₦airaland Forum

IconicR:
I'm not even mad at Atiku but you see that one called Obi he disgust me a lot.
Carrying fake image everywhere, same man that was tagged one of the worst governors Anambra state ever had but has become an overnight messiah to some few people because of religion and tribalism

Relax!
You're only bleeding through your C"unt.

You unloved the difficult partner. Simple!

Ovoko!

The person no get name?



My bladder oooo!

Sharpsharp00123:
many of u will marry foolish simps n present it as if that’s how it is everywhere

Only a foolish man like your husband will see no big deal about a wife to b saying she will lock him up

Na very useless man with low self esteem

Your mother is a useless woman!

Sharpsharp00123:
u dey beat your father

I pray u jam someone like my hostel mate in school(Toni) u will humble las las

See this one forming strong lady

I just dey laugh

Mtchew! Toni dey beat you?

Luckysbab:
Understood. Violence isn’t the way.

She has reacted accordingly though and she should have braced up to handle his own reaction of keeping his distance too, not whine about it now.

He needs to keep his distance. If I'm the husband, I will, but keeping my distance is to reflect on my life and the best way to do better in challenging situations.

Luckysbab:
But she still desires a man’s company obviously.

If its more important than her life and well being of her kids, she should go ahead begging an abuser.

Mrbllymer:
I don’t judge marriages based on hearing only one particular side, there are lotta unknown variables and i have seen anybody describing stories without justifying their actions or saying things in their favor.

All these your descriptions or painting yourself mighty ain’t necessary, you are only limited to what you can do and not what the other person can do. You might be strong, intelligent and what have you but do know that another person is smarter and stronger than you and would do the unthinkable before you blink.

Your father ? Lmao funny.

Whatever I lay down here is born out of previous experiences. So I'm not new to physical abuse.

I can Tolerant joblessness, its fine, its ok! Life can be hard.
I can manage depression, yeah! I will make that person see life from another angle.

Yea, you can take drinks alcohol, yea fine by me, I can buy drinks and share with my depressed husband.Na job e no get, e no kill person. The bible says drink and forget your sorrow. BUT getting drunk and misbehaving, you're crossing the line.Get drunk and sleep, no problem, I will clean you up if I can, and we talk about the actions when you're sober.

But coming home to beat me up, you just awaken a part of my brain that harbours deadly vibes. I will NEVER forget, even if I forgive. And I MUST pay back even if I forgive.

My father was misbehaving at one point, till I had to remind him I'm not his wife. My mother is the opposite of me, I don't know she managed to birth me,maybe na my father people blood I carry IN EXCESS. Very nice, funny and sweet woman, my mother.

My father thought me how to fight, so I grow up fighting and behaving like a man. He treats me like a man ,so I eventually broke his hand like a man.

I remember one time I was in the University, my mom called crying, na 5pm but I enter entered 911 to Lagos with farm goods. By 11pm I was in his house. I made sure I break all his cars windscreen and dagger all his tires. He cried!The same way he made my mother cry.

His blood runs through my veins he should calm the 4ck down!

I remember during my marriage, my dad and my uncles begged me in my room to be calm in marriage . I just dey look them, them think say I marry husband wey get scorscor for head like them.

My mother called me next day to tell me my father cried He is already missing me? After our years of cat and rat gidigbo! Very stubborn man with quiet sons but a troublesome daughter.

I don't miss him, hardly call him self.Na him dey call. I have forgiven him, but will never forget.

Mrbllymer:
Yes “Preek no be problem tell that to the lady”. She should move on and stop seeking for advice to make her marriage work. You already told your husband that’s your case and the way he’d react is between two of you.

I don’t support Violence she has done well by arresting him and should stop disturbing us on how he chose to react. If my wife arrest me for any reason if she likes she should call God to beg me I no go accept cos it’s already OVER. Though I’d never beat her.

She still wants him that's why is is disturbing here.

Apologising to him was a big mistake! The husband deserves worst.

A struggling woman with a jobless, drunk, vindictive wife abuser should worry more about the image being portrayed to her kids and not bringing him home. I rather he gets the hell out of the house. I will never have my kids exposed to such character in a father.

On the flip, side if my husband abuse me physically, I will cripple him. Infact, if my husband beats me, he will run,because he knows even my parents on their kneels begging on his behalf won't change my mind.

Even my father, the last time he laid his hand on me, for more than two weeks he had his hand hanging over his neck, he couldn't drive.

shantti:
Am talking about life after locking him not before locking him,

No matter the kind of mentality you think you have, u will not be comfortable staying under the same roof with him when he leave the cell, u don't know what he has in mind.

Forget Abt all these your rantings, imagination is different from reality. Even me as a man can't live with someone I locked in the cell, he might kill me in my sleep.

The highlight is that such a marriage will be automatically over, that's the truth, the marriage cannot continue.

So does he know what I have in mind?
So you sef no say i fit kill you for your sleep abi?
We go dey fear eachother, if I should lock my husband up in a cell, I will never have anything intimate with him for a long time to come even if we live under same roof.

I won't cook for him again but he can have access to food on the house, nor sleep near him. Infact he will not exist, he will be living like a stranger because I will not recognise him anymore as a husband. That's a subtle way of telling him I don't want him anymore.

Anything wey make me lock my husband, I don't value him again.

Ategberoson:
you igbo won't stop cracking me up with your expectations that Tribunal will announce obi as winner, how delusion can you people be, anyway you people believed Buhari is dead and the illiterate KANU will bring Biafra that war veteran ojukwu couldn't achieved



your tribe is a laughing stock and that's the drama that unfold that's happening in east, including that ganisucks low self esteem worm

You should always try to dilute that Agbo you gulp The too much concentration in it is affecting you brain negatively.

shantti:
Nah for social media una get mouth

Unless u plan to divorce him after that or do u plan to continue living under the same roof with him after arresting him?

We all know u will live In perpetual fear if u choose not to divorce

Perpetual fear!
Guy preek no be problem oooo
If na that one you won take halla, PREEK NO BE PROBLEM,na women wey no get enough stress already dey carry man for head, not me.

I no marry with that una Nigeria mentality oo.I respect my husband and my husband respects himself. And yes, my husband knows I can lock him up if he abuses me. So it won't come to him as surprise because during marriage counselling I told him outright!

If he wants to be foolish, he should take it out of our matrimonial home.

And yes! He is the bread winner! No be me dey feed am.

shantti:
Okay a peaceful marriage is one where u can spit all kinds of vile on your husband, tormenting him emotional and mentally and he is expected to overlook cos he is a man? Right?

No! A peaceful marriage is one where a jobless man must be a pain in the a$$!!!

Being jobless is part of living, remaining jobless and not trying to make a living at a point becomes a lifestyle.

His mental and emotional problems will not be solved by alcohol nor abusing his wife. If he feels the wife is committing adultery, he should leave the house and stop tormenting the woman!

If my own brother should try this, I will ostracise him.

But I no get brothers wey dem no born well.

Luckysbab:
Yet, you couldn't get your brothers to help you loc out the cricket the last time?

The cricket died finally.
My brothers also dare not touch their wives, they must be stupid if they do that!Very Stupid!

Luckysbab:
As a madam with men at your beck and call, you should be telling her to move out without further delays so she can move in with the perfect man that will be replacing her husband.

Must she move in with another man?
I only advice if the husband feels disrespected for being reported to the police, he should take his drunk @ss elsewhere!

Nigeria is already a hell hole, adding a useless man to the equation is a death sentence.

condralbedez:
I love what he is doing too,Hausa Fulani are watching.

Well. I also don't give a flying f%ks about hauda/fulani too, dey did far worst. Let both brawl it out.

Padipadi:
Good appointment. The woman has good track record.

The drama is the north ll bark and they ll be served their breakfast.
Leave Tinubu alone and let him use his discretion. Buhari did his own too. Extreme nepotism. Go and check if this woman no dey qualified.

Are you mad? The woman's qualified and next in line.
You no see wetin Buhari do?
Are Yorubas not southerners?

I don't like Tinubu, I never voted for him. But I don't have any issues with him packing his people therein, buhari did it, so why not Tinubu.

I remembered when they removed the former FIRS boss, the guy prior to his removal gave jobs to southerners especially Yorubas, did you know that when the new hausa boss came in, he revoked some appointments.

SonofGod231:
You must be an extremely uggggh biiiiich,i'm tayad of your bullshiit. Abeg,buzzzzzzzzzzz

You describe her too well! Your mother.

No wonder having crawled out from her putrid hole, you sleep and wake up with horrifying nightmares! 4ck you! 4c'k her too!


Next time you see this moniker, just dey face front...You no reach!

SonofGod231:
So sad but I'm inspired to meet him. I just want to know how he managed to carry cervical cancer home.😁

Well! Is that the sickness your mama died from?
I guess she talks the way she 4"cks!!!

SmartPolician:
Omo, Tinubu don give all the departments and agencies to Yoruba people. This is not how to run a country with over 360 tribes. It makes no sense.

Let him be, i love exactly what he is doing.

You self go enjoy the drama that will unfold later

SonofGod231:
Congratulations, I just feel sorry of the clueless thwart that coincidentally married a cancer like you. Animal!

Lol! Don't feel sorry for him. He doesn’t know a low life first class son of a rotten C.unt like you exists!

SonofGod231:
Try find love first then we can take you seriously. They married and she still loves her husband. Hear?

Idiot! I don't find love.
I married a man who loves me and not who I love.

A wife's role is to be submissive and not to love.

I'm not unfortunate like your sisters.

Slic1:
Judging with one sided story is the most dangerous thing to do. We have heard from her but we have not had from him.

Call him and ask him.

Some women dey try sha!

Whats fixcking attractive about a Jobless, drunk, vindictive and abusive husband?

The first mistake was apologising to him. I wouldn’t if I'm in your shoes. And I ain't leaving that station until he sign an undertaking with sureties.

If he feels he is too humiliated to continue a peaceful marriage, well, fine. Life goes on.

Verokeena:
Good afternoon Nl family
Please pardon my epistle

My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .

What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)

Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)

When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..

He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..

I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..

The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number

I don't just know what to do...


Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him

I hope he signed an undertaking.

You are a good woman.

I would have kept him there for atleast a week, after which my brothers my likely extend it to a month.

Just two days ?

I hope he signed an undertaking

Jobless, drunk, bad mouthing and wife beater, yet you locked him up for just two days.


Nonsense!

Him still see small money to drink ogogoro na him cause am.

Iyenogie30:
You can imagine the idiot maybe he is planning to run for the Edo governorship election thus the need to pay quack influencers

Of course !

I really don't understand why he sidelined his people in Abuja.

DMerciful:
My fellow SS,

They said they love us more than SE but they made sure our son GEJ was removed after one term but supported Bubu for two terms inspite of being a total failure.

Now they have removed Niger Delta ministry inspite of shortchanging us for ages.

Our mumu never do?

It has been reinstated. Abubakar Momoh is heading it now. Today is his inauguration ceremony at the jani garden

Iyenogie30:
This una PR strong oooo
Is this not the same guy the Benin traditional council led by the oba of Benin Oba Eware tagged a monumental failure and a waste of the Edo state ministerial slot

So all the project he did as a minister for 8years is street light and toilet

Op shame on you ...shay shay shay shame

The guy even turn him office for ministry of state, budget and national planning to rendezvous to knack women.

Mtchew!

The man didn't try for his people in Abuja ooo.

Bitter complains from Edo/Etsako folks that worked under him. Him just no send them.Many of them worked with him poor and left him poorer still.

But he helps non -edos.All the Constituency project he did while a minister is because he is eyeing the governor seat.Na oshiobaba boy but omo, him 4ck up!

Sincerely, Edo Civil servantz in ABUJA don't like him.