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agemmy113:
Pls for those people that like to use abusive language you may decide not to comment at all.

I met a lady some years ago, I was with one of my family friend though older than me and I saw a number on his phone then I picked the number when there is still 2go. I added that number and to my surprise the 2go account owner was a averaged lady not that beautiful and not ugly though. I chatted with her with different format as a guy and she happened to come from my parent home town. I talked to her and she accept to come and visit me in Lagos. she's from Ado Ekiti. I took her to eatery and we came back we had sex that day. several rounds like that for like 3days. I gave her money she left. we talked for a while on phone and I stop associating with her since I have achieved my aim.
5years later, I met her again on Facebook and the era of 2go have gone. To my surprise the lady is now more beautiful and I decided to woe her back. now she's now busty and fair and added little wait since I love moderate and busty lady. I decide to rekindle that relationship under the guise that I lost her contact. she also see that I have change I have changed my job and I am able to satisfy her. I have changed my environment. then I invited her to Lagos last year. we had sex and she went back to Ado ekiti. then I just received a call from him and she told me she's at the park claiming she came to visit her brother but when she was going back there is no vehicle. though she informed me she's coming to Lagos but she came earlier than expected. OK I told her no problem I will come and pick her. we had sex that night several rounds. then she left the other day.
last year July and stay for 1week+. then by august she left and the next few days she called me she's pregnant. at first I wanted to reject it since I am not ready. but she managed to call my mom and my hand are tied. she's not the type that support abortion. then she gave birth April 21. but to my greatest surprise I lost my job exactly 7days before delivery. then things started getting worse. though I have accepted her to marry her. age wise she's older than me and academically she's higher than me.
she's a professional nurse but she couldn't get job. I don't really want to explain that area. since I lost that my job I have not been able to get a good job. but now I am thinking because of her or she's having bad luck that's why I lost my job.
I am now throwing it to the house to pls advice me if I should continue the relationship.
besides she is not a good relationship with my mom and I don't know why. thanks

CoolAmbience:
Lol.

You travelled 59 cities indeed...how come you couldn't name a single state in Nigeria where rice has never being cultivated?

I nor even sure say you well? U must be one of these Alamo bitter guys!
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CoolAmbience:
Name that state in Nigeria where rice cannot be grown.

You think it is about staying at a location for most of your life and blabbing?




Oode. Go and read and get educated you won't. Ive travelled and stayed I'm at least 59 cities across the nation olodo like you.

CoolAmbience:
Are you sure that you are okay?

Did I say that rice can be grown everywhere?

There is no state where rice cannot be grown across its entire length and width.

I think you should go and read your book instead. I have been growing rice before you were born.

I be like your mate?

Righteousness89:
You have a Good Point but u crumbled the Whole thing when you said she has a "Misconception " about pre-marital sex.

Any Real Bible Believing and Practicing Believer will not Not have any sex until the Church Wedding is Done..

kunleweb:
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Viking07:

Newguyhere:
Women break rules for alphas and make rules for betas op I'm afraid you are the latter

CoolAmbience:
What is this one saying?

Over 70% of lands in Nigeria are arable across each state of the federation.

While it is understandable that not all of us would venture into agriculture, we must concede that the era of excuses and frivolities are over.

The party is over....it is time to fix Nigeria.

lovethchioma:
Why are you like this? But what exactly don't you understand? She told you very clearly that she wouldn't have sex until after church wedding. You were silent on the issue, which means you had no issue with it.

And all of a sudden, you're acting confused as to why she isn't allowing you sex after the traditional wedding, and even had to bring it here to seek advice from people who do not value marriage, Over something she already clearly told you.

You're a manipulator. You're the one not keeping to the end of the bargain. Instead of you to bring your wedding date forward quickly, you're acting angry. She should be the one angry with you seriously. Why did you not tell her your stance on this when she told you hers? you thought she was joking? you don't even take her seriously.

If you like take advice from enemies of marriages from this platform and ruin your marriage and a good wife. OK bye.

Polyurethane:
Tradition my foot.
The girl is a good Christian, it's hard to see someone like her this days,
God only recognize White Wedding,
Traditional Wedding is not necessary in Christendom.
The Husband should have done the White Wedding first, he's foolish.
The WHITE GOWN is the symbol of virgin, purity.
The woman is not married as far as God is concern

Viking07:
Like seriously! You guys are still on this case? Let him be na.

Offpoint:
They agreed "Not to have sex until wedding night" this is the only time the both have an agreement.

"what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious"

He didn't take her serious on the second quote, meaning he wasn't in support neither did he object....

I know what I read and I understand it.

obajoey:
Could you pls show me the thread where you had issues with this lady?
It seems there is more to this than just her love for the average Nigerians, no offence pls.
Anyone who wants to do business with another person online should be ready to take the risk. faceless forum business transaction is 100% risky but not all are scams.
All you need do is your due diligence.

kunleweb:
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kunleweb:
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DeeMain:
You have no honour. You have no respect for her nor for God. You gave her your word! And those words mean absolutely nothing to you.

Brother, I am angry. Two, I am ashamed on your behalf.

You agreed to wait till wedding night and now you are shifting goal posts, playing the victim and manipulating and blackmailing and guilt tripping her just so you can have your way.

This case is not about whether you are legally married or not already or if she is a virgin or not so don't try to bamboozle us with extraneous materials here as someone like me will call you out on your BS. This issue is about an agreement to wait and a promise not kept.

And the guilty party is YOU.

You see the way you do one thing is the way you do so many things. If I were her, I will begin to have serious doubts about your character and wonder if I've made a huge mistake.

Naansense and manipulation!

Duggedised12:
you will be cause soon, low life scammer

Duggedised12:
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Duggedised12:
i have said my own,and placed a caveat ,who ever falls for this scam is a mumu ,be warned!

Duggedised12:
mteeew you can't even defend yourself, simple questions about you business you cant answer, and you want people to give you 250k in this buhari season just like that,come na "talk and obey "you put for mouth? Which baby dey do the jazz do you wey give you that audacity sef?

Duggedised12:
lol, so says a scammer trying to get sympathy, my friend go and make a more transparent business proposal if you cant then get lost ,no San person will gibe out their money to an online stranger who cant even say the type of business or the location.

Duggedised12:
scammer

Duggedised12:
lol reverse psychology,i am only doing my civic duty by raising a scam alert.

Duggedised12:
lol ,emotional blackmail , answer simple questions about your business ,be transparent with people making inquiry and stop being in the defense you are not feeding anyone here. If you cant do these things then you are nothing but a big time scammer even Enron that had staff and location even shares was a scam not to talk of of a faceless forum like nairaland . Mind you MMM didn't even give people 400% RTI ,they were simple using peter to pay paul .

Duggedised12:
lol ,you religious people are the worst and most brutal scammers out there. Adding God to the mix is a perfect recipe for victims to take the bait.

But how someone will give money to someone they met online to do business still beats my imagination ,people mumu sha

ImaIma1:
It's not "my standards". It's real life. I did trad, court and church before I moved in.

Would you call that my standard?

What is the standard? Is traditional marriage accepted as marriage?

Is only court or only white accepted as marriage?

It's her life, her business, her body...yet.she moved into his house after the traditional marriage as his wife...for what? To assume other wifely duties excluding sex.

Duggedised12:
scammer !!!,soldier of the truth that can even say the type of business r location but wants people to give him their hard earned money, go and look up the meaning of transparency.

ImaIma1:
There's a thin line between being disciplined and stubborn. We should know when to drop the walls.

Besides, her body is no longer hers alone.

Duggedised12:
bla bla bla Enron a big legit company scammed thousands even Elizabeth Holmes scammed investors of billions of dollars ,my friend if you cant answer simple question ,just shut up , and anyone who falls for this low level scam is a mumu ,just saying.