The title of this thread is misleading!

AjanleKoko:

We know the reason already. The guys over at PHCN are not doing something right!

Yes we know by speculation but dont you think it will be better to hear from an insider

@ poster, what makes you nervous is lack of self confidence. you dont get nervous only on interview but on tense situation too, right?

The best way to handle this is by fixing your self confidence and this can be done by removing the cause of your nervousness which could either be Worry, Doubt, or Fear. To overcome these you need to be sure of yourself about what you know on the post you 'd applied for. Equip yourself with as much information as you can to get yourself prepared.

On the day of the interview, believe you have done all your homework and feel relax, dress smart (the best you can think of) this boost your confidence. If you can set your mood right, you would have the rest of the day to smile.

Cristalz tips would also go a long way too.

Odeku I think

what!!! U dont know him? havent seen him for once? probably havent heard his voice b4 and he is talking of marriage Nne, find power bike and flee! no be run o, I mean FLEE as bible talk am!

nahhh, I dont think its necessary!

Rebarobyn:

Kingsaf, I hope this your story is not a fluke like winnergal's mills&boon stories otherwise I'd be cross that you made me waste my time responding

You aren't a jealous wreck, I think its okay to feel jealous about your partner's feelings about some other dude as long as you don't get paranoid, over-protective, abusive or violent; honestly, if my partner doesn't feel jealous, I'd doubt if he really loves me. It is however more disturbing to know that this "Rob" is a Hollywood star who doesn't even know she exists. We girls at times act crazy over these celebrities and google their names all the time but it ends there, that's the point where you separate reality from fantasy. Writing stories about her sexual fascinations about this guy is "being unfaithful", she's simply cheating on you!

I'd advise you to have a very open and honest conversation with her and give her an ultimatum to deal with it and make a choice between you and her fantasies, if she chooses you, then you must lay ground rules and work out things between yourselves, good luck!

You said it all!

man she doesnt mean those words. I think its just one of those ladies "am not that easy to get" talk. I advise you just keep it going and not relent. She wants to be sure!

cheer up o, or u can contact wrexs, he is going through thesame situation, u could possibly help each other out

xqwysyte:

Could dat have been me??!!

Say the truth and let the devil be ashame!

Da_archer:

@xq u wish! Lol

crazykid:

A girl at 21 isn't too young to get married. In most parts of Nigeria, (the north to be more specific), girls within the ages of 13-15 are considered ripe and mature for marriage. So a girl of 21 shouldn't be an execption.

Well said!

xqwysyte:

He doesnt have to be spilling the benjamins. As long as i see he has great career/business prospects and he is hardworking, he is ALL mine.
As a matter of fact i dont like dating the 'too rich guys'.

I wish this can be truth!

move into a place where your mother tongue language is the major language.

no be small thing o!

The lady didnt say the truth, the truth came out through the spirit of alcohol!

am stucked in the traffic

johnnygan:

Name: johnnygan
Age: on profile
location: on profile
sex: m
orientation: straight
status: single
color: fairly dark
occupation: p.c production, engineer, web visuals, graphics {computers}.
Hobbies: rap, writing, solo-ist.
Height: 5.9ft
body: slim-average
phone #s: (etisalat)08096760983 (MTN)08033863547 (zain)08026115311. Add +234 when callin from outta nigeria and take off the first 0 from each of the 3phone #s.
Nickname: shady
accent: delta-yoruba, ancient english, american.
partner: decent lady, or straight relationship

ol'boy, this one na CV oooo

michaelala:

i av this friend that got married to a sister [b][i][/i][/b] in the lord, he was a virgin before they got married. we realised later that he was always sleeping in the office so we became concerned and suspicious, later he had to confess secretely that he could not cope with the sexual demands of sister[/i] , infact most time he had to sleep on the couch in the living room. but the wife is sure to come and rape him at midnight[b][i][/b]. it wasnt funny.

ah ah ah ah ah ah ah ah ah ah, no be small thing o!

as long as she can still conceive, why not!

On your own o! surving and probably substaining you too maybe thats why you cant quit

Ladies will sure date a yahoo boy for the money,and the desperate ones will marry.

Not a good idea at all!!!

He should come out loud and make a decision!

tell her to contact wrex001

The reality of Yar'adua being a sitting duck has turn out to be a fact!

I need one too o!

Noooo, never! Its an habit that has to do with a person. Its just like saying smoking is hereditory which is not!

DJ Manny of CoolFM

U must be a playa!

My ex dated me because I was a virgin, she loved me because I learnt fast, she left when she knew I 'd become an expert! I do wonder if she came in just to have me trained

weebay:

HEY VIRGINITY IS A STATE OF THE MIND AND MIND IS TELLIN ME AM A VIRGIN

ah ah ah ah ah ah ah ah ah, Virgin indeed!