| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 12:57pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
ronald4lif:
You still don't get it. People don't change their sexuality, it's a natural trait. Can a heterosexual change to gay, will you advise heterosexual to become gay? who says that? is it because the western government said it? it's a mindset. all you need is to switch on your humanity switch like Stefan. |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 12:59pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
MizMyColi:
An Excerpt From Uganda's President's Speech
"I, therefore, thought that it would be wrong to punish somebody because of how he was created, disgusting though it may be to us. That is why I refused to sign the Bill. In order to get to the truth, we involved Uganda Scientists as well as consulting Scientists from outside Uganda.
My question to them was: “Are there people that are homosexual right from birth?”. After exhaustive studies, it has been found that homosexuality is in two categories: there are those who engage in homosexuality for mercenary reasons on account of the under – developed sectors of our economy that cause people to remain in poverty, the great opportunities that abound not withstanding; and then there are those that become homosexual by both nature (genetic) and nurture (up-bringing).
The studies that were done on identical twins in Sweden showed that 34% - 39% were homosexual on account of nature and 66% were homosexual on account of nurture.
Therefore, even in those studies, nurture was more significant than nature. Can somebody be homosexual purely by nature without nurture? The answer is: “No”. No study has shown that. Since nurture is the main cause of homosexuality, then society can do something about it to discourage the trends."
Please school me more on this.
Thanks. I suggest you do your own research, not just taking an excerpt from a homophobic president. I can give links on various researches, but not going to waste my time because I have learnt a homophobe will always be a homophobe. |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 1:01pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Sagamite:
My favourite kind of gay is Anderson Cooper.
He does not flash his private life on people and I don't give a hoot what he does in the bedroom.
I have no problem with such people.
My worst kind of gay is Peter Tatchell, who wants to force everyone to accept homosexuality unquestioned.
I have a whole lot of problems with such people. Yea I love me some Cooper... Oh please your favourite kind of gay is me  Don't even know who Tatchell is..sounds like ratchet 1 Like |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Depressedguy:
Being gay is my life regret, i have questioned God and myself how i got to this stage. I just feel like commiting suicide.
Here is my story, my name is Frank, 26, a banker. I am the envy of most women, because am 6.2" tall, fair and very handsome. [b] look my dear, first of all, don't look down on yourself (hello? You are doing GREAT, some straight guys would "honestly" wish to be gay to get what you have so chill). 2. Have it at the back of your mind that "95%" of guys have gay tendencies, about 90% of them, have done same sex before (especially as kids? My wife, my wife, touch my tin I touch your tin kind of play and from there.....  ). 60% of the 90% might have fought it with chasing girls (which is rather jumping from frying pan to fire), these types are the ones that come to a thread like this and begin to shout "I hate gays, GOD punish them' whereas if you are in a corner with them they'll be the first to touch (where no one sees?)Hypocrisy!!. Note that they are now bi-sexual but still prefer same sex. Even their urge for same sex increases much more than before and they are usually the types that rape guys (the feminine ones especially). hmmm! I don't wish for the ungodly, gay law but should it be approved in nigeria, a lot of people (even house wives) would be in for a SHOCKER. Anyway! Few wise ones conquer it through prayers (like 10%), while the remaining 30% may be the ones like you that think NO SOLUTION. Now the bible said "for all have sinned, and come SHORT of the glory of GOD". As far as you are in this world, you have sin to battle with "all the time" (even if you are a general overseer) I tell you, while growing up, mine was even worse until I prayed it out (and the rubbish tin sweet ehn?). I am now really, sexually enticed when I see womens breast, and even where they open their legs anyhow. I'm the one sef that is even removing my eyes from women so as not to sin against GOD o. This is the work of prayer. When you start the prayer, it may feel like its difficult to leave but I tell you, one day you'll realized it's GONE!!! Beware of this nairaland (especially the ones shouting gay mofo etc.) They are usually CAPITAL gays who would pretend on one thread and send gay messages to probably someone like me o, who is innocently patronizing "RELIGIOUS and POLITICAL THREADS" o. Not that I'm even seriously commenting on gay threads o ABI? Don't kill yourself ok? GOD LOVES YOU. He knows your problem and he's willing to help only if you believe. Don't hate gayism because the society doesn't "hypocritically" like it (that would amount to GROSS HYPOCRISY on your part and GOD may not be willing to help you as he HATES hypocrisy) but hate gayism because "GOD doesn't like it". So incase the society accepts it, YOU won't move with the society but move with GOD (who hates gayism) and GOD will cure YOU SHARP! SHARP! Who says gayism has no cure? E dey kampe, and its in loving and accepting CHRIST JESUS as your LORD and "PERSONAL" saviour. GOD BLESS YOU BROTHER. Please!! Feel free to ask me any question(s) or create a thread in the religious section and quote me. Ill answer you hopefully GOD's Grace. Change your moniker bro, you are never a depressedguy, this case is not a serioous case jare, don't let the devil condemn you jare, HE IS NOT GOD. Let GOD himself forgive you and justify you. Forget any other comment and move on with your life. You are a success jare [/b] 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 1:05pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
A lot of pple are of d opinion there's a gay nature. There's no gay nature. Does the Bible say it is wrong? YES! Romans 1:27
I'm in this battle and by God's grace its very easy to come out victorious.
Some people blame God for giving them such orientation, its a CHOICE! Some say attraction is not same as having sex. Here's what Jesus says; anyone who thinks in his heart and has sexual desires has indeed committed sexual immorality. Matthew 5:28.
Do you want to leave this lifestyle, yes you can. You can be completely SAVED. How? Come unto me all ye that are heavy laden and I will give you rest. That's his word. He did not say drop your sins. He says come with it and he will take it away. When you have sincerely given yourself to God, his righteousness sets in. Your good lifestyle will not help you live a sinless life. Only the spirit of God, his Holy Spirit will give you freedom and dominion.
Forget about sexuality and focus on living a life that is acceptable in God's sight. How can you lead a Godly life? Have yourself work towards pleasing God only. This will happen once you give yourself completely to Christ. Ask for his forgiveness and he"ll make you a new creature. 2 Likes |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 1:06pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
slimmy05:
You are an ignorant dunderhead. I asked a simple question and your saying trash. "Did Christ destroy sodom and Gomorrah for homosexuality" you simply just showed how blind and silly you are.
Let me quote some for you and I want you to show where he destroyed Sodom and Gomorah due to homosexualit. Jeremiah 23:14:"...among the prophets of Jerusalem I have seen something horrible: They commit adultery and live a lie. They strengthen the hands of evildoers, so that no one turns from his wickedness. They are all like Sodom to me; the people of Jerusalem are like Gomorrah." Jeremiah compares the actions of the prophets with the adultery, lying and evil of the people of Sodom.
1; The entire first chapter is an utter condemnation of Judah. They are repeatedly compared with Sodom and Gomorrah in their evildoing and depravity. Throughout the chapter, the Prophet lists many sins of the people: rebelling against God, lacking in knowledge, deserting the Lord, idolatry, engaging in meaningless religious ritual, being unjust and oppressive to others, being insensitive to the needs of widows and orphans, committing murder, accepting bribes, etc.
Now, this is why Sodom and Gomorah was destroyed: Ezekiel 16:49-50:"Now this was the sin of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters were arrogant, overfed and unconcerned; they did not help the poor and needy. They were haughty and did detestable things before me. Therefore I did away with them as you have seen." God states clearly that he destroyed Sodom's sins because of their pride, their excess of food while the poor and needy suffered; sexual activity is not even mentioned.
You are a lazy and ignorant dunderhead. Gullible followers. I don't have time for dull heads like you. This is my last response to you. So adultery that was mentioned is a badminton exercise? |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Vikky014(f): 1:10pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
KevinBrown:
Whenever u hear GAY, what comes to ur mind is two guys banging each other in the a.ss abi?
Not all gay guys fancy gay sex. hmmmm.  |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Chinom(m): 1:16pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Starting with the hookers is a good idea. So I will advice you to follow up that thought. A big azzed well rounded Lagos ashawo will su*ck that gay tendencies out of you. You have the money to pay, so why waste time. Toasting girls will take a long time and may put you off.
Every gay man can be straightened by the right woman in bed. 1 Like |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by evwienure76: 1:21pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
my bro listen and listen good i like your conffesion i want you to do this firstly god has not created us for hell so my bro refuse that statement you are not bound for hell,hell is for the devil and is enemy secondly u need to repent the bible say for the wages of sin is dealth and the bible also make mention that the unrightious shall not inherit the kingdom of god he say be not deceived neither fornicator nor abusers of themselves with man kind which means gays .bro flee from it ok don follow after prostitute just go and ask of forgiveness from god |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by NobleG1(m): 1:30pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
olivegirl:
lie Why don't you state what was lie in my post you a*sshole! Dumb homophobic. |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 1:51pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Depressedguy:
Being gay is my life regret, i have questioned God and myself how i got to this stage. I just feel like commiting suicide.
Here is my story, my name is Frank, 26, a banker. I am the envy of most women, because am 6.2" tall, fair and very handsome. My nickname is Ramsey Noah, this is to tell you how good looking i am. But i have a very BIG problem, i am attracted to the same sex.
This is a problem i have come to notice at teen, i love girls company more than guys, i play all the girl plays and hate football, am guessing that could be where my formation was transposed. I ended up liking what girls like when am not one. But i have come to change a few things becuase i went to a boarding house and was always ridiculed for that. So i changed so many things there, the way i talk, the way i walk, and my gestures, also i love football now more than anything, but my sexuality has refused to change.
I have all it takes to get a woman, i have a good job, a car, and live alone. But at this age, i have not seen a womans pants not to talk of getting in between. But i have so many female friends, so many that the always take me for a player. Am jovial with them, buy them gifts and treat them well, but am not sexually attracted to any of them and have no feelings whatsoever. Am just a good guy, i know that, because that is the best i can do to cover up my little secret. And they(ladies) love me too and many are dying for my attention. I have been asked out so many times by ladies. One even offered to pay all the bills just for us to get intimate, but i declined, lying that i have a girlfriend i dont want to cheat on.
To make matters worse, i hate being gay, sometimes i go celibate for as long as six(6) months simply because i hate my life and my sexuality. Am always alone, indoors all through the weekend, because going out with guys will result to girl talk and i have nothing to contribute, me of all persons, so hard to believe. I also hate gay companies, so many regrets afterwards as to why i am this way. I envy straight guys to the core, i so much wish i am one. When i see a guy and a girl holding hands and taking a walk, i have this feeling of giult amd hatred for myself that i quickly get depressed.
Here is the problem, i want to marry early, at least before 28 or max 30. I need to connect to a woman and force myself into a relationship. I need to get attracted to a womans body, and get turned on by that. And finally, i need to learn how to tolerate a woman, and live with thier baggage. Am comfortable as a single man, i dont mind living alone till i die, i can cook well and am not a sex freak, i can live for years without it. But i want kids, i love them and cant wait to have a daughter. I have once told myself that once i get married and have kids, i will divoorce my wife and live alone then the kids can stay anywhere. But this idea is pure foolishness.
I am very religious, as a matter if fact, this conditionn is the only sin i battle with, i know we all have one. I hardly commit any other sin. But i know that just this one is very mortal, but we are all strugglling because we are all flesh. It takes the grace of God to overcome sin generally.(Please dont come and critisize, we are all going to the same hell: homosexual, hetrosexual; and no sin is worse than the other.)
This my condition is getting me more depressed by the day and sometimes i wish to end my life. But i like my life more than anything, so am thinking of patronising prostitutes at least to get feel of what it takes like. But am afriad of STIs.
Please help a brother... if this is true and you're being sincere,i'll help out. Send me an email with yer digits and we'll trash it out. Hope you're on whatsapp? |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by iamord(m): 2:42pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
RaeMystix:
You're counting on a behavioral/ physiology therapiist to handle that case?.
First I think delivarance should be the first step to take, and then taking some counseling sessions ( with also prayers), to help guide him and be as a form of support System.
my dear. Prayer works but is not the needed answer to everything. It's just like people that have been affected by genocide. There need to be rehabilitation. To help change their frame of mind and bring them back to the society. . Am not downplaying the power of prayer. Cos I believe in it. But I can also tell u that the place he may be going to may worsen issues. Cos alot of the so called pastorshave little understanding of the matter. Before embarking on a fast or whatsoever. There is need for direction. To hear from God. Else he will fast and come back a dry lanky sex starved gay . Sometimes the things we seek are closer than we think. I'll use moses as example. The power to divide the red Sea was in his hands. But he kept knocking on the door of heaven for a answer. Until God told him to use what's in his hand.. Understanding of situations is key. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 2:52pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
I ve heard of people like you who committed suicide or remained single to the end. So take it easy with the guilt. Life is too short to live that way. I believe that there are websites you can visit to meet gay people like you. Every one deserves to be happy. Just don't get caught in Naija because people are not that civilised around here. |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Klinee: 2:57pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Depressedguy:
Wow, good to hear from you guys, all advises will be duely considered; but the decision is mine. As for those who came to curse and bash, I cant be stronger without you guys, more curse, more determination.
To the matter at hand, I am in this dilemma because of my religious inclination. Don't get me wrong, I would have lived my life to the fullest but there is pile, cancer of the anus, STIs and most especially HIV. And we all know that gays are more prone to them. Above all, it is SIN and that is the most important. I have a very promising future, die now cause of a stupid act, no way.
There are so many questions we cant answer. Who created the imbeciles, the blind, the cripple, the deaf, the dumb etc, none of us will say that it is God, but then how did they come into existence, did the devil create them or are they straight from the pit of hell. We all know that those people aren't normal, when compared to a "normal" human being but are they EVIL, are they possessed of a demon that needs to be cast out or do they need to be sent to prison for 14 years? Of course not, because they are not guilty of who they are because they are born that way. We only see them as abnormal because we live in a world where normal is a being born with two legs, two eyes, 46 chromosomes, can talk and can speak.
Same is for gays, they are normal human being with a different sexual preference. They are not evil, they are not sick, they are not mentally derailed and they are not possessed of any demon. You can say that they are sexually abnormal, because we live in world where normal is male and female and not male to male nor female to female. That is just the difference they simply have a different SEXUAL ORIENTATION.
Scientists can prove the abnormalities in these aforementioned disabilities, they can categorically say what caused them and why they occurred, but science can not say the actual cause of HOMOSEXUALITY, there is no scientific proof of that. The best they came up with was that is it just a habit. A hardcore habit that is very difficult to trace how and when it was acquired. This is not a fact though cause there are so many different stories about when and how gays started having the same sex attraction.
It pains me more where heterosexuals are at liberty to fornicate and go scot free but homosexuals don't. They even discuss it openly and brag about it, it is now an Olympic race, everybody competing for the gold. But talk of a homosexual, the next thing you hear is kill him, shoot him, burn him, maim him; and we all fail to realise that anywhere in the Bible that homosexuality was mentioned, adultery and fornication follows suit and they have the same punishment, death.
So we should stop deceiving ourselves, especially those who claim to be homophobic, one thing is being straight, another is being gay, take It or leave it. I have come to hate myself simply because religion says so, but am going to try, the worst I can become is BISEXUAL, then I will have to live with it.
Devilish i.diot! How can u compare your mind-set with human nature? slowpoke,dumb,deaf, they are not abnormal people but they find themselves in abnormal body condition. They do not have feeling or attracted to be slowpoke,deaf or dumb. You should classify yourself with succide-bomber, who feel or attracted to blow himself or a peadophile who is attracted sexual to young age of even 4 months old. Gays,succiders, arm-rubber,canibalist, peadophile,bestials are practical act which they think of(feeling or attracted to) before going to do. Human was never divided into two sexuality(straight and gay),if its so what of those who feel attract sexual to things that is neither man or woman? That you feel attracted is what you thought in mind. Now the reason why a gay should be kill is by considering the barbaric nature of gayism just like a canibalist. Even God almight say that we should kill any gay person around us. God can never create u gay and still ask us to kill u. Or are trying to tell us that God is acting stupid? No its you who have devilize your mind-set. Therefore you deserve death by hanging. |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by usmanspihn(m): 3:22pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Depressedguy:
Being gay is my life regret, i have questioned God and myself how i got to this stage. I just feel like commiting suicide.
Here is my story, my name is Frank, 26, a banker. I am the envy of most women, because am 6.2" tall, fair and very handsome. My nickname is Ramsey Noah, this is to tell you how good looking i am. But i have a very BIG problem, i am attracted to the same sex.
This is a problem i have come to notice at teen, i love girls company more than guys, i play all the girl plays and hate football, am guessing that could be where my formation was transposed. I ended up liking what girls like when am not one. But i have come to change a few things becuase i went to a boarding house and was always ridiculed for that. So i changed so many things there, the way i talk, the way i walk, and my gestures, also i love football now more than anything, but my sexuality has refused to change.
I have all it takes to get a woman, i have a good job, a car, and live alone. But at this age, i have not seen a womans pants not to talk of getting in between. But i have so many female friends, so many that the always take me for a player. Am jovial with them, buy them gifts and treat them well, but am not sexually attracted to any of them and have no feelings whatsoever. Am just a good guy, i know that, because that is the best i can do to cover up my little secret. And they(ladies) love me too and many are dying for my attention. I have been asked out so many times by ladies. One even offered to pay all the bills just for us to get intimate, but i declined, lying that i have a girlfriend i dont want to cheat on.
To make matters worse, i hate being gay, sometimes i go celibate for as long as six(6) months simply because i hate my life and my sexuality. Am always alone, indoors all through the weekend, because going out with guys will result to girl talk and i have nothing to contribute, me of all persons, so hard to believe. I also hate gay companies, so many regrets afterwards as to why i am this way. I envy straight guys to the core, i so much wish i am one. When i see a guy and a girl holding hands and taking a walk, i have this feeling of giult amd hatred for myself that i quickly get depressed.
Here is the problem, i want to marry early, at least before 28 or max 30. I need to connect to a woman and force myself into a relationship. I need to get attracted to a womans body, and get turned on by that. And finally, i need to learn how to tolerate a woman, and live with thier baggage. Am comfortable as a single man, i dont mind living alone till i die, i can cook well and am not a sex freak, i can live for years without it. But i want kids, i love them and cant wait to have a daughter. I have once told myself that once i get married and have kids, i will divoorce my wife and live alone then the kids can stay anywhere. But this idea is pure foolishness.
I am very religious, as a matter if fact, this conditionn is the only sin i battle with, i know we all have one. I hardly commit any other sin. But i know that just this one is very mortal, but we are all strugglling because we are all flesh. It takes the grace of God to overcome sin generally.(Please dont come and critisize, we are all going to the same hell: homosexual, hetrosexual; and no sin is worse than the other.)
This my condition is getting me more depressed by the day and sometimes i wish to end my life. But i like my life more than anything, so am thinking of patronising prostitutes at least to get feel of what it takes like. But am afriad of STIs.
Please help a brother... My first question is are you the bender or the bendee. When that has been answered, have you tried chuking ur JT inside puna and experienced the feeling, if you liked it, start entering |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 3:38pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Sagamite:
My favourite kind of gay is Anderson Cooper.
He does not flash his private life on people and I don't give a hoot what he does in the bedroom.
I have no problem with such people.
Gawd, I didn't even know that Anderson Cooper is gay. He's such a stunning man |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Janyves(m): 3:40pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
@ OP your I can see that your mind is willing to let go of the homo-ish, but some challenges cannot be defeated alone.... I don't know your faith/religion, but anyways try to ask your creator to intervene.(Through fasting and prayers) and if you feel you need more help,holla @ me, my mum is a councellor/pastor.
PEACE |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 3:42pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
shadowgwalker:
who says that? is it because the western government said it?
it's a mindset.
all you need is to switch on your humanity switch like Stefan. Look at this Vampire Diaries and Originals freak laying erroneous emphasis on what she has no idea about SMH 1 Like |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 3:47pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Klinee:
Devilish i.diot! How can u compare your mind-set with human nature? slowpoke,dumb,deaf, they are not abnormal people but they find themselves in abnormal body condition. They do not have feeling or attracted to be slowpoke,deaf or dumb. You should classify yourself with succide-bomber, who feel or attracted to blow himself or a peadophile who is attracted sexual to young age of even 4 months old. Gays,succiders, arm-rubber,canibalist, peadophile,bestials are practical act which they think of(feeling or attracted to) before going to do. Human was never divided into two sexuality(straight and gay),if its so what of those who feel attract sexual to things that is neither man or woman? That you feel attracted is what you thought in mind. Now the reason why a gay should be kill is by considering the barbaric nature of gayism just like a canibalist. Even God almight say that we should kill any gay person around us. God can never create u gay and still ask us to kill u. Or are trying to tell us that God is acting stupid? No its you who have devilize your mind-set. Therefore you deserve death by hanging. Look at who is talking about God,, after insulting your fellow human Of course I am not a supporter of homosexuality but that doesn't mean that I should insult another person just because of his sexual preference. Suffice to say, you are the one who his behaviour and general disposition is totally"inhumane". So you would kill someone for something they have no control of ? By the way which God do you even serve that admonishes his followers to kill gays? 2 Likes |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by elafavoured: 3:47pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
ronald4lif:
Oh well.
Can the religious propagandists now scroll downwards Embrase God He is the only solution. |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Esdb3: 4:34pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
ronald4lif:
You still don't get it. People don't change their sexuality, it's a natural trait. Can a heterosexual change to gay, will you advise heterosexual to become gay? you are a dang fool! Nobody was made gay. Being gay is one of the highest sexual shrewdness one can be or feel, the highest for me is bestiality or necrophilia. Take necrophilia for example, will you say it is normal and one can't be changed from being it? I'm straight as Bleep yet I've been so lustful to the point that I wished a man had sex with me and I hate the gay agenda with passion. Because the white demon possessed fools have legalized it doesn't mean it is right. Like poles repel like poles dummy, the male and female sexual organs were put infront for a reason. I bet you will say transexuals are okay too. YOU are the one who DONT GET NOTHING! |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Klinee: 5:11pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
missclasssy:
Look at who is talking about God,, after insulting your fellow human
Of course I am not a supporter of homosexuality but that doesn't mean that I should insult another person just because of his sexual preference.
Suffice to say, you are the one who his behaviour and general disposition is totally"inhumane". So you would kill someone for something they have no control of ?
By the way which God do you even serve that admonishes his followers to kill gays? What kind of mumu be this? Well, that is what was writen, at the end time people will be having no natural feeling. Animal! Continue with your unnatural live till you see yourself in hell. |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by fpeter(f): 5:38pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
(Please dont come and critisize, we are all going to the same hell: homosexual, hetrosexual; and no sin is worse than the other.)
I beg to differ. I am not going to hell @ OP dear.
As for your ungodly affections please seek God.
HE will help you deal with the issue. Good luck and
please don't kill yourself. |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by itsMrIke(m): 5:40pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Chinom:
Starting with the hookers is a good idea. So I will advice you to follow up that thought. A big azzed well rounded Lagos ashawo will su*ck that gay tendencies out of you. You have the money to pay, so why waste time. Toasting girls will take a long time and may put you off.
Every gay man can be straightened by the right woman in bed. So what happens to those guys who have girlfriends, wives and still have gay lovers??!! Ignorance na wa!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by mzchinny(f): 5:54pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
just pray to God about it. There's still hope as many have successfully transformed. |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by AYEGBEGE(m): 6:05pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
accept JESUS |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 6:20pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Klinee:
Devilish i.diot! How can u compare your mind-set with human nature? slowpoke,dumb,deaf, they are not abnormal people but they find themselves in abnormal body condition. They do not have feeling or attracted to be slowpoke,deaf or dumb. You should classify yourself with succide-bomber, who feel or attracted to blow himself or a peadophile who is attracted sexual to young age of even 4 months old. Gays,succiders, arm-rubber,canibalist, peadophile,bestials are practical act which they think of(feeling or attracted to) before going to do. Human was never divided into two sexuality(straight and gay),if its so what of those who feel attract sexual to things that is neither man or woman? That you feel attracted is what you thought in mind. Now the reason why a gay should be kill is by considering the barbaric nature of gayism just like a canibalist. Even God almight say that we should kill any gay person around us. God can never create u gay and still ask us to kill u. Or are trying to tell us that God is acting stupid? No its you who have devilize your mind-set. Therefore you deserve death by hanging. |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 6:40pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Eastherbunny:
@op you're not gay.
For the fact that you hate being gay means collective you are normal but have a medical problem. Pls go and see a doctor. Your assertions could be wrong , feeling guilty about it could be as a result of religious indoctrination , he probably has heard it over and over again from church and other religious affiliations that homosexuality is condemnable to hell. The African setting is highly anti-homosexuality and even his family and friends will admonish him for being gay. @op : Embrace your sexuality and if you feel it's as a result of certain indices while growing up see a psychologist , notwithstanding love yourself. 1 Like |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by nope: 6:45pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
Depressedguy:
Being gay is my life regret, i have questioned God and myself how i got to this stage. I just feel like commiting suicide.
Here is my story, my name is Frank, 26, a banker. I am the envy of most women, because am 6.2" tall, fair and very handsome. My nickname is Ramsey Noah, this is to tell you how good looking i am. But i have a very BIG problem, i am attracted to the same sex.
This is a problem i have come to notice at teen, i love girls company more than guys, i play all the girl plays and hate football, am guessing that could be where my formation was transposed. I ended up liking what girls like when am not one. But i have come to change a few things becuase i went to a boarding house and was always ridiculed for that. So i changed so many things there, the way i talk, the way i walk, and my gestures, also i love football now more than anything, but my sexuality has refused to change.
I have all it takes to get a woman, i have a good job, a car, and live alone. But at this age, i have not seen a womans pants not to talk of getting in between. But i have so many female friends, so many that the always take me for a player. Am jovial with them, buy them gifts and treat them well, but am not sexually attracted to any of them and have no feelings whatsoever. Am just a good guy, i know that, because that is the best i can do to cover up my little secret. And they(ladies) love me too and many are dying for my attention. I have been asked out so many times by ladies. One even offered to pay all the bills just for us to get intimate, but i declined, lying that i have a girlfriend i dont want to cheat on.
To make matters worse, i hate being gay, sometimes i go celibate for as long as six(6) months simply because i hate my life and my sexuality. Am always alone, indoors all through the weekend, because going out with guys will result to girl talk and i have nothing to contribute, me of all persons, so hard to believe. I also hate gay companies, so many regrets afterwards as to why i am this way. I envy straight guys to the core, i so much wish i am one. When i see a guy and a girl holding hands and taking a walk, i have this feeling of giult amd hatred for myself that i quickly get depressed.
Here is the problem, i want to marry early, at least before 28 or max 30. I need to connect to a woman and force myself into a relationship. I need to get attracted to a womans body, and get turned on by that. And finally, i need to learn how to tolerate a woman, and live with thier baggage. Am comfortable as a single man, i dont mind living alone till i die, i can cook well and am not a sex freak, i can live for years without it. But i want kids, i love them and cant wait to have a daughter. I have once told myself that once i get married and have kids, i will divoorce my wife and live alone then the kids can stay anywhere. But this idea is pure foolishness.
I am very religious, as a matter if fact, this conditionn is the only sin i battle with, i know we all have one. I hardly commit any other sin. But i know that just this one is very mortal, but we are all strugglling because we are all flesh. It takes the grace of God to overcome sin generally.(Please dont come and critisize, we are all going to the same hell: homosexual, hetrosexual; and no sin is worse than the other.)
This my condition is getting me more depressed by the day and sometimes i wish to end my life. But i like my life more than anything, so am thinking of patronising prostitutes at least to get feel of what it takes like. But am afriad of STIs.
Please help a brother... Take it easy bro. You might think there is no way out...don't do anything rash now. Some of us accept you as you are. Still, do not neglect to read your bible daily and meditate upon it. Pray for God's guidance. He will show you the way because he cares for you. He see all of our struggles.  |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 6:46pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
jmoore:
Some gays have turned around having seen the light. They rejected homosexuality and other immoral acts attached to it.
Below is testimony from a former Gay advocate
If a former gay advocate can reject homosexuality, you can do it too.
Don't swallow the lie that "You were born that way". Homosexuality is insanity, it is evil!!! Reject it and be set free!!
In the words of Former gay activist, Michael Glatze "Homosexuality is death, and I choose life.”
He could be bisexual and was only exploring one half of his sexism before trying out the other half |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 6:47pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
missclasssy:
Look at this Vampire Diaries and Originals freak laying erroneous emphasis on what she has no idea about
SMH I no you are homo, don't worry I won't kill you. don't be guilty, just switch back to your human nature. 1 Like |
| Re: Gay And Depressed. by Nobody: 6:48pm On Mar 29, 2015 |
jmoore:
Some gays have turned around having seen the light. They rejected homosexuality and other immoral acts attached to it.
Below is testimony from a former Gay advocate
If a former gay advocate can reject homosexuality, you can do it too.
Don't swallow the lie that "You were born that way". Homosexuality is insanity, it is evil!!! Reject it and be set free!!
In the words of Former gay activist, Michael Glatze "Homosexuality is death, and I choose life.”
He could be bisexual and was only exploring one half of his sexism before trying out the other half. |
