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My witch: the lady MOGANA, 9months yesterday ��

Might not be pure or conform with all the standard but that's a BB for sure.....

I live in a compound, although I live in a flat upstairs with my dogs, got alot space for them n I live alone and in the evenings they get lots of walks, my neighbors have been telling me to allow my dogs come down at night and help guard, I always laugh in swahili.... They think I don't have sense... They want to poison my dogs.... People r wicked.... I have lots of friends who's dogs have been poisoned.... Take hat man... Just be careful for the remainjng ones

If it really Pissed me off, I'll let it slide, chances r I would show a lot of anger if I tell her head on, so I just tell her later and I make sure to... Its very important otherwise you'll just keep piling up anger and one day u might just over react.... And all I demand is just an apology.... "Am sorry hun".... Heart felt.... And She always does, as do I.... And Everything is forgotten...

Dumas32:
pls which breed of dog and size.

Bullmastiff female, thick and very heavy, adult 2 years plus

I had mine in a bus one time, I bought an extra seat, and she's calm and not the messy kind, so she didn't shit or wee till I got to Lagos from the eat, u have to bring some food with or hold some cash to buy her somtin for the stomach unless u want to starve her till u get to ur destination but for my girl u can't starve unless u ur selves wouldn't eat anything in her presence... Partly becos she believes in... "Papa weh say pikin no go chop him too no go chop too". And she means it

There are a lot of good women out there somuch so that if all of us men decide to marry 6 each we wouldn't be able to marry them all, take my advice, go and look for ur own, na people like una de make life difficult

alexialin:
I like him cause of his sense of responsibility

Have not thought about love with him, cos am in the school of thought that one shouldn't date neighbors, cos we dont know if it will end in marriage or breakup as usual.
Thats one.. So inlove? Nope am not but I like him.. Hes a good responsible guy.

Sighs but my fear is ikorodu
With the killings going on there and the terrible traffic to and fro to my buisness, I can't risk both at all

First my biz? It took me 11years to keep it running, stable and successful. If am going to relocate my biz, not anywhere near ikorodu at all!

I can't afford to loose my company for anything in the whole world and I can't afford to move my biz to a location where it wil not prosper.
And ikorodu is too fetish for my liking
With oro festivalsa and all

Then thieves abeg.

Where I live is very secured and safe

Am very paranoid about safety.
Due to past experience. Sighs

And on the second hand, I would love to start a family but not at the detriment of my peace of mind.


I just taya.

Did u tell him u will marry him but u cannot live in ikorodu? Tell him and thank me later... Love is just what brings people together, it is not what keeps them together, staying in a marriage is by decision, not every marriage stated with love overflowing... U said he is responsible and has a good job, that certainly should count... For me I think he will be a good husband becos I know for sure he is humble and he is not into women, yes I can tell he isn't cos i can not ask a woman to marry me the way he did, accept his proposal damn it... Move on with ur lives together.... All a woman needs is a man that loves her..... Women just reciprocate by being submissive

abelprice:
The best way to make the ladies love u is by showing them you are problem free.... them go dey hurry 2 give u 1

I totally agree, hahahahahahahahahahahahaahaahaahahahahahahahahah, everyone need some kinda problem afterall

akinz4u:
this is the realest article I've seen this week.. op your on point 110% I've witnessed it myself and I can rightly say it's true.. The female child suffers greatly from broken homes especially wen it happens from a tender age and naturally women or mothers might play the victim card and badmouth the father...

If she eventually gets married odds are she will always listen to mother about men issues and how men can be so terrible and unbearable, she might even be secretive with hubby, ones in a while when she has a little quarrel with hubby as it is in every home she tend to have this cold feeling about continuing with the marriage, unconsciously mother wouldn't even realize that she is gradually advising daughter to be like her, if daughter has a good job and can take care of herself and the 2 or 3 children she has and if little little fights keeps up..... There's is a 100% chance that between quarrel 10 and 20 in her marriage lifetime, daughter will give up and be exactly like mother and the circle continues

Buttomline: any woman from a broken home since childhood must consciously work on herself time after time to stay in her marriage, she must contend with theses guys: submisssion , irritability, anger accountability, Pride....
Be a wife not a husband...

Oh again... Its not just on the girl child, its children generally...... Its worse with men, they tend to beat n batter their spouses....
Parents should show good examples for their kids to follow, submit to ur husband, love ur wife.... Kids will pick up good virtues.....

First of, ur guy didn't do well marring ur ex, but from ur story perhaps he didnt know she was an Ex up until the last moments . 2ndly what ur describing isn't new, all u need do is to act mature, if possible pretend u don't even notice her reactions at all, talk all nice n straight to her as u would someone's wife, keep it up and give her time her own maturity will kick in trust me, speaking out of experience..

PS.. From everything I've gathered u have something good going on with ur friend...perhaps he's not the kind that knows all the rules in male bonding but take this from me..... Life's hard, true friendship is harder especially the male kind, if u value his friendship den don't loose it, she will accept her present reality and y'all will be just fine.... I loved mostly the part where u said u went over to ask him what his plans are for his child's dedication.... Had only 1 friend that cared about me or any plan I have and I miss him...... Male bonding has been bastardised now when u see close male friends, some people begin to suspect them... SMH!!! I keep telling them.... Life doest just revolve around a pussie!!! I miss have good male friends

DaPuncline:
Like i earlier said, i was wrongly advised by friends and i regret it. I'm not that type of guy, I'm a cool guy and that was why i got attracted to her, she's the cool type too. I'm not a potential street dog. It was a mistake, i have sisters too.

U sound here like someone that stole for the first time and has escaped just to be caught hours later by the police
"oga I swear na my first time, I Neva ever tief for my life..... Na me friend teach me

Bottomline it's not normal for humans to be seeing spirits... We are of 2 differerent worlds.... So It's either ur mind is playing a fast one on ur or ur abnormal... 2. The part where u said u were watching porn and saw a creature with horn and very black clapping.... That's our imagination of the devil... Father of evil... In truth the devil might even be fair and beautiful... Remember he and his cohorts are falling angels... And even the Bible say he is very fine... Now u keep expecting to see that's how the mind works... N u will keep seeing..... U will loose good friends.... Perhaps even opportunities becos of it.... Remember ur Vampire bike man story... Imagine it took another empty bike 40 mins to come ur way and u were carrying ur sick near dead 1year old son and ur car is at the mechanic and u let the vamp bicker go.... Ur kid will probably die... Don't let the devil deceive u, it's not a gift it's a curse.... Next time enta any bike, as far as he will take u to ur destination, buy the stuff from the woman with 2 heads.... Always do the exact opposites, who knw the sickness might leave u..... What I can only relate to, heard and seen is ghosts, dead peeps coming back and changing base.... Theres This man I knw of that sells glasses at one junction, a day came some one what's passing stopped and called his old name.... He disappeared with a strong wind.. NA rating the story the man said he has been dead a long while in another state, so they all went to his Haus every thing in it also missed.... GOD bless u

janefrancisca:
Even the most careful person in this world can make mistakes...lyk the saying goes " nobody is above mistakes ". lol...thanks for the compliment though.

Ur welcome

janefrancisca:
how careful can u be? mistakes are bound to happen u know.

Lol... U have kept up tirelessly... U Neva give up do u? For what it's worth... I admire that trait in women. In response to ur comment above... I cannot speak for anyone else.... For me I can be very careful not to break or cause any damage to the phone yet still test with my Sim to confirm.... Whether e de get network

janefrancisca:
What if in the process of checking the phone, u spoil the sim card holder...would u still be happy buying it the way it is (with sim card defect)?

Well that's a possibility but u can just agree with the seller, if u break anything, u'lld pay for it.. Meaning while ur testing, ull be careful

janefrancisca:
wen no b tokunbo phone u dey buy... bros take am easy o. New phones are sold in sealed cartons...u can only start changing sims wen u av bought it.

I surpose ur right.... But what are the odds that this particular phone in question is brandnew..... I mean it's just her words we have for it.... We knw a phone is brand new cos it is in a nice sealed case... So atleast Let the guy Cheak to see if this particular phone is sealed..it's what's fair.. The guy might just decided. Oh it's a brand new phone the kind I like what da hell lemme just pay for it once and for all....

janefrancisca:
Same way u can't put a simcard in a phone you have not paid for.

Umm!! Actually u can.... No offense, but u can choose to try a phone u would like to buy out, am sure one can negotiate that offer with the seller.. Eg: Abeg make I put my Sim test am whether e de get network...

Neva try the a option, u'll just sound all whiney like a restless old cunnt desperate for a young cocck, stand up, dust ur ass, I'lld say lick ur wound but lick ur Piss kinda works in this situation and move on with ur life.....cripples, blind and dwaf men have committed relationships, some of them married. Why not fucking U.... U will find good committed women yet.... Live ur life and pursue ur dreams...... U'll see them along ur way yearning to sprawl.... Trust me

oyeyipow:
I'm on the right track then, I can't afford booster again so I'm using pasta and fish now. She ur dogs 1st heat?

She's actually given birth Be4, I also have a female bb 6months 2 weeks 5days

oyeyipow:
Wow.... How old is she and what do u feed her?

She's 1yr6m, I feed her rice or pasta mixed with meat, fish or chicken

oyeyipow:
Yes I use multivitamins, vetzyme.

You can share pictures of ur BM too.

Here she is, she was just recently mated over 3weeks now, we're hoping she's heavy. Thanks

I love BM's so much, I own one too, a super girl... Take good care of her.... Do u give her any multivitamin tabs, if u do, which one? Cheers?

Noblethony:
Buy on Konga,they sell cheaper...just got mine there

Konga sell cheaper? How much is cheaper?

Mouth is too sharp, generally the head is not good for me ooo

Op, ur even trying to defend urself, a dog does have to be a ped to be pure, in simple terms: u cheated that guy.... The secret of business is integrity, just 1 person can spread the word of ur good will and quality dogs and just 1 person can make intending customers stay away from u. Even if ur a reseller like some people are, confirm the pups u want to sell becos at the end if there is a problem like this, u alone will be blamed. That rott is very poor. U owe that guy a big apology is ur as reasonable as I think u are. He got what he payed for.... R u serious. This ur defense. Did u tell him from the beginning that dog was 30% and see if he will buy it. It's when u do that and he buys it then ur not at fault. If u didn't.....

Olayinka777:
Bro,can u pls get for me?

Where is ur location?

NeduLuiZ:
22
very immature
final year.

Thanks for ur response

TsaTrinity:
I faced a similar case and it was hell. I did twice of what OP described of a good man here but the babe was disrespectful and took me for granted. She made me feel weak and my decisions ain't final. Bro, am ready to tell the story and if you wanna publish it anywhere, you are free, but pls hide my identity

No it's not gonna be published and ur identity cannot be known, it's just a research, collecting data from different people with the same experience. U can send the story to der4alle@gmail.com. Thanks

NeduLuiZ:
did all this but she got disrespectful.

How old was she? How mature in mind was she? Is she a graduate? If yes, does she have a job? No offense man, am doing a research on thinks like this, ur ansa will be very helpful.

Some women don't really knw what they want in truth especially very young ones , most unconsciously prefer their relationships sweet n bitter, if ur a very very nice guy, odds are she will most likely leave
ps: these theories are not founded, we are still working on them thus our researches before anyone calls me out

Lol, will survive anywhere, i lived all my childhood in the north, kano precisely, we buy wild cought African Grey's in the market self, dem plenty for market for sale even up till now, just make sure to feed well and keep in a conducive place that's all

Learn to control ur pride, especially when ur not in ur territory. One can tell the kind of woman she is just from that reaction, to pour water on somone is very demeaning, clearly the Nigerian woman has Haus maids she talks to and treat anyhow, see Dat man in the video screening why won't u forgive her, is it becos she is a black woman? People are quick to use racism as a defense in things like this, nonsense. If my wife ever behaves like this, I will be happy she was thrown out and before she leaves she must apologize to the air hostess, if I have a very important meeting in Nigeria I will leave her back in Istanbul, if I don't I will stay back with her. People need to be thought a lesson, it makes for a good permanent memory. It helps especially for peacocks