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I cannot last a week without killing

Are you guys serious right now?

I had a friend in a similar position as "your boy".some friends in our clan swore never to talk to him if he took a certain girl back ! If ur boy has told his boyz...haha

Haha i know all about that.... guys have lots of mean names for dudes like this

@ all the people suggesting the Op will be used, im sure she is smarter than that

If the guy tries to use her for sex all shes got to do is say no and keep it moving.. i believe the purpose of her thread was how to revive interest, not how to 'avoid being used'

Nevertheless OP i really suggest you don't do it. If you really are more attractive, im sure you have more options

[quote author=~vicky~]Oh well another life down the drain. Mind you if he was the kind of person who got a girl pregnant I can't imagine he was very smart nor had any future prospects to throw away.[/quote]He was 11! what on earth is wrong with you ppl?

fulanigirl: This is such an old story. It was a publicity stunt, the real dad is around the same age as the girl.

Good, and it exposed the sick brains of alot of so called adults on this site

@ viky and Co' Please don't raise sons.... you don't deserve the privilege.

Yes i dey kill am... but seriously is he still making music? i haven't heard of that dude since 2007.

[size=15pt]Behold the libido of the black man!.... you are not a rabbit, you are a human. Invest in porn[/size]

dvdon: But he lied to her that they were agemates. I wonder what currupted dat boy at that little age.

If a 15 year old boy impregnated your 11 year old daughter and gave that same stupid excuse would you believe?

So this is how you people protect your sons... no wonder

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Well, he wasn't molested so he shares the blame with her. The girl said he told her they were age mates. They're young and were probably experimenting. I'd expect a 15 year old to have sense and investigate her boyfriend's school and actual grade, but their minds must have been on one thing.[/size]

Ma'am are you ok?

This is why i don't like it when you people reply to my comments... you have no sense at all. Do you have any 11 year old relatives or even children? do you know how undeveloped their minds are? This is statutory rape. Maybe you cant see it because its a boy, but i'm sure you would disagree if some 15 yr old slime-ball impregnated your 11 yr old baby...

Stop with the disgusting double standards.

And please don't reply back to me, i'm sure you are a p.edophile yourself to be trying to find excuses for this sickness

[quote author=legal-tender]The subject of this discussion is very attractive and was quite aware of that fact, one of the reasons I believed he may not be quite ready for a committed relationship. He isn't aware of what happened with the other guy.
Nothing to do with finances and social status and we would probably be on around the same income at the moment and I know for a fact that I am lot "hotter" than I was when he asked me out.[/quote]That is not possible ma'am.

Is Omarion still alive?

Lol mondi cheecks the only women who deserve a man like that are the ones who:

Clean up everything in the house and cook a hot meal

never argue

Never nag

Never talk back...

... etc etc etc. Grow up, this is not 1950. Women need to accept the new gender dynamic. (you created it with feminism)

The parents of this child should be shot... an 11 year old is a baby and shouldn't even have had his spermarche yet. What were his parents doing letting him date this creature? I don't think you guys realize how sick it is for a 15 year old to have done this to a 11 yr old.

When this dumb boy grows up he will hate them all. (ps a wonder when hes gunna start paying child support)

[quote author=Mynd_44]Why does everyone thing her reaching out is desperate? If it was the guy asking her out, we see nothing bad in it but if the girl sees what she likes she is despearate?

@OP, how are you so sure he does not want you back but his pride won't let him cos he is scared of hearing no again?

What do you have to lose from reaching out? He says no and you know for sure or he says yes and you move on too[/quote]Because she herself thinks its desperate. The female ego is very fragile... thats just a fact of life.

Its one of the key differences between males and females... men are risk takers, women are risk adverse.

milychocs: I remember my secondary school days and how I used to see those single, female teachers we called 'aunties"
They mostly were slim, "wicked", and wore too much make up
I would look at them, and wish that they were not unhappy

I would see them chatting and laughing with the male teachers, not so much with the married female teachers, etc
These ladies must have all been between 30 and 40....I always thought they needed men to complete them

Fast forward to this day, I am them, lol...I am a single, working lady in this age bracket, well behaved (most times sha), nice, hard working, and content....usually happy and chatty with guys, and not so much with married female folks (apart from my friends)...had my heart broken once, thoroughly, broke 2 hearts definitely, and 1 possibly, still rolls eyes at the thought of menopause,(maybe cos I have a niece I adore and think of as mine?) and still know I cannot settle for less just so I can belong..(maybe the fact that I earn money, and am older and wiser has also made me maybe too independent/strong

Point is, I wonder what teenage girls like me then see when they look at me? A real, happy, good at her job/life lady? Or
a spinster with too much attempts at trying to be young, pitiable and old, who should get married already or move in to a nursing home!

I wonder sha...

[size=15pt] What a touching post my child.[/size]

[quote author=Raggedy_Ann]someone who gets us, puts our needs first
makes us feel special,
someone who feels responsible for us.[/quote]Anyone else realize that the things women look for in men are extreamly selfish, even if they are not financial? Abi wat does the nigga get out of the deal.. a thank you?

[quote author=legal-tender]Thanks Gboliwe.
I hope I can summon the courage to make first contact, again. [/quote]Weigh your options.. what would feel worse; never speaking to him again or being rejected by him?

[size=15pt]Yes, after reading everything here i think you should. There is no point in doing something that has such a high probability of making you upset.

But fear not my child! it has been prophesized that you will meet your dream man at Akpabiom market square, 5 a.m in the month of Obatala... it will be well with you ooooooo![/size]

[size=15pt]Only with a sword[/size]

promkingzz: Sean, uve been a naughty little imp! Liedown there my friend ! *flogsthellouttaseantillhisassisred* mama emma...sorry for una

You r blamming an 11 year old boy because a 15 yr old slept with him?

Wow your brain is slush.

Now on the flip side... there is a unique sort of annoyance that dudes feel when a girl who rejected them in the past comes back. He becomes ultra-aware of the baggage you accumulated between then and now.

Hello everyone.
This is really a question for the guys, preferably mature guys. (I already know what the ladies would advise).
I need straight to the point practical answers.

[size=15pt]Haha funny[/size]
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I'm going to give you man advice... just forget about what he thinks and choose your own destiny, even if you appear desperate what did you loose?[/size]

If women stopped wearing make-up tommorow (including fake hair etc.) believe me, they will be the ones toasting you

[size=15pt]Lo' how the daughters of Africa have suffered! [/size]

Its because females skin ages more... thats why they wear make-up and we dont. This is something i noticed also. If you are a guy like me, who likes facial beauty only 1 in every 20 girls you see will look decent without make-up

that post had a deep subliminal message that flew waaaaaay over yalls heads.

Exactly.. and if a woman wont make me a sandwhich i wont defend her

#onlyfair

no.. keep your 'samples', and keep your whining. I don't care about either.

If there is one thing i'm sure of.. is that yall deserve everything that u r getting

pheyikemi: always cite ur examples.

how about you cite your samples, for the millions of generalizations you ladies have spread throughout this thread? You ladies have no concept of reason or balance... everything you say is about what you 'feel' and what you feel is not based in fact.

Just talking to you guys here made me harden my heart even more... i still love black women.. but your type is worthless. Sorry ... i just dont care

@topic get over it, next time Don Imus calls you a nappy headed hoe, you wont get my support.

[quote author=damilola_luv]Yes i agree. It takes two so i acknowledge that i hope you do too. Truth is when something nasty is said by blk men blk women usually defend them but nowadays because of the way some blk women treat and say bad things abt blk women. They don;t feel the need to do that anymore[/quote][size=15pt]black women are usually the ones saying something bad about black men... (and vice versa) stop playing innocent victim.

Im not even playing around anymore... you ladies are are showing a disturbing lack of common sense.[/size]

[quote author=damilola_luv]Lmao your comment is just full of generalisations. So Asian and White men are weak? Every black woman is mad and angry? What protection? The only protection blk men will do for any women(if they are lucky) is for their mothers or sisters. Apart from that blk men are useless. Stop "protecting us". We are not missing much since u have done jack for us[/quote][size=15pt] Doesn't your comment also generalize?.... does the OP not also genralize?

There is no logic among you... any black man you puts up with this is a fool. [/size]

[size=15pt]Enough phlemy.... i dey tire for dis negro. [/size]