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.The truth is that the programme does in a way promote immorality and untoward social behaviour which are not African

says me.

The man is the head of the family and the woman is the helper.The man should not make it mandatory for her.it is suppose to be a voluntary kind of contribution.i don't think telling your wife to pay some of the bills is a good idea cos it will make her feel u aren't man enough if u come up with that.

@All d ladies,
Ladies,truthfully,we get really intimidated by women that r smarter and trust me,we have every reason to be.First off,analyze d kind of guy u'll like to end up with.Is it a guy that u'll b smarted than?My guess is NO! Again,have u really been involved in a discussion with a guy u're smarter than?If yes,would u say u were lookin 4ward to chattin' wit d guy?My guess is NOT REALLY.
Listen ladies,it is our job to take care of a woman in every sense,and if it is d other way round,we just feel like, (i can't even bring myself to say it).A guy is supossed to be his girl's hero,even in smartness(exposure,intelligence etc) and if he isn't,well,let's just say it hurts him like magma on rubber! Finally,if we only wanna hump,then we don't care who's smarter,but if we wanna keep we really care!

Libra, everyone just abuses this phrase "grow up" anyhow these days. I don't blame you.

My question was very valid . . . the problem is certainly not with men but with the type you meet. There are tons of successful men everywhere, i wonder how many of them have the time to be feeling insecure about what their women do. Everyone just calls themselves "mature" anyhow nowadays . . . thank God for the anonymity of the internet.

Did you talk about being involved in a "serious" relationship? Is that your own guage for measuring maturity? My my!

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Re: Must The Husband Be 100% Responsible For The Family Bills?
« #78 on: Yesterday at 11:38:34 AM »

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a woman who is not ready to contribute in the marriage is not fit to marry,

gone are those days when a man take full responsibility, now its 50/50 or 60/40,

if a woman earns far more, she should oblige in taking more of the responsibilitties, women want equality in everything, but when it comes to responsibilities they will find excuse,

if the woman i want to marry is not ready to comtribute, she is on her own,

she must show signs of ability to take responsibility during relationship, if not, OYO, , Maga no they pay again,



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Re: Must The Husband Be 100% Responsible For The Family Bills?
« #78 on: Yesterday at 11:38:34 AM »

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a woman who is not ready to contribute in the marriage is not fit to marry,

gone are those days when a man take full responsibility, now its 50/50 or 60/40,

if a woman earns far more, she should oblige in taking more of the responsibilitties, women want equality in everything, but when it comes to responsibilities they will find excuse,

if the woman i want to marry is not ready to comtribute, she is on her own,

she must show signs of ability to take responsibility during relationship, if not, OYO, , Maga no they pay again,



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Re: Must The Husband Be 100% Responsible For The Family Bills?
« #78 on: Yesterday at 11:38:34 AM »

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a woman who is not ready to contribute in the marriage is not fit to marry,

gone are those days when a man take full responsibility, now its 50/50 or 60/40,

if a woman earns far more, she should oblige in taking more of the responsibilitties, women want equality in everything, but when it comes to responsibilities they will find excuse,

if the woman i want to marry is not ready to comtribute, she is on her own,

she must show signs of ability to take responsibility during relationship, if not, OYO, , Maga no they pay again,

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Non of d girls wuld go nake or av sex in d house because they knw naijas are sensitive lyk kevin sed.

His *eye service* too much. Always looking into the cameras