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TravelRe: Muhammadu Buhari International Airport In Ebonyi Constructed By Governor Umahi by ksam(m): 9:52am On Mar 08, 2023
What a beautiful sight to behold. But can anything good come from the name Buhari?

May this airport not bring pain and sorrow to the beautiful people of Ebonyi state.
It will forever be in history that Buhari is a Colosal failure.
SportsRe: Qatar 2022: Karim Benzema Is Out Of The World Cup by ksam(m): 7:09am On Nov 20, 2022
After a long time away from France squared, it now end this way. Sad but wish him all the best
PoliticsRe: Moment Tinubu Said "God Bless PDP" At The APC Campaign Launch In Jos (video) by ksam(m): 4:05pm On Nov 15, 2022
Very dull somebody, you can't be intelligent and support tinubu.
EducationRe: Major Demands Of ASUU That Led To The Strike by ksam(m): 9:23pm On Jul 12, 2022
That one concern them.. Both ASUU and and federal government should both go to hell.
The ASUU case with the federal government is a case study of "Wayo man jamb koni man"
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy Celebrates His 31st Birthday by ksam(m): 2:33pm On Jul 02, 2022
You meant 61 wink..
Anyway happy birthday to him
PoliticsRe: Garba Shehu: No Cause For Alarm, Gen Abubakar Is In No Serious Condition by ksam(m): 7:04pm On Jun 20, 2022
Who cares?
My own is, if he dies in London, they should just bury him there.. Since our hospitals are not good enough for him, our graves too are not good enough.

Nigeria is not a graveyard
SportsRe: Top 25 Most Valuable Football Players 2022 by ksam(m): 7:31pm On Jun 15, 2022
Thank God, No messing No Ronaldo
Make we rest small
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Attends Lord's Chosen Bi-annual Program by ksam(m): 10:57am On Jun 14, 2022
Kai! The face of this man gives me joy, my heart just skip in excitement seeing him. At last there's still hope for Nigeria..
There's tears in my eyes as I type this.

People, don't understand that this election is far beyond Peter Obi. It is a Redemption from God, Peter Obi is just a vessel

God Bless The Federal Republic of Nigeria
God Bless Peter Obi
God Bless Bless everyone that wish Nigeria well


Curse be upon any man that wants calamity to befall this Nation again

Go get your PVC
SportsRe: FIBA Throws D’tigress Out Of 2022 World Cup After Fg’s Withdrawal by ksam(m):
I am heart broken

It is now very obvious that this Nation is cursed because anytime something good wants to happen to this Nation, it backfires to something worst. For example, when Yaradua became the president of this Nation, death took him away from us now we are stuck with this clone

We were all happy that d'tigress are becoming a force to reckon all over the world, now this..

Sincerely from my heart, if I tell una say Naija never tire me, I they lie

They should just collapse this Nation make everybody go in own, I no do naija again

Note: I am not a Biafra and never will I be
PoliticsRe: 2023 Election: Who Will Be The Running Mate To Atiku Abubakar? by ksam(m): 11:54pm On May 28, 2022
Na now Peter Obi and Atiku for win o but the former tried to outshine the master..

Lack of patient..
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh: I Will Open An OnlyFans Page And Serve Nigerians Ikwerre Styles by ksam(m): 4:20pm On May 02, 2022
When you are done blocking your Pastor, try block God too because Na him go determine if that rubber nyash go melt in hell
PoliticsRe: Senate Outlaws Ransom Payments, Kidnapping Now Punishable By Death by ksam(m): 7:13pm On Apr 28, 2022
Long overdue
PoliticsRe: Ag Police PPRO, Adejobi: Police To Hold DPOs Responsible For Officer's Extortion by ksam(m): 8:02am On Apr 16, 2022
Nice one but that doesn't change the fact that the Nigeria police force is the most corrupt force in the world, followed by India that are far behind us

The DPOs right now be like 'who be this mumu again?'
SportsRe: The Pain Is Too Much - Emenike Cries Out From Sick Bed by ksam(m): 2:09pm On Apr 13, 2022
Baawaa:
What a country, they will do the needful now until he die they will now be saying rubbish
Wetin country do again? Una go just they blame country for everything
CelebritiesRe: Ini Edo Dances With Surgically Enhanced Shape At Rita Dominic’s Bridal Shower by ksam(m): 10:08am On Apr 13, 2022
She now looks like Papalolo (clown)

Painful that one simp would want to start a responsible home with her and we still ask why there are too many divorce cases this days..
FamilyRe: Is This Normal For Traditional Wedding List? by ksam(m): 3:15pm On Feb 01, 2022
Marry from that family at your own detriment. Because na after the wedding you go see tasking, your life will be full of frustration
Christianity EtcRe: Which Part Of Your Christian Life Do You Need To Improve This Year? by ksam(m): 11:10am On Jan 16, 2022
My sex life
RomanceRe: Where You Served Breakfast In 2021? Share Your Experience by ksam(op):
Highman56:
Foolish boy.u stopped sending money home because of a woman
In your entire life, have you ever spend a penny on your parents ? Gettat
RomanceRe: Where You Served Breakfast In 2021? Share Your Experience by ksam(op): 4:24pm On Dec 30, 2021
Jeon:
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we are not in literature class angry
I should have posted a video because we are in the cinema right ?
RomanceRe: Where You Served Breakfast In 2021? Share Your Experience by ksam(op): 2:28pm On Dec 30, 2021
SmellySperm:
Keep serving them hot hot for me comrade, I'm on probation.

Meanwhile op you really F up. You lied to your mom you're handling a project and she even prayed for you not knowing the project was a hoe? WTF man!
My brother,i was trying to reduce the financial burdens on me. i have learnt my lesson.. Till date my people still asked me about the Project,i just they Avoid the question. But by GOD's Grace next year, i'll happily tell them it was a success
RomanceWhere You Served Breakfast In 2021? Share Your Experience by ksam(op): 1:23pm On Dec 30, 2021
Where you served Breakfast in 2021? Share your experience

Here's mine

There was this girl i wanted to date in my former place of work, but because i dont do office romance, i decided to let her be. So she was relieved of her duty while i resigned to work for another organization. Months later, i decided to shoot my shot at her. I asked her out through phone but she was neighter saying yes or no. I decided to let her be, but all of a sudden she started calling me and i asked her to pay me a visit which she did..

Her first visit, we did some kissing but she refused me having sex with her, so during the weekend she came visiting again and this time we had a wonderful sex. while we were resting on the bed with her Head on my chest, she asked "if we are now dating"? The SIMP in me never wanted her to feel used, So i asked her if she would want to date me ? She said YES ! Na so relationship take start be that o...

Mind you, I've heard some nasty stories about this girl on how cheap she is, so my initial intention was just to be having sex with her but in the process of it, i fell deeply in love with her

Mehn! I decided to change my ways to be a good boyfriend o, i do away with flirting and even left some of my female Friends just because of her. She was not working then so most of her needs i provided down to her pad, i was doing this depending on When she will get a job, i even tried Looking for job for her in so many places which i did got one, but the distance and pay was not encouraging so we had to decline. Believe me, i was thinking of marrying this girl, we have talked about it and agreed to tie the knot next year because i was so much in love with her even though i knew deep within me, she is not the kind of lady i would want to marry. But Damn the conséquences afterwards, i dont care

I normally send money to my parents every month end, but i stopped and told my parents that i have a project that i am into that is taking my money. My parents were busy praying for me for the project to be a success. If only they knew that a woman was the project.

In the course of the relationship, some times we do have issues Because of her numerous male Friends and exes, she hardly say NO to free gifts, dates and money from other guys, she spend most of time on YouTube watching boot enhancement cream and how to make organic cream videos.. She most times put her Account Number on her WhatsApp status asking her Friends to show her love. She always post pictures of items on her status with a capton ''I want this'', When she is with me and calls comes in from guys, she will lie to them that she is at home. All These her character disgust me and has always cause issues between us.. But i have this believe that she will change, never did i know you cant change a LovePeddler into a wife

Early november i noticed some changes in her, When i call her, she wont pick but will later call me at night giving silly reasons why she did not pick. She will send me pictures of her in a swimming pool and eatery alone, i knew fully well she was with another guy.. She was with me one time and she told me to up my game before someone take her away from me. I was really pained hearing this from her, I just told her whoever is deceiving her is doing a good job, it is going to end in tears for her. I also reminded her, i dont forgive a cheating partner..

Ever since then, i was no longer at ease with the relationship, i knew it was a matter of time we'll go our seperate ways. So i better end it now Looking that Christmas is by the corner, if i spend what i have in mind for her and her family for this Christmas, i'll be so much hurt if we did break up

So one Day, she passed the night in my place, the following morning i was prompted to go through her chat, this is the first time i will be doing this with her or anyone i have ever dated. With what i saw, i could not breath, My heart fell to my stomach, i had stroke for few seconds. One of the chat with a guy 10min ago was that, she agreed with him to pass the night in his place that same day

I wanted to screenshot the chats and send to my phone as évidence Because i know she will deny everything but that will take time so i decided to take a photo of it with my phone, while doing it, she noticed me and that caused a seriouse quarrell between us, though she was not aware that i had already taken all the evidence i wanted. Knowing fully well within me that the relationship is over between us because of what i saw, i decided to apologize so i can just have my Last breakup sex with her.
She accepted my apology and i sexed her with reckless abandon. I even pleaded with her for us to be focus on ourselves(relationship) and not to be distracted. She promised me that she will never cheat on me

Hmmmn! Did you know that this girl still went and spend the night in that guys house..

I called her, while she was there with the guy, i told her i love her and she responded "she will keep that at the back of her mind", this was a Very unusual respond, i insist she tell me she loves me back, but she was just laughing sheepishly, all of a sudden the guy asked who was that and she quickly cut the call. I called her back severaly, she didnt pick and i just sent her a message telling her, 'i know where she is currently and she should forget about the relationship". She messaged me back trying to emotional blackmail me for being irrationnel. She said she will call me back at night. Then her number stopped going. Later at night she texted me that she is currently in a night vigil that she will call the following morning. I had the numbers of two persons in her church which she is not aware of and i called them to confirm if she was in the church, i also called her mom if she was at home and they all said NO.. Mind you i recorded all the conversations. After then, I just locked up..

The following Day she çalled me and i refused to pick

2days later she came to my house and denied that she was with any guy. I had to play the recorded call and other evidence, which she later agreed that she truly was with the guy but nothing happened between them.. I just told her i need some space for now..

When she left i was so heartbroken, for the first time i cried because of a woman, i could not concentrate at work anymore, i close very late from work because my house became scary, make thinking no go kill me, but i knew i made the right decision by letting her go. We only dated for 5months, but it was like i lost 5years of my life, i totally lost focus of my dreams and vision. We even wanted to spend the Christmas together, Thank GOD we didnt and i'm with my family now and it has been fun allthrough

This relationship really taught me a lesson Oh, never will i take a woman seriously again. 2022 i am focusing on my goals, i might even go celibate. But if any person babe mistakenly reach my side, i'll treat them like you should treat a hoe. Chop, clean mouth and work away

Never take a woman you are not married to seriously, your goals and family should come first
SportsRe: Lionel Messi Helps Obtain 50,000 Covid Vaccines For South American Players by ksam(m): 3:09pm On Apr 16, 2021
Nonsense







try quote me and see thunder visit you this night
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(op): 1:29pm On Apr 02, 2021
Boss13:
You have to be assertive with your dating choices. If she is turning you down, go get someone else. You are a man, act like one please.
Real men don't take NO for an answer till they get what they want, but most times at that time what they wanted may be a piece of rag to them because they had gotten something bigger and better but they still wanted to satisfy that craving desire of what they once wanted

I hope you get it..
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(op): 1:09pm On Apr 02, 2021
SeekerofTruth1:
Short Answer,You are PLAN B
This one pain me, but i too have decided to make her PLAN Z that is for her to fall in to my trap, you know what they do with bush meat caught in a trap, you don't put them in a cage, you eat, clean your mouth and set another trap for other Bush meat
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(op): 8:15am On Apr 02, 2021
chatinent:
I think some ladies are like that. Numerous ladies like to keep many guys on reserve in case.
For what gain? that's the reason you hardly see them post pictures of their partners except the ones who are not cheats which they are very rare

Guys, if your woman don't post your picture on her status just consider yourself one among many others, forget whatever she tells you is her reason and please don't persuade her to because if she obliged to your pressure, you will be the only one seeing your pictures on her status
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(op): 8:05am On Apr 02, 2021
inumidun2010:
VERY COMPLEX CREATURES... Say something, thinking otherwise...
And doing something different from their words or thought, what a COMPLEXITY
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(op): 7:39am On Apr 02, 2021
Descortes:
Don't get too carried away mate.
She was shocked and almost fainted when she first saw that PDF because she thought her plans had been shattered.
She knows you love her and will wait for her so she intends to hoe around (albeit secretly) for some time/years and then settle with you at last (the simp).
She has hoe'd around for a year plus now, she needs some more time, and when she's done, she'll finally accept your proposal. Just be a tad more patient smiley
You can call me anything in this life bros but please don't call me a simp. With this present generation of girls, SIMPism is a curse to any man
I do agree with your statement about her intentions to hoe around, cus i noticed she do not want to be committed to one person and she is fully aware i will not tolerate a cheating partner.
However, my intention towards her at first was genuine but her attitude has changed my motives. I can not be the one to settle for chaffs when other men have taken all the ingredients in her
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(op): 7:32am On Apr 02, 2021
Descortes:
Don't get too carried away mate.
She was shocked and almost fainted when she first saw that PDF because she thought her plans had been shattered.
She knows you love her and will wait for her so she intends to hoe around (albeit secretly) for some time/years and then settle with you at last (the simp).
She has hoe'd around for a year plus now, she needs some more time, and when she's done, she'll finally accept your proposal. Just be a tad more patient smiley
RomanceRe: Why Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(op): 7:20am On Apr 02, 2021
profilemessages:
sometimes its not at all how they ladies are, the way you dress is the way you are addressed


it depends on the way you package yourself


ladies dont care where you got your money, but they will help you to spend it, na you go dey debate am with baba GOD when you reach heaven



and dont think you can satisfy them, the moment she sees another rich dude, she don jakpa be that



before an able bodied man like mosdii woke up early in the morning and started ringing bell all over nigeria on NAIRALAND that NIGERIAN GRILS ARE USELESS ALL OF THEM

OMO E GET AS E BE (OKI SI BE)
I do agree with you when you said "ladies dont care where you got your money, but they will help you to spend it" but what i don't get is the dressing part. Am i supposed to wear Agbada or Baba riga before i approach a lady?

As for the packaging part, she has been to my crib before and all she was screaming was wow! wow!! wow!!! till she left, telling me i am doing better for my age that no lady will come here and want to leave.

Ladies are very confusing i must say and as for Mosdii, He is gradually becoming a mentor to some of us
RomanceWhy Are Ladies Like This? by ksam(op): 1:31am On Apr 02, 2021
I seriously want to know the answer to my question because i don't seem to understand the creature called ''Ladies'' anymore

There's this girl I have been asking out for over a year now but she always turn my proposal down for no just cause
She always do tell me "i am the kind of guy any lady would want to be with, that i do posses all the qualities a lady want in a man, I will make a perfect husband, bla bla bla and she even told me she is not in a relationship, so i still don't understand why she always turn me down

So Yesterday been April 1st, i sent her a 'PDF April Fool prank message' on whatsap inviting her for my wedding. After she opened the message, this was what she sent ��

"Wow. I almost fainted"

My brothers and sisters in the house, please let me know if this is not WITCHCRAFT? because i do not understand why you won't let me date you, yet you don't want me to find love with another lady

So my question still stand
"Why are ladies like this?"

CelebritiesRe: Omotola And Her Husband Matthew Ekeinde Celebrate 25th Wedding Anniversary (Pix) by ksam(m): 9:10am On Mar 23, 2021
Penguin2:
Congratulations to you Omotola!

You are a true African woman, a woman substance and value, that understands the sanctity and sacredness of marriage.

She's like the only actress who has stayed this long in marriage.

Another actress who will stay long in her marriage is Mercy Johnson.

Not like the stupid whores we now as actresses that see marriage as a cashout avenue. Once the maga(husband) stops paying, they block(divorce) him.

Demented feminist wannabes. Awon future is "foolmale".

If you know what both parties had to go through stay together this long, the sacrifices, the many times they had to forgive terrible misgivings, you will know it's not by feminism.
Lol... This are the type we cherish, not the "future Is female" gang that don't even have future
PoliticsRe: Just In !! Angry Protesters Storms Tinubu's House by ksam(m): 6:53pm On Oct 21, 2020
Christistruth00:
This is becoming Tribal and Political nothing to do with #Endsars .

Tinubu doesn't even own the Lekki Toll gate and i have read posts saying he should be burnt alive this is not about protests any longer
You are the one trying to make it look tribalish and political, the voice of those people dont look that to me. These are the voice of people who truly want change, they are tired of of the whole ish

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