₦airaland Forum

Nogen: Am not hypocrite please and watch your tongue too! I am against any form of abuse! It is not only women who are abused, men too get abused from their wives or girlfriends and I will never support any form of abuse irrespective of the gender of the abused! AN ABSUIVE MAN WILL NEVER EMPOWER HIS WOMAN! So, how is the man abusive? In fact, the chances of him being one is ZERO! He could have married her when she was 18, made her have all the babies he wanted before she turned 21! He did nothing of such! She wants to quit the relationship and ran here to shout of abuse! She's just an abusive person! Period!

kenyattamoore: Babyosisi why don't you use English? From what I understand some of you think my situation is something to laugh about. This is not funny at all!! I

Nogen: No vex o! I was excited when I saw her post about growing up in Congo and I knew she can speak my 2nd language. Sorry dear. By the way, am igbo too.

kenyattamoore:
Why is it bothering you? People can't relax for a minute? Wow
I never complained when you were doing it

caramel007: My fellow nairalanders, I need your help, advice, recommendations etc. I intentionally typed in caps cos I m actually screaming my head off right now.

I went to pay my aunt a visit yesterday. She had been asking me to come and see her for sometime now. I had been stalling thinking she wanted to see me concerning marriage issues. So, I finally took the step to go see her on saturday. After the usual pleasantries and the regular "how are you". She called me to her room. She told me my mom has been complaining of having a pain in her breast for sometime now. She said my mum has been to the hospital and she was given antibiotics and painkillers. Which she has taken and the pain is back. I couldn't wrap my head around it as the only thing that came to my mind was one word BREAST. The funny thing was that we (my mum and I) still spoke last thursday and when I enquired about her health she said she was fine. She didn't tell me anything!

I called her there and then and it took some cajoling before she could tell me, I had to tell her that I was with my aunt. She said she didn't want to tell me. She said she noticed the pain since 2011. She said its not a lump and the she cant explain the pain.

I am very scared! I ve not been myself since she told me. I m trying to put up a brave front but deep inside I m shattered. How bad can it get? Why this? Why now? I don't want to lose my mum. I m going to give it all it takes.

What does this mean? How do I go about this, has anyone been in this situation before. What do I do? So many question right? I m so confused right now but one thing I know is that I am going to give it all it takes...

nancy1985: SECONDED I REALLY DON'T Y I LIKE REVENGE AND I DO IT WHEN U MUST HAVE FORGOTTEN MAY GOD DELIVER ME CUZ I HEARD ITS BAD

toshmann: Imatabeghi ya yet. Agboro grade 1



My kwanu?
Adighizim fresh? . A wuzi m old cargo

Chei
Ala akwupula otele o

ifyalways: LOL
Nne di egwu make-iri ezigbo sense. A gam aguru ya di m. Infact,oga awu my konji anthem site taa gawa.

toshmann: Kreami diva
Nne kedu ihe m mere gi?
Eme joro m gi?
Ify emebiela m na threadi a. Achoghi m ka omebie jmoore

peggykorol: Once a man starts abusing the wife physically,he won't stop.it goes on and on.thats how mine started and I thought it would be the last.i know some people on NL feel am not real or I caused my problem myself but you are free to feel or think however you want
As am typing this now,I have some wounds on my back and hands.thats the recent beating I got from someone who claims to luv me very much.for every time I question his fidelity,I get beaten up seriously like a thief who stole in the market square.he sleeps with girls anywhere.ranging from his car to our matrimonial home to motels,
Now ask me how I knew all this

theLORDreigns: Sadly, she may just end up being the one to push him into cheating on her...

Mai pride: No am not.... ℓ̊ can alws pull out if 'its' gonna kill me.

Mai pride: Ignorance is not bliss.... "My people perish for lack of knowledge....

†ђξ betrayal and dsapointment will be more heartbreaking if she eventually finds out on her own...

IMO, Just tell her and free yourself of †ђξ guilt.... What's †ђξ essence of confessing to God and knwing deep down that you av wronged your better half Your peace aint complete dt way...
It aint easy to forgive and forget but ℓ̊ will save my marriage and forgive with †ђξ hope and promise that he won't do it again

Mannylex: Lol....
Would you be my date? We would go twice a week for as long as you want till you finally say yes.

jmoore: unu emebi kwa na mu ebe a oh....

toshmann: Nwanne m Nwoke gbapukwa, ndi a emebiela m na threadi a

ifyalways: Hahahahahaha.
Nne biko bia nye m tune egwu a.

#Kupagide ya owa.Darfur Kupagide ya owa.Emenike Kupagide ya owa#

LOL

kenyattamoore: lol you guys like teasing a lot. From physical abuse to verbal abuse ?
i hope 2sexy does not see this lol