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Hmmmm, just so u know what you're getting into and you don't have excuses to cheat, I think I recommend it.

This question actually pisses me off. Guys, is it right to ask a girl what her dad does for a living on the first date?? What does he even hope to achieve by asking that question??

Choose wisely. Just VOTE, no VIOLENCE.

justi4jesu:
Not really, some Nigerians are humble and can surrender if the love is present, faithful hmmmmm, i dey come

Being faithful is vision 2020, they are still working on that one. Lol

No sane person would allow his/her sibling date a promiscuous friend. Menh, it's promiscuity we are talking about here.

dharay99:
from where I come from, we shake d b¡tch if we wanna propose her...

Lol, where do you come from??

justi4jesu:
I feel its a sign of respect, the man lowers himself as an act of humility before the woman he desires to spend the rest of his life with.

Furthermore when he is on one knee, the man is faced to face with the woman’s womb , where life is created. He is honoring her body and honoring her as the Lord’s creation which deserves to be revered.

A man is surrendering himself and the rest of his life to her. He is surrendering bachelorhood for fatherhood in promising to raise children with her and remain faithful to her in all things.

Hmmm, sounds interesting. But I think it's more of following a trend than being humble and surrendering, especially Nigerians. Do Nigerian guys really surrender and remain faithful in all things?? I DON'T think so

Yes nor, who wan carry last?

vjsmiles:
DID she say yes

My friend's birthday was yesterday and her boyfriend threw a small party to mark it. It was fun all through but the peak of the party was when the dude went down on one knee and popped the question of the century to our friend.
Wow, it was so beautiful and lovely but it also got me thinking, Why do guys go down on one knee to propose? What's the significance? Is it compulsory?? Please, what do you think about it??

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On the first day of a new job, many people are nervous and anxious to learn about their new employer and co workers. While a new job is an exciting venture and a great first step down a new career path, it can also represent the first experience that a person will have within a corporate environment.
However, knowing a few of the basic guidelines for behaviour can help anyone do well at a new job.
1. DRESS PROFESSIONALLY: A first impression is usually made based on a person's appearance. Therefore, it is essential to show up for work on the first day of work dressed appropriately for the job position. If a young professional is not sure of the proper attire, then they should inquire about the dress code during their interview. It can also be helpful to observe what others are wearing when taken on a tour of the company.
2. DON'T USE SLANG: it is important to remember that new co-workers are not the same as a person's group of friends. Do not use slangs or talk too casually in conversations.
3. STICK TO A SCHEDULE: being on time for the first day makes it clear that a person is serious about their new position. On the other hand, being late hints that a person may also slack off on deadlines and other important job responsibilities.
It is also important to adhere to a schedule for lunches and breaks as well. When in doubt, a new employee should ask what their schedule breaks are or how much time is generally allotted for lunch periods.

In conclusion, considering the unemployment rate in our dear country, it is necessary to guard that job with zeal, work with passion. One million and one people are waiting in line to get that job. It's up to you. LOL

Sexy eyes indeed... Hehehe

Sweet lie...

Oh, the secrets men keep from women. Wouldn’t you like to know what goes on inside that head of his? There are a lot of things about men that will always be a mystery to women, but we’ve been listening in on locker room conversations and we’ve learned a few surprising things about men that you never knew. Here are a few of the secrets that men keep from women…

1. Men think women with no makeup are sexy…
And most women would die before they let a man catch them without their face on! But apparently, the joke’s on us, gals. Despite all our effort, men are saying they prefer a more natural look. Does this mean he really likes how you look before you put on the war paint? Or does he justthinkhe prefers the natural look because he has no idea what therealyou really looks like? Although women spend thousands of dollars every year on beauty products – in large part so they can enhance their appearance to impress men- men say that they hate lipstick transfer when they kiss you, and they think all that “eye-junk” and stuff makes you look fake.
There are a few other things men think are sexy that women will find surprising:

1.Soft tummies. What?! Here we are killing ourselves for flat abs and they really like a little pooch in the belly? No way! But…yes way. Soft curves and rounded stomachs are a turn-on for men. They like for women to feel soft, feminine and cuddly. It makes them feel protective and affectionate, as well as making them feel like they don’t have to be so perfect if you aren’t perfect. They also say that sometimes those chicks with hard bodies and six-pack abs are too intimidating.

2.Drinking beer. Did you think you were sexy and sophisticated sipping from a straw in that pink drink with the umbrella? Relax a little and order a beer instead. Men feel like a girl who drinks beer is more approachable, probably more fun to hang out with, than women who drink more elegant beverages. Maybe this one isn’t really all that surprising. Think about it- put his two favorite things together and of course he’s turned on! Hot girls and beer? All in one? He’s probably drooling.

3.Granny panties. Wearing matching, lacy lingerie is the first step in our plan of seduction. Women carefully select just the right sexy bra and panties set to wear any time there’s a possibility of getting undressed in front of a man. Who would have thought that plain white cotton drawers would be such a turn-on for guys? It gives a man a sense of pride and accomplishment to get you out of your clothes and find you in plain underwear, because it shows him you weren’t planning to have sex and he’s just so attractive and good at seduction that you couldn’t resist.

5. Most men who cheat usually still love their wives…
You might think that if a man has an affair with another woman that means he doesn’t love his wife anymore. Men become dissatisfied with their lives and seek something new and different usually to restore their own self-confidence. They may feel less important when kids and careers take priority with their wives, they may feel ashamed of their own financial shortcomings, or feel like they are missing out on the fun of their former single lifestyle. Stepping out with another woman doesn’t necessarily mean he wants out of his marriage. So if you’re the “other woman” waiting for him to leave his wife who “doesn’t understand him,” – don’t hold your breath. And if you’re the wife, just because you know he still loves you doesn’t mean you have to accept a cheater.

6. They all fall for the fake orgasm.
Sometimes it seems like it has gone on forever and he’s never going to quit. If you are ready to just roll over and go to sleep already, you can fairly easily convince him that he is a wonderful lover who has given you a fantastic orgasm so he’ll finish up and let you get your beauty rest. He is so ready to believe that he is the world’s greatest lover that there isn’t a man alive who can see through a fake orgasm. All it takes is a little moaning and squirming, some “Oh, baby, oh, my god,” and a couple of Kegel exercises and he thinks he’s the man- which spurs him on to get his and get it over with.

7. Men are proud of their paychecks…
It all goes back to the caveman days when the man would hunt mammoth and bring home meat to the cave. He feels like he’s not a “real man” unless he’s the provider, even if he’s not really an old-fashioned guy. Sure, he believes in women’s rights and supports you in your career, but if your paycheck is bigger than his, he feels less of a man.

8. Guys actually like fixing things around the house.
Still on the caveman philosophy, men feel proud of themselves if they fix the sagging cabinet door or re-grout the bathroom tile. Don’t mix up fixing things with doing chores, though. Taking out the trash doesn’t give them the same sense of accomplishment as fixing the leaky sink, so plan on having to keep nagging him to do that.

9. Yes, he was looking at her…
So you’re strolling down the sidewalk hand-in-hand with your boyfriend and along comes one of those really hot girls that make you feel like the ugly stepsister. She’s strutting her stuff in a low-cut top or some Daisy Dukes, and your head automatically turns to check and see if your guy has noticed her. Go ahead and hiss that whispered question every woman asks at one time or another: “Were you looking at her?”
Well, of course he was looking at her. It doesn’t mean he wants to let go of your hand and go after her. It just means that every man is born with built-in “babe radar” and there’s no “Off” button. A man’s eyes are geared to magnetically stray towards the sight of legs and cleavage. And if you don’t see him looking, it just means that he has excellent peripheral vision.

10. All men secretly wish they were kids again.
No matter how long he’s been wearing a suit to work, no matter how responsible he is about paying bills, he really wishes he was 15 again. They might not play video games anymore or ride a skateboard, but no man ever truly leaves behind the kid he was, even when he seems like a mature adult.
Source: www.worldoffemale.com

FLAWLES:
so this is d new evil on NL now?when u er suppose to gv 10 u givin us 6?bai commonm complete am quik quik

Lol,It's complete now.

05: BOREDOM
Women get bored just as much as men do. If a woman is feeling a lack of excitement in the bedroom, she may cheat just for the thrill of doing something she's not supposed to be doing.

04: ATTENTION
If a woman feels ignored by her partner she might cheat just to get that partner to pay her a little attention.

03: REVENGE
Cheat on the person who cheated on you. You had sex with that pretty lady from the bar? I'll have sex with that cute guy fro the gym. Often, cheating is how women get back at the person who cheated on them.
02: LACK OF GOOD MORAL FOUNDATION
By a certain age, women and men should really know the difference between right and wrong. For some people though, that difference isn't all that well defined. Someone without a good moral code may not really care whether cheating is wrong and might just be more inclined to do it just for fun.

01: LACK OF SELF ESTEEM
Sadly for a lot of women who cheat, the core reason isn't problems in the relationship or anything like that. It's a lack of self esteem. Being wanted and desired can make a woman feel good. It makes them feel more attractive or just better about themselves in general. For some women, that feeling is enough. Others however don't know how to say NO. They don't know the differnce between being flattered by someone's attention and feeling attracted to someone. The women need to find their confidence in themselves before they are really able to settle into a committed relationship.

There are a lot of reasons why women cheat but those reasons don't matter. Cheating is wrong. It doesn't matter who is doing it or what the reason is. If you are unhappy enough in your relationship that cheating appears to be an option, leave the relationship. Below are ten of the most common reasons women cheat.
10: LACK OF DEFINITION IN A RELATIONSHIP
For some women out there, the rules of a relationship have to be clearly spoken in order for them to obey them. She may at least have to hear that she is in an exclusive, committed relationship to feel loyal.

09: FEELING TORN BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE
It's possible to have feelings for more than one person at the same time and that can be a confusing and frustrating experience, especially if the two people you have feelings for are different kinds of people. Sometimes women cheat because they feel scared to make the wrong decision not seeing that cheating is the worst decision of all.

08: FEELINGS OF INADEQUACY IN A RELATIONSHIP OR A LACK OF SECURITY IN A RELATIONSHIP
If a woman is constantly scared that she isn't good enough for her partner or doesn't feel secure in her relationship, she might seek out someone she's more equally matched for. This is more than an issue of self esteem.

07: FEELING UNAPPRECIATED BY A PARTNER
No one wants to feel like the person they are with doesn't appreciate them anymore. Maybe the woman doesn't feel her man is attracted to her anymore. Maybe she feels her man doesn't enjoy her company anymore. If she meets a man who does appreciate her more than the one she's with, she may cheat even if she still loves the person she's with.

06: SEXUAL ATTRACTION TO SOMEONE ELSE
If a woman is attracted to a man, she is just likely to act on it given the chance as a man. If it's a mutual attraction, despite the fact that the woman's in a relationship it could potentially lead to cheating

Heaven is real, so is hell.
Often, people ask; How can a loving God send people to hell? The truth is, "He doesn't, people choose their own destiny".
God has given us free will, and he has also educated us on all of our options.

I call on heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live -- deuteronomy 30:19 KJV.

Do you agree?? Feel free to share ur thoughts on the subject.
Thanks.

Let's be clear on the matter of love. What is the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone?
Just loving is an agape thing, that unconditional decision that we make to love someone "with the love of the lord". Ah, but when you're in love..... Everything in you is involved.
Being in love might be compared to eros experience, love born out of intimacy, it is a combination of agape, eros and phileo.
"Being in love is not merely a feeling, it is a deep unity maintained by will and deliberately strengthened by habit" C.S Lewis.
Being in love first makes two people to promise fidelity, but it is agape that makes you love inspite of yourself; It is agape love that keeps the engine of marriage running but being "in Love" is the explosion that started it.
P.S love is a beautiful thing.