alezzy13:


I tell you bro.

Over 30 now and mumsy dey disturb. . . problem is the ladies of these days. . .

I'm seriously praying for OP's type.

Mom is anxious to see your kids, God will provide the right woman for you asap.

ephraim18:
May God continue to bless ur union... This is the true definition of a virtuos woman in the bible... I pray for Gods protection against enemies in any form... Ur union would be waxing strong in love and happiness all the days of ur life... Happy birthday to a rare gem like ur wife... I use this medium to tap my blessing from u for God to bless me with such a near perfect woman in the name... AMARA... She's the one i want to settle down with... Let God make her have a such pure and undilluted heart and love for me and my unborn kids... Amen

God will grant to your heart desires in Jesus name. Amen. Thank you very much

Bishop:


So adorable woman, may God continue to bless your marriage.

Amen!

RiskyJoint95:
This is interesting
it shows you don't always have to be forming hard guy hard guy.
it's okay to express your emotions when it's worth it,especially to a loved one.
Happy birthday to your lovely wife

#I covet this for my self in years to come.This will be my testimony too.Amen

You are right, been forming the hard guy until I get sense by force . Amen to your heart desires. Thanks

Ladycewhy:
oh ok,wishing you continuous bliss in your home.

Amen and thanks for your contributions

Ladycewhy:
if this is what it takes to be a virtuous woman ,oga keep it in your pocket. She is lucky he didn't give her STDs or even HIV during his 8 years of phillandering. Raise your daughters to marry men like the op and be virtuous to men like the op.


This is how you people reward men for bad behavior so because she decided to stay put and take rubbish it makes her more better than others who decided to walk for their peace and sanity? Your head dey touch.
I don't envy the ops wife , and certainly don't wish to be in her shoes. Virtuous ko virtual ni

Please ma, don't get it mixed up, I wasn't jumping from one lady to another, During our relationship I had one or two other ladies I was dating at one period or another, just like when a young man has two girlfriends and later choose one to marry and settle down with. I am not a Casanova o. I was the careful type who uses protection. Btw we dated for 4yrs before having our first child which led to our marriage. My sins was one of my ex I couldn't let go easily. I am not justifying my mistakes but just clarifying the type of sinner I was. Its all in the past.

jnoz23:
Anything to trend, very soon human blood & emotions will be replaced with likes & shares!

Look @ DAT ur fine wife, I would rather have written a very personal letter to her than this social media rubbish you just did.

I thought it through before making it public after appreciating her privately for years, done so many private surprises for her. I want the world to know women like her still exist. This post will help one or two people who needs encouragement, I could have even went for a bill board or TV advert if possible. Please bear with me as I celebrate her.

Thank you

bukatyne:


Good to read.

Do you want to share why you were cheating on her despite her near perfection?

It would help others learn.

I can not provide any reasonable excuse to cheat then but according to our (my wife and I) observation , I was in my mid twenties, not really matured or experienced in life. It is not that I sleep with everything on skirts but i had other girlfriends as options, just like most (smart bad guys) people do in relationships but none of them could stand the test of time. At my late 30s now, I understand family, true love, relationships and sacrifice.

Goalnaldo:
Reading this reminded me of 'good woman' by solid. Star.

Good woman no dey easy to find(ah)
Happiness your money cannot buy ooo
But if you find that special woman
So when you find that special woman ooo
Hold am tight
Don't you ever let her go

Hold am tight o

Don't you ever let her go

I say good woman no dey easy to find oo (ah)
Happiness your money cannot buy
If you find that special woman

So when you find that special woman ooo
Hold am tight o

Don't you ever let her go

Hold am close o
Don't you ever let her go

A lot of girls don play me oo
And i no go lie
A lot of girls don show me shaggae
But i thank God oo
Omo i be surviver
I'm a love surviver
And i don learn lesson
Cause dem
No Show me mercy
Dem been play me like Lionel Messi
Then dem drop me like Steven Keshi
Oh my gosh
What a life ooo
Pretty girls are something else ooo
Oh mama mama
I'm bigger now I'm better
I be first class for the matter
And the money coming in dollar (eh eh eh)
All i need is a good woman
That will make me a better man
Wey go give me a good life.

You must be a member of witches and wizard association of Nigeria...hahaha...this is the song I dedicated to her this morning, still playing until now. God bless you a million times.

SocialJustice:
I find your story hard to believe as is but if its true, I'm really happy for you. I've given up on Nigerian girls, the average Nigerian girl is a LovePeddler who keeps sucking money and will abandon you the moment the money dries up even if you've married them.

I just want my kids.

You are right, it is quite unbelievable but true. I couldn't continue to keep it to my self and close friends and families who knows our story. I decided to make it public celebrating her by encouraging other love relationships.

Fisher007:

Error . You just exposed your source of happiness, whatever comes after Mr man take it Oooh.

Enjoy.

"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” ~ 1 John 4:18

Thank you for the observation

ezenwajosh:
Can I bet you married from Nsukka in Enugu State

Am not from there though but their girls are beautiful, hard working, fair and faithful

GOD DEHM IT

She is a Lagosian from Badagry, she's mixed Coutonou/ Badagry.

vinceobe:
Congratulations for finding a good wife. A good wife is hard to find. But they are available but very few. Take care of her and never you break her heart and disappoint her. I know some Nigerian men. Once they have few wads of disposable naira waffling in their pockets and there is a fine car with tinted windows, they will start running after heavily painted slay queens with fake big boobs and asses. Remember, Shakespeare said and I quote "hell hath no fury than a woman scorned".

You are completely right, I now have the above mentioned but It is totally impossible for me to lay with another woman, many slay queens have tried but failed. I advise those who care to listen, it is an advantage to have lived that kind of life in the past. I just discovered that I am not moved by another woman no matter how beautiful

Mizwisdom:


Pray, that you will never see the extent of poverty that will cause you to regret getting married. She tried too.

You are right, as a man, I may not have the strength to stand the same test. More reason I respect her today.

Please appeal to our dear lala to put this on fp, he is currently viewing.

Mizwisdom:
I'm so happy for you and madam, congratulations! I shed tears reading about the torn dress incident



But let me also alert you about something you may not know, this world is wicked o. Pray that your enemies will not see your smiles and decide to manipulate by causing tears in your family. That's why it's better to safeguard your family by keeping them away from social media or public announcement. God bless

You are right ma'm, we may be social but we are a prayerful family. We have been through several wars from families and deceitful friends together. With God on our side our victory is permanent. Thank you

LewsTherin:
Thank you LagosBoi2.

You have shown
1. Marriage is a very beautiful thing when done right.
2. There are good women who stay true to their partners.
3. You don't have to be a "dominant man" to have the love and loyalty of a good and beautiful woman.
4. Tough times are just for a while. It's like the flu. It'll pass.

Thanks and congratulations to your wonderful wife.

You are absolutely correct. Thank you so much. I am happy I was able to get my messages across.

SaintHilary:
If this makes front page, you might not like the outcome

But I'll still beg Lalasticlala to move this to promise land.

OP get ready

Please Lalasticlala help move it to FP, I will love the outcome. I stopped been unfaithful to her over 8 yrs ago. She was right, I outgrew my young and naive self. I am happy to make public my mistakes and experience, it could help those with the right women make the painful but right decisions to be faithful to such women. They deserve love and total commitment. Thank you

Vyolet:
Happy birthday to your wife OP, i wish her many happy returns.
It is beautiful to read something good from a man about his wife, shows you are grateful.
However, i hope you have stopped cheating on her especially now that things are better financially, if you haven't, please stop it, from your description of her, she doesn't deserve such disrespect.

Absolutely, I stopped some years ago. She doesn't deserve it in anyway. I am not ashamed to make public my past because she has forgiven me and my God has forgiven me, I am now the perfect type of husband ladies want to snatch, we both laugh at such attempts. Thank you so much for your contributions.

Foodqueen:


U no see am say, him de call for front page.

Will adding pix help get it to front page? I need it oo to achieve my surprise package

ProtectMyMoney:


Hope you have bought sufficient toilet rolls or enough handkerchiefs to clean tears of joy.

I am fully prepared

ProtectMyMoney:


Now that you've written that, you need to guide the celebrant to come see the outpouring of emotion.

Your description of your wife is who they were talking about in the book of Proverbs...A virtuous woman.

Congratulations for finding Diamond in the rough sea of Slay Queens and money mongers.

Thank you so much, I have shared the link with her, this is the first surprise I have for her when she wakes up by morning.

Foodqueen:
Sooo sweet. But why u no add pix

I want my nairaland family to request for it before adding it. I will obey your orders ma

I pray it makes front-page today o

Thank you Pavore, my Agric mentor over the years

It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.

The way these people professionally twist the truth is defence of this wicked murder is quite amazing. I don't think there is hope for this country anymore

Ishe Aye niyen

I will try my best to honestly advise you.

First, I don't think you have a good wife, she is one of those wife's who wants to conquer their mother in-laws to take total control of the man.

No matter how bad your mother is, the fact remains that she is your mother, no matter how much your wife can claim to love you she can never love you more than your mother.

Her own mother may be far worse than yours but can she possibly get done with her own mother? It is reasonable to hear that your mother is treating your wife badly and you as the husband can't take it anymore, this is when you have a good wife and a bad mother then you need to give such mother some distance from your home.

We have worse mother in-laws from both sides, your mother may have some bad characters but the fact remains that she is your mother and must be tolorated by your wife. If your wife can't tolorate her then distance your mother from your home while you make sure you visit her often to take care of her, afterall she has no business in your home.

Explain to your mom that you need time to allow your wife grow up but make sure you don't neglect your mom, if your wife still has problems with the attention you are giving your mom away from your home then it should be clear to you that you do not have a wife but a knife. Traits of evil doers is to chase away the loved ones they met with you and take over your life to ruin it so there will be no one to advise or fight for you. Beware.

I wish you all the best.

naijaguy1234:
This one has the typical look of a looter. EFCC are doing wonderful job. Anything to cripple PDP I welcome it.

Weldone EFCC.


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You are a disgrace to Nigerian youths, supporting dictatorship under the disguise of fighting corruption

They are trying to stop PDP's mobilization funds but loading theirs in jets escorted with military and DSS

Wow.. Atiku is winning

So it has gotten this bad for APC? When bus conductor begin get association? Conductor wey dey same route sef no sabi each other.

Imagine desperation for endorsement, very soon now na shoe shiner association go endorse am

Them don knack am apako