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what can i say,she has deduced i dnt lik som of herr methods,atleast i breastfeed my baby well now witout any arguement.as for d lafia trip,my husband doesnt want his baby to go witout me n me am using my stitches as excuse.n mil is leavin today cos of work,so which eva way i av to bath my baby.God help me

wen i ws complainin she said en y didnt i give her breast since birth dat assumin breast wasnt comin out dat wudnt i give d glucose water.i told her its d doctor who said once milk starts comin out i sud stop d water.i had to hide d glucose,she ws later lookin for it n i jus ignored her as if i didnt knw wat she ws lookin for

I really do appreciate everybodys comment n advice.av hidden d glucose so shes forced to hand me my baby to breastfeed dats if she doesnt fill her stomach while bathin her.my bossom is full now n so hurting,my mil actually still gav my baby glucos water to tak befor i cud enter d room,i had to complain bitterly to her

yes alutacontinua u got it rite,its all more of a 1920 mentality.my own mum is late,all dis wudnt av bin happenin if she were around.n am d first female.
my baby is still very tender n shes my first,dnt knw hw to handle a new born to bath,dats d only area am havin issue wit handling my baby myself,my breast milk is nt flowin yet bt shes nt advicin on wat to do rather she gives her water

it sounds unbelievable bt its d fact,there r even oda little tins i didnt say.lik dis nite afta bathin d child i insisted she gives me d child to breastfeed,bt kept sayinn no dat d child sud drink glucose water first,of which anytim my baby drinks d water first she wnt suck properly,shes still learin to suck bt my mil say its water first,she even called me a lecturer cos i ws insisting

its my mil nt stepmum,ws a mistake.my main concern is i av to breastfeed my baby so she can add weight cos she came before tim bt mil is bin overly possessive.as a mother shes suppose to tell me wat to do so d milk can flow bt she has said nothin to dis minute,its friends tellin me wat to do.wat can i do in such a situation?i lov my husband n dnt want him thinkin on dis issue or see me bin disrespectful to his mum

even to wen i ws 9month preg i had to kip workin to support my family so dey dnt get to think its dis wife dat is eating thier sons moni.imagine me been 8 mnths preg n d mum ws sayin i com to thier hous dats abj to lafia.
av given birth n i still do virtually everytin in d house so my house can b tidy as wellwishers enter,i had to enter d kitchen to cook ogbono cos nothin ws available n she said my soup no sweet,afta jus 24hrs of delivery wit stitches

shes actually a nice person jus dat their family is a very humble one,n d sufferin in bringing up my husband n his siblings,she has dis poverty mentality,she probably wants d stress off her child my husband dats y d lafia tin which am still insistin am nt going,it hous has a general public pit n am stitched out of delivery wit d fact dat d hos aint convinient,bt if i mention all dis to my husband he might get angry

my husband sees it my way bt cant question his mum,he has to explain to her about d feeding before she reluntantly said breastfeed d baby o.even at dat d next mrn before i finish cleanin up d kitchen she ws alredi giving d child dat.abeg na wat can i do?

my
mother inlaw is being possessive of my child.now for her to even allow me
breastfeed d child so d sucking wud stimulate d breastmilk to come out
is a problem,she kips telling me to let d child rest,so she startd givin
d child water,my baby was going almost 2days old feedin on only
water.now shes saying shes taking d child to lafia where she stays.i
think dats probably d reason she doesnt want me to breast feed d child
so she doesnt get used to breastmilk or somtin.The family is a nice
family n i really dnt want any trouble wit my stepmum,wat can i do?
she actually said i sudnt buy more clothes n showel for d baby dat d
ones her children used r still available,(over 30yrs)she wore my baby
pampers bt put tissue inside first so d pampers wudnt get soiled
quick,she has refused using baby oil on my babys head n her head kips
getting dry

pls i misplaced d teller i used in paying at d bank,i paid since last thurs(3-10-13) n was asked to come for d pin dis monday dat just past.bt d teller of prove of payment is lost n av bin busy to go to d bank to lodge my complain.can i still get my pin if i go to d bank without my teller?

how do u see sharing of ur bed with ur spouses sibling?

should a matrimonial bed be shared with one's siblings?especially wen ur in a one bedroom flat.if yes give reasons and if no give reasons pls

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pls which hospital is good for delivery around mararaba in abuja?

what kind of job,say a part time job can a woman who is pregnant be doing prior to delivery? cause i dont think/know if any company would want to employ a woman with protruding belle even if shes very strong and fit.
ideas are welcome.Thank you

please by what time can can watch it on either AIT or on which channels on startimes and by what time and day

Thank u all so much for ur response.

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@mozonto,ur making me laugh my stomach out

@vivian yes i understand n thanks a bunch

@kay ,thanks,made a lot of sense,u sud be a counsellor

desmondoo wat kinda quetions were u asked n cud u paste d number that was used to call u

pdude abeg o, no crucify me before my time,we play safe,n if anytin happens ,we r both old enof n ready to take responsibilities n nt the other way round

@lookmanade i tottaly get ur point,thanks

@kingwax,am happy someone is reasoning along my line,i meant it as a compliment,av always teased him with that prior to dis time,dats y am suprised he reacted dis way,everytime i tease him with d statemtn,we play or he acts or does somtin in the affirmative of the statement, dat was y i was so shocked he made that statement,i guess he was relli angry.