Joker!

Hotzone:
I stand on 650k minimum wage or nothing

SadiqBabaSani:
If my brother earns 200k presently how will minimum wage increase of 125k for instance benefit him?

Alhaji, why are you interested in your Brother's salary?

Let your brother breathe😊

I got married at 26☺️..
I remember my mom, my friends and colleagues all calling me crazy..
A friend even told me he was not going to attend the wedding, his point was.. No need to be a part of wedding that would not last.

Today at 39, about 13 yrs of Marriage.. God has been faithful in every way..

Drove my wife to market yesterday to buy a few things, the woman called me aside and said.. "Broda, this your wife fine o".

My regret:
Maybe I didn't have enough time to explore before getting married.

Jokers..

Nigeria at no 6 just confirms that both the organization and the people that participated in the survey are all mad

Wetin concern masses with wine..

Make people chop first, wine later

The Government has taken us for a ride for too long..

They are obviously oblivious to the real situation of things in Nigeria or they simply chose to ignore us..

I stand with NLC on this protest..
APC has proven to be the devil set against Nigeria and we must all say no to them.


Nigerian Youths, it's now or never!

ednut1:
i see a lot of men today doing hard man , hard man, forming invincible. Old age is a leveller , Without a familiy most ment cant survive old age.

You are right sir.. That's why we must take good care of our family and bond well with them..

Old age is scary

victorclean:
Rich men should pay more tax than the poor/ average. Provided it does affect the house rents for the poor/ average.

Dey play..
1st.. Cost of properties will go up cos sellers will infuse the tax into the selling price.. New buyer will fix rent considering how much the property was acquired..

2nd.. The rich are already paying huge tax.. Even some of us wey be middle-class dey cry.. Imagine paying tax of about N10m on ur salary per annum..

Which pay? Their type no dey get sisi.

I suspect the guy be one shapely go nuga for one girl..

Juoflife1:
Thank God he's alive to pay the gbese

By the special Grace of God.. I have used 3 corollas- 2006, 2010 and 2016 and also used 3 camry.. 2001, 2003 and 2009

I currently have in my garage 3 corollas and 1 camry

My observations:

1. Corolla is about 30% more fuel efficient than Camry.. This is a lot now at 617/L
2. Camry is more enjoyable than corolla in terms of comfort, smoothness of drive and speed
3. Corolla will do for you what camry will do for you.
4. Maintenance is basically the same.. Just pray to God that your CVT does not have issue.. I spent over 900k to replace a bad CVT gear.
5. Camry is more spacious than corolla.

So the ball is in your court..

For me.. I drive my corolla 90% of times..

Kongaone:
Considering current fuel situation and cost of maintenance, which car should I buy between Toyota carry 2012 and corolla 2014.

Help me with their prices where possible

Scarrr:
Something den don increase already .. I bought 10k worth of unit last night, I was given 97.46....instead of 139.77

Are you serious?

I was lucky to get 1500kw for 120k on Saturday nìyẹn o

This thread is ridiculous.

Why so much hate for people that are just trying to survive.. Let them breath!

If you are not married, feeding a family, paying school fees, paying house rent and paying for medicare, you do not have a single right to run your mouth..

Much love to all the mamas doing all for the love of their kid(s). Love u all and God bless you

This guy no get sense I swear

socialmediaman:
Adamu Garba tweeted:



Source: https://twitter.com/adamugarba/status/1659174589325344769?s=46&t=dR32GmclMO3sOOFX1ADAtw

😂😂😂😂
Don't blame yourself guy, Na too much juice!
That girl must be too juicy for you to lose your senses the second time..

Fabulozz:
As titled above. I made the worst mistake in my life impregnating my baby mama for the second time. She and her mother had given me so much trouble in the past. I don't even know what came out of me to start sleeping with her again. Boom she is pregnant and has refused to abort.

She want me to pay her brideprice or else she will tell my wife. If only I had control my manhood I would have not found myself in this terrible situation.

What should I do now mature advice please?

Not necessarily true bro..

Some families are terrible.. I'm on this table live!

emmyileri:
This story is not complete. Something is definitely missing. The writer of the story is projecting an idea, "victim". Her own side of the story isn't sufficient to cast a judgment.

So sad!

Families are fast becoming a menace and threat to couples..

@Op,i can totally relate.. May the Lord give you the wisdom to handle them..

What got me off is "Husband should love and take care of his parents more than his kids".. Just imagine that "nonsense!

My own Experience
That's how I myself and my wife became enemies of my family members.. Because they are never satisfied with what we do for them..

They have accused my wife innocent wife of depriving them of love and money of their son and brother.

The same family we built a house for, bought 2 cars for them.. Paid the school fees of all of my siblings.. Sponsored the wedding of my siblings. Raise Millions of Naira capital for one of my siblings who eventually squandered it. We never failed in buying my parents food stuff and we have never even turned down any request for assistance from any of them..

Yet, whatever we did for them was never enough..
They started complaining that the school our kids are attending was too expensive..
Next was my wife does not "slave" for the family whenever we have family function..

Now, for our own peace of mind.. I have taken a position of "To your tent O Israel".

I cannot come and die because I have family.

Never..

You are not really helping the child. You give the child a mindet that he/she cannot succeed on his/her own merit.

I have a neice I'm sponsoring. When it was time for her to write WAEC and Jamb, many people around expected me to register her in the so-called special centre.

I simply called her, and told her I'll give her the right environment to succeed.. Extra Lessons.. All text-books, access to "guided-Internet" and all.. I made her understand that she could do it..

And she did it and became very confident in her own ability.

Today, she's in 400L hoping to graduate soon.

Dey play..

They have this entitlement mentality..
They believe that you should understand..
Some will tell you to have sex with them and forget it..

I once borrowed a single mother 50k because she was genuinely in need.. While doing it, I intended to dash her 25k but didn't tell her.. When it was time to pay back, Na so this lady paid only 10k and started giving vibe like paying the remainder in kind..

I just laugh and told her to forget it..

Kati kati
Rada rada
Rede rede

Just say: "I divorce you" 3 times.. That's what my muslim friends told me

My imaginary girlfriend..
The one after my own heart ♥.
I love you.. And I'm still waiting..

Wanted to ask why u needed side chicks..

Only to realize I have too.. 🤫

efficiencie:


Is that consultant a Nigerian? Two months salary equals rent could be devastating, particularly if you add, feeding, transport, service charges at home, wifey is a full time housewife, Buhari or Tinubu is president, Elemiewele is still CBN governor and there are tons of side chicks contending for the small change wey you get.

Wow.. An average of 12 per annum and 1 per month..


Hmnnn, it is well with you

Pussykills:
I have come to the conclusion that I'm addicted to prostitutes. It started in 2010 when I first slept with a hooker. Its 13yrs now and I still patronise prostitutes. I slept with 155 of them, 55 were without protection.

The problem right now is that I don't have that much feelings for the new girl I'm dating. Since she's been in my life I have been able to stop but I noticed my soul still longs to experience that feeling of getting high and banging a hoxx.

In fact, I'm thinking if ending this relationship should be my next line of action.

This is not the first time, my past relationships ended because the feelings weren't there.

What would you suggest? Does sleeping with many partners make one loose the feeling of love? I don't get it, I can't even love, it's not just there.

As wonderful as family can be, they can also be the source of your pains.

For me, it's the entitlement mentality..

Imagine one of them came to my house and saw the school fees reciept of my 3 year old and screamed.. "Brother, you are wasting money on Abuja, why pay so much when you can send the child over to school in Ilorin for a fraction"?

Anytime they ask you for money and you tell them you don't have, they tag you insensitive and start targeting your innocent wife..

There is one that I supported with almost 2m in the last 18 months still telling people that I haven't done enough..

Imagine what this kind of family would do to my wife and kids if God forbid, I die now!

RedpillAnalyst:
The most toxic people you know might be people in your family.

Leeches and parasites care about friends and family not calling them.

You strive in life to not be a parasite to ANY ONE as long as you are healthy.

I heard some people complaining that their uncle is abroad and a doctor in big hospital yet he can't support their families bla bla. He has his life and other thing to worry about that you have zero clue about.

People that always complain someone didn't call them or check on them are entitled, parasites and most likely lazy.

You should be too busy focusing on your goals that you don't even know some called or not.

Let's put the blame on unavoidable family attachment...

Thankfully I earned much more than that so we can push for some investments

Acidosis:


Omo.. Bro how did you find yourself in this situation? I mean the fact that you to cater for 8 people.

Also, how do you save?

Last last, Na okada go full road..

May the Lord Help us

Where una dey jam this kind husband self?

God forbid!

Dearlove2me:
The truth is right now, I feel like going somewhere for a while. I feel like I need rest. Somewhere I can forget about all my problems and breathe a fresh air.
My husband has not been honest with me since the beginning of this marriage and I doubt if this is an attitude of a man that loves

He has always been in debt even before I married him. and he wouldn't let me know what he do with the money he keeps borrowing from people. Even my friends I introduced to him, he is owning them and can't pay back.

The bad side is, he borrows and stop picking their calls not respond nicely to them.
He behalves badly to them.
I'm suspecting he's into some kind of addiction that demands money. Maybe gambling but he wouldn't tell me.
He's constantly on his phone.

He is owning loan app everywhere. To the extent that the app had to send hurrible messages to his contact's lists including his bosses, office colleagues and my relatives.
It's so embarrassing and tiring.
He has apologized several times that I should give him time to work on himself to stop an addiction, but he refused to explain what it is. Claiming that I might leave him if I know.
But he has not changed abit.
We are always hungry in this house. No baby food for my 6months old baby, no pampers and everything is total struggle. I quit my job last year but I'll soon start job search once my baby grow a little.
In this house, If I don't look for food, then, we starve, I don't look for means of getting pampers, food, wears,then my baby will suffer, because his daddy is not capable of providing anything for us. It's so annoying.

I have dreams before I married him, but right now, I feel lost. There's no romance, no love, no affection in this marriage anymore, as I wouldn't even let him touch me because of the stress, suffer he constantly brings on us.

Money I raised to start up a business, (340k) I ended up using it to pay for his debt last two months because the people were always coming to embarrass us in the house and neighbors were coming to pleade on our behalf. I had to clear up the loan, yet he couldn't explain what he did with the money.
With that start up capital, I would have been growing by now, but here I am. Still at the zero point.

I'm really tired
I'm so confused here.
What should I do?
What would you advise?

I read some your past posts regarding your husband. It's clear you are already frustrated and you now resent him.. justifiably so. I feel for you honestly.. No one deserves an irresponsible husband!

If you can no longer endure the marraige, then pull the plug!

But before you do, please reach out to a few single mothers out there and find out how they are doing.. Let them tell you how market..

See, as a single mother, you'll continue to do all you are currently doing and even more.. And don't think an angel will just appear and will take care of your children for you.. It might never happen.. Trust me, before men will help you, majority of them will sleep with you.. If you don't have problem with that.. Please go ahead with the divorce

all4zionlover:
If I should remembered his treatment when he had a job earning salaries, all through my pregnancy, paying bills and all that then, I deserve to kill him. He has never been a caring husband and father to his children.

He has no past good record that can make me think backward and support a jobless husband.

Not a good one at all, but have u tried having a conversation with him regarding his next moves?
It sounds strange that a healthy man will want to wake up and sleep without any ambition.

Sound him out first.. Wake him up from his slumber...

Last week, I bought 102 units for 10,000..
I was confused cos the last one I bought in January ending, 15k gave me 206 units

AEDC just dey do anyhow

Hmnn.. I currently cater for a total of 8 people - 4 adults and 4 children and to be honest, we don't spend upto 300k monthly as living expenses.

Our strategy is to buy things in bulk rather than piecemeal.. For instance we bought groceries of almost 200K in January which is expected to last a few months.

We also buy meats in bulk.. Like 2 laps of cow.. Cartons of fish and all.. Basically, anything that can be bought in bulk, we buy.

What pushes most families into financial mess is mostly education for kids.. We simply put our kids in good schools that we can comfortably afford.

Lastly, myself and wife drive corolla which helps to reduce fuel cost.

So, be grateful for that 300k job.. Several families I know live with less than 100k monthly.

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