₦airaland Forum

LeoThaGreat:
Judging by this flagging, there's nothing you can do to salvage this situation.

Lagos State doesn't just demolish and the reason they stated here implicates you.

If you think they are wrong and you're right, sue Lagos State Building Control Agency, but seek multiple professional advice before doing so.

Seek from Lawyers, Land Surveyors and Realtors.

You may choose to visit their office for negotiation but run away from anything that involves the same shortcut that landed you in this position.

Realistically though, your house will be demolished in the long run and there's no way to salvage it

False, he's not under any power line or flood path. He's only penalozee because he didn't do the proper documentation before building.

He would have to settle them but that can a sum. A little sum in comparison to his house capital. You guys should try to read a post in full sometimes

4.5m for a Naija driven EOD. No wonder he wants end users and not dealers.

What a pipe dream.

Cost me 150k apiece in April

Six days trial. Talk of speed run to jail. No mercy

Harsh sentences as a deterrent is a welcome idea but these are not the terrorist financiers that we read about in the news. The security forces need to do better

These are no cane stripes, these are burn marks.

This isn't a Merc. More like a Cadilac or Pontiac. It's a relic now anyways

As if people don't face trials and temptations in the US. Go to the hospital and see people hoping and praying for divine restoration.

Anywhere belle face christian.

If he likes, he should set up a #100m task force. All we care about is that the disease doesn't spread into the country. We want results, not "I did this, I did that".

She's hiding her body shape but wears a tight corset.. she's selling her business sha, make me sef face my business

Politicians family gets quick attention yet families of over 40 people are still languishing in the tropical jungle. Our mumu never do.

ThaThinka:
Understood. But I thought the focus here were social parties. 🤨

Parties are only a part of it. Op sees the parties, the mother sees a motive beyond mere festivities.

This business never cast?

Stop giving this mumu man traffic

ThaThinka:
The bold section sounds ridiculous! In this economy? Who even send them to do party?

I'm not a party person either and I don't bank on reciprocity, especially in matters of this nature. Who party help?

Many Africans just like to major on minor matters. Na parties go open the gate of heaven to the dead or make a marriage a successful one? Some people just won't cease to amaze - in a foolish way. Some will even incur debts to organise these parties and later turn around to complain that people did not gift them. 🤨

As I dey like this, if I can avoid having to organise or be the focus of a party, I will gladly do that. It's one of the (lesser) reasons this young old man isn't married yet.

It's not just about parties...and the law of reciprocity is very much in effect. A single tree won't make a forest.

Kalulu44:
I'm still trying hard to believe this her story.
I was once a bus conductor and driver. If she had said bum bum I will believe her outrightly.
Even if she's sleeping, how can a conductor openly tries to touch her p**sy, where are other passengers? Were they sleeping too?
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Even the touching of bum bum, it's with style not openly or knowingly

I don't doubt it. It is dark. She's sitting at the end of the bench and as she mentioned, anytime he jumps back into the bus, he sways his hand further back than normal to touch her. He not keeping his hand still, he's passing multiple times.

I hope he's dealt with someday.

I like how she dropped voice for him but it wasn't enough, that guy should have been dealt with by the other people in the bus.


With this mere slap on the wrist, he's definitely trying it again elsewhere and I hope that time, the bus will park and let a mob attend to his illness.

I guess she expected to spend the night picking free money from the floor from drunk party revellers. She's lucky they sent her put and didn't do something worse with her.

You're yet to make the point though. How is your marriage falling short of your expectations?

I guess it's not about the wedding, except you mean you would be happy once again as soon as you organise a bigger wedding in Nigeria. I don't think that's an issue. People renew vows with big parties at 50. If it's what you want, you can save a d organise the wedding party of your dreams. I believe your husband will support you even if it's moral support. (You're the one who wants the party)

Is there something else you are yet to write about? You don't feel emotionally connected to him? Well flaws tend to overshadow attractions in marriage because the stakes get high. The key to happiness is your resolution to build your home the way you want and as long as your partner supports you, you continue despite the shortcomings. Except your spouse is antagonising your home building goals or abusing you, that's when it's not worth it

Okereke sounds like ireke. They would chew out all his juices like sugarcane.

She's right. Wait until you have a party and see if anyone will attend. It's like you haven't seen people begging strangers to come full seats at their parties.

It's only when you attend people's event that they turn up at yours. If not, they will collect your IV but won't come for your party. That's why even if you attend someone's party late or didn't participate much, you still go and greet the celebrant and their parents to show that you indeed attended. Do for them, they do for you

Do you have separate emergency funds and is your monthly salary enough to keep you and you still have some change left to save after?

If your answer is yes, you can invest in land because you're confident you won't be touching this savings in a while and the land can appreciate.

If no and it means you would have to touch this money in the event that you lose your job or something unpleasant happens, then don't buy land. Rather keep in the savings account, let it generate passive interest for you.

What is this nonsense from this administration.

Is this what some people want to vote in for the next term?

dawnomike:
Tolerate her for the sake of your kids...

At least, till they are old enough to understand that you were not at fault. Lest their mother poison their young pure beautiful minds against you that you threw them out to re-marry!!!

What sort of advice is this? To prove himself to toddlers?

Even if he sacrifices his life for them, children can never appreciate their fathers enough because they are not just mature enough to realise it. When they eventually do, the man is too old or long gone.

We all have individual lives to live and men didn't come to this world to suffer for anyone. We are not the second Christ. Our only responsibility is to take care of those entrusted in our care to the best of our comfortable ability. No more, no less.

If the wife is misbehaving, send her away because you deserve your peace of mind. You can't spend your time and resources on caring for people who spit in your face. If she can't take care of the kids, she will ask for money and you give. The only crime is if you have, and you don't.

Seatrade. Your conclusion is not in agreement with your post but anyways.

Good to see you still trucking. I did drive the Hilux 2020 for about 3 years and I agree with all you wrote bit the reliability is unmatched I'd say. You can up and go anywhere at anytime.

Depends on your preferences though but I'd have gone for something different with that cash.

If the night rat says he's using these debts for fuel and electricity subsidy, it will even be understandable

It won't cost you much. First go to the general clinic to test her. Let's hope it's something different.

But if you confirm she was indeed abused. Go to the police station and write a full statement. Google how to file a complaint with ministry of women affairs or social welfare and rehabilitation.

Update us on the case later

Stephen0mozzy:
If this is true, food don done.
First, the lady should ensure this email came from a number or mail that is traceable as an official outlet of the said loan app.

THEN SHE SHOULD PAY THE LOAN.

Now, go get a lawyer who likes to cash out. Sue them, and make una settle out of court for like #5million.

Keep dreaming. Your love for quick money fools you into thinking legal cases are the shortcut to wealth. Your eyes will clear.

They threatened but did not publish. At the end, she will lose as she would repay her loan in full and still waste her time and money in following court proceedings. Something that's chicken change for the company that has its lawyers on a retainer basis who handle hundreds of cases as a full time salary job making the company's cost per case close to minimum.

It's too early.

We are waiting for August when campaigns start fully. We would see how much CBN would devote to propping the naira when it begins to flood the streets

chinex11:
No 1 thing tell her straightup you want to beep,
No go dea watch banana make another man chop am for you.

Plus sha hold rubber oo

Very valid points.

@Op: Tell her and know your fate. If her reasons are excusable, challenge them. And if it's a deal breaker for you, tell her as well or wait till she's ready.

Some girls may stop you due to their conscience of recent exposure to pregnancy or illness which they are still working on. You dey there dey rush. She will soon give you access now and tell you she's positive. Na then your eye go clear

Even in Oyo state. E don red

I thought Shettima handles security