Born2winKingOG:
I saw 300 plus in my wife account balance yesterday night, this is the same account I saw ending of last year it was empty (4k)


yes I do give her money, cash especially to stuck up the house with foods and drinks...she doesn't work currently.

how come 300k just appeared on her bank account and am not aware about it.



how did she get it?

who gave it to her?

she travelled during the festive period, hope it's not what am suspecting.

The money came at different interval's , when I went through her messages alerts ( I saw 50k , 95k, 35k) from her previous credits alerts.
Before I dropped her phone

please how best can I handle this situation?


lalasticlala

ps: her parents who she went to visit can't give her that money, am the one who supports them.
offcus I will ask her, but still contemplating on the best way to go about it.

because I know if I asked her for some financial assistance just to test her if she says she doesn't have, she might get to know have seen her alert messages..(because have never asked her for money before)

Oga don't start what you cannot finish..... She might be doing contribution (ajo)

suffering:
Why didn’t she show her potbelly?

Enemy of good things

Herbephe1:


4) Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him,
narrated that the Prophet ( ﷺ) said, “ Whoever kills a
gecko with the first blow, a hundred good deeds will be
recorded for him; less than that will be recorded for him
if he kills it with the second blow, and less will be
recorded for him if he kills it with the third blow

it's advisable to kill gecko..

Wash...... Please fing in your holy book, the reason to kill gecko's

Chibuezem:
na your papa foolish fool

Enemy of good things.....e pain you ?

officialmario:
Dear Nairalanders
There is this issue that is bothering my mind, I have promise to be faithful to my wife and always let her know whatever comes in for me.
But the problem is that I always tell her how money is spent, and whenever I present list for whatever we buy and all other expenses, but each time she sees anything like I sent 10k to my mother, she always pick up fight with me, and I have not been biased, I send money to her mother too.
I don't know why she is acting like this, and It doesn't make me a happy man at home.
Please I need your advice on what I can do, I don't want to hide anything from my wife.

Ogede mama ti wo cocoa eh yeh tan oti wan di igi buruku loju iyawo eh..oga ur wife is greedy, heartless ,wicked,self centered and a bad person

Chibuezem:
lol he will not live in the car forever

Enemy of good things ..... why, who did this to you ?

BirtherOfKings:
Alright , do they have a website or app person fit usr know time of departure, arrival and destination plus price

You forget....Nothing works here

vickydankal:


If you are siding and making assumptions based on what op said, what will happen to the wife, how do we hear from her. I think it's wise not to generalize and crucify the wife we don't have her own part of the story.

Yes some women came to steal, kill and destroy but it takes a stronger man to change through prayers, teaching etc or send her packing.

Besides Im not speaking for the wife. My comments were based on the op information. Op highlighted many things like
The wife wants the bus told
The wife will give money to her family
The wife wants to know everything
but his major point is, his wife wants to know everything.

I think there's more problems than the op is telling us.

She does not need to poke into matters before she gets to know everything the husband is doing.
she need to calm down, display a good level of trust {in-sincerity} and over time she will be the chief Director of the marriage.

Goldp5988:



Your wife or girlfriend?
If na wife then the Bible says that two shall be one abi?

and every woman need to show the husband what Unbroken INTEGRITY is.....in all ramification and over a good number of years

vickydankal:
Oga no vex ooo but I think you don't trust your wife with money of her own which means you are insecure, I don't know if there's a past with your wife that contributed to this or just fear of " she won't be obedient any more if she pays her own bills" that some men has.

Secondly, what's wrong with your wife giving money to her people? They are your in laws and when you have you should be giving them from time to time.

Thirdly, I don't think your wife is interested in knowing everything, it seems you are just secretive with information. You don't give her full details on vital things she should know about. Hence any one she gets to know she wants to influence it to her favor.

In conclusion.
I'm not supporting my fellow woman, I deduce the above from your writeup. My husband tells me everything but at the right time, there are things he will tell me before, during, after or may never tell me sometimes for my own benefit he won't tell me so that I won't act it out ( you know women nah) please be more open with most vital things about you she won't find reason to dig deep.

That's my 2 cent

Read this

I think you don't trust your wife with money of her own which means you are insecure, I don't know if there's a past with your wife that contributed to this or just fear of " she won't be obedient any more if she pays her own bills" that some men has.


Does it make sense to you ?
The man know what his wife is capable of doing hence his writeup....
Don't speak for every woman because as faces differ so as their purpose in marriage is different.
Some will {purposely} milk their husband to feed her family.

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Guyman02:
Even Samuel hailed Saul before he became King and when Saul sinned against God, Prophet Samuel did not hesitate to condemn him and warned him about the wrath of God.
So there's nothing unusual about Mbaka speaking good of Buhari and turning around to speak ill of him when he is not doing the will of God but bringing untold hardship upon the people of God.

I pray that your sense will return to you

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donstan18:
Only ediots, misandrists, feminists and frustrated jilted animals are quick to condemn any man accused of sexual harassment without evidence.

#GBAM

Anigreat:








Ikonson is known, and he died on what he believed on. To me and many others, he's a hero and soon he will be celebrated.

Who knows you?

A rat death will even be popular than your own death, when the time comes.

what shall it profit man Ikonson gaining the whole fame and lose his soul ?

The News seem to be put together by a Jungle Journalist ..

Youngpo413:
Nice video but you get mind sha...

Strong one ooh, economy is so baaaaad to risk that amount of money to one bowl of water.....its not worth it

Nigeria is a country of Jokers.....How/why on earth should a rector have access to all lecturer's salary ?
the whole of Nigeria constitutions was built on lies and loopholes.
Politicians wants its citizens poor so as to be easily manipulated and used for election rigging/thuggery

Goldbw122:
The end is near

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We are not near to the END.
These are just the tip of the ice