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kajoula:
hmmmm what a mess, why are men doing these ?
Madam,

1. Make sure you have multiple copies (backup) of this chats somewhere else

2. Make it known to him, his level of unfaithfulness and that you will report the issue to his parents,
check on his action if he will sincerely apologise.

3. Show all these pictures to his Parents,siblings that you know.

4. Show all the picture also to the fiancé of your said friend who is set to marry so that the fiancé will know the devil he's starting life with

5. Observe his attitude, if he feels remorse about it before taking up action No4, if he doesn't feel remorse about it.
Dont reveal your friend secret.

it's dishertneing but Truth be told

1How did you meet and marry this man ?
2What are the flaws you saw in him,did you take time to discuss and reach conclusion on issues with him ?
3How log did you court?

You can as well ask yourself why are ladies doing same Common don't be biased, It's a social vice cutting across all genders.

What are you people saying... Even SS himselfs looking scruffy

fwwins:
I am a legal migrant living and working in France on a life contract (CDI). I have lived here for five years plus and been legal for four years.

I have had some good and not so good experiences while here that I would like to share but I'd like to know if we have Nairalanders who lives in France also that would want to share their stories for our people back home or other countries that which to come to France to learn from.

Feel free to ask me "any" question(s) concerning France
"Lets go"

Save us the trouble, mention your experiences. Take it #koboko

The question "what kind of guy is the ideal ladies desire" is an enigma. Every guy is either this or that . And surprisingly when the ladies eventually find Mr nice guy... They single handedly kill him. Weird creatures

All these are signs of the beginning of the end. Remember the initial days of telecom in naija... MTN sim card was like 50k plus... Now it's free. Data will soon follow suit

That was the Genesis of language variation. Overtime other languages too emanated

Even broke guys nows a class of bf Irrespective of pocket stick with that guy that screws you right.

I already see the end of the matter. You'll forgive cause you're not the type of guy that holds grudges. She'll further prompt you to destroy your evidence (recorded calls) as a sign of good faith which you'll do for sure cause all you want ( but don't need ) is for your marriage to survive. Then. Afterwards you're back to square 1 just that this time she'll come for you like never before and won't make the mistake of leaving her tracks behind this time. Wake up to reality bro. Your inlaws are capable of framing you for murder or any other charge convenient for them without blinking an eyelid. So my advise is this... Call a family (and pastors/imams) meeting and play the tape for all to hear so you'll be justified. The final decision whether to continue with your marriage or not lies with you. But getting witnesses from both sides to hear that tape is a MUST. It's not debatable.

Ujoan:
I'm not sure how this call recorder things works, but does it not prompt before it records the calls. Or does it go ahead to record ALL calls?

Seems to me that someone with such a damming app will be quite concious of her phone conversations, bearing in mind that she married a 'techie' and those conversations are against him. Just saying ........

It all depends on settings. Some call recorders record auto while some others need to be prompted.

First things first. Clear the backlog of lies cause she'll definitely find out that's if she doesn't know already. Then you can start fresh by explaining yourself and initial intentions which led to the lies. BTW... You just got caught in your own Web

This guy no represent o. The kido don't even have any of his traits

But come o... Tearing a Nigerian passport Is that not an act of aggression My advise to yalll sojourners in SA is to keep calm,remain good ambassadors and channel all your problems through the Nigerian High Commission there. Truth is Nigerians got swags, hardworking and generous so ordinarily the hating shouldn't be a surprise. And to all the El Chapos painting us black... God is watching yall 3D.

Season of the plus sized.

kingabdull:
My reply above goes to you as well

if you must know am out there in the field digging it out . Beat that

You don baff... You don pray for Nigeria finish. Busy body

This world's turning to something else. Some months back a man was accused of killing his wife in Lagos... News made the headlines and I think the case is still in court. The man claimed his wife was cheating and one thing one thing she died. Now the girls family are accusing the guy of killing their daughter and dude is denying. Only Lord God knows. Bottom line, take your daughter for a DNA test to confirm her paternity. Invite your parents and her family for a peace talk. Then play all the recordings, I believe as a techie guy you've copied the calls. Long story short I don't see myself forgiving that woman but it's your call. And even if I did forgive her we'll surely path ways. That's for sure. Speed is of the essence bro. Save your neck while you still can.

oracle009:
Mehn... I dreamt I was in the intelligence unit of the nigerian army... Guy, na so one huge bazooka knocked me out after I decided to go to battle field. Na so thr narration turned to 3rd person. I cum see how dem carry me... 102 gun salute... Infact, I saw how d mortician mend d teared parts togeda. I even had a bullet hole in d cheek... Na so I just woke up.... Mehn, fear gripped me when I woke up. I actually tot it was afterlife I woke up to. Itwas crazily real. And dnt tell me shit, I'v never wished to join the army... At all...

see stunting na. Oshe

3kay945:
All those films you watched are recorded in part of your brain.
So behaving like Rambo shouldn't surprise you.

Really

Well at times you can't help these things. See it as doing what's necessary to save the day

Send your relations

Edoziesmart:
I have dream occasionally were in the dream i stil slept off and started dreaming as the third party. And anytime i dream when i encounter danger i usually rise up to the real life.

Is just like a woman is pregnant and the foetus in her fallopian tube is also pregnant of another foetus

legout

One of the mysteries of nature

csamii:
How can she be dead and still be a third party in her dream?

well we weren't there bro so we can't tell

Chinkos have something in common with Igbos... Street smartness

Op if you were in his shoes... What will you do?

Mzdivacious:
hello..I don't have a problem sir.calm it...some of us wanna go through various threads without having to comment n making EVERY OTHER comment being urs (comments which is as a matter of fact doesnt answer the question of the thread)is more like u derailing ur thread.

in other words.. u r derailing ur thread for ppl who wanna read thru ppls sincere replies n ppl who will read thru it ten years from now.. my opinion tho..it's stil ur thread.

Thanks for your sincere concern assumed. Like you rightly said it's my thread... Lemme handle it

csamii:
How can she be dead and still be a third party in her dream?

I can understand that. Watch "American house wives" or a movie like that. One of the wives died and was now the one narrating part of the movie. And like I said earlier I wasn't there so I can't argue with anyone based on their personal experience

LastMumu:
Wetin concern you, na your thread? Shuooo

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My brother the problem with Nigeria and Nigerians eh...