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Oh no.....see lips!

is dat Jim Iyke
D dude is cute

mcdokwe: make dem no try am o. Did u grad frm UNN? I am of pol sc dept 2012

Lol, no mind Batho and his cohorts
Yea, graduated 4rm UNN- UNEC to be precise...
Just read abt ur loss, pls do take heart

An0nimus: hian wetin happen? my UNN friend that graduated last year is even serving in this Batch A.

Yea, sum went with Batch A buh dos dat cudn't go wif d last Batch cos of one problem or d oda as it concerns result, are likely not to go wif d next Batch cos of senate approval of results...

just stick in a little longer for dos dat already have one or two tins on hand

If u graduated from UNN last year, just forget abt batchB and maybe create ur batch C thread
Pele...

Am I seriously reading dis??
Ohh, just wen I thought I've read it all... Smh
And to think dat u aint even asking of how to get ur sorry self out of dis mess, makes me weep!

Mynd_44: Then one of you will have to compromise

And I see d Op doing dat already...
Op, seems u already got d advice u wanted. Gudluck

Idowuogbo: Worris dat piercing through ya trousers?

Btwn, go and return Oga welder eye glass o!

And dat ya shirt, na Nnamdi Lewis or T.M?

Oh lawd! LWKMD

^^^ well said!

Princeparix: if na u be d guy-and ur babe cum tell u--"baby, am sorry-i slept wit ma boss just to get u a job"-hw u go feel?

Nah, I think wot d guy meant was d girl shud have told her boyfriend wen her boss was demanding sex for him to get a job

@topic, d girl shud look 4 anoda job ASAP and leave d establishment if she wants to gain her sanity.. She should also use woteva meduim available to explain to her boyfriend wot actually happened...(Just so he'll know d reason bhind her steeewpid act)

Lastly, let her move d hell on wit her life, not forgeting to put dis experience and d lessons she must have learnt in her handbag as she moves on.

NB: she shouldn't stop sacrificing for her loved ones buh let her learn to do d right tins 4 love! Smh

Mynd_44: People mistake love for lust everytime.

Sadly true

mizzocho.cinco:
Men dont show dignity or support to deir women. Is okay for a man to leave his wife or get anoda one wen his wife wife is infertile, but is wrong for a woman to do de same. So a woman shud go wiv out a means of living becos she wants to save punny for sum1 who might not marry her. Wen u make decisions remember de same man telling u is morally wrong to do dis or dat will not uphold de same morals wen he is pushed in de deep end. If a woman feels is okay to go wiv out a means of living in order to keep punny for sum1 who hasn't committed himself to her daz her own wahala

^^^ u've said it all

andromida: People don't snatch.people leave.

I totaly agree with u...d blame shudn't be on d third party cos everly they'll kip coming, if d girl/guy decides 2 follow d third party den it was a choice! I see no snatching here, d person simply decided to leave.

bilms: Love doesn't come with self control

No it does... Its lust dat doesn't come with self control. I hope u understand dis early enuf

Mynd_44: The only time letting go happens in love is when you see that the person is happier without you than with you. It happens when you see that while the person is with you that person is hurting. That is selflessness.

Love does that. Love comes with that. Being unfaithful is selfish. It is not love

Exactly

ifeness: You can love and not be faithful. Some people may be faithful due to laws,tradition,fear and belief. You can also love and not be faithful.

If u had said " u can be faithful without loving ur partner" dats wen all dos tins u mentioned - Laws, tradition, fear and belief come into play (I can reckon wit dat)

Coming to d Op, u can't ask me to choose between Love and Faithfulnes cos if u love me, being faithful shudn't be an option! Dats love- it doesn't hurt one knowingly.

bilms: Ofcourse you can love and not be faithful

u must be a learner

firmcy: Am actually ntvxoctg her to cal cos I ve made up my mind on her bt bvos we ar frnds nd as frnds u can atleast snd a txt to knw hw ur pal is doing. I jus finishd a long week of writing a professional exam wc she wz aware of bt cldnt evn call to knw hw d exam went...I evrn lant frm a pal dt she came around ma sch environ yo tidy sumtn.....is dt fair?

hmmm like seriously?? If u guys are frends, den yes! She should at least show some concern. I doubt if she's into u bro, just move on and pls don't go on to d next one desperate inugo??

ednut1: ur so childish, how can u post dat innocent gals pic on d net, am revengin for her, see as ur head be

u cracked me up wit dis buh had to control d lafta since I wasn't sure if dats d Op but after reading his reply

Rolly83: @Ednut1,who gave u d right 2 upload my pix!......I can see u're damn crazy.....If i uploaded my girls pix coz im so proud of her,does dat give u d impetus to upload mine!

Laff don give me bow leg

intbizoil: my guy your approach is not working thats why she is not into you. i have discovered two things that keep a woman's interest sex and money. money draws her to you while sex keeps. she is not into you yet, I will advise you don't call her again if she doesn't call to know why delete her number and look elsewhere. i won't be surprised if another guy is bonking her right now

Dude, dis ur discovery is complete BS...

@OP, give d girl some time abeg, u've made up ur mind abt her, why not give her time to make up her mind abt u too?? D problem I see here is dat u've already taken her as ur partner and as such expect her to do some certain tins while she on d oda hand is still very much indecisive abt u... Give her time, If she finally makes up her mind to date u buh continues wit dis her behaviour, u can den talk to her abt it. I blieve every reasonable human being is teachable.

vizboy: He asked for advise not for u guys to teach him english.

@op u are done with her life goes on. There is nothing u can do as her mother dont want the two of together.

. Am I d only one lost here
Dude I comot cap 4 ur reading/comrehension skills sha

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In all of this, I have learnt never to say NEVER! Never to be so sure of my standards and take things for granted.[/quote]and dis is all u cud learn from dis heartbreaking story of urs?? u learnt Never to be sure of ur standards?? Why do I feel sad abt dis?? Its so painful dat u learnt little/nothing from ur story

Pinopinoguy: Pls what are d courses am expected to write in PE 2

u are expected to write 4 courses In PE2
1) Advanced taxation (ATAX)
2) Financial Reporting and Ethics (FRE)
3) Strategic Financial Management (SFM)
4) Public Sector Accounting and Finance (PSAF)

Pedagogue: This is rather lame.

And why are ppl so quick to label d girl a confusionist ? I think , in actual fact, d gal mite have heard from God...and to earlier posters that said d Op must hear from God too? I beg to disagree also ! God does not relate anyhow with ppl...Do we know the Op's relationship with God? If the Op has not been 'hearing' from God b4 now, how can he hear from Him now?

Cheers

u are very free to disagree sir but yes! D guy shud and as a mattet of fact, must hear from God too.

If God actually revealed d Op to dis lady then I guess He shud have also revealed d KIND of man d Op is (which I think shud be d main purpose of d revelation). During d revelation process, d lady shud have asked God either of dis questions:
A) God why give me a man dat knows nothing abt hearing from u like I do? Or
B) God since dis man does not hear from u, how will he know I'm his wife?
If d lady failed to ask any of dis questions in d revelation process, den permit me to say there was no revelation at all!

Let's not get too religious abt dis but hey! D lady is definitely high on something...

sweet-tease:
Religious blackmail
God is not a confussionist, if He had revealed you to her, He wil also reveal her to you so tell her you will like to have your own vision

well said! @OP, Dis is weird... Until dat revelation comes to u too, I'll advice u flee

Hmmmm

Tot they said people learn from experience?

OP,on April 1, u came up wit a story like dis where u sent 5k to a girl u do not know (who ended up insulting u afterwards), 30 days later and u come up with dis?? What in God's name does dat make U?

I'm so pissed...

queen_labisi: Dnt mind dose advicing you nd formin tough, sum of dem are stomachin more bullshit 4rm dere man bt dey will come here and make mouth, follow ur hart, if he infected her e dey happen, na 1 thing dey kill person.

smh...

Hmmm Op, u really over reacted, fine he shudn't have gone bhind u to reveal d secret buh c'mon no one is perfect! There must hv bin a reason why he did dat, put urslf in his shoes na...
Secondly, it seems u r hot tempered. When nxt u r in a heated argument wit sumone (whoeva it may be), learn to kip quiet, it has helpd mi a lot rather dan say sumfin u may regret later. Then pls start practising how to say dis words "i'm sorry", it makes u feel beta most times. I wil advise u call him ASAP and appologize cos delay, they say, is vry dangerous and d more d days pass by ur pride no go gree u appologize again... DO IT NOW!

Oohrhii: Yes!! maybe the context was not right.. it should have been every guy has the potential to cheat. Una no dey see wetin una sef dey wear.. wetin man go do

I am a man..and this is a fact..so wake up gurl.

@OP its your choice..you can choose to stay to marry the one you love or bounce in search for a saint in which case end time is near..so you will meet Jesus soon(He is the only saint i know).

Learn from Annie Idibia. She waited even After 5 kids outside.. She eventually ended in dubai with Prado and porche.

yes, every guy may have d potential to cheat but not every guy will stoop so low as to cheat! At Op, such is life... I think it depends on wot u can tolerate. Discipline and self control are rare qualities in most men but dat doesn't mean they are all cheats so if u think u deserve to be treated better, move on and don't let anyone deceive u by telling u to stick with him becos u won't meet a beta person out there! U should deserve beta girl buh its up to u.