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5minsmadness:
Op everybody seems to be asking the same question.


Why do you say you are not ready?

Hmmmm... Very deep. Lovely write up OP. I've had terrible experiences, but lemme share the latest. I have 2neighbours am close to. We're all married. I did my trads some years back, so wen we moved to our 2nd apartment I met them. It took my mom who came for omugwo to see thru dem, she said I should be careful. So I called 1 & told her cos we're both spiritualy on dsame level. That's when she opened up & said I should forgive. How d 3rd lady slanders me, how she said I feel like I have so much. I noticed dt everytime we buy something new, b4 I know it she finds a way to get money & buy or does thesame thing too...
I cherish my childhood friends, nothing or no one like them

2years before I got married, I met this guy online fine everything, sweet mouthed, sleek name it. He was always calling he didn't gimme space oooo. That's how he said to send me some items to prove his love, he said he sent tv, clothes, shoes, weaves etc. But that the courier company mistakenly took my items to kano, so I should call-he gave me the no- the person in charge. I called the man, he said I'd have to pay some money to his a/c so that he can send it to lagos. I go school well well, no be mouth, that's how I started tackling him. Why will u take the items to kano when the last address reads lagos. That evening I went for tuesday service in church, after prayers I told my pastor what transpired the whole day, that's how the man prayer & got revelation it was scam. Make una dey careful oooooooo
My body don dey shake sef, called my sis for loan & begged my mom for money

419 everywhere

Beautiful cake... HML

The brides hairstyle tho

Finally u don pour your mind. Jobless op trying to talk down southerners

Rapmoney:


Any Igbo that does that is lost! It is forbidden in Igbo societies, though normal in the south.

E be like say u be igbo guy. Why I nor go vex for u?

Rapmoney:


E be like say u be Urhobo babe o! Why u just dey vex for me sef?

Op no vex ooooo, my children dey sleep. So I dey use ur thread unwind

Its his kind that hustles for food, drinks & souvenirs...
How would you be comparing this OP, sebi I've asked to marry igbo. Wahala no dey their

Ewuro4:


and will spread his bare hands when the couples ask him for money after the lavish wedding.

God bless you my sister.
This OP na those kind guests wey dey fight for rice for people wedding.
Go call police we from southern part of Nigeria no dey do wedding

Ewuro4:


How does that take concern you?

What if their parents don't approve the Union and they went to court instead?
What if the husband wasn't financially buoyant?
What if....

Lovely write up

Mr paper bag, pele oooo. Go marry igbo na wahala dey there?

Well, as they say; different strokes...

Hubby & have:
a joint a/c : small amounts go there for long term goals eg, buying a house etc

2diff a/c for the children

A company a/c

And our individual a/cs, I got 2. He has 3

So it all depends on what works for you

Oya include Ryan's cake na...

P.S: her cakes are extremely delicious, you won't regret

No, not really..
I feel sick and insecure
I just pray for the day I can look back wifout hate and rage...
Anyhoo, thanx. Oya chop kiss there [/quote]


That's a bold step! Don't feel insecure jo. The day is coming when all of that will end "hate & rage"... **e-hugssss**

Ellimist:
God Bless You..OP. One of the most reasonable post I've seen on Nairaland, if not the best. We all need to join hands to fight this, really..not campaigning for people that don't know you and killing one anoda...

I have a friend whose bros was abused by their cousin.they really hate her. His sis was abused by their driver.. God help them. He himself was abused by guys in sec skul. When you see some guys fighting the gay tendency..you have no idea.

I myself do NOT allow my lil sis to go out to anybody who has a small boy or maid..I MUST protect any young child. Y'all should do so too...relatives or not.

And when I say 'a friend', yes I mean me.
*drops fone and cries*

They Lord is your strength. I'm very sure you'd feel lighter since you've shared it **e-hugssss**

Its getting worse by the day. I was almost molested, my mom was a single parent dad was getting married to several women. It was difficult for mom alone. Most times she's bitter, always cursing. So I never told her anything I just always give the then neighbour space. I was very smart as a kid. I always prayed for two boys, but then I got a boy & a girl... I must do my best to make them my bestfriends vice versa

It really gets scary by the day. Thank yoU OP

delishpot:


Ha, ha, prevention is better than panadol my sister. You did well keeping her far from your man. Make she go meet her single friends for help.

My sister, see me ooooo. As big as lagos is, no relative or friend to stay with.

Nineteth...
That's how 2days ago a friends younger sis asked if she can stay in my house till month end. My eyes shine. I'm 1 who learns from people's exp. Although hubby isn't easily carried away, but meeehhhhnnnnn no taking chances. I stay in a two bedroom which is quite big, I just had my 2nd child who is 3months my mom is still around for omugwo, this girl says she doesn't mind sleeping on the floor. Na their my eyes over shine, I told you my mom is around & no space or even extra bed she say she go stay for floor. I just ignored. Alakoba.

Hi Lekan, I sent you a msg on whatsapp. I'm in Lagos,I'd prefer the papar yam. Pls add me & lemme see pics for clarity, while search for a big space.

Anticipating your response

Pls is this still available? And how far is it from ajah round about?

Bukatyne God bless you real good

Edwife you took the words right outta my mouth, I just read & hardly comment. Children everywhere now in family section

Don't stay home. If they don't find you at home they can't leave the foods at your doorstep

Very boring christmas. We're broke, just home with the kids watching tv... I thank God all thesame

Hmmmmm... Whenever hubby was home, he would log into Nairaland & be laughing so I tld myself I won't let him enjoy the fun alone. Its actually the comments we find really amusing

Hmmmm... I love swallow. Fufu & any good soup will do. Can take swallow all day everyday

Hmmmm... If you don't mind sending me a mail, can buy 1 or 2 of them then pay twice. If you accept PM me, jes to help so your money won't waste

femmy2010:


[b]I really pity you and feel your pain.
More than half a million is a whole lot.
Mr Ademola would certainly not know peace as he has taken peace away from a fellow human.
Mr Ademola is about loosing a Container loaded with 4cars to Customs Auction and am sure those vehicles too are owned by Nairalanders too.
It still baffles me why someone would collect money from client and spend it all on personal use. Damm the guy really has liver ooO.
My advise is that you involve the police to recover your hard earned cash.
If you need a pointer in the right direction then call me.

The punk ass dude owe me N520,000 too as balance of shipping a container with a 2013 BMW,1999 Camry,2002 Camry and a 1999 Accord. and just recently told me to go ahead with anything I can do as he has no interest in clearing the container.
I would do my best to get the said container Gazetted to me but I just wonder what tales he would tell the owner of the cars in the said container?
Dude is wickeddddddDD[/b]

Fufu for life & life after death

This your secial rice, I thought it was "special rice" not sure tho, that's what my sis eats & she calls it special. Pls clarify me on this. Thanks

If its thesame, I'd buy 3bags

Unlocked. Black of it. How about the Z3?

Fhemmmy:


The Q10 is 37K unlocked and 33K locked . . . . let us know which you are interested in and we will take it from there . . .

Hi, pls I want a z3 & Q10. How much? I'm in Lagos, so how do I pay & pick up?

Nonsense!