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Honestly, I need to find the originator of this theory that ignoring women will make them chase you.

How does that even work?

They say you'll ignore her, don't reply her texts, don't call her often, even when she calls you form busy and promise to call back but don't call back, keep yourself busy with other women, pretend like you can thrive without her and see her chasing after you like her life depends on you.

Really?

In what world is that?

The truth is, a woman that loves you or is attracted to you can easily lose interest when she notices you don't have her time or starve her attention. Women thrives on attention, they do everything to get it, and when they don't get it, they find it elsewhere. So, even if the woman loves you to your poo, and you starve her attention, you cause her interest in you to decline. She feels "okay great, this guy doesn't like me and I don't want to disturb him, let me focus on this one that has my time".

Secondly, if the woman doesn't even like you, she'll be glad you stopped calling and texting and you gave zero chance of winning her back if you like surround yourself with multiple women to create the illusion that you're highly sought after. She'll only wonder how dumb these women are that they're flocking after you.

I conducted this survey on about 30 different women and all gave the same reply

"If a guy keeps ignoring me and starves me attention, I feel he doesn't really want me and I'll move on because I'm beautiful and there are other men who want me too, so why chase after one that shows disinterest?"

Lastly, I think the only girls that will chase a guy who ignores them are low self esteemed, insecure, less attractive, broke, without-a-life, sociopaths, and mentally unstable girls.

No real girl with beauty, brains, steeze, curves, charms, small money and high self esteem will chase a guy or crave a guy that is showing lack of interest in her. She believes she's the prize and should be chased, not the other way round.

So, I wonder again, who thought men this?

Modified.

If you hold unto this fallacious theory so strong you're willing to experiment with it, then I'm game. It will be fun while it lasts. We create a WhatsApp group to share our screenshots of chats.

We approach beautiful women online or offline, chat them up, inspire some vibes and ghost them, then see how many will chat back or call and become interested. 10 girls each. We can finally put this theory to rest and dispel the deception.

Most of these red pill advise do not work in real life and I wish I could create a thread to fault all of them.

Reno Omokri will say he's declared war on the FG now.

He should be an ambassador to Chad. Fits him well.

Throwback:
How many poor men have become Senators?

Is Orji Kalu's lifestyle dependent on Senator Salary or that of the late Ifeanyi Ubah, or Gbenga Daniel?

Many of you believe the miseducation and reject the actual education because of your anarchy mindset.

Actually poor men don't become senators. It's mostly for the rich. And for the rich to crave such a venture, you know it's not one million naira plus stuff. The rich don't go for lower checks, they only go higher. While some like Kalu may go for the influence and popularity that it gives, some others to for the money. Now you have to wonder why Kalu who became a billionaire in his 20s ran for Senate and what he intends to do with that peanut. There's something there.

This looks false. If this is their true allowance how come they can afford lavish lifestyles? An average Senator has a duplex and several luxury cars even when he was poor before becoming a Senate member.

She looks scary.

Them dey do prom for Nigeria?

When rain and flood wants to kill us here. It is well.

Burdenbearer:
Hi Nairalanders. Pls, help a soul. I'm in a need of a job with accomodation and feeding or allowance for feeding. I am an OND holder(Accountancy). I have little knowledge about Msword and Excel. I can be ur sales officer if u don't mind as long as it comes with accomodation, feeding and Salary. Pls, help. I'm trying all my possible best to man up but things are not just going the way i wish. Lalasticlala, Mynd44, pls, help the thread. Sapa wan finish me. I'm in Lagos.

Security job it is.

We don't even need the media we have camera phones to capture and tweet.

Ironbull:
Where are those ipobidients warriors idiots who said they will burn Nigeria today its almost 9am where is the fire and the burning? Una no dey here again or what? See as dem all disappear here and went deaf and dumb.

We are waiting to see your burning infact if unaa no burn Nigeria today nor be una papa born una. We no dey beg una again we are daring you all and challenging you now to go out there and start the burning and let's see who go see today's evening...

Today is Aug 1st ooo come out and burn your papa house we dey here dey wait...

go to bed and stop sounding like a tout. Nobody promised burning anywhere. It's a peaceful protest.

I thought Tinubu himself said there's no cabal anywhere. And is the Cabal responsible for the hunger ravaging half the nation? Some people just open their mouths waaaahhhh. Hunger is evident in the land, cost of living is killing the living, prices have skyrocketed in nearly almost every commodity, and you talk about Cabal. The people in Tinubu's Cabinet that have sense are not really up to 3.

This man keeps exposing his folly anytime he speaks. He should just rest.

Oya rest there will be protest everywhere even in Govt house gate.

What's the point in having both of them anyway? Why can't Ajuri be the spokesman and adviser on media. What's the difference between both? Nothing much really. It's like having a chef separate and an adviser on food. Who's the best person to advise you on food asides the chef? All just to create channels to milk Nigeria.

They should get this show outta our faces not many of us care anymore. Some people can't afford 3 square meals to subscribe DSTV or GOTV and there's no mental, economic or even entertainment value this shit show brings. I wonder how people watch this thing. I would rather watch a paint dry off a wall, at least I'd be amazed by the science behind it.

Oh Lord

That show of shame always premiere at sensitive periods.

Some of them are not electricity thefts. Some the meters malfunction while the house continue to have power. That is not tampering because nobody touched it. Na grace be that 😂

Wetin concern border with protest?

Rivers crisis is keeping the judiciary busy. From one injunction to another.

Too expensive

Lucifyre:
They can't communicate properly period, online or physically. They always expect you to do the heavy lifting. There's one ive been speaking to, she's so into me, always calling and texting. U'ld call and text someone but u can't move the convo forward or contribute meaningfully, i always have to do the heavy lifting, so why texting and calling if u got nothing to say?! Recently ive purposefully started mirroring her.

The last time we spoke after she called i didn't to the heavy lifitng as usual, see how dry the convo was, u could hear crickets, i wanted to literally lol. Simply told her this is boring, i have a lot of work to catch up on. I know she might have felt bad but hopefully it would make her improve. Luckily for me though, most of the females around me are not like that but when u meet these dry types it can be annoying and draining.

They feel it's a man's job and they are always on the receiving end. Most women are just dumb and it's not really a problem provided you don't have to marry them.

So Burial de get After Party for Nigeria? Aren't we being too happy for the loss of a loved one more than is necessary? The burial itself was a like the lady's 90th birthday bash and now there's after party. Money to spend let them spend.

politicoNG:
Bayo Onanuga

Bayo don de panic. How will you hold Obi responsible? Do you have written or video evidence of him calling his supporters to protest? Does the suffering in Nigeria affects Obidients alone?

Reno your facts are right but the facts remains that the hunger in Nigeria has tripled, prices of goods and services have escalated, cost of living is about to kill the living. These are facts and the layman on the streets who's about to protest come August can relate with these facts not the fat facts you reeled out.

zelnababa:
Dating a married woman if you no kill ur self u go kill d woman.

This is not about a married woman. Are you saying she died because she was married? What if it happened with her husband, do you know the police will still arrest the husband until investigations are over? It has nothing to do with infidelity. She died and he got arrested that's the koko. If she didn't die you won't even know she was cheating because there will be no news.

millionaireman:
Detectives from homicide section of the Rivers State Police Command swung into action and tracked Nwibiagbor phone number to his church where they waited for him and arrested him


Why then do kidnap people succeed in their kidnap business if police can track callers to their location?

Because Kidnappers have guns but this man doesn't. And they tracked him to a church even, Baba been de give testimony lol 😂

lebienconnu:
It should be made mandatory for hotels to have links to hospitals or medical personnels who can provide help in case of emergencies. First aid box should be optimally stuffed up with relevant and valid drugs and other materials.

Prospective lodgers should be informed about this. In case you or your partner(s) have any medical emergency please raise alarm we got you covered.

True. Hotels are supposed to have a dispensary or medical facility in one of the many rooms they have to handle emergencies.