₦airaland Forum

P1PrinceKT:
✓ I am a Muslim I agree that every parent/guardian should train thier children in their presence or else government should prosecute the parents.
Or I forget that most of the parents will be willing to serve jail term to have access to free-food.

No one will be willing to do it if both the man and woman would be subject to hard labor while serving the jail term without access to each other. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Chilipepper:
There’s a married woman in my compound who does this thing; anytime her husband comes home late or they quarrel, she changes the padlock and refuses to open the door for him.
”Yesterday, the man stood outside for over two hours. All of us came out, begging her to open the door. She refused. Eventually, another neighbour had to accommodate him for the night.
This morning, the man went out and came back with a truck. He packed all his belongings and left.
That was when the woman started shouting and begging, calling all of us to come and help her plead with him not to go. Nobody answered her.
Me: She’ll learn the hard way. Who locks a man out of his own house? Spoilt brat".

Useless stories... where are the pictures?

Biodun556:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LqpeEp02qXQ?si=nBhGtZUqRtji5eAy
Almajiri children I met in 1980s now bandits, Says Ex-Naval Chief, Vice Admiral Samuel Afolayan Olajide

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1AMkaMaCWD/

What do we expect when a religion encourages men to have children and then absolve themselves of responsibility for their care and the raising of them? 🥱🥱🥱

Donsilase:
✓ Good day family,
As far as I could remember my issue started when I was in secondary school, back then I use to crush on this particular girl, for the 2 years i was in the school I tried my best to make this girl fall for me but this girl kept rejecting me. That made me felt less of myself and killed my confidence to approach a lady because of fear of rejection. To make matters worse I managed to have a girlfriend after my secondary school but the relationship which lasted for 3 years but didn't work, It was as if I was forcing the relationship to work until I finally heard the girl was about to get married to someone else. That event made me isolated myself from women and focus on building my life. Now I'm in my early 30s and I need to settle down but my love life is so messed up that I can't even keep a regular communication with a lady for straight 1 week before getting bored let alone a relationship. I tried a couple of times but its not working, I have lot of female numbers on my phone but I don't chat with any of them, I don't even have female friends except the old ones.
How do I help this

What you need.is not a romantic relationship but to focus your energy on your emotional and social well-being. From what you wrote about your past relationship, you seem to be going at relationships in a forced manner, and that there is indicative of issues at your core that are yet to be resolved. Please, invest your time in instead building your emotional and social intelligence along with learning to (healthily) love yourself. 🥱🥱

Shedrack777:
✓ the more she keeps testing the water makes her a community p***y

But you are ok with someone's daughter spending her life strangled with just one of the numerous community dicks out there? 🥱🥱

Yeah, women should go with testing the waters since men aren't serious about keeping to one woman. 🥱🥱

Adonispco:
Women like free things while men don wise up to the reality in the dating world today.
Only my mama love me no other woman love me na survival tactics to enter any willing maga purse.

Women out there are not trying to replace your mama. If na your mama you dey find, then go date her or her mates. 🥱🥱🥱

Also, women like free things same way men like free things. If you no fit pay for woman time and energy, again, continue with your mama instead. 🥱🥱🥱

Belurved1:
If this girl no con see another suitor, she go ves for her brother o.

Na! Her brother got her back... that is more than enough happiness to last her. 🥱🥱🥱

Offpoint1:
Will end up marrying a chronic cheater... Women don't like outright true. That's why playboys get more cookies than guys who are real.

Hopefully with this she knows to divorce him immediately and move on to the next... Rinse and Repeat. 🥱🥱

A woman gains absolutely nothing from saddling herself with one community dick for extended periods when she too can be sampling them as she goes. 🥱🥱

Rilwayne001:
✓ Dated a girl that told me checking her phone is a no no, even in marriage.
Na tthere I know say this can’t work.

That does not mean the girl was wrong for having boundaries nor are you wrong for having yours. It simply means you both were not compatible and that is 💯 OK. 🥱🥱🥱

ElGenio39:
Ok, her lost another lady,'s win.

And is that other lady comes complaining of his cheating, you lot would swear she knew he had no issues with cheating before going in, right? 🥱🥱🥱

sandra2025:
✓ I bet you, the lady is not ready for marriage because of ordinary comment. Even her brother that screenshot the comment for her, is also cheating on his girlfriend/wife. Men are polygamous by nature.
✓ The best thing she would've done is to caution her guy and make him reaffirm his love for her. She would soon turn to evening newspaper with a childish mentality.

Ordinary comment? Your ordinary comments on nairaland tell us a lot more about your character than any other curated speeches can. 🥱🥱

Anyways, the man is single so run go catch am since you are desperate for marriage.🥱🥱

3. Caution a man not to cheat? Was your mother and grandmother able to get that to work on their husbands? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

Shedrack777:
✓ The fiancee's brother will do the same thing that the fiance comment. but look at him sending it to his sister to avoid him. what's nonsense
She'll still end up marrying someone that will cheat on her that is for sure

It's ok. She can easily divorce as soon as that happens and move on to the next...rinse and repeat. Better to keep testing the waters than to be stuck with only one community dick for life. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

OracleJay411:
She's a mumuuu. She thinks next guy will be holy non cheating. ALL MEN CHEAT INCLUDING HER FATHER

She would likely also leave the next guy... and the next and the next...as soon as he cheats. 🥱🥱🥱

Cmanforall:
✓ She didn’t love him for marriage. Some people can be different online than in reality

You mean instead that she was not obsessed enough with the idea of marriage to him. 🥱🥱

aestake:
Ur past is my present

Again, why are you set on inundating us with that which is devoid of meaning? 🥱🥱🥱

aestake:
Ur past is my present.

Why are you set on making absolutely no sense whatsoever? 🥱🥱🥱

aestake:
When you are out of your who.re phase is when I am getting into it.

You are not making any sense....🥱🥱

Do you have some sort of problem communicating your thoughts or something? Humans do not have mind reading capabilities, you know.🥱🥱🥱

AdventureRoom:
I used to avoid successful older women because I thought I couldn’t match up. Later I discovered it wasn’t about money at all but about mindset. Once I worked on my confidence and purpose, the conversations changed completely. I actually wrote down the steps that worked for me in a guide — happy to share with any brother who’s serious about learning.

Oh! So, because you were able to con one successful older woman suddenly means all successful older women are easily conned? 🥱🥱🥱

AdventureRoom:
✓ Many brothers avoid successful, older women because of fear or intimidation.
But the truth is, what they really value is:
✅ Confidence without arrogance
✅ Vision and purpose
✅ Emotional maturity
Without these, even money won’t keep them interested.
I’ve studied this deeply and even wrote a full guide on how Nigerian men can attract & build strong relationships with classy women.
👉 If you’re interested in reading the guide, just drop a comment or DM me and I’ll share how to get it.
So, I ask: do successful women really set higher standards, or are men simply insecure?

Your post literally highlights the reasons. 🥱🥱🥱

aestake:
Yes. Your past could be sb's present. So who is tolerating what?

You aren't making any sense still... 🥱🥱🥱

ify2016:
The way Some ladies behave eh. Though that's her choice. Background check will shocked you what she has done in the past.

So, her past is reason why her present should tolerate cheating? Some of you...ehn! 🥱🥱🥱

BlackViper:
Shared by Deborah Ocheido....

Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

pigmania:
➜See who is calling someone an illiterate, an illiterate is someone who can't read or write. You really don't know the meaning of that word. Why don't you also invite your fatherr or the man who shattered your heart and made you lose faith in men, so we can also hear their side of the story? See how smart you sound? Always thinking one way, your way. At least argue with logic when you have to, not from mismanaged emotions.

1. I see someone here never learned that comprehension is a core aspect of reading skills.

il·lit·er·ate
/i(l)ˈlidərət/
adjective
unable to read or write.

I am reminded of a comment I read somewhere today about how a Pakistani man who can read the Quran but has no understanding— lacks comprehension— of the information in the book. 🥱🥱🥱

lecowas:
Don't worry about the language spoken by Yeshua, what I think you should worry about is whether you understand the Quran you are reading or whether the Christians understand the Bible they are reading.

I was surprised that my Pakistani friend who literally sleeps in the mosque and recite the Quran like bread and butter can't speak Arabic. I asked him how he managed to recite it?
Mostly when I show him things from the Quran, he seems surprised and dazed and ask for days to confirm, why, because it's in a language he doesn't understand, even though he has read it back to back. Finally, tell us, did Yeshua call God "Father"?

Akinpedia:
➜You say even the educated follow them? There is a difference between Schooling and Education. Many Nigerians are schooled (they have degrees) but they aren't educated enough to question illogical dogmas. When fear enters the heart, 'schooling' flies out the window. That is why a Professor will still carry a bottle of 'holy oil' to fix a car engine.

You say that, but if you watch even people like Jerry Eze's daily show, you will find your professors, doctors, and lawyers believing in all of that nonsense.

OKOATA:
LMAO . Abeg wetin be Kobo. Na 50 Kobo Junkie or wetin. Are you a junkie? Let's smoke some MJ together bruh or babe or whatever you call yourself.

Again, that story regarding Hakimi was based on rumors and not facts. It was internet rumour not based on any actual court decision or documents.

NiRfreak:
➜Who also get worried and hopes her sister gets married to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer for husband. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister
OMO, like play, like play, those little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc. Although they are doing well job wise for themselves but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. It's like I've started counting time for them. God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , to my eyes they feel young.

Expect that they will get the same thing you doled out to other men... that seems to be how that god you all pray to works the most.

You are better off having your sisters develop essential life skills like emotional and social intelligence, which will go a long way in helping them develop self-love while they are still single. That way, they forgo settling for the wrong man, choosing to protect their peace and happiness against all predators out there, no matter how long they have to wait.

Some of the worst things that can happen to a woman are marriage to a bad man and having children with a lowlife. A woman is better off single, childfree, and happy than having to carry such miserable scars for the rest of her life.

Offpoint1:
➜She gain her freedom and more access to men? 😂 🤣 Women and delusion... Reality will set in.

Yes, she did, since her marriage contractually limited her to just her husband, who ultimately did not value the contract he had signed with her. What is delusional about that fact? Or do you not understand the meaning of the word delusion?

Offpoint1:
➜There's absolutely nothing you can do about it sweetheart. You divorce him, your lost....

You keep telling yourself that, but from the OP, the woman not only gained her freedom but access to other men who would benefit her more than her ex-husband did(since you believe she gained nothing from being married to him to begin with). 🥱🥱

OKOATA:
All I know is that the guys a simp. When you are into sports business you love with your brain not your head. But sadly alot of this guy's especially blacks that think they are tough are usually the ones who fall into this mess.
Cronaldo, Hakimi is a typical example for them to learn but no they choose to kneel and propose as someone up there said. I just weak for my fellow man ajeh.
But come to think of it who are these evil lawyers who passes these kinds of judgements. Don't be fooled it might be another simp man judge who passed the judgement.

That story regarding Hakimi was based on rumors and not facts.

https://theplayoffs.news/en/why-did-achraf-hakimi-wife-sue-him-divorce-with-hiba-abouk/

lilsmart:
You no dey see their belle??

Somehow that belle no dey stop una wey dey get interest in them, but the moment they demand you pay for the interest — simple demand and supply logic which is foreign to beggars, by the way— na then you go remember their belle? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

FYI: Beggars go around asking for something for nothing, while business-minded individuals know to use demand-and-supply to their advantage. And another clue, the lady is not the beggar in this case.

dollypi:
She disgraced herself publicly

No she didn't.