Sammy,
My candid opinion is dat,u said she once told u she can never marry an igboman
and she dumped you for another relationship isn't it?Do you think that if that new
relationship was successful she will ever think of coming back to you?
Thats the mistakes alot of these girls make and they now assume they can eat their
cake and also have it.
Dont be a victim of use and dumped again cos history will repeat itself by the time this
lady finds a suitable yorubaman again and still gives you same old excuse as before.
Please look before you leap,once beaten twice shy or even tripple shy they say now,
you may end up being jilted again if you take her back.
MEN ARE NOT MEANT TO BE STUPID COS OF LADIES.
HERE I REST MY FILANGA,I HAVE SPOKEN WISELY I BELIEVE.

The fastest way is to zero your mind about the past
and always think of a way forward in life,i believe
nothing happens by chance in life and so life has to
go- on.Always think of how to be successful cos success
have many relatives while failure has none,so instead of
thinking of over an heartbreak,always think of success.

I RESUME BY 8.30AM AND CLOSE BY 5.00PM
MONDAY-FRIDAY,EXCEPT IF NEED BE THEN I
CAN CLOSE LATE BUT ITS OCCASIONAL.

benheart, just say the truth you are the person involved and not your friend.
you better come out of your shell and be straight forward so that we can advise
you as a fellow nairalanders.

Really age is no barrier in any relationship the most important thing is the love to keep both of you going,in as much as she loves you dearly just as you love her too and she's submissive to you,what else do u want?does she look 31yrs old before u came across her file?anyway, not the age that really matters than a good,happy home.
if you feel u're compatible then dont look back go ahead and marry her and never discuss her age issue with any member of your family or friends else u maybe forced to change your mind against your wish for her.
Good luck.