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 Romance › Re: My Babe Broke Up With Me Wen She Discovered She Had Hiv by kunleajayi(op): 2:44pm On Aug 22, 2009 |
We have not yet had sex, so i'm sure i am negative. |
| Romance › My Babe Broke Up With Me Wen She Discovered She Had Hiv by kunleajayi(op): 3:53am On Aug 22, 2009 |
My babe of two years broke up with me last week when she discovered she was HIV +ve. She told me wen we first started dating that she was raped wen she was in her first year in university. I had a test too that came out negative, nd she had been saying that she'll go for hers too, but she kept putting it off cos she was scared. Now that it has come out +ve, she decided to leave me, telling me that she doesn't want to put me at such a dangerous risk. I felt soo bad, i cried. A few days later i told her that no matter wat, i still love her, nd that we'll just go for counselling nd that she could be using ARVs(Anti-retroviral Treatment for people living with HIV). i told her i luv her too much for the whole thing to just end like that, that we can still stay together. she refused. I've been begging her all this while but she does not want to come back. wat can i do? i luv this girl so much nd i am willing to help her in any way i can. |
| Romance › Re: She Has A Fiance, I Have My Baby, But We Can't Keep Our Hands Off Each Other by kunleajayi(op): 9:35am On Oct 10, 2008 |
I had to make it a bit graphic to let you know how serious the situation was. @iceblue, as per my girl, we have had so many intimate moments together (twice or thrice we have gone as far as she making me ejaculate), we have promised ourselves no sex till we get married. So the issue of not opening up to her does not come in.We know our capabilities when it will eventually come to having the main sex. where and why this other one came up i don't know. |
| Romance › She Has A Fiance, I Have My Baby, But We Can't Keep Our Hands Off Each Other by kunleajayi(op): 10:07pm On Oct 09, 2008 |
[b]There is this girl i knew back when we were in school. Then, she was the very quiet type, never socializing with anyone, but i had it in mind that i must get to know her. i later chatted her up one nite in class and we gradually got close. I graduated from school(she was still in part three then) and went my way. we later lost contact for close to two years. One morning, she called me out of the blues and told me she had been posted to Abuja(where i am working). I went to see her in camp and we re-lived old times. Since then, i often go see her in her crib anytime i was free, which was usually on weekends when i come from my baby's house. on one of such weekends, she told me about herself, how she had met one guy ho had proposed to her, which she accepted. she told me so many other things. Unfortunately for me, one evening i took her to a joint near my end, but midway, the heavens let loose and it rained like mad. We had no other option than to go to my place. The rains continued to pour, and it became obvious she would have to stay overnight. Due to the cold wind caused by the rains that nite, and the effect of her wet clothes, i had to give her one of my big shirts which she wore with nothing under. we had to share the same bed. While we talked, She snuggled so close to me, her naked breasts underneath the shirt pressing hard into my chest, and before i knew it, i began to have a hard on. I tried to hide my embarassment but i guess she knew cos she looked at me with this seductive look in her eyes and began rubbing my crotch with her thigh. Before i could control my emotions, i had begun to kiss her ferociously, her neck, her lips, lifted up the shirt she was wearing and descending on her hard nipples. she too responded by grabbing hold of my hardening D*@K. To cut a long story short, we ended up having wild and erotic sex till the early hours of the morning. I later felt guilty sleeping with her, and i told her that we should not repeat it again. I thot that was the end of it, but unknown to me, it had just begun. ever since then, we have had sex over 5 times. the sudden fire i thot i had always managed to control in me anytime i was with my baby will suddenly rage out of control whenever i'm with this other girl, and before we know it, we'll have stripped ourselved butt naked and screw ourselves senseless. It got so bad one day that we didn't have the patience for me to wear a rubber and we attacked each other, resulting in me shooting my load of CUMM all over her belly and breasts, but that is another story. I've tried so hard to stop this act as i know it is wrong. Besides, this never happens anytime i'm with my baby. Waht can i do to stop this act as it is driving me crazy? [/b] |
| Romance › Re: This Girl Is Getting Emotionally Attached To Me by kunleajayi(op): 10:25am On May 21, 2008 |
I'm not keeping her for any f@*king spare tyre!!! And she knows i have a girlfriend, mind u. She saw a pix of her on my phone and saw the numerous luv text messages she sends to me. I just want to avoid seeing her cos i know if she knows i'm in town, she'll continue to pester me to come see her, and i don't want that. And yes, I may like the girl, but only as a friend. i don't want it to go beyond that. Have i made myself clear? |
| Romance › Re: This Girl Is Getting Emotionally Attached To Me by kunleajayi(op): 9:50am On May 21, 2008 |
[b]I've read all the posts everyone has sent in and i really appreciate all the advice and criticisms sent in. I know i messed up by even allowing the girl to stay over at my place for that long, and i accept all the blame. I just felt that since we come a long way back and she didn't know anyone here, i was in the best position to help her out. I never knew it would turn out into something like this. To those who feel all what i'm saying is a lie, let me tell you all what happened is the truth. I know it is not easy for a man to just control himself in a situation like that, but i managed to. While i was in the act, something in my mind was telling me what i was doing was wrong, and i should stop. I may have lost my senses initially, but I'm glad i listened to that voice and stopped before things got out of hand. Right now the girl in question has gotten a place of hers. I told her i wouldn't be in town for the next few weeks(even though i will be going to abuja). She was a bit unhappy and said i wanted to abandon her, but i told her that i don't want to take advantage of her situation to end up sleeping with her and later regret it. [/b] |
| Romance › This Girl Is Getting Emotionally Attached To Me by kunleajayi(op): 4:14pm On May 19, 2008 |
[b]There is this female friendof mine(Let me call her Doyin) i used to have when i was in school. She was this quiet, easy going lady. She was in part 1 then while i was in part 3. I happened to have been taking her and her friend some computer courses tutorials, and we later got very close. I contemplated on dating her then, but i later gave up the idea due to some reasons. We remained friends until i left school. We kept on communicating once in a while, but we later lost contact for almost a year. all that while we were in touch, i joked with her that when she was about to serve, she will be posted to Abuja. About a month and a half ago, she called me and told me my predictions were true, and that she was posted to Abuja. I went to check her about twice in camp, but i never wanted our friendship to go beyond that level. About three saturdays ago, i was with my girlfriend when this Doyin called. I didn't want to pick her call as i didn't want to disrespect my babygirl, but she kept on calling and calling until my girl said i shld just pick the phone and ask her what she wanted. Doyin told me she just came back from home and that i should come pick her up at the car park, something i told her i couldn't do at that point. She got upset and hung up the call on me. Later that nite, my baby sent me a text asking me what this girl wanted from me, that she doesn't want any girl to cause any trouble and problems between us, etc, etc. Anyway, last Monday i took the whole week off to go look for a better job(s) elsewhere as i want to leave the present establishment i work. i happened to call Doyin and asked hw she was faring. She told me a story that the other corper she was to stay with had paid their money amounting to like 130k to some dubious agents who now made away with the money, and she had nowhere to stay. I went to see her where she was(Gwarimpa), and she told me where she was at the moment, the woman told her to leave, and her friend said she cannot stay with her, so she didn't have anywhere to sleep that nite. Since it was getting to 9pm, i decided she shld come spend the nite in my place. That's where my wahala started. She ended up spending the rest of the week with me. I didn't have the heart to chase her out as she didn't have a place to lay her head, and the way she was crying the first nite, i couldn't help myself and i never knew when my mind just left me and i pulled her into my arms. One thing led to another and before i knew it, i started kissing and carressing this girl. She was wearing nothing under her shirt(she had changed and we were lying on the bed) and my hands slipped under her shirt and started rubbing her back and massaging her breasts. The bad part was that this girl did not even attempt to push me off!!! infact, she even crushed her body closer to mine. I finally came to my senses and stopped before it led to another thing. ever since, any small thing, the girl will call me. Even when we finally found a place for her to rent, she will keep calling and ask me where i was, that she wanted to see me. It seems she's getting emotional, which is what i don't want. I don't want anything nor anyone to seperate me from my present baby as she and I have promised to love each other to the end. I didn't tell her that Doyin spent about 5 days in my house. People what can i do? How do i tell this girl off without hurting her feelings?[/b] |
| Romance › Re: Ladies Would This Make You Mad? by kunleajayi: 3:51pm On Jan 24, 2008 |
Oga Seun why can't i start a topic of my own? I want to start a thread but the link is just not there on my account. E no fair o  |
