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I heard that name first from Tiwa Savage.
Tiwa: Jowizaza, do transfer, yourself be my guy...

I wish the papa safe return.

franchasng:
It is well. Pray harder, prayer works and with wisdom and God's mercy, you could meet a lady that will turn to a blessing for you and transform your life. It happens, it has happened to many Nigerian men, forget online bashing of women, some ladies are a blessing to their husbands, pray to find one and don't give up

Amen. Thank you. I have a one or two friends wey get better women wey move oversea. I basically not in a search but observing. I am just trying to do my thing to make out of this grind of financial lack. For now, any other thing no dey worry me.

franchasng:
Dear op, listen to me carefully, don't let some comments here discourage you or make you stop believing whatever you used to believe in the past.


One thing about me is this, I love speaking from my personal experience and the experience of people I know too well and can speak about.


To start with, I didn't marry broke because when I was broke as a single man, I didn't even had the confidence to start any serious or committed relationship even though I came across wonderful ladies that still wanted us to be committed but I was too scared of my future to commit and I hated the idea of marrying broke and without a financial direction in my life, so I stayed single until I started seeing progress in my life and have started my own small business which gradually transformed to a small firm, that was when I had the courage to get married, so I can't really say if marriage did brought financial prosperity to me per se, though I can sincerely say that the birth of my first son brought massive financial blessings and open doors to my business, it was like a bomb. The boy came with fortune and I pray God keep that fortune and great destiny of bringing open doors for him as he grows older. Another thing I can vividly remember is that on our wedding day, while in our hotel room, I got a very big business deal, I can't say it was my wife that brought that luck cos I was already into business and sowing seeds here and there and it was normal for one to germinate at any time.


Now let me talk about close friends and family members I know.


One of my elderly siblings, marriage brought problems to him. His own marriage in fact brought chaos and woes into his life. I guess he married wrongly. Please dear single guys reading, whenever you want to marry a particular lady and your father and other elderly relatives tell you not to marry the lady, please be careful, go to God in prayer to be sure you are not making a mistake marrying that lady. My father and some relatives stood against my brother marring that lady but my brother out of love and pity not to break the lady's heart cos she was his long term girlfriend went ahead and married her and it was chaos upon chaos. My brother that was rich before he married her suffered so much in that marriage until he left this world untimely. There is another elderly brother who marriage brought blessings upon his life. His wife transformed his life so much that it was so obvious. This lady was a huge blessing to my brother. Whatever my brother is today it was that lady, she was a God sent to my brother.


Now let me talk about friends.

I have five to seven close friends whom marriage elevated their lives. One is a billionaire today, a naira billionaire all thanks to the blessed, wonderful, calm lady he married. The lady came from a semi rich family and her family helped to raise the capital my friend used to boost his business and even when he had setbacks, they still didn't give up on him, they raised him more capital until he became the rich guy he is today. God bless that woman for turning the life of my friend around.



I also have four other friends who married blessings. These ladies came and brought upliftment in the lives of my friends. Three were American citizens, Nigerian ladies who married these three friends and took them to America where they are now making big financial waves together and changing lives. God bless the souls of those wonderful Nigerian ladies.


I also have two other friends that married nice Nigerian ladies that live in different western countries and helped took them abroad too where they went and established small companies now making wave in Nigeria.


I also have one friend again that left Nigeria for China without direction, got there and married a Chinese lady that transformed his life and today he is one of the richest guys in Nigeria unknown to many, yes. Some marriages bring blessings to people. It depends on your destiny, lucky and how wise you are in making choices and taking chances.



So op, let me not go further, my point is this; if you marry right and you are lucky enough to find the right lady, marriage will bring super prosperity to your life but if you marry foolishly because of romantic love alone like my late elder brother, marriage will mar your life. So take marriage serious, take screening of your future wife serious. Take prayer serious before you marry. If you don't believe in prayer, better use your traditional way to make sure you are marrying right. Don't do the Nigerian city marriage of marrying anyhow just because of sexual starvation and all those frivolities, u go regret your life at the end.

Nice one. Just the other day, one Fulani man, I met at a spot offered me a drink and gifted me 5k for being a teacher in a private school, maybe cos the proprietor is his friend. He asked if I was married I said no, he laughed and said, he having two wives had helped a lot of single men, he said I should try and get married, and had it been I am Muslim he would have given me one of his pretty daughters(he showed me videos/pics, really Fulani light skin).

That situation got me thinking. At this stage of my life. I still dey struggle and you want me to add another person just like that. I work underpay/underemployed in early 40s with debt to his name. And you want me to lock up and do it. I may want it if I meet the right woman to plan that.

Lastly, it is very hard to pursue a career or grow a business without some reasonable amount of money. If you ask me, when last I see one-fifty or two hundred gees NAIRA for my account at once? I go tell you september, 2024. So, where I wan start the marriage. Na survival mode we dey like this. I once wanted to get married to a girl, my dad and siblings raised flag, she left when I lost my job. Na long story. Since then I dey fear. I no dey too put mouth for girlfriend/wife contributions. Besides, I am just a broke man looking for a way out.

TheStoriesOfMan:
Wait first, you call marrying at 35, in this Tinubu economy, LATE?

Hahahahaha

What will you say about those men who are 45 and above?

Ignore him, the last time I saw two hundred k or one hundred k in my account was in 2024 July, since then, na fifty k be highest with plenty workload. I am in my early 40s, will add a yr in 3days. I am not married, yet. And not thinking of it. Inside the small salary, you still support family. Gbese choke.

sandra2025:
Ok, but chat me on my email below:
sandraabbe43@gmail.com
I don't want people pestering me with calls if I put my digits here, please.

You live in the UK?

g0ldenval:
I thought marriage and relationships don't benefit Nigerian men?
Everyday y'all create topics about women to wail like babies
Ndi "men are the prize" that won't let women rest
Ask an average Nigerian woman to show the messages she gets on social media from the so called desperate "prizes"
You are under 6ft, balding, horrible mouth and body odor, cannot afford 3 square meals but you call yourself "prize"
Shiooor

What is bad with balding?

KingAzubuike:
So a private who entered with ssce would be collecting above 200k
While many graduates out there in different firms earn far below that.

You see say life no balance.

Police constable wey just finish training dey earn pass me wey dey teach math to more than 200 children for one private school.

When will most private schools teachers earn reasonable pay? Even a new constable in the police force earns more than most private schools teachers.

SeeWahala:
I say make I help you 'adjust' your former post

Abeg, adjust me with 5h recharge, things hard.

lebete3000:
Y'all see what I mean?

when we are having a conversation and I don't know the meaning of a word(s) in your sentence(s). I carefully note them down and ask for meaning oh.
Reason, you'll never catch or see me using words I don't know.

lebete3000:
People prolly didn't understand what Gambit meant. They actually voted their favourites not knowing what they were voting for.

Typical of the kind of people we vote into power

. From this comment, I will be pleased to get an explanation or meaning of gambit? I no ready check Google or dictionary. Thank you

richmond500:
the fact that u think 4k dollars is such a big money is the problem.

If u will accept surrogacy, at least the amount should be enough to give u a good life.
No be after u rent house and buy mattress, u don deh carry calculator how u wan use the remaining 4.9m

Guy man. Naija reality no be this thing wey you dey talk. See population already, you dey here dey hype surrogacy wey most citizens no fit afford, many dey lack the basics and even earn less than minimum wage. If many girls think say na new hustle be this, most of them will be disappointed. Indomie and egg still dey work. Belle na natural and no cost. See population again.

hmmm. this na jack port na. who pays when to fvck and born easily dey normal. See population for Naija. And somebody say 6mill dey cheap. Thundae fireee am there. Useless thieves.

AdegbemiroX:
Na the same Bible we dey read so?

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NGArmyTerrorist:
You need to be asha8ed of yourself.. No music, no jam, only old Michael Jackson moves.. And you told us you wrote and sang half of the music in psquare's album . You clearly hate your language by demonstrating how you will encourage your children to be more of French.

. Just old Mike steps. You no well.
if I hear that write and sing part ehn. Na Rudeboy be lead sing na.

tonididdy:
What's the disadvantage of this Ai ?

Observe the copy and paste on the thread. However, how many of them fit solve who paste following the necessary rules?

Sucre6:
We need to simplify:

\frac{1}{\frac{1}{x+2}+\frac{1}{x+3}}

Step 1: Add the fractions in the denominator

The common denominator is:

(x+2)(x+3)

So,

\frac{1}{x+2}+\frac{1}{x+3}
=
\frac{(x+3)+(x+2)}{(x+2)(x+3)}
=
\frac{2x+5}{(x+2)(x+3)}

Since

(x+2)(x+3)=x^2+5x+6,

the denominator becomes

\frac{2x+5}{x^2+5x+6}.

Step 2: Take the reciprocal

Now,

\frac{1}{\frac{2x+5}{x^2+5x+6}}
=
\frac{x^2+5x+6}{2x+5}.

Final Answer

\boxed{\frac{x^2+5x+6}{2x+5}}

✅ Correct option: B.

This copy and paste no make symbols mature... How can I properly see the division and normal brackets, not curl brackets of set theory.

Double0h7:
Sometimes it’s the man’s hygiene that messes up the woman’s Ph levels thus leading to vaginosis (the smell).

Maybe you’re the one messing up her Ph levels. It’s not that serious. If it’s an imbalance of her ph a simple cream from the pharmacy is all that is needed.

Wow, though not surprised. Somehow, a man is responsible for everything.

RuMiRgO1stSon:
Chai! Ibrahim Pilasar! The son of the current President of EYN (Church of the Brethren in Nigeria)We school in EYN comprehensive secondary school Kwarhi with this guy.
May these monsters never find peace.
RIP Pilasar😭

Sorry man. A lot of hate around.

gigabyte13:
This alledged theft eeeeeehn
You no go understand the pain until it happens to you.........
Especially if you don't understand the language of that society.
It almost happened to me in a village called ihube in okigwe local government, lmo state.

So, who or what saved you?

Lawalemi:
Dear Nairalanders,

I eventually got my UK visa for six month and I plan to visit the country on a two weeks holiday. I have a visa for September to March 2027. A friend in Liverpool hope to host me for the period.
Please advise a newbie like me on:
Cheapest flight booking
Best airport to connect Liverpool
Best places for tourism
Clothings
Hotel - in case I'm moving around.
Food
Etc.

Thank you

Congratulations. Where do you people get money from? I am In debt and my creditor is on my neck like this.

Dshocker:
I would rather date a prostitute than date a massage therapist 😂

Why bro?
I dated one in the past. She wanted me to marry her then when things were financially okay. But baba no ready. I bin imagine how I want take tell family and close buddies say my wife na masseuse!!!!!

Hezzyluv:
Hehehehehehehe

God will make more ways for us ooo

Amen oh.

Hezzyluv:
Baba, even if your total monthly package/salary na 300k them no born you well to spend one nyt for that hotel. Except, there's something you're not telling us.

Like me wey dey earn 50k per month go need 5k top up to sleep one night there.

Kukutente23:
This is a serious thing
Have you ever heard of Noriega
Ok if you haven't, at least you heard of Maduro recently
You surely wouldn't want your president detained at NY while attending UNGA

I just thought of this Maduro, but for Tinubu, no current case of drug dealings. Would they still want to detain him?

Elusive001:
May APC, Nigeria, and Tinubu happen to the supporters of evil.

I believe that ransome was paid for their release

Anybody wey read the narrative suppose know wazzup.

oz4real83:
One greedy man will start a practice, his family will copy it, it spreads to their neighbors and the whole community. This will now be taken as "our culture"😏. Milk, Milo, rice, malt, beer and some of those things are not "traditional materials", they were brought by the white man, how "white men goods" became part of traditional lists is something that needs serious investigation💔😡

😂😂

TheWebbers:
Wait, so there are people who are grown and never made 1 million Naira? Thats less than $800 na.

Wow!

Not mocking anyone tho, I'm just surprised.

Made my first one million at age 21 in 2008 selling ebooks for 2k. Sold about 600 copies after running an advert on one newspaper that year, Success Digest paper. Adjust that to inflation and it should be over 10 million Naira today.

I have made several tens of millions over and over and over again and gotten broke over and over and over again since that time. Going broke, getting back up, going broke again and getting up. Now I am up again, hopefully I wont go back broke again.

Its been one hell of a journey.

I have never made a million, I only kept it for someone. And I am over 40. And currently, I am a broke man. I sometimes feel unfortunate.

Samantha125:
Did I?😅😅😅... Well, there were two potential guys before my husband, I was after the first one while the second one was after me, but he too was my spec, I mean he was educated, tall, yellow, and handsome with a beautiful smile, perfect for making babies, the type of a man whereby even if he dumps you, you'd be grateful that he at least gave you beautiful babies.

I never got a chance with the first one, all thanks to his mother and even though I also liked the the second one, he was a junior pastor in my friend's chapel and due to some circumstances I was going through at that time, I didn't want to be linked to any pastor or even become a pastor's wife... My friend and I used to take turns in visiting each other's churches and he always looked forward to my visitations because he'd grab the opportunity to get to know me more after the service, apparently he'd also be just staring at me throughout the service, but I eventually stopped visiting... Then there was my husband, who was in a relationship with someone else while pursuing me.

I luv this story... Who run it, youact like you don't know.50cent. Unnecessary words, cos naira land said, words ain't enough.