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darediamond:
➜Do you even understand my question to him at all in view of the Topic Of this thread before you pose your meaningless question? In this hard times we are globally, does makes sense that the Husband should only be the Sole Provider?

If the marriage was entered into in the traditional sense with the man as the sole provider and the contract continues as such, then yes, it mandates that even during the hard times, the husband remain the sole provider in the arrangement. That does not change because of hard times, but only when the man is ready and willing to give up his subscription to the traditional marriage system, along with the benefits he once claimed.

HeatSeeker:
➜Having sex in a single room when children are asleep is on a different level from having sex, recording it, and uploading it online for the whole world to see. Sheesh!

Storyland! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

HeatSeeker:
➜Was it recorded and posted on the Internet? ???

See this one.... Isn't the essence the fact that it is viewed by third parties? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

HeatSeeker:
➜That is irrelevant to the discussion. We are talking about people who had their "private" stuff recorded and leaked online not people who live in poorly planned quarters.

So, when a man pummels women in front of his children, no be private stuff, abi? Or no be sex the children they view and hear live?

Bendeco02:
➜Men and Women are not the same.The question should be directed to only women. I never seen where a man body count or sexual life was reviewed by new partner for marriage. There's a reason why the word prostitution or ashawo is only used for women.
➜ Someone like me, if my sex tape leaks i won't even reason the matter. It has always been women that commits suicide on such. But they still don't accept the fact that they are not the same with men and respect themselves.
➜ As a woman why should you allow a man record you while having sex?

1. That was when women cared about such things.

2. You have not been paying much attention, have you? How many women whose sex tapes have leaked have committed suicide since? How many of those women have retreated and maybe entered into a cave to live since then?

3. Wow.... this one does not even know that some women now allow it to garner much fame for themselves. You better crawl back into the cave you have been living in so the light of reality does not scorch your archaic mind there. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Vickym1:
➜I tot is beer that filled that tummy

Beer is not calorie-free, and all of that fat wey dey their belle na mostly stress calories.

darediamond:
➜What is your wife Doing in addition to your consistent provision? Or is she just consuming and not adding something meaningful financially too?

Are you sure you are alright? 3 people feeding on approximately Naira 3000 a day, i.e. Naira 1000 per meal, how much more frugal do you want them to get?

Pootle:
no and should not be advised

It should not be advised, yet the vast majority of women are advised to continue to accommodate their cheating husbands in marriage for one reason or another. How come?

Omoawoke:
➜Even with the scholarship and all… everyone will always remember her Totozzz , her moaning and all.. Someone one day will just dig again and rewatch her video It never leaves

That it never leaves your brain— you seem to have a special place for her towtow is what — is not the same as it never leaves her. The girl is probably doing fine where she is and will likely even find love in her own way. But it might take you longer to get over it, though.

DrDoc:
➜Rwad your response over and over and tell me why your education isnt a waste

Look at this one? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Vickym1:
➜Wetin u see for pot belly people... Mr kobo?

They are people who lives are filled with lots of stress.

Brilliancepower:
➜Don't marry a graduate that has only certificate to show oooo. Marry a lady that is a tailor, a chef and a handy woman.

A Pot belly is actually an indicator of a stress-filled life.

AfricanA31:
➜Don't marry until you are capable. You won't dry up if you are up to the task

Pot belly is actually a sign of a bad, stressful life and health, great stress.

Vickym1:
➜When he think about the price of pampers, house rent, nepa bill and the rest of them then he become restless in the night

The same problems existed back in the 70s and 80s, after the civil wars, when people began consoling themselves with the delusion that a pot belly — an indicator of a life of great stress— instead is a sign of wellness.

DLSReigns:
➜Most homes are gone. All you see are familiar strangers enduring each other in a house.

This is nothing new... if you go back to the 1980s, you will find it was also the same even back then.

MatrixReloaded:
Inner peace of mind was never a child playground

Pot belly is actually a known sign of a stressful, stress-filled existence.

phoneport:
➜ Married Men are now endangered species

Wrong! Not having a pot belly — stress belly — actually improves their chances of living longer.

njokuuche77:
➜Once upon a time, marriage gave men potbellies . Now? It’s six-packs by force, stress-induced! Dear future husbands, as you plan to say 'I do,' don’t just prepare for the wedding, prepare your emotional strength and financial stamina. Love is sweet, but it's sweeter when there’s peace of mind and at least steady power supply and data. If not, na slim-fit be your destiny! If the love doesn’t come with emotional stability, you’ll be eating three square meals and still losing weight!

But people who have pot bellies — huge stores of belly fat — aren't happy stress stress-free individuals as many would prefer to believe. Pot-bellies are the body's way of storing up emotional and psychological stress. https://youtube.com/shorts/PUD5wuqieCs?si=i5kIEWZIxkMNF9Qo

spice123:
If you're a Christian Op read Mathew 19: 3-9.
It said it all. A cheating partner is a cheating partner. Cheating does not happen like magic.
1. There must be an attraction to the individual who desires to cheat.
2. There must be a decisive thought to commit it.
3. There must be a location or permission to do the act.
It must have been thought through before the act is being committed. You can forgive a cheating partner but know this, it's a matter of time. It will repeat again. Sexual sin has a very strong spiritual tie especially for the married ones.

It is funny how you link your claims back to your religious ideas, yet this is the very same religion notorious for urging women to remain in marriage with cheating spouses, insisting that the gods of the religion hate divorce. Of course, if the cheater were the wife, the objections against divorce would disappear completely. How do you reconcile this?

This 2025, make una endeavor to upgrade video quality to HD level abeg! So many images/videos online of very poor quality.

deluckiest:
➜She's feeling insecure. She has no reason to doubt my loyally. She's one of those ladies who always support their gender. She believes no woman.can misbehave without the influence of the man.
➜I want to put an an end to it. I don't want to continue tolerating her.This is 2025.

You both probably should engage the aid of a professional marriage counselor at this point in time to better help you both understand the root of the problem, whether it is psychological or due to your behaviors in the marriage.

2. The good of professional marriage counseling is that it also helps you both make decisions about the status of your relationship and where you both wish to see it go next.

Kingiyk:
Within this text is The Proof, beyond an ounce of doubt, by way of the language of the Universe: Mathematics, that The Triune God is The One True God and The Holy Bible is His Word.

What is instead proven by all of this be say una no get life at all! 😂😂😂😂😂

Lincolndigital:
➜There are lots of myths surrounding what this plant does in the home. What did you hear about it and do you think they are true? Do you have any stories about it?

Cut it open so we can take a look inside. It reminds me of plants in the gourd/melon family only I am not certain if the one in your hand is edible!

deluckiest:
➜ we've been married for the past 11 years. I can't really tell why she's doing it. But it started when I was in the University and warned me not to have any female friend. Guess, she's feeling insecure.

Guess?

Adullam001:
Wednesday, January 1st, 2025
This is another year, I have made up my mind that I am going to fast from today being 1st January non-stop to 31st December of this year 2025. I want to mainly praying in tongues and seek the face of God.
This year, I want to go deeper with God, I want to tap into that ancient power. Let me tell you, generals are not made overnight. They paid a price for it.
For you to be recognized by hell and be feared by the kingdom of darkness, there is a price to pay. These things are not gotten overnight. You have to spend time and tarry in the presence of God until you are endued with power from on high...

Ancient power that even your scammers-in-the-lords — none of them— have been able to tap into given the fact that they rely 100% upon that which they obtain from their gullible followers? I doubt you can tap into any powers except the power to scam using the script given to you by those charlatans.

By the way, if this is some sort of diary for you, why not take it to the Diary section of Nairaland?

nwirinedu:
➜So MSG and Sodium Chloride is found in fruits and vegetable?
Its obvious something is missing in your skull.

Try to make Google your friend! 👎Your brain will thank you for it!

Flangelo12:
I'm sure you know everything is about portion. I know you can't believe what you've done but stop projecting.

So, it is suddenly no longer about MSG being completely dangerous but about eating MSG in portions? Way to shift the goalpost! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Love800:
But your garri is unhygienic. I hope you know? These are basic things one ought to know. You don't even need to read deeper!

I see you are just here to waste space and time so I will leave you to it now!

Flangelo12:
Never fed my child Indomie.

You never feed them indomie but you feed them other sources of the same MSG — the terrible chemical?

You may find MSG commonly used in Chinese food, restaurant cooked meals, canned vegetables, and processed meats. You may find MSG naturally in potatoes, peas, tomatoes and tomato juice, mushrooms, grapes, grape juice and other fruit juices, as well as cheeses such as Parmesan and Roquefort.

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Flangelo12:
➜ Mono sodium glutamate:
https://www.cloudninecare.com/blog/msg-and-its-side-effects-on-kids

According to the linked article you posted, MSG is found in

You may find MSG commonly used in Chinese food, restaurant cooked meals, canned vegetables, and processed meats. You may find MSG naturally in potatoes, peas, tomatoes and tomato juice, mushrooms, grapes, grape juice and other fruit juices, as well as cheeses such as Parmesan and Roquefort.

I hope you intend to never feed any of those to your self or your kids as well? I mean since MSG is dangerous...you should stay away from all of its sources, right?

Flangelo12:
Do you understand the difference? Noodles are simply made of pasta. Instant noodles however, have accompanying them, sachets full of MSG and other unfriendly ingredients which should NOT be fed to little kids regularly.

Can you name any of the other unfriendly ingredients you claim are found packed with your noodles?

As for MSG, it's a naturally occurring substance in your Tomatoes, Diary products, Meats,Fish, etc. So, do you throw those out as well?