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Car TalkRe: The Official Car Comparison/Recommendation Thread by kobams(m): 10:19pm On Sep 21, 2024
nurey:
No idea of the cost but a 330i of same generation cost 40m, the 340i should exceed that by a little margin
That’s alright, thanks chief
Do you know any reliable BMW dealer?
Car TalkRe: The Official Car Comparison/Recommendation Thread by kobams(m): 7:13pm On Sep 21, 2024
nurey:
i believe that is an F30 BMW 2015 to 2019 model years.

It was fitted with a B48B20 engine which is a 4cylinder turbo charged engine. Dont know whats with you and turbo engines grin

from research i got online, it is a fairly reliable vehicle and
1. Expect gasket replacement after 100k miles which are very hard to get to meaning, it is an expensive fix and should be done by a qualified technician "if the need arises"
2. The turbo according to users online is rated at 140k miles before you may need to replace, not always the norm though.
3. from the car repair group that i belong, finding BMW parts is always easy in cities like Lagos , Abuja and PH brand new, though they are somehow expensive.
4. BMW is very rare to come by because they are expensive to maintain and they require premium gas and fluid, though maybe dangote petrol can help with better octane fuel.

for me i would have preferred you pick a 340i, with the straight 6 turbo charged engine, more balanced, more refined and highly reliable.
Thanks, I’ll look at that
Please do you have any idea how much the 340i costs, both foreign and naija used
Car TalkRe: The Official Car Comparison/Recommendation Thread by kobams(m):
nurey:
That vehicle was fitted with the M274 a 2.0 turbo charged 4-cylinder which was known to have a piston defect for the US market. Maybe you should do a C400.

Also I am not a fan of turbo charged vehicles not to talk of one that is a 4-cylinder but ensure
1. You do a VIN check for the specimen you intend to buy, to confirm if the engine was part of the defective one and if it has been fixed under warranty

2. You can comfortably afford the maintenance cost interms of the oil and original recommended fluids

3. There are capable hands near your location to handle maintenance and fix.

There is no replacement for hearts desire though, because the Benz badge is premium, but you can check a Lexus ES or GS they are close in terms of luxury
Thanks chief, I was also looking at the BMW 330i 2018 it costs almost the same and I’ve seen quite remarkable comments about it, what do you think? Or is there a BMW around that range that you can recommend?
Car TalkRe: The Official Car Comparison/Recommendation Thread by kobams(m): 1:28pm On Sep 21, 2024
nurey:
I dont expect someone who can afford such car to have problem with maintenance. If money isnt an issue the BMW is a better car to drive than a dodge charger, the BMW does everything better.

But when you have bought it, i would advice you have a medium scan tool to atleast scan for error codes on your own to pickup minor issues b4 it blows to high proportion,

you must also have a modern garage to for regular and timely maintenance and fix

you should also have funds available to avoid expensive fixes when you begin experience minor issues.

Above all, these cars are not what one should be pulling everyday, they are meant for occasional joy rides like weekends, special occasions, so it would last if you have an everyday car other than one of these choices.
Good day chief, I need your advice, I’m looking to get a Mercedes Benz C300 2017, I want to consider any other options before finally settling for the one to get, please can you recommend other cars I can look into equivalent to the c300 or better
AutosRe: 2015 Toks C300 Available by kobams(m): 3:45pm On Aug 12, 2024
How much is it going for chief?
AutosRe: 2018 Toks E300 Available In Lagos by kobams(m): 12:04am On Aug 11, 2024
How much chief?
AutosRe: ASK GAZZUZZ by kobams(m): 1:03pm On May 06, 2024
Good day Gazzuzz and bosses in the house, I wanna get a naija used Lexus ES350 2008-2011 or a naija used Hyundai Sonata 2012/2013 please which is a better buy?
AutosRe: ABUJA CHEAP CARS(within 25m-2.5M)AUTOPHARM-NAIJA...√√Drop Your Orders!!! by kobams(m): 11:37pm On Mar 01, 2024
austinceasar:
Super sharp 2005 Honda Accord EOD, Untampered Engine and Gear, AC needs attention, car drives very smooth, no legs issue. *#1.6M*, Abuja Deal🇳🇬
Good day chief please do you have a clean 2007 Honda Accord Discussion continue
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 10:32pm On Dec 28, 2023
Pukkalolo:
Apologies bro. I thought I've responded to this already.

I just noticed Rizzputin, adambeatz and SPAMBOX7 great inputs on the matter.

So, let me just add mine.

Let's begin.

You are already smashing her, so you are way ahead of the other guys who are yet to even get a hug from her.

She wants you to commit to her, but you're not doing that, so she wants to end whatever sexual relationship going on between you and her.

So if you want her to keep giving you the pussy, you should commit to her. That's the simple answer.

But if you don't sincerely want to commit her, then don't. Otherwise, that's deception and manipulation. I don't encourage manipulation, deception and games. Don't commit to a woman because of you want to be getting sex. That's weak. Commit to her because she adds value to your life.

Never make marriage promises to a woman because you want to keep sleeping with her. If you have no intention of committing to her or maybe marrying her, then for goodness sake, leave her alone and move on. It's wrong to mislead someone into something you have no true interest in. It's totally wrong and evil. Remember, Karma is real.

The above statement might not sit well with some guys here, but remember you have sisters and you'll have daughters too. I'm not tryna act like a saint here, but at least do on to others girls what you like other men to do on to your sisters and daughters.

Ok, let's begin properly.

So kobams, here's the thing...

She's trying to protect herself and her heart. That's what every girl does.
She said she wants to stop giving you the pussy because it feels "safer" for her.

Take notes of the word, "Safe"

Making a woman feel safe is the blueprint to getting her.

The nice guy doesn't make the woman feel safe because she assumes he have a hidden agenda or expectations of getting sex as reward.

The way I show my women love is totally genuine and even "tough"... I'm not expecting anything in return. I don't need sex from them.

Last week I was talking to one of my girls on phone, along the line, she told me she's feeling headache. I was like, "Ok." Then I immediately hang-up the phone.

30 minutes later, I appeared at her place with drugs in my hand for her headache. She was surprised. She was like "are you for real?" I looked into her eyes said, "I can't fuckin just sit around and watch you have headache."

That melted her heart.

That's the way I treat all ladies I've already slept with. I show them I genuinely care. This way they feel safe with me. Many times, the women I'm already getting sexual with are the ones always disturbing me for the sex again and again. Infact, I'm the one always pushing the sex away.

That's because I make them feel safe about getting sexual with me. I make them feel safe by showing genuine interest in them.

Sounds "basic"??

But that's how most legit Playboy actually show love to women... If you've hangout with Real Pimps, you'd understand what I'm talking about. This is why women easily fall in love with them.

Yes, you've already bleeped her. But you still need to make her feel safe about continuing fucking you.
Bless bro I appreciate💯
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 1:10am On Dec 18, 2023
Rizzputin:
It could be a test or she might have genuinely found someone more willing to take her serious or she maybe getting stressed out. And feel you're wasting her time

Go another week without contacting her. If she doesn't hit you up after that, mention me again... and I'll tell you how to re-engage and ping her

Also, next time (probably when you guys are back with another girl) if you actually want to take her seriously, do it more through actions.

If you tell her "Relax there's nothing you should be worried about" then go back to treating her exactly the same way you've been she'll stop believing your words. Because they don't match your actions. Of course, don't forget to tell her it can take some time for you to come around

So try to show a bit more care or seriousness. She'll notice and calm down a bit.
Okay boss, bless I appreciate💯
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 10:51pm On Dec 17, 2023
Rizzputin:
I'm guessing this isn't your first time in a friends with benefits relationship. If it is, welcome

But even if it's not, a few refreshers are important. Fwb relationships will constantly remind of two laws of female nature:

1) Her present emotions are everything.

2) Her actions speak louder than her words

You see, fwb has a bitter sweet feeling to it. Sweet because you'd have sooo many funy, wild experiences with her. Sad because all those experiences must surely come to an end at some point


Either it ends with you guys in a relationship. Or she travels. Or she moves to a new guy ready to take her seriously

Before I dive in to your situation, let's zoom in to the nature and principles of fwb


[b]----The Bittersweet nature of a Fwb

● You've probably read the stories online. A guy finds a sweet girl to be fucking.

According to him, he proposes a "no strings attached" set up. She instantly agrees. Fantastic, everything is going according to plan

Except a few months later he's surprised that she's catching feelings. Then he makes another lengthy post about why girls always catch feelings after saying they won't at the beginning

The ignorance in such posts is laughable.

Remember the two laws of female nature I told you about at the start of this post? The guy has forgotten that women are loyal to their emotions.

Her emotions at the beginning of the fwb and her emotions after you've been fùcking her good are no longer the same.

A girl can swear in court that she will not catch feelings at the start of fwb. But if you fùck her good and treat her well, she will catch feelings

And there's nothing she can do about it. You can remind her all you want but as long as your actions (fucking her, taking care of her) are favorable to her, she will develop those emotions.

The more you Bleep her, the higher her chances of getting in her feelings

When I mentioned here that women are adult babies, these are some of the reasons for that.

That's why it's on you as the man to control how fast and deep she catches those feelings (I'll talk about that in another post)


● The second nature of fwb is that it must end.

And most times it's the girl trying to get you to commit to a relationship with her

"What are we" "What are we actually doing" "what do you take me for" "where's is this heading" "Don't you ever consider being in something more serious"

The above questions are tell-tale signs of a fwb girl in her feelings.

You see, there are few things a woman wants more than emotional security. She wants to feel safe. And the more she invests her time and body in you without your relationship we'll defined, she starts to panic

Time is no longer on her side and worst of all, if you're a hook up material way, she's terribly scared you'd leave her for someone else.

Hence, she starts doing things similar to what that girl is doing to you.

Which brings us to your solution…

----Your next moves

● First define what you want with this girl. To date her or just to keep fùck her.

If you want to keep fucking her bear in mind that at some point it might end if she finds a serious bf or she feels it's too much of her..

All you'll do with what I'll tell you is just to lengthen the relationship. Beginner seducers can make fwb last for 3 months. Average seducers for like 5 months. And advanced ones for 10 months and more.

If it's bf/gf you want to just slowly vet and test her. By test I don't mean those foólish loyalty tests on YouTube. I mean giving her tasks. Seeing how obedient she is, etc


● Next, Stop engaging in deep bf/gf convos in trying to talk about your relationship with her on the phone

If she wants to talk about it again, tell her to do it in person and invite her over.

When she gets there vibe with her normally and tell her you care about her. Remind her how sexy you still find her. I won't tell you the exact words to say so people don't go copying it everywhere like clowns

But the frame you should have is to Seduce her in your normal way with a bit more warmth and care. Then fùck her good.

After fùcking her… tell you're not ready for a relationship (with legit reasons)but remind her how much you enjoy spending time with her.

After the talk, fùck her again and again.
Bless boss I appreciate

At the bolded that’s exactly her scare, I’ve tried to make her relax that she’s just overthinking but she’s not having it, that’s why she brought up the idea of letting me go, now boss should I get in touch with her or I should wait for her to reach out because since she insisted on she wanting out, we’ve not contacted each other which is about a week or so, one of the chairmen on here said it’s a shit test

Actually a relationship with her is calm, but I don’t want to ask her out yet because it’s gonna feel like I’m doing it cuz she’s forcing me to with her bringing it up all the time, I wanna do it on my own accord
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 12:27pm On Dec 17, 2023
SPAMBOX7:
Shit test. But for you to come ask means you can't decipher it's a shit test yet. And whatever you been told here might no go well since no one's there but you alone and her. Her game no strong sef.

I'd advise you go read more about shit tests and how to pass them. From there you will have an idea how to go about the whole stuff. Cos if you later succumb to her request then consider it the beginning of the end.
I need your advice boss, let me learn from you
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m):
Good day guys, so there’s this girl I’ve been smashing, then about 2/3 weeks ago she asked me why I haven’t asked her out yet, so I just evaded the question and later at night she messaged me and said she was letting me go, eventually we spoke about it and since then we’ve been having this back and forth mainly about this issue so during this period she started confessing her feelings, telling me how much she really likes me and all, the thing is i like her too, now the issue is that she told me she can’t continue whatever is between us cuz she’s trying to protect herself and her heart, that she’s gonna let go now frfr, so we talked and she said she’s gonna go with her decision because it feels safer for her, so I said No wahala
I don’t want to let go of her yet
Rizzputin pukkalolo and other gurus in the house please what’s my next line of action?
RomanceRe: Why Women Say This "Deceptive" Phrase When They Cheat - Plus How It Can Help You by kobams(m): 7:52pm On Dec 12, 2023
Rizzputin:
Recently I stumbled on a nairalander's unfortunate post. It's similar to most stories you read on social media these days

According to him, he met a girl and fell in love with her. She was the typical gf material…The best part? She was a virgin. What more could he ask for

To top it off, she promised him her virginity. Possibly, when she's ready or better when they're married

Until 2 weeks later she got fùcked by a guy she had barely known for 2 weeks. Of course, he went on an emotional rant of how wicked women are. And how insensitive she was.

Can you guess her reason for giving another guy her "precious" virginity? "It just happened!"

Everybody and his mother has heard this phrase from women when they talk about some crazy sex she engaged in recently.

That trip to her bestie's house where she got pounded? She didn't plan to, you see.

She wasn't meaning for it to happen. Had she known, she wouldn't have gone there or allowed it… but it just happened!

Or how about when she went to deliver her wedding iv card to her ex only to fùck him? Well, that just happened too

Things "just happening" are a common occurrence for most women. Most women seem to be just floating along on the currents of life, when somehow they bump into a man and his long John Thomas falls inside her. Totally by mistake.

Except is it really a mistake?

Every experienced seducer knows the answer to that. It's not. To the naive man, he'll probably brush it off as an honest mistake

You see, women make things happen or put themselves in a position where things are most likely "just to happen."

That's why I advocate you become a hookup material. When you act that way you are more likely to "make it happen", fùck her and avoid being played.

---Why do things seem to "just happen" with women?

It's simple. She says that so she can shift the blame.

Or better still, find a way to justify her actions. Much better to say "it just happened: than to admit she willingly went to fùck someone.

That's why a big part of being a hook up material is being smooth, subtle… and inspiring her to lust after you.

Because when she lusts after you, she'll be an active participant in the seduction. She'll create opportunities and follow you to places where things can most likely "just happen"


---How to "make things happen" as a man

A smooth, sweet seduction is subtle. It leads a girl through some steps right into your arms.

And it's done in such a way she feels allowed to.

Becoming a hook up material is at the core of seduction. You use Lust Oriented Topics to gently nudge her into situations that things might just happen.

Of course, she can't help it because of how aroused she is. You don't want her to see you as bf or husband material because the pressure to be perfect is on her.

Rather you want to act like a hook up material. Make the right moves. Invite her to the right places and stimulate the necessary emotions in her.

Another benefit of being a hook up material that makes things happen is that she sees you as a guy that just gets it.

It's like you're part of the secret society of womanese. So she's less likely to play those games with you


---What should you do when "things keep happening" with your girlfriend


This applies to guys that are dating or have intentions to. If that's you, pay close attention.

Let's say your girl keeps giving out her number to guys. Or going to clubs with her female friends. Or wearing very skimpy clothes.

And when you ask why, she tells you it's just happened. Cuz she didn't plan for it.

How would you handle it?

Here's a tip:


● Call her out on the bs in a calm way. Show her how her actions make room for these things to happen.

Because believe it or not, she knows what she's doing. When you do this, it makes it even more obvious to her conscious mind the role she plays and the fact that you don't like it

So whenever such a situation presents itself, she'll either make a conscious decision to act funny or not.

And if she continues, you know what to do.
Rizzputin there’s something I want to talk to you about privately so I sent a pm to you, kindly respond please
RomanceRe: Why Women Say This "Deceptive" Phrase When They Cheat - Plus How It Can Help You by kobams(m): 12:33am On Dec 12, 2023
Rizzputin there’s something I want to talk to you about privately so I sent a pm to you, kindly respond please
PhonesRe: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by kobams(m): 5:03pm On Nov 25, 2023
meshachdbuzz:
Order it from AliExpress

U can use noobody to help u make an other
If u can't
Thanks boss
PhonesRe: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by kobams(m): 9:11am On Nov 24, 2023
Good morning, I need a pouch and screen guard for LG velvet please who sells
PhonesRe: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by kobams(m): 7:43pm On Nov 21, 2023
Good day please who sells LG phone accessories
PhonesRe: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by kobams(m): 7:35pm On Nov 21, 2023
meshachdbuzz:
Type lg v50 on the search button on NL u will see the available sellers selling
Contact fantome
Thanks boss
PhonesRe: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by kobams(m): 12:01am On Nov 16, 2023
kobams:
Good day, please where can I get LG V50 Uk used?
Anyone?
PhonesRe: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by kobams(m): 1:08am On Nov 15, 2023
Good day, please where can I get LG V50 Uk used?
PhonesRe: LG Users???? Get In Here!!!! by kobams(m): 1:02pm On Oct 21, 2023
Please I need LG V20 screen
How much is it?
PhonesRe: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by kobams(m): 12:55pm On Oct 21, 2023
Please I need LG V20 screen
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 5:44pm On Mar 13, 2023
Good day guys, please what drug can one use to prevent infection
During the session with a girl not quite long, I discovered the condom burst
So please what I can do to prevent any infection
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kaey10:
Wetin Dybala do this coach?
I no know ooo
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OfficialDJ:
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Sent boss
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