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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 9:39pm On Sep 20, 2022
Martinez39s:
He has severe onetitis. He was probably playing bad boy in relationship at the start only for him to soften up and undergo serious BETAfication. That's what I'm guessing, I might be wrong. Anyway, your friend will be alright.
Bro aswr you are absolutely correct, he was the bad boy, that’s why I’m surprised at his new behavior, this girl literally begged him for a relationship she asked him out, I don’t know what went wrong tbh
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 7:31pm On Sep 18, 2022
tosaino95:
Abi she don use kayanmata on your guy ni grin
E be like grin but on a more serious note something is wrong frfr
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 9:19pm On Sep 15, 2022
kobams:
Good morning guys, please I need your help with something, There is this close friend of mine that just got served breakfast and he has been acting weird lately, like praising the said ex beauty, telling me how beautiful she is that can he find someone as pretty as she, yesterday evening we went for a drive just to clear his head but he kept on comparing her to other girls we saw, the worse was when we went to get food at an eatery while he was ordering the food I saw a pretty girl and approached her on getting back to him he started lamenting about how how his ex was prettier that does it mean guys will be chyking her like the way I just did the thing is this is a guy that on a normal day would have hailed me, when he and the girl started dating he told me about how she wasn’t really his spec and he probably was on a lookout for a better girl, he never really paid attention to her beauty while they were dating sef, he has even told me about her being the least prettiest amongst her friends now he thinks otherwise, this was a girl he said he wanted to breakup with few months ago cuz he wanted to be free to fuvk around now the narrative has changed tbh I don’t know where this weirdness is coming from and I really wanna help him cause this Gee would do the same if it was me, he is one of my coolest guys and I sure do respect him
Guys please help!!!
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 10:28am On Sep 14, 2022
Good morning guys, please I need your help with something, There is this close friend of mine that just got served breakfast and he has been acting weird lately, like praising the said ex beauty, telling me how beautiful she is that can he find someone as pretty as she, yesterday evening we went for a drive just to clear his head but he kept on comparing her to other girls we saw, the worse was when we went to get food at an eatery while he was ordering the food I saw a pretty girl and approached her on getting back to him he started lamenting about how how his ex was prettier that does it mean guys will be chyking her like the way I just did the thing is this is a guy that on a normal day would have hailed me, when he and the girl started dating he told me about how she wasn’t really his spec and he probably was on a lookout for a better girl, he never really paid attention to her beauty while they were dating sef, he has even told me about her being the least prettiest amongst her friends now he thinks otherwise, this was a girl he said he wanted to breakup with few months ago cuz he wanted to be free to fuvk around now the narrative has changed tbh I don’t know where this weirdness is coming from and I really wanna help him cause this Gee would do the same if it was me, he is one of my coolest guys and I sure do respect him
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 9:40pm On May 06, 2022
Please can someone kindly recommend books on game and how to game women
RomanceRe: Daily Hard Truth Guys Don't Know About Girls (thread) by kobams(m): 9:37pm On May 06, 2022
TheCharismaGuy:
Dear potential SIMPs,

1.) The sad story of a beta male/Simp.

Beta male: Borrow money and used up his life savings to give her her dream wedding.

Girl: Girl after wedding, discovered there is no more money to continue flexing — due to her dream wedding spending.

Girl: Girl starts complaining — and start fucccking other guys to get what she want while still married to the beta guy.

2.) Know the above & change your life.





#TheCharismaGuy
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Good day boss
How can I get your book?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 4:15am On Apr 26, 2022
Good day bosses
Please what is the best and fastest way to stop caring and giving a bleep about your girlfriend, women in general and people in general?

And also how to stop overthinking things, I’m a critical overthinker?
I just wanna have peace of mind and be happy
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 11:43pm On Mar 17, 2022
Hmmmmm

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 11:17pm On Mar 17, 2022
undecided

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 7:33pm On Mar 08, 2022
Ready to settle down grin

RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 7:27pm On Mar 02, 2022
ubunja:
Alpha, Beta.
Alpha Fuccs, Beta Bucks.
The Alpha is for Sex. (lust)
The Beta is for Finances. (lifestyle)
It's called the Female Dual Mating Strategy.

But the Dream Guy of every woman is that man who can be both Alpha and Beta at the same time. Who can be for sex and be for money, all in one. Who can give her the Dream Sex and the Dream Lifestyle. A man with money they can be sexually freaky with.

But finding that guy is the search of a lifetime. Because a woman has to contend with men's own dual mating strategy, called The Madonna/Whöřė Complex.

What is the Madonna/Whöřė Complex?
While women separate fuccers from financiers, men separate hoes from virgins (madonnas),, with the hoes reserved for sex and the virgins reserved for love/commitment/marriage. Men lust after the hoe while they love and trust the virgin. The hoe makes the dick hard, the virgin doesn't. The virgin is pure, dry and boring, but is the best choice for a life partner. It is the Madonna/Whöřė Complex at work when a man leaves his respectable wife and mother of his children in the mansion and go mess with that loose cheap girl every man publicly detests but secretly thirsts for. With the hoe, men have sexual freedom, the same way women have sexual freedom with the Alpha Fuccs.

When a woman tries to force things and take matters into her own hands by trying to turn her Beta Bucks into an Alpha Fuccs, the man's Madonna/Whóřė complex blocks. It stops him from being sexually free with the woman he loves because he respects her and he doesn't see her as the type to be freaky with, just as the girl below discovered:
Boss, what about a virgin that you unlocked her inner hoe, does the Madonna/Whole complex work in this case?
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 12:08am On Feb 22, 2022
cc ubunja
Good day boss, I really appreciate and respect you for opening my eyes to the real world of women
Though I’m just starting the journey but you and the others like Caveadullam, Martinez, skepticus and the rest I didn’t mention are really doing a good job tbvh
But I came across one of your topics

https://www.nairaland.com/4199523/ubunjas-miseducation-5-sensible-reasons

But I’m confused because you also spoke in one of your post that female between 19-25 go through the hoe phase
So how exactly can guys do what you advised in the topic above
How can they curb the hoe phase
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 6:31pm On Feb 07, 2022
demmymoney:
DONT BE STUPID!

U KNOW WAT TO DO

SHE'S NOT UR WIFE FOR FVCKS SAKE

WHERE'S UR ABUNDANCE MENTALITY FOR FVCKS SAKE

PUSSY NO DEY RUN ANYWHERE MAHN, MEN AGE LIKE WINE IF THEY PUT IN THE WORK

U are fucking 20yrs old and u are concerned about pussy, an 18yrs old pussy that will never be urs!

Better focus on yourself and spin more plates, talk to more girls and enjoy your life!

Wat a pussy nigga u are

Tf!!!!
Word
Boss kindly break down 18yrs old pussy part
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 10:03am On Jan 25, 2022
Martinez39s:
Glad that you have read and you are taking red pill.

Have it in mind that a woman can present herself as an angelic nawalt to her spouse, run a happy family with him and be seriously involved in the relationship/marriage while being regularly piped down like a hòe in secret by other men, to the oblivion of her husband. She might even be religious and participate actively in her church or mosque. This infidelity doesn't impact her morality and conduct in other aspects: she might be kind to others and her children, she might show her husband respect, she might be a good homemaker, she might be the type that dresses decently etc.

So let people not make assumptions based on superficial impressions. Also know that most women are not daft in their manipulation and most women are good at hiding their shenanigans. I will say more in part b.

Any questions you would like to ask?
Boss can u please drop your mail, so I can contact you
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 12:46am On Jan 25, 2022
Martinez39s:
Glad that you have read and you are taking red pill.

Have it in mind that a woman can present herself as an angelic nawalt to her spouse, run a happy family with him and be seriously involved in the relationship/marriage while being regularly piped down like a hòe in secret by other men, to the oblivion of her husband. She might even be religious and participate actively in her church or mosque. This infidelity doesn't impact her morality and conduct in other aspects: she might be kind to others and her children, she might show her husband respect, she might be a good homemaker, she might be the type that dresses decently etc.

So let people not make assumptions based on superficial impressions. Also know that most women are not daft in their manipulation and most women are good at hiding their shenanigans. I will say more in part b.

Any questions you would like to ask?
I really appreciate sir
Anytime I have a question I’ll mention u
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 11:50am On Jan 23, 2022
Martinez39s:
PART 2

WOMEN AND CHEATING (part a)

Following the first part of my short write up, some would be inclined to ask "since we can't stop a woman from cheating if she wants to cheat, can't we find a woman who out of goodness and decency is guaranteed not to cheat? The good, decent girl who won't cheat?" This second lengthy write up will put you in a perspective where you can answer this question for yourself.

As a woman will invariably have her best interests take precedence over you, whatever bond you think you share, and whatever you have done for her in the past and present, so will she do with her sexual enjoyment, exploration and pleasure. These will be readily prioritised over whatever sanctity or regard for you which you think are intrinsic to your committed relationship. In this regard, female nature exempts no man; doesn't matter if you are a redpiller or not, simp or not. As a result, there is no man that cannot be cheated on.

Some men naively think there are women who sincerely say to themselves "this man has been good to me and he will continue to be good to me. He also provides well. Hence, out of my respect, appreciation, sanctity and/or regard for our relationship/marriage, I will close my legs and not utilise any SAFE, SECRET AND NONJUDGEMENTAL opportunity that let me indulge all sorts of fantasies, pleasures and debauchery I want to have sex with the guy who currently gets me in mood and who I think can pound me to my satisfaction, even better than my man does." lmao. Lori iro; female nature doesn't work like that. It doesn't happen. Things such as "I like/love him, therefore I will close legs and not have the fun I am opportuned and in the mood to have in secret while I keep my relationship/marriage." Such never happens. Even if you are the best provider and the most excellent husband/bf/father or you are the most knowledgeable and astute redpiller with a masculine frame made of adamantium, the same applies. Her sexual enjoyment, exploration and pleasure will take precedence over you and your deeds.

Even if she genuinely feels and treats you as the "love" of her life openly, it won't deter her from cheating. As much as people might want to think otherwise or intuitively think, even the respect and regard she has for you won't stop her from prioritizing her sexual enjoyment and pleasure over you and your deeds when the "iron is hot"; what RESPECT and REGARD do is that they ensure your woman takes extra steps to conceal her infidelity and shenanigans from you, and she will keep these things far away from you and be discreet so as not to get you upset or bring shame to you. This won’t make sense to many; it will sound counterintuitive because it seems natural to think that a woman who respects you will not cheat because she had regard for you, but female nature doesn't work like that. It is what it is. Don't let a woman's or simp's words make you think otherwise.

This is the reason why picking a woman from the gutters, helping her family in whatever way, and giving her a good life as a boyfriend or husband won't stop her from cheating on you with the available guy that is sexy, gets her in the mood and who she currently thinks can rock her world in bed if the opportunity presents itself and she can get away with it and still keep her relationship or marriage. This is the reason why a woman will have no problem sleeping with another guy in the apartment you bought for her if she can keep it a secret from you and still maintain the relationship/marriage for its benefits and security. If she can have the best of both worlds without any trouble, she will. What you have sacrificed or done for a woman does not guarantee fidelity the same way these won't stop her from monkey branching; no man is exempted from this.



Make sure you have it in mind that women are the prime self-centered UTILITARIANS of nature, most especially towards men in their dating strategy. That's nature. They put themselves first and are always after their best interests. Their best interests will always supercede what you have done for her in the past... the same applies to her pleasures and search for sexual novelties and fulfillment of her fantasies. Married or not, old or young, etc the same applies. What you have done as a guy, redpiller or not, and the sacrifices you have made cannot elicit sexual loyalty from a woman; your provision and resources only guarantee association with the woman (it's in her best interest to associate with you). It doesn't matter if you trained her (as a wife/gf) in school, gave your kidney to keep her (as a wife/gf) alive, or lost an arm to save her life; when she is in the mood and she is opportuned (as I explained), her pleasures, interests and satisfaction will take precedence over your past deeds. Your past deeds and the respect you command wouldn't stop her from seeking and eloping with a better option in the same way your past deeds and the respect you command wouldn't stop her from sampling a better diçk and exploring with that guy that gets her in the mood, regardless of the sanctity of her relationship/marriage.

The same way people believe woman can love them, as the blue pill suggests, is the same way people believe there are women who will give them sexual loyalty for whatever reason (eg. virtue from religion or culture, appreciation, respect, regard, sanctity of the relationship etc.) As a utilitarian, her association with you is based on benefit and your usefulness to her (Briffault's law). The sanctity of the relationship doesn't feed her or pay her bills or counts were it comes to prioritizing her best interests and sexual pleasures; how long the courtship/marriage is or how long you've known each other won't count when it comes to prioritizing her best interests and pleasures. The same applies to the vows, love promises and profession of love she made to you. If she can get the best of both worlds by getting "fun" in secret and reaping the benefits and security from being in a relationship/marriage with you, she will; she is getting her needs and wants, and that's all that matters.
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RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 11:55am On Jan 18, 2022
ubunja:
Lol that's not possible. Women will sleep with whoever they want to sleep with cause it's their pussy and they can give it to anyone they want. Let's get that clear. Just as you yourself will give your money to any girl you want and your girlfriend can't stop you no matter what she tries.
Any man, alpha or beta,, rich or poor,, ugly or handsome,,, good fuccer or bad fuccer,,, chosen or choosing,, big dicc or small dicc,, light skin or dark skin can be cheated on. That's the cold hard truth every red piller learns at the very start of his journey. No one is special.

This alpha thing is not about stopping a woman from cheating.... Something impossible,,, but about in which setup or situation can you survive a cheating woman with the lowest amount of emotional and financial pain. How can you deal with women in such a way that whatever crap she does, you stay emotionally untouched.

You don't control how a woman acts but you deal with her in a way that however she acts, she can't hurt you. That's the alpha way - Being impossible to hurt. Which means you guard your heart. Hence there's a lot of emphasis on being detached, cold and emotionless in the red pill.
Good morning boss
You talked about staying emotionally untouched, how can one train himself to become like that
How can you deal with her in a way that however she acts, she can’t hurt you
Thanks in advance king
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kobams(m): 12:34pm On Jan 17, 2022
Good day kings
I saw something about all women cheats
As kings and redpillers is there a way not to make your woman cheat on you?
Because nobody should be able to cheat on a king
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 12:19am On Dec 05, 2021
Anonymousgister:
Ov1.5 in Young boys' game and ov8.5 corners in R.Madrid's game and I'll do a 10k giveaway.

Don't quote me until the game plays, else you will be disqualified undecided
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 9:53am On Nov 25, 2021
Miracood2:
I'll give u 3odds 4 times.

If u're reading, quot

I'll give u 3odds for 4 days.
Quote me if u're ready let's start today.
Ready
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 4:20pm On Nov 24, 2021
Good day please who can help me with rollover 5k for 4 days
I wanna rollover 5k
80/20
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 10:40pm On Nov 22, 2021
Countenance123:
I want 30%
I’m down
Ur contact
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 2:01am On Nov 11, 2021
BC8PCXJF
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 12:33pm On Nov 10, 2021
International games
Thursday to Sunday
BC8NZ4YJ
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 8:25pm On Nov 08, 2021
adb7:
yes sir fixed bet exist.

fixed bet are hard to find, but those advertising it are scammers. I don't know how true my findings are but I believe top football clubs occasionally fix their matches sometimes on regular outcome ( Bayern 5;0 trashing in the German cup) to teams who are heavily involved in playing a lot of corner kicks, playing few corner kick.
Thanks so much sir, I appreciate the response
I really need a sure and legit fixed bet
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 8:13pm On Nov 08, 2021
Good day please I want to find out if there is really anything like fixed bet
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 5:28pm On Nov 08, 2021
Psalmspsalms:
Please fellow punters, who can crack open this ticket. It starts by 6pm
Slobodo 3:1
Fredericia 1:2
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 6:29pm On Nov 06, 2021
emsco:
Make international match start abeg. Last time i won was last international brake.. I remember losing 800 odds just because Croatia couldn't win..
Same here
I lost 107k because England couldn’t beat Hungary
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by kobams(m): 10:31pm On Nov 04, 2021
Felabrity:
Over 1.5 set today fr
Yes ooo but stupid Monaco and PSV no fit score
Na them cut my ticket
CareerRe: Mfon Uwemedimo (cokoboi Mother) by kobams(m): 12:53am On Nov 04, 2021
[quote author=kingshrd post=107312921][/quote]Thanks boss

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