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The cost of data is still high.

Though Airtel and MTN data speed is relatively faster in more cities in Nigeria than the rest of the ISP.

We deserve better...

SangoOlukosoOba:
Reno should please STFU!

He has stayed in the US and been to 30 countries and still remains dumb.

Did that number outweigh the number of jets that landed in Los Angeles for May weather and Manny Pacquiao fight.

Unexposed idiot trying to be relevant.


This what I tell people. Being in the US is not a stamp for being exposed.

Is the number of private jets the message or the point that stood out to you?

Again, when you can't distinguish between the pig and the man, it means that we now have two pigs, and man should be worried.

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herzernIsHere:
2018. . .This happened

2019. . .It happened again

2020. . .It is happening

2021. . .it will still happen


Aren't you guys tired of this repetitive celebration? Don't you guys get tired?

We don't get tired of being grateful.

If you are, then it's okay and understandable.

But what's not okay is to guilt-trip those who celebrate

dawnomike:
Training a child in this country is very complicated my brother in the lord

On the contrary, what is the case is that parents apply old approach with the view of getting better results.

Most times, the child is infused with training that means little or no good to him or her

So it's basically not the child but the parent's approach.

We were taught that beating, flogging, or using a combination of both is one of the best ways to instill discipline in a child.

To back it up, we quote the Bible verse that says, 'Spear the rod and spoil the child'. And with this backing, we flog, beat, and use any physical means to correct the child.

Sadly, beating doesn't instill discipline, it destroys the psychological well-being of children, who grow to transfer the same pain and plight to those around them and to their children.

I will highlight the dangers of beating in a bit.

1. Low Self-esteem, Timidity, Poor Communication Skills.

Beating instills fear and timidity to children. It makes them hide, and unable to process inner strength and thought.

In some cases, beating only hardens their indiscipline which makes them a terror to the society and themselves.

2. Lifetime disability.

If we all agree that the body of a child is delicate and prone to injury, it means that beating can expose them to brain/body vein issues which will hinder them from maximising the best of their humanity.

There are many cases of parents who gave their children a permanent injury as a result of beating, and they're still battling with those disabilities till date.

3. Mental health issues
Children will always be children, expecting them to behave like adults when they're children is to deliberately distort the mental development of the child, thereby changing the natural progression of human evolution.

When you disrupt a child's mental development, you create a chaotic system which may push the child to behave in a manner that's unhealthy and unsafe for him or herself.

Sometimes, it can breed antisocial behaviour, and in rare cases mental illness.

What then is the best way to correct children?

Am I by any means suggesting that beating should be totally abolished?

YES!

What then will work?

1. Withdraw Privileges.

Every child craves for something.

Could be cartoon , games, etc.

Withdrawal of privileges is one of the most effective way to punish a child

2. Connect with their mind.
The most critical job in raising a child is to help them have
a. Conscience
b. Emotion
C. Character
d. Knowledge

Connecting with a child is the best way to help them understand how pained you are.

This will boost their communication skills, emotion, and self confidence.

3. Self Punishment.
This is the best approach, if/whenever you think of flogging a child.

Pick pin, Kneeling down, carrying a load in the air, etc.

When you give your child such punishment, they will never forget that in a hurry.

A combination of these three will do much more than what beating and flogging will achieve in child development.

Finally, it's okay to note that the development processes in children, teen-agers, and young adolescent is one that needs patience, understanding, maturity, and open mind to deal with.

Don't create a disaster by using Cain to whip human in the bid to install discipline, you may be destroying God's creation in the process.

Yours,
AV

Dupalmer:
In as much as I don't support domestic violence, your effort at apologizing and sincerely promising not to repeat it is more than enough to make you guys come back to normal if she's a reasonable woman.
don't call or beg her anymore else she will see a good stance to manipulate your sorry ass forever.
She will come back in a matter of days if you ignore her but if she doesn't, find a way to make yourself happy. You can't kill yourself over a trouble she ignited. She will loose if she tries to make it a hard or competitive game.

There are many ladies young and old with very good character that will be willing to marry as second, third and even fourth wife.

She has a choice to make

And her choice is valid, even if you feel it's not reasonable.

The point is...if he thought it wise to hit her, she has the liberty to choose her safety and sanity over the marriage, if she so deems it okay

emeijeh:
Your wife went too far for calling her people (after your very first slap)
What happened to the "no third party interference" sermon on your wedding day?

But Op, are you sure you have not hit or beaten her before that day?

Just keep apologizing.
She has to come back.

This is an honest question

Are you mad?

If he or she can conceive the idea of domestic violence or abuse, it is sufficient for separation or divorce as the individual deems appropriate.

vickydankal:
I think the pastor should be on the know, since he wants to propose in church during wedding for that matter. I think it goes a long way to show they are fans of the church not members. Every good member will inform his pastor when wedding / marriage is in view. Proposal or not. At the same time, it won't hurt if the man of God, allow them do their thing, then later he can call them to order as their spiritual father.

What sort of reasoning is this please?

May God comfort his family and relatives

... when it's not my business, I have nothing to say...

When it is my business, I treat my partner with respect and admiration.

Prolly never put her in public to prove that I touch her breast as often as I desire.

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Chikpat:
Sanusi caused all this. Emir should dabble into politics with tact not necessarily taking sides with the right or the wrong. At all times, he should align with the winner while seen as of the people.

He has given Ganduje a chance to prove that Emir is after all a glorified small boy

... and Ganduje is who

A god?

Well, his four years is already reading right now.

And after the game, he will definitely meet Sanusi at his emirate.

We watch, and we learn from History

This bad as.s phone deserves to be in the museum.

And for that, I'm bidding 50,000,000.

Let's discuss the payment option for this.

Thank you

20M worth of property for 4.5M compensation

This rift is definitely getting dirty

Professorcplus:
With the little experience I have acquired I no scam when I see one and yes this is a pure scam.

First of all for those that have dropped their details, I advise you delete it (modify) because with this bad guys can spoof you.

Spot on.

No reference link

No defined activity

Definitely no real proof of payment or activities.

Scam it is

kestolove95:
Since e no affect the toto no problem

Well, there's more to her than her vagina.

Maybe you need goggles to see beyond her body

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I doubt if they will follow through with it

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Thank you

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This is the game I'm interested in.

I want to see what Mou will produce with these hungry boys.

A win will definitely boost their esteem and confidence in themselves and in the league.

Democracy is dead.

We're dancing to the tune of the oppressor

angelfallz:
I just checked the MTN app and you're correct. The problem is that the data finishes quickly, I've restricted background apps I don't download yet data finishes in less than a month.

Instagram app

Facebook app

Twitter app

These are heavy consuming app.

Not forgetting the Grandmaster of data consumption... YouTube

To help you, access these account with Google Chrome, and thank me later

kingxsamz:
Most good phones with the specs you stated up there are slightly above your price range.
And you've already said nobody should advice you to add money to buy one.
So goodluck with your search.

He stifled our hands with his explanation.

So how do we help?

Win for pdp

This is bad news...

I will explain

Ordinarily people invest in TB to get good returns.

CBN is reducing the return rate interest lower than what it USED to be, and also increasing the time frame thereby killing turnover and expected return on investment.

Hope that made sense to you

daddytime:
Bush meat don become the hunter, while the hunter don become the bushmeat.

Oga landlord body don cooleeee

I dey tell you.

Im bodi don chill like ice fish

Thank you for posting it here

So lately I've been getting recommendations for used laptops, and I'm here to seek for your opinion.

What's your experience with used laptops?

Is it worth the hype or is it one of those purchases that leaves you with more regrets than gratitude?

I must admit that I've never patronised used products when it comes to electronics.

But then again, looking at cutting cost economy, is this a worthy consideration?

Kindly share your thoughts and experiences.

I appreciate in advance.

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