murder, accepting bribes, etc.

Now, this is why Sodom and Gomorah was destroyed: Ezekiel 16:49-50:"Now this was the sin of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters were arrogant, overfed and unconcerned; they did not help the poor and needy. They were haughty and did detestable things before me. Therefore I did away with them as you have seen." God states clearly that he destroyed Sodom's sins because of their pride, their excess of food while the poor and needy suffered; sexual activity is not even mentioned.


You are a lazy and ignorant dunderhead. Gullible followers. I don't have time for dull heads like you. This is my last response to you.

benstuber:
Na only God go punish pple like you...


I think the op is in the right state of mind presently,, he should just see a doc,I'm guessing its a hormonal fault..

Dindera:
You are wicked n evil!


To OP...U need to believe that anything is possible when God is involved. Your life will totally and completely change when you believe and trust in Him. U weren't born that way, to me, I think it's how u view ur self that matters. U see ur self as one that's gay? Then that's what u will be. U have to change urself by Changing what u think u are! God will see you through. I advice you to read ur bible more often than you used to do, Hangout with friends and REMOVE ur mind from whatever that wants to keep you in bondage. Just be Happy but always pray cos that's the Key.

Remain blessed.

dovelike:
He came here, stating his problems and you are calling him ewu? It's pple like you that brings Nigeria sooooo down.

Mobbie:
Depressedguy I just rejoined Nairaland, right now, because of you .

so..How to advice fellow gay guy without sounding like a terrible snob:

1) Focus on his story and how cliche it is. Stress that it is only your opinion that the story is the usual attention seeking depression narrative, so that everyone realizes that you do not appreciate self loathing closet gays, and that this is your fault only.

2) Explain (gently and calmly) that being gay is not a sufficient reason to be depressed, and it is very irritating to happy, non-self loathing gay men to see their sexuality being used as a reason to be depressed.

3) Also, mention valid reasons people have to be depressed: Death of loved ones, unfair persecution, loss of life's savings, death of an expected child et al. Crack joke about the successful 26 year old banker that is depressed while the female beggar on the street I tip once in a while has things to laugh about, and hope he doesn't hate me for it.

4) Do not criticize the budding narcissism seen in the story because you are not in a position to understand how a guy who regrets being gay and says he has everything he needs to get women, including demigod looks, cannot see the irony in his own words.

5) Do not say that his desperate attempt to change his REAL self in boarding school due to RIDICULE and PEER PRESSURE was very sad to read indeed.

6) However, do say that maybe he needs to accept who he is before he makes any further decisions, and share with him the words of Rita Mae Brown.

“I think the reward for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself.”
― Rita Mae Brown

From a very happy, non-loathing, God Loving gay bro

Kentrasso:
Nigerian mentality. So barbaric

Ernieman:
Fvcking Bastard! If u don't av anything to say, why not shut ur rotten, smelly mouth Up! Mehn, Fvck U Idiat!

Depressedguy:
Wow, the best advice so far. Thanks bro

nobilis:
OP, first and foremost, thanks for being so frank. Very few people can summon such courage.

Being gay is not evil. Yes. You read me right. Being gay is not evil. Even the bible never condemned being gay. What the bible talked about was having sex with someone of the same gender. But that will be talk for another day.

Secondly, you have prayed and prayed and nothing seems to work. Does it mean God doesn't answer your prayers? No. It means that there is nothing wrong with you.

If you keep feeling you need to change, then you will always be depressed and in the end, you might end up committing suicide. And that will be a loss to you, your family and society.

Do not mind people who tell you that homosexuality can be corrected. It cannot. Because it is not a disorder nor an aberration. The American Psychiatric Association wasn't foolish when they removed it from their catalogue of diseases.

All those people who are quoted to have escaped homosexuality, try and trace their lives afterwards. And you will see things for yourself.
And all those people who are overtly homophobic, follow their lives nd you'll see things for yourself.

Getting married will not make you straight. Having sex with women will not make you straight. Even if you have as many women as Solomon had, it cannot make you straight. It cannot drown that same-sex attraction. It is a part of who you are.

Inasmuch as it is a part of who you are, dont make your life to be centered around your sexuality. That you're gay doesn't mean you can't be successful in your life nd career. Learn how to balance your life with your sexuality. That is the only way you can battle this depression you're talking about. Getting married will not make u overcome this depression. Rather it will make it worse (unless you're bisexual).

What you need in your life now is a close friend and confidante. Someone who can understand you. Someone who cn be there for you and also keep an eye on you and ur depressive tendencies. Whether man or woman, it doesnt matter. But that is the first step to healing yourself.

Then as time goes on, other steps will be made available to you.

daben1:
childish!!!

raphy:
i hv already told u all that they were male before they turn themself to female becouse of money in soccer.
all nigeria ex falcons are sex change

ixora3:
Ïîímy dear is not as lucrative as dentistry.how many pple eye d pain?agbo will jst reduce d pain but d problem is still dere.dentistry na hot course oh no go there

Franchise21:
Wats nw d diff b/w an opthamologist and an optometrist?

Cmanforall:
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Wrong choice, if you ask me. Spending 6 stressful years in University for this course is not worth it. Unless you just wanna answer Doctor.

I would advice you to go for Medicine. But if it seems too difficult to gain admission for that, you go for Dentistry/Nursing or Med. Lab. Science.


#my1kobo

Twaci:
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