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I read this with tears. We are not ready

How in God's name can Nigeria expect Tinubu to lead the nation when he refuses to participate in a town hall? If his current supporters have any self-respect, then they'll dump him. And to even come up with this excuse, is even laughable. It's so sad that we can see the truth. Yet, act blindly.

Okay, I might be wrong but did you not just open a thread that you were all at home and want to get help from the right authority? Did you not just say your mom hit her just yesterday and you had to insult your mom? Your story does not seem to follow or add up here. are you trying to clout chase? What is the reason for this thread? I’m from Akwa Ibom and I live in Abuja. Has much as I recommended you in your previous post I do not think your storyline is consistent. All the best

BREAKING NEWS....

USA MOVES TO CHECKMATE DOLLAR STOCKPILE IN AFRICA..

Sequel to the just concluded extraordinary meeting held in Washington DC on Nov. 2nd 2022 between the United States Federal Reserve Bank, Office of the Comptroller of Currency, IMF, World-Bank and Governors of Africa's Central Banks, the United States Govt has set date for restriction on acceptable legal tender note of US Dollar which will commence on Jan. 31st 2023.

The restriction implies that any US Dollar note below 2021 printed date will no longer be accepted or be a legal tender anywhere in the world... This effort is to curb billions of illegal monies in dollar bills warehoused around African continent emanating from drug related, terrorism, kidnapping and money from corrupt politicians.

As part of the enforcement of the strict action plan, African central banks will be assigned with a special agent from the Office of the Comptroller of Currency, Administrator of National bank United States of America to checkmate all inflows and outflows of dollar transactions.

The report also has it that US president has also written to British Government and European Union to tour same line and redesign their currencies accordingly to frustrate those with ill-gotten money in US dollar, British Pound Sterling and Euros.

Should this action be implemented come January 2023 as reported, Nigerian corrupt politicians will be worse hit.

Credit..

Routers News.

What do men want?

Funny how Charles boy is 71 and this guys are younger than him. Okay log out for me baby

How do this guys allow themselves to be use for peanuts?? Sometime I ask myself if this people that allow themselves to be use by politicians, if they are really alright upstairs?? It’s high time we all come collectively and make this country work. Go get your pvc guys. Let come and and decide on who will build this country and lead us well.

I was at the shopping mall ( Hmedix) today and the rate at which things have skyrocket!!! I could only feel pity for those who can not afford to buy or feed themselves, those who are living below 20 dollar a day, those who are out of job. See we will keep playing, catching cruise, fighting online and the country economic will go down right in our very eyes. Go get you pvc guys at least you owe this to your generation to come.

Olayetan:
If you're looking for handsome guy, I am handsome but I don't have money, you can establish me while we live the life you ever dream of.

No thanks

Medianna:
If you will wait for all this discussion to take place before you marry...

E be like you wan add another 10 years to your 27 years.

By the way are you asking or you're giving an advice?

You are missing the whole conversation

Kobojunkie:
What is love? That is a better question to ask as many of you confuse love with the brain chemicals(fumes) and hormones that drive your attraction to your partner. That is not love at all.

So if I put it to you. What is love?

Olayetan:
Love has never been enough and it will never be enough.

So many factors have to be considered along, in fact, there's nothing like love without,
Financial stability and good health.
If you lack any of those, love can't sustain the relationship...

Why do we always quantify money has the number one factor?

lilvicky68:
Money is enough

You think?

Comradewhy:
It is not enough.
If we are incompatible, if we want different things, if I don’t work on myself, if we don’t change or evolve in similar ways, our relationship cannot survive - even if we madly love each other.
Understood?

Preach preach!!! Some are the back are not hearing that loud enough

Iyaebe:
Love is truly not enough especially in this era of materialistic men

I feel that is totally not in place here. Not everyone is materialistic, also not taking that away that I’m 2022 some people are in a relationship for the wrong reason.

Hey guys, not me coming back here to ask this question. Is loving someone really enough? Will love held me firm when everything else fail me? At this point I will gladly say I’m a little confuse and at the cross road. I will be turning 27 soon. I got a good job just end a relationship that I felt I was not getting the best out of and also not happy. My ex been all over telling me how much he still love me and that he believe that love is enough. Sitting here in this heat I can help but pinch myself every minutes. His mom has call me over and over, making me look like the bad guy here.

Before you get MARRIED. Discuss skills, parenting styles, credit, debt, religion, how you deal with family. What belief we be instilled in your children. Childhood Traumas, Sexual Expectations, Partner Expectations, Family Health History, Mental health history, Dream home, Careers and Education, Bucket list, Partner health issues and whatever else come to mind. LOVE ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH.

Tell me guys; let have a constructive conversation here. Is love ever enough?

OloshoMan:
You did the right thing by not leading him on any further, cos you'd probably cheat on him with another guy who you deem handsome.

Guys, nothing beats genuine desire/attraction. Don't be with anybody that doesn't find you attractive, you'd end up killing the little esteem you have lol. It don't matter the kind of money you have, she'll take your money(if she's the stone hearted type) and go be with a guy who does nothing for her. I see guys getting with girls who only wants them for what they can provide and I laugh cos after childbirth (that's if she wants to bear an ugly child) she'll stop having sex with them and go for other dudes

Genuine desire matters a lot. Find somebody that actually wants to be with you.

Thank you

id4sho:
u r looking for a handsome man. OK oooo your heart, your choice

No. I’m looking for happiness

Candidlady:
Here to attack her attacker

Please do not attack anyone.

Thanks guys for everyone here I appreciate your comments and advice. I finally had the long talk with my now ex boyfriend. I laid out my feelings and i told him that I do not see us being compatible. This was the hardest thing I have never done because e I see how well this man love me and cares for me.

I will like to be selfish today and put myself and desire first. I watch him cried and it break me a million times. I do not want to lead him on and I do not think it will be right playing around his feelings. I feel really irritated most time when he try to touch me and I know he doesn’t deserve this.

He is perfect for me but I’m not ready for him. Money will not buy me all the happiness I need and lipstick will not hide my pain for long.

I did the right thing for myself and myself alone. I know some of you here will come with your backlash. But, it’s fine. I will find me a man that I love and the one I can feel connected to both spiritually and physically. I deserve all of that and more. I feel really sad but it’s for the best. I know he will be fine.


How I will face his family now is what I am not looking forward to. I know the calls will start coming let me turn off my phone.

yomi531:
Na average girls dey always call person ugly. Extremely beautiful girls dont mind how a guy looks that much. Just be presentable and get bah. This Sandra of a girl cannot be up to 7/10 for beauty ratings sef. Abeg shift one side

Well for a sure I am drop dead gorgeous sir. It’s not even a point to argue or rate, but look me up on “LinkedIn”. I’m a shameless self promoter and I will tell you what I see everyday in the mirror is an angel

I have read all your replies and comments. The fact still remains. I’m not a gold digger I do not need to prove this at all. I understand not everyone here will totally agree with my thoughts also not everyone here have a good functioning thought process. I will make it clear I was in love with my partner, and I think all this is a phase. I will work on them. Thanks guys

Xoxo

So I open a thread to share my truth. Something that a lot might be dealing with and also living in denier, I got comment with backlash, I got mail from guys asking me to be their girlfriend. It’s funny how you guys have turn this forums. Loads of kids in adult body here. I shared an honest story and all I got was insult. Someone even call me a slut( ashawo) seriously Nairaland has lost her value and I do not regret leaving for this long. Goodbye please.

SurvivorM:
First thing first, love isn't about physical attractiveness it's comes from within.
Now my point is you dated him even if he wasn't that cute because you like him so what changed, I know people grow apart because of one thing or the other and I feel it's not because you no longer find him attractive that why you want to break up but rather that thing that made you love him is no longer there.

My advice is dont force yourself into something you dont want, take a break from the relationship and try to figure out what you want, if you breakup for 3 months you will know whether you want to come back to him or not.

And finally life is too short, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

Thanks dear. I will say this I fell for his kindness with all honesty this man is perfect in character. He has not change any bit. Never cheated, never lied and never stop showing me attention. He has paid for my masters even when I asked him not too. I gave him gold watch and for the first time I see a man cry and kiss me in the forehead. But I can’t he is not cute and I feel he is all over me because he wants his children to be cute

internationalman:
When girls become rich settling down becomes a problem because they think they don't need a man anymore. Even the ones that do think they need a man set the standard in their kind of man high..

It's so because a broke girl would use a guy's money to make up for his deficiency in your case ugliness....

Your problem is because you have money you now see flaws which ordinarily you wouldn't have seen if you were broke...

I feel really sad. Sometimes I see the genuine love in his eyes but I cannot I just can’t love him as much has he love me. I’m the problem and he deserve better

jogsman01:
You don't know what you want.... You really don't

Sad but I do

toujurs:
Shut up , spoilt brat. Don't go and hustle. Continue looking for rich boys to feed from. Yahoo boys will soon use you for sacrifice. Ashawo 10kobo

Go google what company are the big 5. When you done, do have a good night child. I make an honest living and I do not look for men they come for me

habsydiamond:
It's better u made this known to him.. U don't marry simply because of beauty or sexiness.. All these vanish with time.. Unforeseen circumstances can even cause it... The only things that can make a relationship last is love, trust and good communication.

Thank you dear and I keep saying this

toujurs:
Can you post your picture, lets see how you look, Selfish Bitch! You mentioned money more than three times. Gold digger!!, i see where your interest lies. So he isn't good looking as well abi, Miss perfect!! I just wonder how guys even settle for less, i see why some guys just Bleep these bitches and move on, like nothing happened, So what do you want us to tell you, that you don't know, or you just want to stay with him because of his money. 26yrs? Same you will open a thread at 34yrs to complain how you can't find true love, tozoh

You sound really stupid I will say. I see you were not well brought up. Your growing up really damage you and it’s a pity. Sending you all my love and light.

So I have been caught up in this dilemma.. my boyfriend who is looking forward marrying me. He is rich I mean he got his money and also from the family of old money if you know what this mean. The only issue he is not cute and this whole thing made me fall out of love. Mind you!! I work and make a good living for myself so I bring at least 47% to the table for those will have something to say.

My boyfriend once said he wants me so that we could make beautiful baby but sir, you are not all there. I thought money was all I need to cover and mask this up. But no I’m tired I want out before it’s too late. I feel it will break him but it will be fine.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram



I de on my 9th STICK of WEED b4 I JAM DIS useless message..



BANI E don TEY wey u VISIT here...



U SUPPOSE ask QUESTIONS b4 u JAZZ in dis NL again.



Na me be ABOBI BOOGYMAN, AKA BABA YAGA, Na me de BLAST BLAST useless MANCHIS left leg wit my old and new KALA...



I go ALLOW u dis Time bcus E don TEY wey u JAZZ in here and u SUPPOSE be GRAND MAMA of NL if 2 say u STILL de JAZZ in since 2013..



SO ENJOY ur GROOVE..


LITE UP my WEED in peace



WTF MAN!

I do not understand a thing from your note. But thanks for the feed

slickycee:
Thank God you're being honest with yourself.

So stop wasting time and playing with emotions, let him go, somebody daughter someone is praying for that your man to be hers.

So let him go and when next going into Relationships,
Go for someone that can nurture your feelings, not because of looks or financial prowess or social status.
Go for someone that fuels your soul,
Most times such people are not our ideal spec.


You're lucky you discovered this before marriage.
Don't pity the guy, he would surely get over it

Thanks a million time for this feed.. I will have to sit him down and have this conversation. I’m not one that will deceive anyone and I think he knows that. He personally told me he wanted me so that his kids will be cute but I do not want him. Sad!! But, fine.

Kobojunkie:
You left nairaland 9 years ago, so when you were about 17 years of age?

Yes I was 17 I had to focus on school and getting my ground solid lol