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A man who raises another mans seed was once called a cuckold, after a species of male bird that does the same. This was
considered so shamefull that in old English the word "cockold" was synonomous with fool.

The men of 2013 have lost their dignity...and the women will too, just wait

^^ What kinda nonsense is that? his mother deserves to know. @ The op your mother is the only female who has your best interests at heart... don't listen to these decievers


@ All the rest if you men.. yall are evolutionary failures. I can not even imagine dating, let alone marrying a woman with kids... not even in a dream.

I thought this was something only african american men did, i am sickend to hear that African men are so shameless aswell. When 70% of the children born, are born out of wedlock you will know what a mistake you made by accepting this kinda nonesense

As i always say, the worst female behaviors are enabled by men with no standards.

When she called him stingy it hurt his "ego" lol

one day you have to realize that is guys like yall, 'just trying to be nice' who caused the over-materialism in Nigerian women. Who would not beg if they knew they could always get money?

[size=15pt]The problem starts and ends with men[/size]

What is up with nairaland ladies and this endless crusade against the "male ego". There is hardly a post on here without women, and men, yap yap yapping about the horrors of male self esteem.

First off, why do ladies feel so threatened by it? And second off... is your own ego not twice as big? These are the same ladies who make a man chase them for 3 months then come on the internet to whine about the "male ego"

[size=15pt]why are people so dumb [/size]

If i could call a girl up and get money from her do you think i wouldnt do it?

[size=15pt]and every other man would too, thats the possition YOU put them in[/size]

^ Are u kidding me?

You Naija men are a lost tribe of monkeys. How do you want complain about ladies feeling entitled to your money yet when a woman you have not even seen for 3 months asks for money you give like a mumu? How exactly is that teaching her to be more responsible?

You guys have to admit that 99% of the messed up and silly behavior in Nigerian women comes from the over-stupidity of nigerian men

FACT

I say to you and everyone else with your mentality, to refrain from having sex with anyone. You are putting a heavy and unfair burden on them with your over-exaggerated definition of ra.pe.

Sex you agreed to can never be rape... no matter how much you people babble, such stupidity will not penetrate my fortified mind.

navygrl: . She essentially did tell him to stop. She told him he must stop prior to orgasm he refused. Ra.pe is doing something sexually without the willing consent to it. She was not willing to to have sex but not the internal orgasm. He was told upfront he had to stop at a particular point and refused there is no difference between being told to stop mid way through because she changed her mind and was no longer comfortable and this. None. Period.

And forget that it's her husband he has every right bullshit. The va.gina is on her body she and only she dictates what occurs with it. A man wants a va.gina he can have full control over then he needs to grow one

Look lady, you have nothing to teach me. I have my common sense and i know what rape his, and i know what rape is not. A million intelligent posters have explained how this is not rape, and i wont bother doing it again.

If you don't want to listen to logic that is your problem, but make sure that when a man accuses a woman of raping him for lying that she was on the pill, you defend that insanity also. I'm not going to go back and forth with you on this

Good day.

MRbrownJAY: open your mind bro, if i have sex with a girl and for some reason during the bedroom acrobatic she says STOP, then i have to stop, same if i want to do an act that she is NOT willing to do. if she tells me that she doesnt want to have an.al sex but i do it anyway (against her will/wishes), then that is RA:PE .........whether she wanted to have vag.inal sex with me or not.

it all falls under se.xual abuse, and as much as you believe that ra.pe is just sexual penetration against a person's will, it is much more than that! anything remotely sexual against a person's will is se.xual abuse.

Dont try and convince me of what i know is wrong.

If the woman had told the man to stop during sex, and he continued, everyone can agree that that is a rape. If the man had penetrated her anus against her will, everyone would agree that that is rape. But That is not what happened here

She agreed to have sex and they had sex. Only after they were finished she decided that she had been raped... perhaps several months later when she found out she was pregnant. That is completely different that what a normal person would consider rape. And is a disturbing legal precedent that i don't think you even understand

Because your partner does something you don't like doesn't mean the whole intercourse was a rape. If that is your mentality suggest you refrain from having sex because you are putting an unfair burden on everyone you sleep with

[size=15pt]Beyold! This arguement is so silly you guys.[/size] Rape is forced sex, you can have r.ape if both parties agreed to sex!

I can understand people calling this a "sex crime", and maybe even fining the man money... but if you think this is an actual rape than your veiws on life are warped.

Why don't you guys talk to someone who was ACTUALLY raped and you will see that it is a radically different situation. How can you people be putting these two things at the same level?

...... People are really not smart nowadays

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Perhaps you have heard of the Brain banks case? an 18 yr old man who was wrongly accused of rape by his vindictive girlfriend?

The guy went to prison for 20 yrs based on no evidence but her word. And that is the only way date-rape and marital rape laws can function effectivly. It is hard to get evidence and the jury is usally biased

The reason why so many men have a problem with feminists is because you dont know when you are being unreasonable and you dont care when your so called "rights" infringe upon the rights and freedoms of other people. Namely us men.

"Married rape" is illegal in about 100 out of 189 countries which is good enough, considering that in many of the contries where it is not written in law guys can be burned alive for stealing sneakers... Maybe when those countries get their legal systems in order they can focus on issues like that.

And secondly, people like you have no understanding of the unfair situation you place men in. Whether they realize it or not, policies like this one pose a real danger to all guys. It is nearly impossible to prove or disprove an allegation of "martial rape", and when such cases go to court, the court simply has to take the womans word for it.

she can fake cry... you cant

A.K.A the perfect revenge for a vindictive woman...There is no logical reason to give people power over each other like that.. and so the most reasonable course for soceity to take is to let women have to simple responsibilitly of picking safe partners that wont rape them.

If you looked at this from the logical perspective you would realize that that is not too much to ask. No one forces women to get married.

^ I understand you

All i'm saying is don't spread BS. I can understand that you feel like you have been wronged and don't want that to happen to anyone else, but that doesn't give you license to spread misleading information.

What do you mean by de-genderize? Gender is good, men and women benefit from it. And no it is not "legal" for a husband to rape a wife, or this case from the OP would have never made it to court.

If rape is a real threat in someones marriage... they should not have gotten married in the first place. I think the average woman is capable enough to understand that.

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[size=15pt]There is only one bad thing on that list.... vs 9 good things.


imma wife up a mammy water![/size]

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]the man who wrote that book is neither and he has something u probably wont have...MONEY!!! If u even opened the book u will it tell women the truth they might not want to hear [/quote][size=15pt]
Hey now. Im just telling u the truth

If you want to believe that book fine, im not going to stress over it.[/size]

[size=15pt]Django protected black women enough for all of us. [/size]

[size=15pt]Thats like me saying "murder is the constant process of intimidation by which all women keep all other women in a constant state of fear"


you see how silly that sounds? I hope you understand what i mean about the "feminine angle".


lol[/size]

netozii: Lets not forget that contraception is the keyword in this case. It is a joke cos a woman is in the center, none of us want to view it from a feminine angle. Most men will say that they enjoy intercourse 'un-CONDOMised' without considering the out come of the unprotected act. The story we read is not complete cos we were not told why the couple decided to stop reproduction; whether a pregnancy will be a risk to the lady's life or possibly, the man may selfishly want to lay the lady and preach abortion when the lady gets pregnant. In my view, acts like this should be classified under RAPE. I see it as rape cos even after the pleasure, the woman felt violated.
netozii
www.kobolife.com

feminine angle = illogical angle

Rap.e is forced sex... has always been, and always will be. You cant agree to sex and then just because it didn't go the way you wanted accuse another human being a R.apist.

and i read your link "R.ape is more or less than a conscious process of intimidation by which all men keep all women in a state of fear" you sound like a loony to me.

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]this is a 21st century book... [/quote]The only 21st century man who would do all that for a modern woman is probably 5'2 200lbs and impotent.

Books like this were written to make money of single black women, so they tell you what you want to hear. Not the truth.

But there are dumb and desperate guys out there if thats what you are looking for

Cops in Pennsylvania, US, said that Hayes had bitten her boyfriend’s arm and grabbed his testicles before he fled.

Erotical that would have been some wild sex. Behold the libido of the snow woman!

You make the most idiotic threads.. are you onlia?

so you have had ppl call you gay in the past, and now you are joining in on the fun?

^ not cool. Arent you worried that someone will call you a homo before you go accusing other men? Lol wetin be dis one

This must be joke

Who would get away with all dis ones.