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Who took d picture?.
Joblessness

internationalman:
I guess she's thirty something, how will she look like when she spends another 30 years.

She is almost as old as d actress who celebrated 74 today.

So much hate cus u can't handle

Husband or Boyfriend?

Safiaa:
Best advice I've seen on this forum. You're amazing.

Thanks ma'am

Guy in the last pics with such stone facedness like he doesn't care

DckPssy:
I want to Bleep this girl in the asshole and lick her shit

You need salvation.
Only a person who thinks low of him/herself would want to lick another's poo to be noticed.
I pray u find Jesus so he gives you self worth

She will like to marry him??..
So she already proposed as per the bread winner..

Some men are without pride n dignity .

allenroundabout:
Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

Call me on 08064956690, I know a man who can help u, his name is Jesus Christ.
He did it for me

Yes I can marry a man with child and love the child like mine.
Don't know why we have that stigma like ones its step mum, she has to have a touch of wickedness

Taken

Nollywood Movie.
The Bloodless Virgin

Knew him way back in Uniben. Very lovely nd jovial.
RIP Bishop

Vaginal bleeding. Looks like an abortion case.
Maybe she tried to charge her phone so she cud call for help after much tot and probably blanked out in d process
Lord have mercy on her n may her soul RIP.

No mention of his dad sef. Polygamous OBJ no credit for u

Lots of people trying to pull dry stunts lately on Social Media.
Rubbish!

Hm

Those who watched BBN already know wat she loooks like without pancake.

Sylverly:
Please, I mean somewhere within lekki as well as island

You are not yet ready for deliverance

mayoor15:
God heal our president....Amen

Koboko fall on you

14teenK:
I couldn't spot any funny twee t therep

You spoke my mind

Everyone is finding their voice now even this hush-Busky.
Thanks to social media, any rat can now be famous

Why is he making it public now?.
Thought she was asking for advice?

warripekin:
I met this girl back in the day. Everything checked out right with her and I believed I had finally found my lost rib. It started with debt, she claimed she was owing a woman 150k and that the woman was on her neck ,so she pleaded with me to help her pay and without hesitation I wired the money to her. A week later she she posted different hair types on my wassap wall and their prices with the cheapest at 80k. when I asked her what the post meant she said she urgently needs to fix her hair and that she needs like 200k . I objected at first but she started this emotional blackmail thing by saying; Don't u want ur baby to look nice? so after much pressure I wired 180k to her to go get a new set of weavon. A week later,I noticed if I don't call her she won't call me or when she calls we may end up quarrelling. A day came she brought up this idea of starting up a small business so that she won't be asking me money all the time and when I inquired about the business she gave me a bill of 600k. I told her u don't expect me to wire 600k to u just like that. I asked her to explain what the business is all about and if I'm convinced I will give her the money. Then she came up with one story like that about gas supply and the profitability level. After much argument back and forth, I gave her the 600k. Barely a week later she came up with a story about how her ex saw her at the bus stop and collected her phone from her and that she should come to his house and collect her phone . From the direction she was going I knew she wanted me to buy a new phone for her and when I asked what phone do u need to buy she said iPhone 4. Then ipone4 was being sold at about 120k for a new one so without baiting an eye lead, I went into zenith bank and transferred 130k to her . Two weeks later, during easter we were meant to spend the easter together but somehow she just found one excuse to be away from me . when I call her, she wouldn't take my calls but send message later that she will call me which she would never do. A week after easter, she sent me text one night around 1130 pm that she lost her phone I bought like two weeks earlier. In the morning of the following day she called more than twenty times before I finally picked her calls and she was crying on phone ,apologising to me . I asked her to come see me at my office and within 30 minutes she was already troubling my secretary. When we met, I took her to shoprite where I got her a brown new iPhone 5 that was just launched in Nigeria. Well to cut the long short, after I blew over 1.5 million naira on her within a span of 3 months she told me to my face she doesn't love me . I said ok and let her go.

Really pathetic.

My best guess is, u wooed her with money as a bait.
Maybe with the popular line
"If you date me, I will make sure u lack nothing, I have money and I will take care of you etc".

On the other hand, u have a good heart and one that can be preyed upon over n over n over.

Brace urself, that babe will come back begging after she would have exhausted what she saved off you or when she realises you found someone else loving you. Brace urself cus when thia happens, it will take extra efforts from ur kind to turn her down.

banmee:
Bad belle.

How pls?, kindly illuminate me.

Do urself a favour, go scoop the sand wia she stood , mix in olive oil n drink daily, after dat, ur incense of celeb worship would be accepted.

Adeevah:
Wetin this nairalander wan say now sef



Beta u speak in broken eng na

Ma'am, pls stay off my mentions.
Apparently ur daft skull can't tell the difference btwn good nd bad English

Timi and Waje are the only voices / Coaches I acknowledge on dat show.

Better singers than d rest

Apparently, She vacations for a living

Sleyanya1:
Typically a Nigerian trait, we feel we are experts when it comes to real life issues, especially when we're giving our opinions on a social media platform.

How strong is your threshold really?
Most of us are graced to be where we are today ( not necessarily by our hustles). There are people who die in a simple hustling attempt due to pressures of life.

Because you survived it, you be 'just judge', thinking erroneously that everyone must be emotionally, physically, intellectually as sound as you?

Where's is human part of our thinking, where is compassion that should come before the opinions.

Yes, the advice given to the op, could be your best bet, but you don't have to dish it out as though you're in the Op's shoes. Your opinions are good (@ some of those above me) but they are mostly scornful and filled with so much resentments.

@ OP, best decisions don't come when you're Too excited (Over joyed) / heartbroken.

I suggest you calm down, retrace and re-examine yourself. Apologize to your friend and wife after a deep hearted appreciation. Plead with them to allow u stay for a little while, look for something doing, share your problems with good friends and take everything to God in prayer.

Try to leave before the appealed time frame.
Don't forget to appreciate them and Never hold any grudge.
Better days ahead. God bless you.

Ouchh!!!!.
A thousand and 1 hugs from me to you.

Finally someone with compassion plus enough wisdom to match all who have commented above.

It's amazing how we have lost our sense of being human just cus we are in a faceless forum.
I Kept scrolling down just to find 1 person, Just 1 person who would dare to be different.
Lord help us.

Meanwhile, Ur wife/Fiancee is a lucky woman.

Lol.
Reminds me of the saying
" If you must eat frog then eat a big frog...."