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wheather he fabricated the story or not,our girls are full of surprises.Once they gather,they come up with a trick to milk men,

Bad belle is a biatch. Wink Wink Wink

I am married, a career woman, student, mother of three and have been married for about ten years now, never did i question who would do laundry, cook, or clean, The point is definite statements like [size=14pt]"i will never"[/size] don't have a place in our relationship, and should not have a place in any relationship. People who start out defining their relationships with such categoric statements should take a long hard look at themselves again, take time to reevaluate their priorities and principles since they may be a tad bit misplaced.

Are you guys serious?

She wasn't the one who went out soliciting male attention. The men come to her, not the other way round. You cannot blame the jewel for attracting attention if left out in the open. Why do you think museums guard precious jewels and paintings with round the clock security?
Let's face facts. I'm not saying that he should watch her 24/7. But the issue here is not her, it's him. If he was emotionally secure, what he would be doing is getting angry with the guys talking to her. But he's too scared to confront them for fear that one of them would probably say something like " Well , I'm sleeping with her anyway", because that would make him look like an absolute dunce.
So what he does is to blackmail her emotionally , blame her for being attractive because he resents the fact that she can leave him for any of the guys chasing her IF SHE WANTS TO.
What he's REALLY trying to do here is see where her loyalty lies.
If you have something pretty or valuable, other people are always going to want to take it away from you. It's a huge ego boost when you can take something that another person cherishes away from them. But you don't blame the item itself for being valuable. You guys telling her that she should minimize the time she spends with boys is just plain wrong. You may as well ask her to wear a hi jab just because you aren't comfortable with her being pretty.