Yes,I agree that court is a last resort,and from most indication,that's what it might be.but u know court cases don't come cheap and she might find it hard getting that kind of money as she is just a civil servant,and my dad controls all of the proceeds from the business.also am still aganist bringing people in to settle the matter,as most of these "elders"have the same,if not worst problems in their homes.imagine someone saying that my mom should do whatever my dad says because he is the man.this came from "an elder".would this be considered a real solution from an elder?

Kambo,from your post I conclude that you're exposed to how its done in europe.you have to consider that this is africa,and we have a different way of doing things.I agree with most of your points and partially get what your trying to put through.they both have different bedrooms n all,buh ma guy to get "weapon of self defence"?she will just use it one day out of anger.

Pope 11,you mean God encourages us to stay in a marriage where we don't have freedom to worship him and express ourselves to him,even though we're being oppressed by the other spouse?

Moderator!! Frontpage na.I need more views from more poeple.

Kambo,is divorce the final answer?I mean if it ends in divorce,what does the woman get out of the marriage in terms of financial settlement.

Call her pastor? Personally I don't think that will solve anything.I may even create more problems.

Liberate herself how?her parents are dead,her two sisters stay in lagos and are struggling to feed their families,infact we had to give on of em loan for a business.so should she pack her bags nd leave a home/HOUSE,and ishe helped build?I capitalised house because she left her career to aid my father in his business for a couple of years,and that's how we were able to build our house.do u get my point?

At first,she combined the two.and still did the whole "catholic stuff".but she said she has made her choice,and she has chosen pentecostal,because that is where she worships God to her full likening and can truly express herself spirtitually.that's not even the main issue as he insists she stop going totally.both midweek and sundays

Dear nairalanders,I need your help.the history of my family is filled with traditional roman catholics.right from my grand father,all my uncles and aunts on my fathers side.infact one of my dad's brothers is a catholic priest.my parents wedded in a catholic church.but my father was not and still isn't a dedicated "church goer".because I remember back then when we're going to church,my dad stays back at home.but the problem now is that my mom quit the catholics and joined pentecostal.since then,all hell has been let loose.from accusations of infidelity to wanting to track her every move,even sometimes,locking the doors of the house so that she won't be able to go to church and even physical abuse on her whenever she returns from church,pouring water on her sunday clothes so she is not able to leave the house,lockin the door so that she won't come,into the house,among other things.I don seperate fight tire.and they still two younger children.please,I need your advice on what should be done.MODS,FRONT PAGE.PLEASE!!I need as much people to read and advise on what to do.

Dear nairalanders,I need your help.the history of my family is filled with traditional roman catholics.right from my grand father,all my uncles and aunts on my fathers side.infact one of my dad's brothers is a catholic priest.my parents wedded in a catholic church.but my father was not and still isn't a dedicated "church goer".because I remember back then when we're going to church,my dad stays back at home.but the problem now is that my mom quit the catholics and joined pentecostal.since then,all hell has been let loose.from accusations of infidelity to wanting to track her every move,even sometimes,locking the doors of the house so that she won't be able to go to church and even physical abuse on her whenever she returns from church,pouring water on her sunday clothes so she is not able to leave the house,lockin the door so that she won't come,into the house,among other things.I don seperate fight tire.and they still two younger children.please,I need your advice on what should be done.MODS,FRONT PAGE.PLEASE!!I need as much people to read and advise on what to do.

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Aromas:

You really lack common sense. A respect to Prophet is a respect to God likewise our parents. May HE 4give u

he is not jst a prophet,he is God

yuzedo: okay. am a kind man. and a former dibbia. so i will help you and your suger daddy.

mix the intestine of a ants, + the blood of a gorila + the menstuation of a wall gecko + 3 cube of unicorn suger (dont use st.louis) + the burnt ashes of $10000 dollars note and one kolanut dat was grown on a pawpaw three. boil it in a agege bread nylons and den sniff it three time.

you will be okay.

Dont tenk me. tenk god.

your english alone is enough to discourage any sensible person.

kulyie: I remember some time ago i went to greet my aunt and so we were jisting and the next thing she said was that i was about goig to my friends house in an hours time before you came,give some minutes,let me go and dress up so we will go together but meanwhile eat.i said ok,so i went to the pot to serve myself.so anyway,i was done with the food,left it in the kitchen and then we both left the house.when we got to her friends house,we exchanged pleaseantries and my aunty asked her friend that she has been looking at this house since,its only you and your husbands bedroom, kids bedroom and play room you guys have,where does your house help sleep.the friend said in the kitchen on the floor.my auntys eyes turned towards me and i looked at her too in shock.i said concrete floor? She said ehen.i said ok,where is she now? The woman said she has gone to pick her kids from school,i said what about her,isnt she in school? She looked at me strange and said why should she be in school,na me born am,abi na me go pay for her school fees when i get 2 pikin wey me and my husband still dey struggle to pay their school fees.my aunty interjected and said ok so how do you compensate her for all the chores shes doing,she said i have paid off the agent who brought her so it is as good as i bought her.she doesnt have any right to anything in this house except food and i must make sure she has washed my childrens school uniform,socks,dishes,everybody has eating before she eats.i had to cut in and said aunty thats not fair na.even though no one knows what youre doing to her and she is vulnerable,God is seeing you o,dont let him visit his judgement upon you through your kids.she said abegiiiiii,spare me.if i send her to school now,she will start getting conscious of herself and her looks and she will start competing with me.i said haba aunty,an 11 year old girl.she said,you you dont even know anything,wait till you get in my shoes.anyway to cut the long story short,when we left her place and my aunty was driving in the car,i said aunty mi, she said aburo,i said can i advise you,she said,i am listening.i noded and said this woman you call your friend,i dont like your relationship with her.this is not the kind of woman you should be hanging around with.God forbid eveil,if your enemy dies and for one reason or the other your child stays with her,just no that your childs life will be messed up.imagine how she is treating her house help as if she is not even a human being.such a little girl like that,an illiterate, worstill sleeping in the kitchen and eating the remenants of everyones plate packed together.that is what we do for our dog.that girl is too small for that na.my aunty said,well,thats true,i will talk to her but i had the intention of talking to her however not in your presence because she might feel embarassed that she is talking to her in the presence of her friends younger one,i said better.


Infact ehen.smh

finally,you're good at narrating story oo.

idupaul: The soldier has overstepped .. He should have handed over the guy to the appropriate authorities so the Lagos traffic edict can be applied.. What I see here I just plain intimidation meaning if the guy does not obey him he would shoot the guy for crossing a road and this clearly goes against why the law was put in place. The law was put in place to protect the guys life and as such the penalty of breaking such a law can't be a punishment that is a probable threat to life

but you know say,finally,nigerians no dey hear simple instruction.@least next time,if d guy see flyover,na speed e go use take am!

profjustine: PLZ WHO IS T. A ORJI? IS HE Tinubu BROTHER? JUST ASKING.......

no,he is "OLENIBU'S brother.this man has a$$ raped abia.the city of aba in particular.the new trend now is un necessary are being levied every day,fire extinguisher tax,property rate,land use rate,and agbero boys now are given uniform to act as law enforcement,now imagine agbero in uniform,these boys will tax you to the last drop of your blood.na God go d save us sha.ma hand don d pain me,I no fit type ds man matter for here.e case too much,but na heaven I'm case dey finally,cos he has made enough money not to suffer on earth.